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"Diet diet diet " Sadly (for me!) this is definitely the case! Can't out train a bad diet, believe me I've tried! Might be worth a PT session to target new goals and help you make step you're looking for? After a point though it is smaller changes over longer time but as long as in the right direction it will hopefully help keep you going? | |||
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"Sorry to say, but I found after the age of mid 40s, it's harder to get fit and maintain fitness without some serious hard work. " This is the truth! During my early rugby days, you would notice talented but small guys get "injured" disappear for a few months. Then come back massive! HMMM Big heads. I took my children away on holiday. Noticed how many men in 50`s being totally ripped. Having played sport to a decent level, having trained, with a basic level of biology knowledge. I know this is chemically enhanced in Most cases, not all but most. So as people have said, i wouldn't worry about trying to mirror other people. The likelihood is, most people whom you aspire to replicate are probably doing so with pharmaceutical help. Hollywood action hero's are the worst! | |||
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"How do you motivate yourself to keep going? Been going 16 days each month for past 4 months and spending upto 2hrs each day. Seen some improvement but have hit a wall. How long does it take to get a really fit 'Henry Cavill' 'I bet he works out' body? " More about what you eat than how much you train. That's my problem. | |||
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"I prefer to do boxing style activity But if you have hit a wall...look again at your diet...and that you are making progressive overloads on your weights and that you are introducing new exercises...as your body can adapt. " Boxing is brilliant. | |||
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"Thanks for all the advice..even the funny ones. Another 2hrs this morning. Mainly using machines for the weight training and some cardio..spin cycle, rowing machine, sledge push. Got a couple of pbs today. One thing I am lacking is quality sleep. Diet is ok. Taking protein shakes. No alcohol. " If using machines I generally go by this but of advice ... Levers are better than wires but free weights are better still. | |||
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"Thanks for all the advice..even the funny ones. Another 2hrs this morning. Mainly using machines for the weight training and some cardio..spin cycle, rowing machine, sledge push. Got a couple of pbs today. One thing I am lacking is quality sleep. Diet is ok. Taking protein shakes. No alcohol. " Sleep can have a big impact. As can stress. Too much cortisol can cause your body to release glucose which is then stored as fat if it isn't used. J | |||
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"I am my gym’s favourite customer. I pay them the princely sum of £26.99 per month and never go! I’ve always hated gyms as I’m a long distance runner who prefers outdoors, fresh air and changing scenery. That’s not to criticise gyms or their clientele at all, just a personal preference. I’m never happier than when I’m running mile after mile, but even I have to mix things up. I’ll do interval training, hill work, have rest days, stretching days, long walks at the weekend etc. it keeps my interest levels at their peak. I am a qualified business trainer and it’s really important to set yourself little goals if you want to pursue something. Otherwise it’s hard to recognise achievement. A big overall goal helps long term focus - I will look for a PB at a big distance in a year’s time, for example. But every day over that year I don’t hit it is technically a failure. So, I set little mini goals for the month. Then I get loads of little wins at achievable goals. I don’t know the gym world, but you might consider a certain number of reps at a particular weight, or introducing a new machine/technique. It’s a cliche - but using SMART really works. Good luck, OP, whatever you do " Out of interest, why do you carry on with the gym subscription then?! | |||
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"I am my gym’s favourite customer. I pay them the princely sum of £26.99 per month and never go! I’ve always hated gyms as I’m a long distance runner who prefers outdoors, fresh air and changing scenery. That’s not to criticise gyms or their clientele at all, just a personal preference. I’m never happier than when I’m running mile after mile, but even I have to mix things up. I’ll do interval training, hill work, have rest days, stretching days, long walks at the weekend etc. it keeps my interest levels at their peak. I am a qualified business trainer and it’s really important to set yourself little goals if you want to pursue something. Otherwise it’s hard to recognise achievement. A big overall goal helps long term focus - I will look for a PB at a big distance in a year’s time, for example. But every day over that year I don’t hit it is technically a failure. So, I set little mini goals for the month. Then I get loads of little wins at achievable goals. I don’t know the gym world, but you might consider a certain number of reps at a particular weight, or introducing a new machine/technique. It’s a cliche - but using SMART really works. Good luck, OP, whatever you do Out of interest, why do you carry on with the gym subscription then?! " I thought some bright spark would ask that!! Because I’m expecting to have a lot of spare time on my hands soon and want to have the option to go. If that doesn’t transpire, I’ll cancel it. | |||
