FabSwingers.com forum: What to Call women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok was thinking what do women like men calling them?

I hate it when men call women love or babe.

I think hun is nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok was thinking what do women like men calling them?

I hate it when men call women love or babe.

I think hun is nice"

Would of thought in general by their name ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate babe too, is way too over familiar for my liking, don't like love either but hun or honey is nice

as is sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol babe and love , just call here sexy she will be happy , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how well i know them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends how well i know them "

say if its a message in here. I put hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont like any of those....

Never understand why when you dont know someone you feel the need to call anybody any of the above names...but thats my personal preference...my names clearly on my profile and thats how i like to be referred as.

One of my pet hates is love ,even the damn shop assistants call you it...i grind my teeth many a time or if im in one i tell em im no ones love and smile and walk off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how well i know them

say if its a message in here. I put hun"
ooo i hate Hun ...... and babe and love .... and sweetheart only for lovers. So maybe find out her name call her that ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

dont londoners use "treacle"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how well i know them

say if its a message in here. I put hun"

In a first message im not keen to be honest, if i know them quite well can call me whatever they wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont londoners use "treacle"

Haha yh lots of different regional terms..

They're just used as a friendly term to show no formailty such as talking to your boss or teacher..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont londoners use "treacle"

Now I like that as I am very sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does depend how well you know someone.

For me I don't mind all general pet names from new guys but I do love when someone I've known awhile comes up with a pet name specific to me

can't be forced and I can see right through ones that are obviously used on all girls such as "my dream" but I wouldn't like someone I just met to try and be overly familiar so best stick with sweetie, hun, darlin, or sexy

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"dont londoners use "treacle"

Haha yh lots of different regional terms..

They're just used as a friendly term to show no formailty such as talking to your boss or teacher.."

on your head be it i am going to call my boss treacle as a term of endeerment later today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Siren and I call each other 'babe' but that's only because 'shitface' isn't remembered in mobile phone dictionaries.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"dont londoners use "treacle"

Haha yh lots of different regional terms..

They're just used as a friendly term to show no formailty such as talking to your boss or teacher..

on your head be it i am going to call my boss treacle as a term of endeerment later today"

let us know how that goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooohhhh, pet names on here really get on my tits. Especially "Hun", can't stand it!

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

but where i live itn north everyone calls everyone luv

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"but where i live itn north everyone calls everyone luv

its the sam,e here its a luv and cya hate people who say cya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i think of babe its that little sweet pig in the film . When i think of Hun its war films i would see with dad ... When i think of love ... its your heart is full of love for a person ....

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Go up Derby and 'duck' is common currency for both men and women :

"Ay up, mi duck? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should be thankful I wasn't born in Derbys. or Notts. as they call everyone 'me duck'. I think it makes them sound like rednecks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go up Derby and 'duck' is common currency for both men and women :

"Ay up, mi duck? "

Snap lol ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Go up Derby and 'duck' is common currency for both men and women :

"Ay up, mi duck? "

Snap lol .. "

i was born in newcastle and loved it when women were called pet

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

despise all the condescending, deprocating, sterotypical labels. Whoops, too much? I have a name, use it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go up Derby and 'duck' is common currency for both men and women :

"Ay up, mi duck? "

Snap lol ..

i was born in newcastle and loved it when women were called pet"
Pet oooo god your cat , dog, horses, rabbit , now noooooooooooo you a person.

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Around Heanor/Ripley in Derbys. men of all ages greet each other with : "youth" :

"Alreet, youth, owze it gooin?"

Better than the Yorks. "cock" I suppose.

Great Minds, Wishy

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

i like the duck one in stoke

mind you the first time i thoght someone was warning me so i ducked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Siren and I call each other 'babe' but that's only because 'shitface' isn't remembered in mobile phone dictionaries."

Well perhaps in future, you might do as your told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"despise all the condescending, deprocating, sterotypical labels. Whoops, too much? I have a name, use it!"

Ok, sweetheart.... er.... what is it?

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Of course here in Wales people commonly name women "lovely" :

"Hello, lovely, fancy a shag or a fight?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"despise all the condescending, deprocating, sterotypical labels. Whoops, too much? I have a name, use it!

