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By *orn_again_virgin OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Why is it so difficult to get chatting with people on this lol very rarely get a response or is it just me ????????

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It’s not just you OP. But would you respond to a message from your profile? Presuming you were the person you were looking for?

If the answer is no then perhaps have a rethink.

Hope you find your fun

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By *929Man
over a year ago

northumberland

Perhaps rearrange the order of your photos so that when someone presses on public photos they aren’t greeted with a close up of a ball sack maybe?

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

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"Perhaps rearrange the order of your photos so that when someone presses on public photos they aren’t greeted with a close up of a ball sack maybe?"

Great advice 10/10

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Perhaps rearrange the order of your photos so that when someone presses on public photos they aren’t greeted with a close up of a ball sack maybe?"

Loool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps rearrange the order of your photos so that when someone presses on public photos they aren’t greeted with a close up of a ball sack maybe?

Loool "

the reason I don opened profiles…. Even women’s

Op, you’re chatting now and have responses. Soon, the student will be the master and you’ll be giving out this advice yourself.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP.. you haven't asked for profile advice, so won't offer any.

I would encourage you to consider:

•Your expectations of Fab

•Is your profile tempting and clear about what you're looking for?

•What efforts you are making.

Good luck.

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Don’t send messages out and you’ll never be disappointed

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be more awesome innit.

Then try a dash of empathy, put yourself in the shoes of whom you are trying to connect with.

Would you, reply to what your doing?

Engage, on a personal level that shows interest, intent and integrity.

Also use alliteration, ladies love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?"

Do they??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You’ve got to make an effort (or none). They might be what they’re looking for.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It's just part of fab, no one responds to me either

Blokes have a lot of competition it maybe worth making sure your profile stands out.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?

Do they?? "

RIP your inbox now.

Filters. Quick. Go go go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?

Do they??

RIP your inbox now.

Filters. Quick. Go go go."

I can have zero filters and not get inundated. Either this whole women getting hundred messages a day thing is a huge conspiracy or.....no one likes me. Probably the latter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s an old adage that was dreamt up for Fabsters and it is this ~ ‘no response is a response’

In other words, if nobody replies to you, they’re politely telling you to sod off

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Your in the majority looking for the minority.

Your profile is not developed.

Having 'lonely' in your profile name, suggests that your a sad case, possibly desperate, would take an opportunity, etc.

Some people don't respond, because a 'thanks but no thanks' isn't accepted and incites more messages that won't lead to a meet, so are tedious.

Some within your preferred categories receive hundreds of messages per day and would spend hours if they replied to all that they don't want to meet.

Some people send messages to those that aren't looking for what you're offering. If the sender can't be arsed to read their profile and respect their preferences, they can't be arsed to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?

Do they??

RIP your inbox now.

Filters. Quick. Go go go.

I can have zero filters and not get inundated. Either this whole women getting hundred messages a day thing is a huge conspiracy or.....no one likes me. Probably the latter. "

It's entirely possible.

Being tall, sarcastic and awesome is a double edged sword.

It giveth, and taketh, Lilith.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoever you message is going to check out your profile before even thinking abput opening what you might have sent them.

Your profile is where you sell yourself.

Anyone looking at yours is going to see the lack of effort you've put into it and make tge leap that you'll put the same amount of effort into a meet.

I'd say that you're getting the response your profile deserves

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By *ynda1978Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Liverpool


"Why is it so difficult to get chatting with people on this lol very rarely get a response or is it just me ????????"

I would say firstly that you need to change from being straight to bi curious. Your willing to meet TV/TS to me that's not you being a straight man and would be an instant NO if it was me you'd contacted.

Just saying but good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?

Do they?? "

You’re fucking intimidating. I’ve had to hide behind my sofa after typing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?

Do they??

You’re fucking intimidating. I’ve had to hide behind my sofa after typing this."

But I'm lovely, practically an

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?

Do they??

You’re fucking intimidating. I’ve had to hide behind my sofa after typing this."

And he's actually a bloke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?

Do they??

You’re fucking intimidating. I’ve had to hide behind my sofa after typing this.

But I'm lovely, practically an "

The second emoji might be pushing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?

Do they??

You’re fucking intimidating. I’ve had to hide behind my sofa after typing this.

And he's actually a bloke! "

Don’t let the beard fool you. The penis is detachable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?

Do they??

You’re fucking intimidating. I’ve had to hide behind my sofa after typing this.

But I'm lovely, practically an

The second emoji might be pushing it."

You're right, I went too far. I'm always doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?

Do they??

You’re fucking intimidating. I’ve had to hide behind my sofa after typing this.

And he's actually a bloke!

Don’t let the beard fool you. The penis is detachable."

It didn't feel that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?

Do they??

You’re fucking intimidating. I’ve had to hide behind my sofa after typing this.

But I'm lovely, practically an

The second emoji might be pushing it.

You're right, I went too far. I'm always doing that "

You? Taking things too far? I don’t believe it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?

Do they??

You’re fucking intimidating. I’ve had to hide behind my sofa after typing this.

And he's actually a bloke!

Don’t let the beard fool you. The penis is detachable.

It didn't feel that way "

Still shitting like a whales blow hole?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?

Do they?? "

Some must I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women get 100s of messages, is what you're sending engaging and interesting or just more white noise?

Do they??

Some must I reckon "

The ones with their bits out and a status saying "I need a good fucking".

Go figure.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Its not hard why do people say this

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