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"I am my gym’s favourite customer. I pay them the princely sum of £26.99 per month and never go! I’ve always hated gyms as I’m a long distance runner who prefers outdoors, fresh air and changing scenery. That’s not to criticise gyms or their clientele at all, just a personal preference. I’m never happier than when I’m running mile after mile, but even I have to mix things up. I’ll do interval training, hill work, have rest days, stretching days, long walks at the weekend etc. it keeps my interest levels at their peak. I am a qualified business trainer and it’s really important to set yourself little goals if you want to pursue something. Otherwise it’s hard to recognise achievement. A big overall goal helps long term focus - I will look for a PB at a big distance in a year’s time, for example. But every day over that year I don’t hit it is technically a failure. So, I set little mini goals for the month. Then I get loads of little wins at achievable goals. I don’t know the gym world, but you might consider a certain number of reps at a particular weight, or introducing a new machine/technique. It’s a cliche - but using SMART really works. Good luck, OP, whatever you do Out of interest, why do you carry on with the gym subscription then?! I thought some bright spark would ask that!! Because I’m expecting to have a lot of spare time on my hands soon and want to have the option to go. If that doesn’t transpire, I’ll cancel it." My Smart Alec question was where are you finding a gym for £26.99 a month?!?! | |||
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"I am my gym’s favourite customer. I pay them the princely sum of £26.99 per month and never go! I’ve always hated gyms as I’m a long distance runner who prefers outdoors, fresh air and changing scenery. That’s not to criticise gyms or their clientele at all, just a personal preference. I’m never happier than when I’m running mile after mile, but even I have to mix things up. I’ll do interval training, hill work, have rest days, stretching days, long walks at the weekend etc. it keeps my interest levels at their peak. I am a qualified business trainer and it’s really important to set yourself little goals if you want to pursue something. Otherwise it’s hard to recognise achievement. A big overall goal helps long term focus - I will look for a PB at a big distance in a year’s time, for example. But every day over that year I don’t hit it is technically a failure. So, I set little mini goals for the month. Then I get loads of little wins at achievable goals. I don’t know the gym world, but you might consider a certain number of reps at a particular weight, or introducing a new machine/technique. It’s a cliche - but using SMART really works. Good luck, OP, whatever you do Out of interest, why do you carry on with the gym subscription then?! I thought some bright spark would ask that!! Because I’m expecting to have a lot of spare time on my hands soon and want to have the option to go. If that doesn’t transpire, I’ll cancel it. My Smart Alec question was where are you finding a gym for £26.99 a month?!?! " The gym group are cheap. | |||
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"I am my gym’s favourite customer. I pay them the princely sum of £26.99 per month and never go! I’ve always hated gyms as I’m a long distance runner who prefers outdoors, fresh air and changing scenery. That’s not to criticise gyms or their clientele at all, just a personal preference. I’m never happier than when I’m running mile after mile, but even I have to mix things up. I’ll do interval training, hill work, have rest days, stretching days, long walks at the weekend etc. it keeps my interest levels at their peak. I am a qualified business trainer and it’s really important to set yourself little goals if you want to pursue something. Otherwise it’s hard to recognise achievement. A big overall goal helps long term focus - I will look for a PB at a big distance in a year’s time, for example. But every day over that year I don’t hit it is technically a failure. So, I set little mini goals for the month. Then I get loads of little wins at achievable goals. I don’t know the gym world, but you might consider a certain number of reps at a particular weight, or introducing a new machine/technique. It’s a cliche - but using SMART really works. Good luck, OP, whatever you do Out of interest, why do you carry on with the gym subscription then?! I thought some bright spark would ask that!! Because I’m expecting to have a lot of spare time on my hands soon and want to have the option to go. If that doesn’t transpire, I’ll cancel it. My Smart Alec question was where are you finding a gym for £26.99 a month?!?! " I’m guessing anywhere outside London!! Haha. It’s Pure Gym in my local town. Not bad, half decent machines and it’s always clean, but I’ve been in better. I was a member of Lifestyle Fitness in Carlisle that was £15pm! But then I came back to civilisation and the price rocketed…. | |||
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"I am my gym’s favourite customer. I pay them the princely sum of £26.99 per month and never go! I’ve always hated gyms as I’m a long distance runner who prefers outdoors, fresh air and changing scenery. That’s not to criticise gyms or their clientele at all, just a personal preference. I’m never happier than when I’m running mile after mile, but even I have to mix things up. I’ll do interval training, hill work, have rest days, stretching days, long walks at the weekend etc. it keeps my interest levels at their peak. I am a qualified business trainer and it’s really important to set yourself little goals if you want to pursue something. Otherwise it’s hard to recognise achievement. A big overall goal helps long term focus - I will look for a PB at a big distance in a year’s time, for example. But every day over that year I don’t hit it is technically a failure. So, I set little mini goals for the month. Then I get loads of little wins at achievable goals. I don’t know the gym world, but you might consider a certain number of reps at a particular weight, or introducing a new machine/technique. It’s a cliche - but using SMART really works. Good luck, OP, whatever you do Out of interest, why do you carry on with the gym subscription then?! I thought some bright spark would ask that!! Because I’m expecting to have a lot of spare time on my hands soon and want to have the option to go. If that doesn’t transpire, I’ll cancel it. My Smart Alec question was where are you finding a gym for £26.99 a month?!?! " Mine's £19.99 | |||
