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By *ouple4voyeur OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

What is it with people who send u friends requests without even sending 1 message or even reading a profile.

Do you go into a club with your mates and say, oh thats my friend over there, never spoken to him/her but its my friend?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Wait until they've logged off, a few hours at least, preferably around 1.00am. Then accept their friend request, peruse their photos and then unfriend them.

Take the upper hand.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

love that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait until they've logged off, a few hours at least, preferably around 1.00am. Then accept their friend request, peruse their photos and then unfriend them.

Take the upper hand. "

And Fab a few of them before you unfriend them so they know what you did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait until they've logged off, a few hours at least, preferably around 1.00am. Then accept their friend request, peruse their photos and then unfriend them.

Take the upper hand. "

I may have done this once or twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Added you all

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

On the internet 'friend' has a very different meaning. I see people with hundreds of friends on Facebook I think they just collect them. I've some Facebook friends in the far east I've never met though, I know them through family and other friends. The internet is a funny old place

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By *ouple4voyeur OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Wait until they've logged off, a few hours at least, preferably around 1.00am. Then accept their friend request, peruse their photos and then unfriend them.

Take the upper hand. "

Gonna try that lol

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax


"Wait until they've logged off, a few hours at least, preferably around 1.00am. Then accept their friend request, peruse their photos and then unfriend them.

Take the upper hand. "

This

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

I ignore them all and never check them unless I've been chatting with someone and they say they've added me

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By *ersuasion22Couple
over a year ago

Herts

We ignore them. One of the first things on our profile is 'please don't send a friend request unless we have chatted'. If they send one we know they haven't read it!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I accept them when they are offline, look at their friends only pics then unfriend them.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

north of Peterborough


"Wait until they've logged off, a few hours at least, preferably around 1.00am. Then accept their friend request, peruse their photos and then unfriend them.

Take the upper hand. "

I think they'd be pretty disappointed if they did that to me.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I predicted a rise in these as soon as the new 'friends only' inbox feature went live.

I wasn't wrong.

Just ignore them. Don't delete as they can then resend. Leave them unaccepted and they eventually just go mouldy like a discarded cheeseburger dropped in a high street at 3am on Friday night.

A

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By *ackonceagain1777Couple
over a year ago

West Mids

We just block and delete much easier

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It annoys me when someone sends a friend request & they have no friends pics ,cheeky .

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

They're just after yer secret stash of friend only lewd pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We accept most of the random friend requests, the only thing we have in friends only is pretty much more of the same for guys who like to see K. and use her pics as wank fodder.

We only use the site to keep in touch with club friends to see who is going where so to us it's harmless, if anyone gets weird/pushy we block or unfriend and If we ever changed the way we used the site we'd just unfriend all the people we don't know from in person meets.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Wait until they've logged off, a few hours at least, preferably around 1.00am. Then accept their friend request, peruse their photos and then unfriend them.

Take the upper hand.

·

And Fab a few of them before you unfriend them so they know what you did"

•

I'm beginning to like this new 'cruel streak' of yours!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We do as above wait until there offline, nosey at their pics and unfriend them.

We don't accept any we've not chatted too & planning to meet.

Mrs

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By *andi19Couple
over a year ago

somewhere

As it says on our profile… we just ignore it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just mass delete once in a while. Accidentally managed to get rid of some I'd welcome in the past but nothing what short message wouldn't sort!

T

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

north of Peterborough


"I just mass delete once in a while. Accidentally managed to get rid of some I'd welcome in the past but nothing what short message wouldn't sort!

T"

I'd like it very much if we were friends.

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