FabSwingers.com forum: Your crush

By *asty tatsy OP Man
over a year ago

london

So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype

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By *asty tatsy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype

Or was it even better in person forgot to add that bit

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t. Don’t.

Don’t believe the hype.

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By *asty tatsy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Don’t. Don’t.

Don’t believe the hype. "

So have you met them or that’s just your take

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By *asty tatsy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I don't

There is always time

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"I don't

There is always time "

I just go for it if I want someone

would I call it a crush?no...more like physical need

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Several crushes in fact, Meli, Redfordanger, quacksplat and preytothefairies - all on my not-secret-anymore crush list

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By *asty tatsy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I don't

There is always time

I just go for it if I want someone

would I call it a crush?no...more like physical need

I like your thinking

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't. I did used to crush on people. I'm passed that now.

There are those I feel and think "yeah we would get one" but nah, there is no secret longing of a crush to make it happen.

99% of the time a crush is one sided, and that includes letting the crush know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t. Don’t.

Don’t believe the hype.

So have you met them or that’s just your take

I don’t kiss and tell. But I think if I did meet someone I was crushing on they would be

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By *asty tatsy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Don’t. Don’t.

Don’t believe the hype.

So have you met them or that’s just your take

I don’t kiss and tell. But I think if I did meet someone I was crushing on they would be

Go get it mate

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By *asty tatsy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I don't. I did used to crush on people. I'm passed that now.

There are those I feel and think "yeah we would get one" but nah, there is no secret longing of a crush to make it happen.

99% of the time a crush is one sided, and that includes letting the crush know. "

I get that and it’s probably something we all just let go of after the longing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I met him and he definitely lives up to the hype. Amazingly he even wants to do it all again!

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype

I had a guy I had on the hot list for quite some time was very hesitant to message him as he only had one picture for months.

There was very little to read on his profile too so I felt he was possibly a catfish

After he uploaded a new picture I thought message him see how it goes. We exchanged numbers did a whats app video call

The day we were meant to meet he had a family emergency I didn't once think he was lying as he spoke about issues within his family he was having

It was only until weeks on no effort of rescheduling took place so I decided he was a time waster and proved I should of just left him to admire on the hotlist.

Telling me about my age and I feel entitled :/ to me it just screamed he has a lot of growing up to do still

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Met mine and although it started off rather awkwardly ended up having the best time. Currently waiting for them to be back in town for episode 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm not going to talk about the past.

Right now?

Yes, I do. It's rather daft but I'm loving this feeling. I'm being sensible though but that urge to embrace it like a child in a sweet shop is strong. :D

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I think I'd crush most people - if I was on top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes & Yes.

I can crush on people that appear attractive to me, and then they start ticking lots of boxes over time. And if I’m lucky to meet up with them, it can be amazing when it’s everything I imagined.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Yes. I have few and no. I havent met them yet

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Yes & Yes.

I can crush on people that appear attractive to me, and then they start ticking lots of boxes over time. And if I’m lucky to meet up with them, it can be amazing when it’s everything I imagined.

Oh isn't it just? Sometimes it clicks perfectly and it exceeds anything you thought it could be. I think crushes are silly things but so glorious to experience.

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By *ade crossTV/TS
over a year ago

chiselhurst

I have a fab crush. They live far away i am to old and many other things but love their profile and all thier picks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I love the idea of having a crush, and that spark/energy during it.. but I don’t have any currently

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

It's called a crush for a reason, you pluck up the courage to say something and they blank you, you get crushed

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I have lots of crushes, and no I haven't met them sadly lol ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes & Yes.

I can crush on people that appear attractive to me, and then they start ticking lots of boxes over time. And if I’m lucky to meet up with them, it can be amazing when it’s everything I imagined.

Oh isn't it just? Sometimes it clicks perfectly and it exceeds anything you thought it could be. I think crushes are silly things but so glorious to experience.

They’re silly because you can’t help it! And those things you can’t help or control is just like the universe saying! ‘you need this right now!’

People help too, being themselves and true from start to finish. Damn that’s sexy when all you’ve seen is someone gorgeous.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I’ve found it best not to meet my hero’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few on my hotlist that I would like to get to know better as 1) their profile reads pretty good 2) they have a few similar interests 3) their swinging dynamic fits with mine 4) they look pretty hot!

