FabSwingers.com forum: If you ex stood at your door one night saying I have nowhere to sleep what would you do

By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Happy Friday Morning everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just close the door. My ex isn't worth an ounce of my time.

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Depends which ex.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

My daughter lives with her so by default I’d have to let her stay haha. Ignoring that I’d probably still let stay as I’m soft and find it hard to say no

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

He would have bigger problems than somewhere to sleep if he knocked my door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends which ex.

The father of my kids, I'd let him. Goes without saying.

The one with the means to book a hotel for the night, no.

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By *onny boy cMan
over a year ago

chorlton

As I wouldn't see anyone on the street would give her taxi money

And pay for a hotel then shut the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it is. There’s one or two that I’d help out if they were in that situation but most would get a door to the face

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I don't dislike any of my ex's. They're all decent people. I'd make up a spare bed and probably have a nice gossip

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

That would never happen in reality, but the father of my child could have the sofa for the night. Anyone else, I doubt I’d even bother opening the door tbh

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"As I wouldn't see anyone on the street would give her taxi money

And pay for a hotel then shut the door "

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depend on which ex.

I'd be sympathetic to most of them, but would call the Police on one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dammmm girl that sucks .....hope you find somewhere

(closes door and gets back to watching police interceptors)

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't hate any of my ex's so id probably offer a sofa if it was ok with everyone else.

Mrs

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

My life is a trail of exs most of which i get on with still

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Depends which ex.

Good point.

For my ex Mrs I would make up the spare room.

One ex long term GF would get the door slammed in her face.

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Let the police have the problem of it .

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

NG 21

Direct her to the nearest abattoir. Slam door and laugh ALOT. Karma can be a bitch.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Depends on the ex, some I'd invite in for the night and others I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call the police and hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd give him a bed for the night. It would be in the utility room with the dogs, but it's warm, so more than he deserves

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Let him in. We are still friends and I know he would do the same for me.

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By *r GLTMan
over a year ago

Richmond Upon Thames

Not a cat in hells chance Mag 2 Grid.

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

I'd offer them a bed in our spare room xxx

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

Help out how I can

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By *hezingtonMan
over a year ago

Fleet

Depends on the ex to be honest

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Whatever had happened in the past, I wouldn’t let someone I have been close to sleep on the streets

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Not answer the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had an ex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t even waste my time by answering the door

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'd let him in and give him a quilt for the sofa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends which ex.

To be honest I'm a big softie so I'd never leave anyone stuck

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I have a few exes with whom I’m on very good terms. I’d probably help them out.

Some of them can go fuck themselves. Might sound harsh but I’d rather hear they spent the night on a park bench thinking about why they were such a c**t to me.

*Backs out of room to stunned silence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let them in …. sofa it is …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him to go fuck himself, then slam the door in his face without an ounce of guilt

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

I really would say ‘How unlucky’ she wrecked my mental health, then stomped on it afterwards.

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By *ndyfritz2015Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Even tho we all know you should close the door We’d end up fucking

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Tell them to piss of

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m too young to hate any exes

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

While I have some exs that I'm not really on friendly terms with, I'd not feel comfortable with them potentially having to sleep on the streets.

I've been hurt, deeply but I'm not the type of person they are, especially to leave somebody I know in such a position.

So they can stay

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Im friendly with all my exs and still in touch will a number they make you who you are today up most respect for them of course would offer a bed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I probably wouldn't recognise him then ask how he found me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be surprised as how they got my address

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Depends which ex

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By *ub slut PennyTV/TS
over a year ago

St Austell

Let her fuck me and use me like she always has..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the ex haha.

Funny how we're all saying that.

All but one I'd help happily.

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Pinner

Regardless of which dick it was, the compassionate human in me would try and help him - even if that meant organising a hostel for him or a sofa.

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Pinner

"While I have some exs that I'm not really on friendly terms with, I'd not feel comfortable with them potentially having to sleep on the streets.

I've been hurt, deeply but I'm not the type of person they are, especially to leave somebody I know in such a position.

So they can stay "

This

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Provide concise information to elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shut the door and spend the night alternating between my spare beds.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Stick her on the sofa and tell her to get out in the morning.

I'd also be wondering why she came over from Australia without accommodation sorted.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

There's one where I'd phone the police for breaching the restraining order, but I'm friendly with my other ex partners and would make up the spare bed and warn them that the dogs start the breakfast song before 6am.

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

All of them would be given a place to stay

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

Last ex and sons dad I'd allow them to stay on the sofa. The one between those two, police were involved to get him out so it's a no from me. I'd send him to his mum's round the corner and hope to never see him again.

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Laugh and shut the door on him .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends which ex, one I would and one I probably wouldn’t. The rest depend how I feel at the time

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Probably put the kettle on and ask him what he has done this time, after that he can sleep on the sofa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Laugh and shut the door on him ."
hahahah that it 100% the same

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Depends on which ex.