Ok, sweetheart.... er.... what is it?

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sweet person with a heart ..... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me anything you like...except for dear

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

"dont londoners use "treacle"

Me and hubby are both from East London, he uses "treacle" with women, when I asked why he said

'Cos she is sweet and a bit thick'

He now gets a slap when he calls me treacle

Nicky

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Call me anything you like...except for dear

how about i just say your sexy

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"Call me anything you like...except for dear

"
....Hello DEAR...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends who I'm talking too and where. I had a friend I called kitten which was very sexual but also appropriate. I don't call people pet names on here until I'm gonna meet them, and it's usually a role thing.......

Master

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It really depends who I'm talking too and where. I had a friend I called kitten which was very sexual but also appropriate. I don't call people pet names on here until I'm gonna meet them, and it's usually a role thing.......

Master"

why did u call her kitten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find using someone's name til I know them better works fine!

After that it depends on the person!

Some don't mind Hun, some sexy, some gorgeous - and one responds quite well to 'bitch tits' !!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

is tart,whore or bitch too personal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Call me anything you like...except for dear

"
O dear , lol i think its naff ... hate alot of the names .. Hun i hate with a passion ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Master

why did u call her kitten"
a couple of reasons, she used to purr and knead my leg with her nails when she was happy, she liked it when I griped her at the back of the neck........a few other reasons.

Symbolism you see.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Master

why did u call her kitten a couple of reasons, she used to purr and knead my leg with her nails when she was happy, she liked it when I griped her at the back of the neck........a few other reasons.

Symbolism you see......."

oh ok u mean you called her it during sex

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

None bother me, most of the time its local dialect, like here people say "me duck". The only one that i really dont like is babygirl, but i think thats more of an american thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I should be thankful I wasn't born in Derbys. or Notts. as they call everyone 'me duck'. I think it makes them sound like rednecks.

If you sit on a mid-morning bus in Leicester and listen to two old women quack at each other, you start to understand why 'duck' started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok was thinking what do women like men calling them?

I hate it when men call women love or babe.

I think hun is nice"

Try Pet!!! thas not very condisending at all and they all love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Master

why did u call her kitten a couple of reasons, she used to purr and knead my leg with her nails when she was happy, she liked it when I griped her at the back of the neck........a few other reasons.

Symbolism you see.......

oh ok u mean you called her it during sex"
no, in vanilla life too......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

gotta love the saying vanilla life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Moi li'ull Dumplen' in a broad west country accent.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Darling is what i call jay and he calls me angel in emails and either princess or darling when speaking. Rarely use our names. But when he uses my name he says karen, may i call you karen. Dont know why but thats what he always says

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Ok was thinking what do women like men calling them?

I hate it when men call women love or babe.

I think hun is nice"

I think according to popular music culture the acceptable modern terms are:

Biatch

Shorty

Baby moma

Bizzle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont like any of those....

One of my pet hates is love ,even the damn shop assistants call you it...i grind my teeth many a time or if im in one i tell em im no ones love and smile and walk off...

Totally agree, C likes coffee from McDonalds and I hate it when they call him "love or darling" its not because it makes me jelous either. In my job I have to kind and have empathy with customers but wouldnt dream of using any lovey names. C does call me "babe" or "baby" but thats fine as hes me husband and its nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Moi li'ull Dumplen' in a broad west country accent."
ello moi luvver

in same, with a pint of rough cider in hand......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say, none of the above bother me in the slightest. So many of those words are just indicative of regions and upbringings, they are seldom used to patronize so I'm never offended by them

.... unless of course I despise the person saying it lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sexy as even if i am not looking sexy still makes me smile and charming , Yes charm is way to my heart and bits , lol And calling me babe i think of a Pig , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are just terms of endearment, and that's how I view them, can't say any really bother me

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Of course here in Wales people commonly name women "lovely" :

"Hello, lovely, fancy a shag or a fight?"

Get in a lot of fights do you petal?

