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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all! New to the community (and trying to get into the lifestyle).

Would love any feedback on my profile and pictures.

Thanks in advance!

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Are you the doctor of fuckanomics

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I'm sure the women on here will have a more targeted viewpoint about what they would like to see from/on your profile, I would suggest that you reduce the plethora of cock photos as a starting point.

Your avatar is great however. It's not a bad profile, OP. I wish you much success!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less dick pics

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Many women on here prefer less dick and more clothes.

I’m not most women though, so I say your profile is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you the doctor of fuckanomics"

That actually made me laugh out loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Help the brother out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree with Nero re pics, also the first paragraph is a bit offputting, you've no time/too tired, would make me wonder what effort youd put in to any meet.

All the best though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol - I wish. Working on a PhD in music.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure the women on here will have a more targeted viewpoint about what they would like to see from/on your profile, I would suggest that you reduce the plethora of cock photos as a starting point.

Your avatar is great however. It's not a bad profile, OP. I wish you much success! "

Thanks man. And, great advice. I’ll change the photo content.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Less dick pics"

Got it. I’ll change that up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Many women on here prefer less dick and more clothes.

I’m not most women though, so I say your profile is fine "

Lol! And thank you. I’ll definitely change that up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Help the brother out!"

Yes, thank you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd agree with Nero re pics, also the first paragraph is a bit offputting, you've no time/too tired, would make me wonder what effort youd put in to any meet.

All the best though "

Great point! I’ll change that up.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’d mention you’re American further up the profile too. Who doesn’t love an accent?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree about there being too many dick pics, that would put Mrs off, otherwise great stuff mate

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

You’d be a hit on Fab Guys with those photos

Maybe one or two wearing a nice suit or more teasing as you are trying to attract women not gay/bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d mention you’re American further up the profile too. Who doesn’t love an accent?!

"

Really? Most folks I know do not like Americans so I was a bit afraid to post that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Less dick pics

Got it. I’ll change that up. "

and less toilet shots

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon


"Hi all! New to the community (and trying to get into the lifestyle).

Would love any feedback on my profile and pictures.

Thanks in advance! "

You need more cock pics…. The women just love them, and try some outdoor cock pics or one with a sky remote ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all! New to the community (and trying to get into the lifestyle).

Would love any feedback on my profile and pictures.

Thanks in advance!

You need more cock pics…. The women just love them, and try some outdoor cock pics or one with a sky remote …."

Yeah, put some chickens on there too.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon


"Hi all! New to the community (and trying to get into the lifestyle).

Would love any feedback on my profile and pictures.

Thanks in advance!

You need more cock pics…. The women just love them, and try some outdoor cock pics or one with a sky remote ….

Yeah, put some chickens on there too. "

I’m sure women aren’t fond of chickens and cocks together……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say you're switch and happy to domme/sub did you mean Domme or Dom?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agree about there being too many dick pics, that would put Mrs off, otherwise great stuff mate"

Thank you! I’m editing the profile as we speak.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’d be a hit on Fab Guys with those photos

Maybe one or two wearing a nice suit or more teasing as you are trying to attract women not gay/bi guys. "

Great idea. Many thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Less dick pics

Got it. I’ll change that up.

and less toilet shots "

Lol - great point. Nothing sexy about a toilet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi all! New to the community (and trying to get into the lifestyle).

Would love any feedback on my profile and pictures.

Thanks in advance!

You need more cock pics…. The women just love them, and try some outdoor cock pics or one with a sky remote …."

Hmmmm…I feel like this one might get me the opposite of what I’m hoping for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you say you're switch and happy to domme/sub did you mean Domme or Dom?"

I’m an idiot and updated it. Meant ‘Dom’. Thank you for the correction.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage"

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?"

No it's quite nice.. He's well jel

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?

No it's quite nice.. He's well jel "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?

No it's quite nice.. He's well jel "

Well thank you

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?"

To be honest I think you only really need 1 photo flexing is any at all, natural posing is better unless you walk around flexing your arms all the time

I'm only giving my view though and I don't like guys or huge muscles but goes without saying some do

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?

No it's quite nice.. He's well jel "

Oh you

Don't listen to her, she causes trouble all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?

No it's quite nice.. He's well jel

Oh you

Don't listen to her, she causes trouble all the time "

See.. Well jel!! Look how green his eyes are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?

No it's quite nice.. He's well jel

Oh you

Don't listen to her, she causes trouble all the time "

Lol

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?

No it's quite nice.. He's well jel

"

Don't encourage her Nero

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?

No it's quite nice.. He's well jel

Oh you

Don't listen to her, she causes trouble all the time

See.. Well jel!! Look how green his eyes are "

My clothes just ripped off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?