Most, I'd close the door in thier faces

A few I'd give the sofa

One wouldn't need to knock, he is now my best mate, and has a key.

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Big the bigger person and help them in need ... People change

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By *issTinyWoman
over a year ago

omagh

I’d never turn down my ex/my kids’ Dad for a place to crash overnight if he needed it, and he does stay over for Xmas week/bdays/holidays so we still do family stuff. But knowing the bank is after him to resolve his mortgage (lol, he should’ve listened to me), I had to have a chat with him lately about boundaries and tell him that if/when the “what if” happens and he loses the house that under no circumstances would he be moving in with us. He was actually surprised. He’s helped a lot in fairness with diy jobs that are out of my competence, but throwing up some shelves doesn’t give him entitlement imo.

So yeah…but not long term

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By *igdawg2022Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Would open the door and let her share my bed fuck her one last time then fuck her out after what she done to me lol

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

wonder how he got from under the patio.

serious answer i am friends with all mine except one.so let them sleep in the spare room after making them something to eat.

The one who cheated while i was recovering from a bad accident prob give him a sleeping bag and let him sleep in the garden shed but no way would he be let in the house.Though unlikely he knows where i live now .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr - Most of them yes, some, no fuckin' chance and I'd want to know how they even knew where I lived!

Miss - Maybe for one if they had a *very very* good reason. No for any others.

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

I'm still good friends with my ex, so I'd let him stay a few nights. No shenanigans, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sons dad yes, the most recent one absolutely no chance in hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex deffo would let her stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let her stay, then try for my first FFM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we didn’t finish on bad terms so of course I’d let her stay.

I’d like to think even if we did I would, kinda nice like that.

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By *ablo200Man
over a year ago

sevenoaks

100% let her in! Then a threesome with my wife!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d let her stay. … and probably book myself into a hotel for the night.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

He can sleep with the kids

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

Open the door then slam it in their face again..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d welcome him in, on the sofa of course. We started as friends and parted as friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offer them a spare room and the help they needed of course.

I’m a grown up.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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The majority of my exs I would let sleep in the spare bed or sofa, although I don’t keep in regular contact with them I don’t hold any bad feelings towards them….I do realise I’m very lucky to be in that position though

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Not got an ex. B was/is my first long term relationship.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Let him in. He's the father of my sons, and I'll always care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d throw eggs at her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find him the address for closest homeless shelter

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By *udandBryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston

We'd invite her in and see what else she needed.

No reason we can't still be friends.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

Shit myself. She’s been dead 15 years

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

I'm back living under the same roof as my ex as I had nowhere else I to stay for three weeks. He threw the door open and welcomed me with open arms, champagne and a back rub. NOT.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

My ex wife is the mother of my children and as much as she’s caused me a lot of pain I would still offer her my couch. The plus side being she’d have our children with her, so I could spend more time with them.

However if they were older and not with her, she’s on her own the way she did the same with me. Admittedly I wouldn’t if it was dark, raining and she could be at risk I couldn’t be that harsh.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"Shit myself. She’s been dead 15 years "

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Give him the couch to sleep on until he found somewhere else. It would be for a few days only!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ring doorbell has its benefits, I wouldn't have to answer the door

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

He's my son's father, so of course I'd help!! I'd give him the number of the local shelters & a sleeping bag as a back up

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I get on fine with my ex, it wouldn't be a problem.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

ex wife? I'd put her up. We try to have a working relationship. But I'd have a little party when she left.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

We are very far from on good terms. But id give her a bed for the night.... That said... Id probably wake up finding id been bent over bound gagged fucked royally up the arse and had all my possessions stollen once again....and facing 16 more years of counselling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Point him in the direction of the sally army!

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By *antam AvershiresMan
over a year ago

Falme

Not let's turn it around, how many of your exs would offer a bed of you were in that situation.

I think about 50% would help and the other half turn me away.

I'd like to think I'd help them all

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I think with some of my exes, I’d rather wait until it’s an exceptionally warm night, when I’d drive to the local household waste management centre making them follow me on foot. When it’s warm the smell of rotting rubbish is overwhelming. Once there I’d stay in my luxurious and air conditioned car (which had fragrance management) eating a freshly prepared picnic of my favourite foods whilst showing them pictures of my comfortable, inviting spare rooms through the window.

I think I could make that last all night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex husband and father of my children, wouldn't even open the door.

Ex boyfriends, I would be very surprised if they found me! Which would be very worrying in itself. Hmmmm. Tricky. I'd probably let them in due to the shock factor and consider their stalker behaviour when it was too late!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Let them stay in the spare room. Cook them their favourite meal. Listen to them.

There's only one ex I'd tell to fuck off. Even then, if he really needed somewhere? I'd probably soften and say come in.

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