FabSwingers.com forum: Do your friends or family know you're on Fab

By *anforkinkywomen OP Man
over a year ago

Barwell

Hi all,

I'm very cautious ensuring none of my friends or family know I'm on Fab.

Is anyone else the same and does anyone tell their friends family. Maybe because for safety reasons they might want to tell someone if they're having a meet or they just feel comfortable discussing it. X

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

My friends and family know I'm a swinger and on sites. That's as much detail as they need to know .. to be fair most of my friends are swingers anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah, my friends and family know. Px

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

A few friends do. Usually ones I've already swing with etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both my exes do as they where on and active with me almost since fab started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend does. He’s think the idea is crazy, but has been one of the most open minded people I know.

Had many conversations with home, he asks me questions all the time. And I ask him. Never judging is what it’s about.

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

Couple of vanilla friends know.

Family...No. And there is no reason to tell them. And although I don't hide it as such...I don't shout about it either

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Well it was my mum that told me about fab when she had left and the rest of my family pretty much all know I'm here and I'm not shy about letting my friends know I'm here as nothing to be ashamed of.

I'd say I don't really need to worry about anyone seeing me here as I'm open about it anyway

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

My friends and family all know who I am. Some don't want details, some want all of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got the friends and family deal when we signed up.

A family that plays together stays together!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both my sisters, 1 brother, 2 cousins, my aunt and uncle and next door neighbour are all on here. We often share taxis to clubs, makes it cheaper.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Couple of vanilla friends know.

Family...No. And there is no reason to tell them. And although I don't hide it as such...I don't shout about it either

Same

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Majority of my friends do know and the odd ones are already on here and attends the clubs

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes friends and family know! I'm a single pringle nothing to hide x

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

Friends, family and colleagues at both jobs. No risk to my jobs so I don't mind.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

A few friends know and my dad, that was a little awkward but he's very chilled out.

Mrs

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Hi all,

I'm very cautious ensuring none of my friends or family know I'm on Fab.

Most of my close friends know but not family, I hope!! I'm already excluded completely for living in sin with the man I married & stayed with for 23 years!! I don't need any more of their religious judgement heaped on me

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By *aughtyPeepzMan
over a year ago

London

Everyone I know is aware I'm on sites like these. I'm very open about it - hence face pics on profile

I even used to do paid cam work.

I think times have have changed too. People are more accepting and open sexually

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By *r. ComeagainMan
over a year ago

somewhere in East midlands

A friend of mine told me on social network he knows I'm here as he is too doaent really bother me

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I try to keep my Fab life separate from my vanilla life. There’s still a lot of judgemental people out there and LOTS of homophobia.

Pity, but it’s reality for me.

Gbat

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

The friend who told me about fab knows and my brother know I’m on a swinging site

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

They might do... I don't know, I don't really care that much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep and my friends are absolutely awesome about it. And we often have a good giggle about it.

One friend told me she knows someone else in here too.

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

Close friends do and a few family members do as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my friends do.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

The friends I’ve made here do.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Some of my friends do, I wouldn't tell family.

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By *anforkinkywomen OP Man
over a year ago

Barwell

"We got the friends and family deal when we signed up.

A family that plays together stays together! "

I bet your family reunions are fun.

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By *e renard de la campagneMan
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over

Only the people here know as far as I know

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By *orks and Scots girlCouple
over a year ago

leeds

A few friends know we are on here, and that we like to go to clubs and party nights, and to be honest a lot are intrigued.. he used to do adult film work and excort work when he was younger and fitter so he doesn’t care, I’m just a bit more selective who I tell

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By *anforkinkywomen OP Man
over a year ago

Barwell

"Hi all,

I'm very cautious ensuring none of my friends or family know I'm on Fab.

Its a shame youve been excluded like that. It can't be nice having loved ones trying to shame you with their extreme religious beliefs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the ones that know. If it's not relevant for them to know for any reason they don't

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By *anforkinkywomen OP Man
over a year ago

Barwell

"Friends, family and colleagues at both jobs. No risk to my jobs so I don't mind."

I think colleagues seeing my cock my cock is my least favourite idea. But I wouldn't be too fussed if I just had a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cousin as she used to be on here herself

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Hi all,

I'm very cautious ensuring none of my friends or family know I'm on Fab.

Its a shame youve been excluded like that. It can't be nice having loved ones trying to shame you with their extreme religious beliefs. "

Thank you.

It's played havoc with my mental health over the years...brothers, parents, neice & nephew who all choose to have nothing to do with me, but I've learned to live with it & see it as their loss, quite frankly! What doesn't break you makes you stronger

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Best friends yes.

Family no

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By *udandBryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston

Friends - yes

Family - they know we're swingers, not sure if they know about fab.

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

Not on fab but know about torture garden and have a fair idea about our lifestyle.

Not something we discuss

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

one friend does and so does my wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One friend knows I'm on here he's my safety guy that I check in with when I go on meets.

Family way too religious/crazy (they go hand in hand I find).... they'd bathe me in holy water as their reasoning would be the devil has possessed me to do his work or something along that line .. and no I not kidding

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Yes to both

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By *r Discreet 75Man
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

Not a chance I'm very private and discreet

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Yes. When I joined I had cards printed up, and sent one to all my family and friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely fucking not

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Nope, only people we met on here, know. None of our family (not that we have much anyway) and no "vanilla" friends. Though, I imagine one of our colleagues wouldn't be surprised or perturbed.

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

No secrets here, some of our family don’t like it but respect our choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of family know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family know am kinky but not about this site, not that have done much here.

They dont know much and don't ask details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mentioned it to the postman in passing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some friends and family know, mainly because they’re also on here and happened to come across our profile. There’s been a few awkward conversations and blocking over the years

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton

No as I live alone why would I want to tell them business?

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By *wiggy2112Woman
over a year ago

some where in Yorkshire

My big Sis knows and a few close friends… although I have recognised a few family members recognised by tattoos and a few friends lol ……I would never tell them I know it’s their lives … I also ran the “Bradford Socials” which was interesting when people I knew attended ….I still have my suspicions about my parents as they had a number of “friends” haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and that’s the way it will stay.

I have no interest in sharing this very private side of my life with friends and family. My partner feels the same.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Some do some don’t.

Do I care if they know? No. It’s my life and I’ll live it exactly the way I want to. No opinions from others are required either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a couple of my partners family know about fab and all my friends that know I’m poly know about it. But my family no lol. They don’t even know I’m poly.

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