But…I would need that connection first so maybe a video call or, even better, a coffee date or, even better, I bump into them at Afterdark when I finally get around to going.

Btw. Haven’t looked at every profile here so if you are a bi couple living reasonably close to me and you like my profile, get in touch.

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

I'm meeting mine later

think I've told him I fancy him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Er, no ... no and err ... no.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Yes & Yes.

I can crush on people that appear attractive to me, and then they start ticking lots of boxes over time. And if I’m lucky to meet up with them, it can be amazing when it’s everything I imagined.

Oh isn't it just? Sometimes it clicks perfectly and it exceeds anything you thought it could be. I think crushes are silly things but so glorious to experience.

They’re silly because you can’t help it! And those things you can’t help or control is just like the universe saying! ‘you need this right now!’

People help too, being themselves and true from start to finish. Damn that’s sexy when all you’ve seen is someone gorgeous.

Oh Woody! Yes. So much yes to all of this. Bar the universe telling me it's what I need right now. I mean, I do need it.

And yes. Being themselves and true from day dot is just dreamy. The daft thing is certain song lyrics remind me of how I'm feeling. Oh well! It's going to be a good, maybe cruel summer.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype

This is a fear of mine. Whilst the idea of someone having a crush on me sounds great ,the reality that I may not live up to their vision of me and leave them disappointed is not so fun.

Em x

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"It's called a crush for a reason, you pluck up the courage to say something and they blank you, you get crushed

such a cynic! Probably more right than wrong. Still, hope springs eternal.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype

This is a fear of mine. Whilst the idea of someone having a crush on me sounds great ,the reality that I may not live up to their vision of me and leave them disappointed is not so fun.

Em x"

I reckon you scrub up well

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"I’ve found it best not to meet my hero’s

I'm seriously crushing on that blue in your new pic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently zero crushes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Currently zero crushes. "

Should we start a thread for you?

“”Mildly interested in someone…possibly? “”

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

I've met three.... I've been on Fab for years; don't judge me!

Two absolutely lived up to expectations, on more than one occasion

One was quite rude and arrogant. He is a beautiful lookng man, and I should have known better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Currently zero crushes.

Should we start a thread for you?

“”Mildly interested in someone…possibly? “”

Or person that pisses me off the least?

Actually wait, I'd struggle with that one aswell.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"I’ve found it best not to meet my hero’s

I'm seriously crushing on that blue in your new pic!

I love that colour, Shein special for about £6

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"It's called a crush for a reason, you pluck up the courage to say something and they blank you, you get crushed

such a cynic! Probably more right than wrong. Still, hope springs eternal."

Meli has blanked me already, I'm crushed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My crush is the one who would like to suck my bell end on any particular day

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"It's called a crush for a reason, you pluck up the courage to say something and they blank you, you get crushed

such a cynic! Probably more right than wrong. Still, hope springs eternal.

Meli has blanked me already, I'm crushed

Apologies! I didn't read the rest of the thread, was so eager to post my crushing bollocks that I skipped all bar the OP and posts that follow mine. Sorry! And thank you, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Currently zero crushes.

Should we start a thread for you?

“”Mildly interested in someone…possibly? “”

Or person that pisses me off the least?

Actually wait, I'd struggle with that one aswell. "

…… bad day in work huh?

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"It's called a crush for a reason, you pluck up the courage to say something and they blank you, you get crushed

such a cynic! Probably more right than wrong. Still, hope springs eternal.

