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By *rofessorJ OP   Man
over a year ago

south east

I’ve noticed a lot of posts with a max age of 45. As a guy over 45 I cannot message someone who made this restriction. Personally I am fitter than when I was 30, should I leave now? what do others think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should message those whose age preferences aren't set to 45.

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By *rs D.Woman
over a year ago

Tyne And Wear


"I think you should message those whose age preferences aren't set to 45. "

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Just go as others have said for those you can message

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I’ve noticed a lot of posts with a max age of 45. As a guy over 45 I cannot message someone who made this restriction. Personally I am fitter than when I was 30, should I leave now? what do others think? "

I see a lot of profiles where they're looking for single women, gym fit bodies, people under 30, people local to Scunthorpe........so we just ignore them and use the advanced search facility to make sure the people we're looking at are potentially interested in people like us.

You'll never be everyone's cup of tea or favourite cake, so no point trying to be.

A

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I’ve noticed a lot of posts with a max age of 45. As a guy over 45 I cannot message someone who made this restriction. Personally I am fitter than when I was 30, should I leave now? what do others think? "

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What do you mean by "noticed a lot of posts"? Do you mean "profiles"?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Look for people who are looking for you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Age preferences will always be a bone of contention.

We tend to stick to people who actually want to meet our age group rather than argue with those that don't and try to change their minds.

Your comparative fitness isn't really relevant to the people who have a preference for under 45s, it's the age group they're interested in not fitness level. I'm physically fitter than some women who are younger than me but I'm still 66 and of no interest to anyone whose upper age limit is 45 or even 65.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Look for people who are looking for you."

The government. Using those 5G towers, that so called 'Emergency App', trained spy pigeons and all the CCTV surveillance?

A

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Oh and only leave now if you want to

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Look for people who are looking for you.

The government. Using those 5G towers, that so called 'Emergency App', trained spy pigeons and all the CCTV surveillance?

A

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Nanoparticle spike proteins. That's microchips isn't it?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Lie about your age like the rest.

Don't actually do that there's plenty looking for over 45's.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait until you’re 50 ..

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By *olf and RedCouple
over a year ago

Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston

Wolf is 69, however you would think he’s younger. Maybe try going to large organised socials. They’re good for chatting to lots of different people of all ages. Same with clubs. Sometimes it can lead to more at a later stage. If not, you still gain some friends.

Red

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

If our age is an issue for others then we'd never try and change their minds. Everyone is entitled to their own preferences.

We don't feel old, even though we are both in our 50's, we consider ourselves 'classics' haha Mrs xxx

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’ve noticed a lot of posts with a max age of 45. As a guy over 45 I cannot message someone who made this restriction. Personally I am fitter than when I was 30, should I leave now? what do others think? "

No need to leave. Fab will retire you. I am on the edge of the precipice myself.

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By *remiumbondMan
over a year ago

Morpeth

What I don’t understand is why people put 18-99 as preferred age range ?? When they obviously don’t mean that !!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I’ve noticed a lot of posts with a max age of 45. As a guy over 45 I cannot message someone who made this restriction. Personally I am fitter than when I was 30, should I leave now? what do others think? "

Yeah, when I got to be 45 the restrictions kicked in big time.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Bag yourself a much younger wife OP.

Then the filters will go via her age.

Winner!

A

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton

Im in the Same predicament as as I'm 62 now

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yep, it's game over once you get past 45...

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Yep, it's game over once you get past 45... "

That's me done for then lol

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By *exySenseiCouple
over a year ago

We (I) asked the same question a few weeks ago on why so many profiles set their age limit to 50. Some very interesting and mixed responses. Since then we’ve connected with some amazingly sexy people on this site. Best of luck for your journey here.

Mrs N.

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By *arktightsMan
over a year ago

banchory

Its annoying sometimes but there is a lot of fun and connection to be made at any age.

I am 68 - and my playtime is just fine, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you should message those whose age preferences aren't set to 45. "

Get out of here with your pesky logic…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick with the oldies. They apparently know what they want and are more experienced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number but I suppose you have to cut off somewhere.

I'd love a 25 year old hottie but in my own opinion it wouldn't look great on the arm of someone in their 40s so don't look that low.

I've seen some amazing 50+ women & couples (some on this thread) that I'd love to meet and have fun with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number but I suppose you have to cut off somewhere.

I'd love a 25 year old hottie but in my own opinion it wouldn't look great on the arm of someone in their 40s so don't look that low.

I've seen some amazing 50+ women & couples (some on this thread) that I'd love to meet and have fun with."

Age is not just a number.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

As above.. just message those interested in 45 and over.

We all have out preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or just change your age on here.

Or is that frowned upon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do they say? You’re only as old as the person you feel? Any hot ladies fancy feeling like they’re 50?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed a lot of posts with a max age of 45. As a guy over 45 I cannot message someone who made this restriction. Personally I am fitter than when I was 30, should I leave now? what do others think? "

Message those you can ..those you can't ..don't bother with them , one day they'll be over 45 themselves and maybe others won't message them then ... who knows..but just message those you can ..the rest don't really matter cause you can't message them anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've set my age range 10 yrs either side of my age (well, almost age), but wouldn't rule out someone out with that.

But it's very much a person by person decision x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Wait until you've made it past 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck! When you're pushing 60 options for messaging (or anything) are vanishingly small.

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By *appy HoHolly DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"I’ve noticed a lot of posts with a max age of 45. As a guy over 45 I cannot message someone who made this restriction. Personally I am fitter than when I was 30, should I leave now? what do others think? "

There are some fit over 70 on here but you won’t meet them. Why do you think is that OP? Preferences maybe?

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By *yresMan
over a year ago

Midland town

Wait till your sixty, and you are just invisible!.....

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