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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I like to hear other people's thoughts on it, but I've noticed alot of 'vanilla' people just can't wrap their head around non-monogamy which is completely fine but I thought people would be more open minded in conversation about it? Have you noticed it too? I still haven't got round to watching the TV programme about it (I prefer reading to watching TV)

Either way, I love listening to people talking about it whilst we're out and them not having a clue about me and Mr. Coy smiles flicking to each other

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes, plenty just don't get it, how you can be intimate with playmates but still faithful to your OH. But there again, some don't even get naturism.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Most people even swingers, are only open minded to things they agree with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only answer from a “lads” viewpoint because that’s the only time I’ve heard it brought up. A lot seem to like the idea of shagging about but can’t even begin to imagine their partner doing it. I think they’re the weird ones.

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

A lot of people are stuck in the traditional 121 vanilla world and it’s possessive traits.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Awwww do you feel special........ I'm not vanilla I'm a swinger

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Most people even swingers, are only open minded to things they agree with. "

This basically. Easy to say people aren't open minded until someone has a kink that you think is awful!

It's classic society that life's all about marriage babies and happily ever after but let's face it, more times than not it doesn't work out that way. We are just the SMART ones

Not a serious post before people start...haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry, posted a thread and fucked off. Just tidying. Back later

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