Meli has blanked me already, I'm crushed

Apologies! I didn't read the rest of the thread, was so eager to post my crushing bollocks that I skipped all bar the OP and posts that follow mine. Sorry! And thank you, x"

Oof!!!!! Too late, emotionally crushed

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Yes and yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and yes

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you would be

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By *asty tatsy OP Man
over a year ago

london

There’s a few I do crush on in my thread jheeze what do I do now play it cool play it cool, hi can we fuck. Dammit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve a couple of crushes on here, and I’ve met a couple in the past, had a great time chatting previously to meeting them and had a great time meeting them and afterwards too. So I’d happily enjoy meeting my crushes again given the chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have in the past and it only led to being lead on, messed about and then ghosted

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I have in the past and it only led to being lead on, messed about and then ghosted "

One of the reasons I left the "crush" life behind.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I wouldn’t say they were a crush. I have one or two I’d like to meet (for a casual cup of something). But I doubt I’m even on their radar.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I think Michael Stipe's is Orange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She blocked me so I can't meet her

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

no not really. there are people I.find attractive but not to.the point of a crush I dont think. but I would kinda like to be someone's crush.8

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

I've never had a crush on fab

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Yes and yes.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Too many so many beautiful ladies here . Love you all.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes and Yes

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’ve had several crushes and if I’ve got lucky enough to get one on one with them, it’s always proven to be amazing.

The best bit is if they reciprocate and want to do it over again and again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No crushes but there are people I’d love to meet.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"It's called a crush for a reason, you pluck up the courage to say something and they blank you, you get crushed

such a cynic! Probably more right than wrong. Still, hope springs eternal.

Meli has blanked me already, I'm crushed

Crushed by your crush

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By *e renard de la campagneMan
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over

"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype

Yes to crushes and would dearly love to meet, but alas have yet to do so, sadly. Xx

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We both have a crush on here.

Thankfully, conversation is going well and we really hope that we get to meet soon…

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype

Yes I did.

Worked so well I married her.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"It's called a crush for a reason, you pluck up the courage to say something and they blank you, you get crushed

such a cynic! Probably more right than wrong. Still, hope springs eternal.

Meli has blanked me already, I'm crushed

Crushed by your crush"

Thanks _oggone, didn't already feel awful enough. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype

Yes I did.

Worked so well I married her.

Nobody likes a show off.

*actual like hearing these posts.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I don't have one at all, must be weird

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"There’s a few I do crush on in my thread jheeze what do I do now play it cool play it cool, hi can we fuck. Dammit

Do it lol

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype

I’ve only ever had one proper crush on fab. There are loads of women I find attractive and great fun, but only one has made it to that elevated status. We chat but haven’t met and I know she feels the pressure from lots of people thinking she is some kind of unicorn.

I hope we’ll meet one day but I almost don’t want it to go any further and become a physical thing, because it feels like it would be nicer to have a good friendship over that.

Outside fab I’ve got a few crushes. I never seem to act on them, mainly because our lives aren’t compatible.

Sigh….

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"So I believe we all have a fab crush or someone we really feel we would like to explore more with, my question is how many have actually met theirs and did it live up to the hype

Yes I did.

Worked so well I married her.

Nobody likes a show off.

*actual like hearing these posts.

Hey. When you do one thing right in your life.......

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I’ve found it best not to meet my hero’s

I'm seriously crushing on that blue in your new pic!

I love that colour, Shein special for about £6

Shein do some great lingerie...

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

I’ve had a Fab crush and it’s ended in upset.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"It's called a crush for a reason, you pluck up the courage to say something and they blank you, you get crushed

such a cynic! Probably more right than wrong. Still, hope springs eternal.

Meli has blanked me already, I'm crushed

Crushed by your crush

Thanks _oggone, didn't already feel awful enough. :D"

Would it help if I felt crushed by your crushing of your crush?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I’ve got a work crush currently. It’s fun, but moments of painful too - I need to reframe it in my head as it’s not going anywhere.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I’ve got a work crush currently. It’s fun, but moments of painful too - I need to reframe it in my head as it’s not going anywhere. "

Oh I'm sure there plenty at work have crush on you with beautiful eyes and lovely smile .

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London

There's many I like and think are hot. There's also many I don't like and think are super hot.

Either way I don't crush on them, but some would be fun to meet for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kay13 she has a perfect body

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By *rchitectMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I definitely have a few I would love to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on fab, but meet this woman C, at Cjs with her partner. I was with my X and another couple in the couples room. C was there with her partner and a couple. We couldn't take our eyes off each other, was so hot. We ended up meeting them a few weeks later for drinks and back to ours. Was everything it was hyped up to be.

Currently have a crush on my X's sister...

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