No it's quite nice.. He's well jel

Oh you

Don't listen to her, she causes trouble all the time

See.. Well jel!! Look how green his eyes are

My clothes just ripped off "

Don't worry PhDilf... That won't make you gay

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?"

A bit. If you were a mechanic would you post 101 pics of yourself oiled up, stood under cars. A couple are fine but repetition bores. Saying your occupation and specific location is pretty bold. People will realise you're at uni or it'll come out in messaging (you have St Andrews as you location) or not want to meet local people due to discretion - they could even wind you up with fake meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?

No it's quite nice.. He's well jel

Oh you

Don't listen to her, she causes trouble all the time

See.. Well jel!! Look how green his eyes are

My clothes just ripped off

Don't worry PhDilf... That won't make you gay "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?

A bit. If you were a mechanic would you post 101 pics of yourself oiled up, stood under cars. A couple are fine but repetition bores. Saying your occupation and specific location is pretty bold. People will realise you're at uni or it'll come out in messaging (you have St Andrews as you location) or not want to meet local people due to discretion - they could even wind you up with fake meets."

Good point. I’ll update that.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?"

Hey Op, welcome! Yes, sorry I find it odd. As someone who has gone out with a competitive bodybuilder, the poses on an average person do look weird. Just relax, your physique will probably look better for it, and you definitely don’t need your cock in nearly every picture either. There’s too much repitition of pics in slightly different poses. Change it up a little bit. Few ideas: Maybes some in an open shirt, slightly unbuttoned jeans but no top, one in the shower. Black & white photos can look good too. Your bio reads fine to me. Only thing I would suggest is limiting your age range a bit more, unless you would actually meet someone who was 98/99? Good luck!

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

too many similar pics

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I liked it and I like Americans. it will make you stand out a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?

Hey Op, welcome! Yes, sorry I find it odd. As someone who has gone out with a competitive bodybuilder, the poses on an average person do look weird. Just relax, your physique will probably look better for it, and you definitely don’t need your cock in nearly every picture either. There’s too much repitition of pics in slightly different poses. Change it up a little bit. Few ideas: Maybes some in an open shirt, slightly unbuttoned jeans but no top, one in the shower. Black & white photos can look good too. Your bio reads fine to me. Only thing I would suggest is limiting your age range a bit more, unless you would actually meet someone who was 98/99? Good luck!"

Really thoughtful feedback. Thank you and I’ll delete some photos and update my profile. Will also take some new photos to add. Thanks again!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I liked it and I like Americans. it will make you stand out a bit."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s alright. Not amazing but we’d probably reply if your first message was decent enough.

I agree to emphasise the American thing. Although a lot of brits don’t like Americans you should think of it as a USP. It’s something that makes you stand out from others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?

Hey Op, welcome! Yes, sorry I find it odd. As someone who has gone out with a competitive bodybuilder, the poses on an average person do look weird. Just relax, your physique will probably look better for it, and you definitely don’t need your cock in nearly every picture either. There’s too much repitition of pics in slightly different poses. Change it up a little bit. Few ideas: Maybes some in an open shirt, slightly unbuttoned jeans but no top, one in the shower. Black & white photos can look good too. Your bio reads fine to me. Only thing I would suggest is limiting your age range a bit more, unless you would actually meet someone who was 98/99? Good luck!

Really thoughtful feedback. Thank you and I’ll delete some photos and update my profile. Will also take some new photos to add. Thanks again!"

It's looking much better now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s alright. Not amazing but we’d probably reply if your first message was decent enough.

I agree to emphasise the American thing. Although a lot of brits don’t like Americans you should think of it as a USP. It’s something that makes you stand out from others."

Great to know. Do you have thoughts on what would make it amazing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a alright profile, looks a bit like you're posing on stage at a bodybuilding comp though but without the stage

Gotcha - I was attempting to highlight that I’m ‘slightly’ muscular in hopes that would be attractive to the opposite sex. Does it come across as odd?

Hey Op, welcome! Yes, sorry I find it odd. As someone who has gone out with a competitive bodybuilder, the poses on an average person do look weird. Just relax, your physique will probably look better for it, and you definitely don’t need your cock in nearly every picture either. There’s too much repitition of pics in slightly different poses. Change it up a little bit. Few ideas: Maybes some in an open shirt, slightly unbuttoned jeans but no top, one in the shower. Black & white photos can look good too. Your bio reads fine to me. Only thing I would suggest is limiting your age range a bit more, unless you would actually meet someone who was 98/99? Good luck!

Really thoughtful feedback. Thank you and I’ll delete some photos and update my profile. Will also take some new photos to add. Thanks again!

It's looking much better now "

Thank you! I’ll keep working at it.

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