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"I have to go first thing in the morning or it’s game over. I don’t go much in the summer, I walk miles instead. " Yes, I prefer mornings when it’s quiet and I’m usually awake anyway. Then it doesn’t impact so much on my day. Motivation post dinner is very hard for me. | |||
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"I am my gym’s favourite customer. I pay them the princely sum of £26.99 per month and never go! I’ve always hated gyms as I’m a long distance runner who prefers outdoors, fresh air and changing scenery. That’s not to criticise gyms or their clientele at all, just a personal preference. I’m never happier than when I’m running mile after mile, but even I have to mix things up. I’ll do interval training, hill work, have rest days, stretching days, long walks at the weekend etc. it keeps my interest levels at their peak. I am a qualified business trainer and it’s really important to set yourself little goals if you want to pursue something. Otherwise it’s hard to recognise achievement. A big overall goal helps long term focus - I will look for a PB at a big distance in a year’s time, for example. But every day over that year I don’t hit it is technically a failure. So, I set little mini goals for the month. Then I get loads of little wins at achievable goals. I don’t know the gym world, but you might consider a certain number of reps at a particular weight, or introducing a new machine/technique. It’s a cliche - but using SMART really works. Good luck, OP, whatever you do Out of interest, why do you carry on with the gym subscription then?! I thought some bright spark would ask that!! Because I’m expecting to have a lot of spare time on my hands soon and want to have the option to go. If that doesn’t transpire, I’ll cancel it. My Smart Alec question was where are you finding a gym for £26.99 a month?!?! Mine's £19.99 " Mines £18.99 | |||
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"I am my gym’s favourite customer. I pay them the princely sum of £26.99 per month and never go! I’ve always hated gyms as I’m a long distance runner who prefers outdoors, fresh air and changing scenery. That’s not to criticise gyms or their clientele at all, just a personal preference. I’m never happier than when I’m running mile after mile, but even I have to mix things up. I’ll do interval training, hill work, have rest days, stretching days, long walks at the weekend etc. it keeps my interest levels at their peak. I am a qualified business trainer and it’s really important to set yourself little goals if you want to pursue something. Otherwise it’s hard to recognise achievement. A big overall goal helps long term focus - I will look for a PB at a big distance in a year’s time, for example. But every day over that year I don’t hit it is technically a failure. So, I set little mini goals for the month. Then I get loads of little wins at achievable goals. I don’t know the gym world, but you might consider a certain number of reps at a particular weight, or introducing a new machine/technique. It’s a cliche - but using SMART really works. Good luck, OP, whatever you do Out of interest, why do you carry on with the gym subscription then?! I thought some bright spark would ask that!! Because I’m expecting to have a lot of spare time on my hands soon and want to have the option to go. If that doesn’t transpire, I’ll cancel it. My Smart Alec question was where are you finding a gym for £26.99 a month?!?! Mine's £19.99 Mines £18.99 " Cheapskate | |||
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"I am my gym’s favourite customer. I pay them the princely sum of £26.99 per month and never go! I’ve always hated gyms as I’m a long distance runner who prefers outdoors, fresh air and changing scenery. That’s not to criticise gyms or their clientele at all, just a personal preference. I’m never happier than when I’m running mile after mile, but even I have to mix things up. I’ll do interval training, hill work, have rest days, stretching days, long walks at the weekend etc. it keeps my interest levels at their peak. I am a qualified business trainer and it’s really important to set yourself little goals if you want to pursue something. Otherwise it’s hard to recognise achievement. A big overall goal helps long term focus - I will look for a PB at a big distance in a year’s time, for example. But every day over that year I don’t hit it is technically a failure. So, I set little mini goals for the month. Then I get loads of little wins at achievable goals. I don’t know the gym world, but you might consider a certain number of reps at a particular weight, or introducing a new machine/technique. It’s a cliche - but using SMART really works. Good luck, OP, whatever you do Out of interest, why do you carry on with the gym subscription then?! I thought some bright spark would ask that!! Because I’m expecting to have a lot of spare time on my hands soon and want to have the option to go. If that doesn’t transpire, I’ll cancel it. My Smart Alec question was where are you finding a gym for £26.99 a month?!?! Mine's £19.99 Mines £18.99 Cheapskate " perks of being a tight jock!!! | |||
