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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's your ideal first meet?

Mine would be a walk along the beach. I'm always drawn to the sea, (swimming, sailing and surfing) I find it relaxing, calming and a great place to walk and talk. Getting to know someone outside away from hustle and bustle just seems a great way to connect.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

1. Årt gallery.

2. An artisanal coffee shop for, er, tea and cake.

3. Åfternoon Teå.

4. A stroll along the lido with a Pimm's in hand.

We play with the cards that the gods and spirits have dealt for us. These ones usually work for me.

I do, however, have an ácè up my sleeve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your ideal first meet?

"

They come. And then they go. ideal.

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

2nd base

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I found Paul in a coffee shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bank job. The boy’s gotta look good in a balaclava and it helps if we can bond over whether Fingers Joe is pulling his weight.

Just for clarity, no Joe gets fingered in this scenario.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Bank job. The boy’s gotta look good in a balaclava and it helps if we can bond over whether Fingers Joe is pulling his weight.

Just for clarity, no Joe gets fingered in this scenario. "

No comment.........I'd make your ideal co-defendent

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"I found Paul in a coffee shop "

Had he been discarded in the corner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rum

Hot sex

Macdonalds breakfast

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

Whiskey Sours

Hot Sex

Albert Schloss Breakfast

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Beach walk too

Crazy golf,

Chips,

Walk again

Swim

Snuggle in warm blankets with beer

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Some drinks

Some laughs

Some flirty

Some sex

Mrs

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I can't choose an ideal one location and activity wise, I guess I'm happy with most things and it's the person and our chemistry that is important to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From fab? I dunno a walk, a drink, a meal.

If it’s a date then a gallery or museum to see a new exhibition. Or picnic in this weather. Walk. Dinner. Some kind of activity they enjoy. All first dates I’ve done. Nobody on fab has ever been interested in anything like that from 26 years old me so I don’t do it with them.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

There's no one ideal, as it depends on the persona. I've done coffee meets/drinks, hotel room meet, road trip, +1 for a show they've all ended with a kiss though

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By *eelGoodIncMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Had a perfect first meet yesterday with a lovely lady, no pressures from either of us, we chilled and chatted for a couple of hours about all sorts of stuff and I feel I may have already found my genuine regular friend

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Bank job. The boy’s gotta look good in a balaclava and it helps if we can bond over whether Fingers Joe is pulling his weight.

Just for clarity, no Joe gets fingered in this scenario. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk in the beach, river bank or pathway anything with bear can on hand works for me

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Sex.

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"1. Årt gallery.

2. An artisanal coffee shop for, er, tea and cake.

3. Åfternoon Teå.

4. A stroll along the lido with a Pimm's in hand.

We play with the cards that the gods and spirits have dealt for us. These ones usually work for me.

I do, however, have an ácè up my sleeve. "

Spill please

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

I don't drink. But I do like a pub environment. So I like to go to a pub.

If not, a coffee shop or a walk around a park. If there is enough things in common, wouldn't mind going directly for a dinner date too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cocktails, good chat, a bit of flirting, a few giggles and ending with kisses that make us want more.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Cocktails, good chat, a bit of flirting, a few giggles and ending with kisses that make us want more. "
That sounds really familiar.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

Meet, fuck, go home!

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Bank job. The boy’s gotta look good in a balaclava and it helps if we can bond over whether Fingers Joe is pulling his weight.

Just for clarity, no Joe gets fingered in this scenario. "

Someone get Guy Ritchie on the phone, I wanna see this movie

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

A Gregg's breakfast deal, a park bench and some loose knickers

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"What's your ideal first meet?

Mine would be a walk along the beach. I'm always drawn to the sea, (swimming, sailing and surfing) I find it relaxing, calming and a great place to walk and talk. Getting to know someone outside away from hustle and bustle just seems a great way to connect."

I agree with that OP.

Walking is always a great start, and the beach is a real good shout man

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

The one I had over 2 years ago. Perfect introduction, great conversation, laughs and time just flew by.....all over a coffee x

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Good conversation wherever that may be

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

There turn up, they fuck, they leave with out wiping their cocks on the curtains.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bank job. The boy’s gotta look good in a balaclava and it helps if we can bond over whether Fingers Joe is pulling his weight.

Just for clarity, no Joe gets fingered in this scenario.

Someone get Guy Ritchie on the phone, I wanna see this movie"

I want a veto on who plays me in the movie. And which bank.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Same OP, that's what I usually like to do, drink on the pier, wander along the beach, sit in the gardens.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

A drink (non alcoholic) and a game of crazy golf. So I can see how good they are at getting it in the hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A Gregg's breakfast deal, a park bench and some loose knickers"

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Meet for an ale or 3. Chat. Maybe some mild (or totally unnoticeable) flirting.

Snogs that come out of nowhere & make your stomach flip.

An urgent trip back to a hotel where the door is barely closed before hands are everywhere, followed by lips.

Or

According to my inbox currently

“A fuck in the outdoors, because it’s sexy & warm”

(No you’re too cheap to go halves on a room)

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"

According to my inbox currently

“A fuck in the outdoors, because it’s sexy & warm”

(No you’re too cheap to go halves on a room) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Footgolf (I win)

Lunch (she pays)

Make love for 16 minutes. Maybe have a snack.

Watch the Grand Tour when she's left.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"1. Årt gallery.

2. An artisanal coffee shop for, er, tea and cake.

3. Åfternoon Teå.

4. A stroll along the lido with a Pimm's in hand.

We play with the cards that the gods and spirits have dealt for us. These ones usually work for me.

I do, however, have an ácè up my sleeve.

Spill please"

He cheats at cards

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

the zoo.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

“Steve, let’s shag”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine would be one that leaves you wanting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee/tea, walk, chat, laugh, maybe a snog..

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I found Paul in a coffee shop

Had he been discarded in the corner?"

No, but even if he had been it was instant

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Shagging within minutes, still shagging a few hours later and laughing about leg cramps or carpet burns

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"1. Årt gallery.

2. An artisanal coffee shop for, er, tea and cake.

3. Åfternoon Teå.

4. A stroll along the lido with a Pimm's in hand.

We play with the cards that the gods and spirits have dealt for us. These ones usually work for me.

I do, however, have an ácè up my sleeve.

·

Spill please

·

He cheats at cards "

The answer can only be unearthed through private messaging. The walls have ears.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

A cuppa in a good coffee shop, a walk, something simple.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Mine would be one that leaves you wanting. "

Mine wouldn’t

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