I use lots of terms of endearment...petal, flower, love, sweetcheeks, darlin', babe - for men or women

My dearest friend's husband calls me pussycat...when I asked him why he said it was because I toyed with my prey before I killed it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

do any men actually call women love to take piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone called Ju hun or babe they are liable to a swift kick in the bollocks.

I am guilty of using treacle, love and sweetheart when talking to women I don't know. If I know them I always use their names.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

It doesnt bother me what guys call me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My former housemate used to get 'Whatsername' or 'you', or sometimes a name similar to hers, but never actually her name. Now it's usually 'Alice', which also isn't her name. My ex-girlfriend now gets called 'Kevin's wife'. My sister is 'yo' and her daughter is 'that one'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok was thinking what do women like men calling them?

I hate it when men call women love or babe.

I think hun is nice"

I refrain from the 'hun', have you noticed how many womens profiles state that they hate being called 'hun, hunni' and all the many other variations? I find their name usually works best from the outset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find being called hun or babe a complete turn off. "Marge" is quite nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do men mind terms of endearment ? Or is it mainly women then ? As I said in a previous post, pet names don't worry me in the slightest, I see them for what they are intended as, a term of 'endearment'.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Do men mind terms of endearment ? Or is it mainly women then ? As I said in a previous post, pet names don't worry me in the slightest, I see them for what they are intended as, a term of 'endearment'."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i hate it when people call me mate when i do not know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate it when people call me mate when i do not know them"

Ok pal I'll try and remember that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate it when people call me mate when i do not know them"

Don't mind that, but it seems strange to me when women call me mate

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

" My sister is 'yo'."

That'd be an awkward name for twins

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bitch normally works for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"bitch normally works for me

or princess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bitch normally works for me

or princess"

ok i give in, princess bitch then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate it when people call me mate when i do not know them

Don't mind that, but it seems strange to me when women call me mate

I just don't get it, pet names are local words used as terms of endearment, they are not used with the intention to offend, and we all use them at some point. Don't get why people get so tetchy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bitch normally works for me

or princess"
my friend calls me that alot , lol its really for a girl in her teens i feel ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bitch normally works for me

or princess my friend calls me that alot , lol its really for a girl in her teens i feel ,

wot bitch you mean

hi there game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate it when people call me mate when i do not know them

Don't mind that, but it seems strange to me when women call me mate

I just don't get it, pet names are local words used as terms of endearment, they are not used with the intention to offend, and we all use them at some point. Don't get why people get so tetchy

Some people just enjoy being offended by absolutely nothing.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

i hate it when people call me mate when i do not know them

Don't mind that, but it seems strange to me when women call me mate

I just don't get it, pet names are local words used as terms of endearment, they are not used with the intention to offend, and we all use them at some point. Don't get why people get so tetchy

Some people just enjoy being offended by absolutely nothing."
Now i would agree 100% with that statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate it when people call me mate when i do not know them

Don't mind that, but it seems strange to me when women call me mate

I just don't get it, pet names are local words used as terms of endearment, they are not used with the intention to offend, and we all use them at some point. Don't get why people get so tetchy

Some people just enjoy being offended by absolutely nothing."

well they have come to the right place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate it when people call me mate when i do not know them

Don't mind that, but it seems strange to me when women call me mate

I just don't get it, pet names are local words used as terms of endearment, they are not used with the intention to offend, and we all use them at some point. Don't get why people get so tetchy

Some people just enjoy being offended by absolutely nothing.Now i would agree 100% with that statement.

yo there femme xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate it when people call me mate when i do not know them

Don't mind that, but it seems strange to me when women call me mate

I just don't get it, pet names are local words used as terms of endearment, they are not used with the intention to offend, and we all use them at some point. Don't get why people get so tetchy

Some people just enjoy being offended by absolutely nothing."

I admit some pet names I like better than others, but I just accept them in the context they are given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bitch normally works for me

or princess my friend calls me that alot , lol its really for a girl in her teens i feel ,

wot bitch you mean

hi there game"
princrss , lol so far never a bitch ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to be called my name unless I know someone really well.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"despise all the condescending, deprocating, sterotypical labels. Whoops, too much? I have a name, use it!"

yes ok...'hotlips'...

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