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"I am my gym’s favourite customer. I pay them the princely sum of £26.99 per month and never go! I’ve always hated gyms as I’m a long distance runner who prefers outdoors, fresh air and changing scenery. That’s not to criticise gyms or their clientele at all, just a personal preference. I’m never happier than when I’m running mile after mile, but even I have to mix things up. I’ll do interval training, hill work, have rest days, stretching days, long walks at the weekend etc. it keeps my interest levels at their peak. I am a qualified business trainer and it’s really important to set yourself little goals if you want to pursue something. Otherwise it’s hard to recognise achievement. A big overall goal helps long term focus - I will look for a PB at a big distance in a year’s time, for example. But every day over that year I don’t hit it is technically a failure. So, I set little mini goals for the month. Then I get loads of little wins at achievable goals. I don’t know the gym world, but you might consider a certain number of reps at a particular weight, or introducing a new machine/technique. It’s a cliche - but using SMART really works. Good luck, OP, whatever you do Out of interest, why do you carry on with the gym subscription then?! I thought some bright spark would ask that!! Because I’m expecting to have a lot of spare time on my hands soon and want to have the option to go. If that doesn’t transpire, I’ll cancel it. My Smart Alec question was where are you finding a gym for £26.99 a month?!?! Mine's £19.99 Mines £18.99 Cheapskate perks of being a tight jock!!!" Tight jocks, you say?! White, I presume? | |||
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"I am my gym’s favourite customer. I pay them the princely sum of £26.99 per month and never go! I’ve always hated gyms as I’m a long distance runner who prefers outdoors, fresh air and changing scenery. That’s not to criticise gyms or their clientele at all, just a personal preference. I’m never happier than when I’m running mile after mile, but even I have to mix things up. I’ll do interval training, hill work, have rest days, stretching days, long walks at the weekend etc. it keeps my interest levels at their peak. I am a qualified business trainer and it’s really important to set yourself little goals if you want to pursue something. Otherwise it’s hard to recognise achievement. A big overall goal helps long term focus - I will look for a PB at a big distance in a year’s time, for example. But every day over that year I don’t hit it is technically a failure. So, I set little mini goals for the month. Then I get loads of little wins at achievable goals. I don’t know the gym world, but you might consider a certain number of reps at a particular weight, or introducing a new machine/technique. It’s a cliche - but using SMART really works. Good luck, OP, whatever you do Out of interest, why do you carry on with the gym subscription then?! I thought some bright spark would ask that!! Because I’m expecting to have a lot of spare time on my hands soon and want to have the option to go. If that doesn’t transpire, I’ll cancel it. My Smart Alec question was where are you finding a gym for £26.99 a month?!?! Mine's £19.99 Mines £18.99 Cheapskate perks of being a tight jock!!! Tight jocks, you say?! White, I presume?" Tis ze truth | |||
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"I am my gym’s favourite customer. I pay them the princely sum of £26.99 per month and never go! I’ve always hated gyms as I’m a long distance runner who prefers outdoors, fresh air and changing scenery. That’s not to criticise gyms or their clientele at all, just a personal preference. I’m never happier than when I’m running mile after mile, but even I have to mix things up. I’ll do interval training, hill work, have rest days, stretching days, long walks at the weekend etc. it keeps my interest levels at their peak. I am a qualified business trainer and it’s really important to set yourself little goals if you want to pursue something. Otherwise it’s hard to recognise achievement. A big overall goal helps long term focus - I will look for a PB at a big distance in a year’s time, for example. But every day over that year I don’t hit it is technically a failure. So, I set little mini goals for the month. Then I get loads of little wins at achievable goals. I don’t know the gym world, but you might consider a certain number of reps at a particular weight, or introducing a new machine/technique. It’s a cliche - but using SMART really works. Good luck, OP, whatever you do Out of interest, why do you carry on with the gym subscription then?! I thought some bright spark would ask that!! Because I’m expecting to have a lot of spare time on my hands soon and want to have the option to go. If that doesn’t transpire, I’ll cancel it. My Smart Alec question was where are you finding a gym for £26.99 a month?!?! Mine's £19.99 Mines £18.99 Cheapskate perks of being a tight jock!!! Tight jocks, you say?! White, I presume? Tis ze truth " Pics or it didn't happen | |||
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"Diet diet diet " I'd have to agree that if you're training to look sculpted then diet is more important than gym work by a ratio of 70:30. Give yourself short term goals which are reachable, yet push you. If you go 3/4 times a week and one of those sessions must be intensive cardio, you will notice some changes after a month ..much bigger changes after 3 months and by Xmas...well you'll be v surprised | |||
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"Don't compare yourslef to anyone, certainly not Hollywood stars. They have all the time in the day and tailored diets to pursue that look. It is unrealistic for most of us" Thank you. | |||
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