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"Hello, I'm a psychologist so I tend to analyse human behaviour, I promise I'm fun at parties lol. I'm curious to hear why dudes think woman want unsolicited dick pictures. I'm talking first message before even a hello. Curious if men think that its somehow going to stand them out from other pennies havers? And women, does a dick pic ever actually work for you? Thanks " Doesn't work for me. Let's be honest they're not very photogenic either... But I think they do it to shock and/or for the thrill... A bit like flashing, just minus the mac & you can do it anytime. | |||
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"Hello, I'm a psychologist so I tend to analyse human behaviour, I promise I'm fun at parties lol. I'm curious to hear why dudes think woman want unsolicited dick pictures. I'm talking first message before even a hello. Curious if men think that its somehow going to stand them out from other pennies havers? And women, does a dick pic ever actually work for you? Thanks " Are you with sydney u or independent? Dick pics, we get the ability to take and send photos and what do we do, take pictures of our cocks. It's our most treasured possession In fab where every man has his cock out it's different. Scarcity has a value. Have they worked. At least twice. On both occasions the women said was my cock that got their interest. That was pof not fab. Fab is harder. methinks | |||
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"Hello, I'm a psychologist so I tend to analyse human behaviour, I promise I'm fun at parties lol. I'm curious to hear why dudes think woman want unsolicited dick pictures. I'm talking first message before even a hello. Curious if men think that its somehow going to stand them out from other pennies havers? And women, does a dick pic ever actually work for you? Thanks " Morning, As a psychologist you ll understand the brain chemistry better than me...most likely to be driven by the science... "Oooo I m horny...oooo look at my amazing cock...ooooo I don't match that profile...yay I ll send a dick pic " and so on | |||
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"Hello, I'm a psychologist so I tend to analyse human behaviour, I promise I'm fun at parties lol. I'm curious to hear why dudes think woman want unsolicited dick pictures. I'm talking first message before even a hello. Curious if men think that its somehow going to stand them out from other pennies havers? And women, does a dick pic ever actually work for you? Thanks Morning, As a psychologist you ll understand the brain chemistry better than me...most likely to be driven by the science... "Oooo I m horny...oooo look at my amazing cock...ooooo I don't match that profile...yay I ll send a dick pic " and so on " Though as a sociologist I’d argue that this behaviour reflects gendered socialisation, opinions on women’s role and value in a society and power relations as much as anything in our brains. | |||
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"You’re the psychologist OP you tell us Honestly i get it a little of why. When you compare the male body to the female we kinda only have one part that society asks us to cover up and that is sexualised. Hence if feels a little naughty to send a dick pic. I think we can also look at reproductive organs and the primeval urge to attract a mate using said organs. Why do you think OP? Marc" My theory is a form of human peacocking. Some men feel they have the biggest dick (brightest feathers) and it will get them a mate. But it's always good to hear from the men who do it. It isn't a human psychological issue, more a male one. Not many woman send unsolicited fanny pics, so it seems a solely male phenomenon | |||
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"Hello, I'm a psychologist so I tend to analyse human behaviour, I promise I'm fun at parties lol. I'm curious to hear why dudes think woman want unsolicited dick pictures. I'm talking first message before even a hello. Curious if men think that its somehow going to stand them out from other pennies havers? And women, does a dick pic ever actually work for you? Thanks Are you with sydney u or independent? Dick pics, we get the ability to take and send photos and what do we do, take pictures of our cocks. It's our most treasured possession In fab where every man has his cock out it's different. Scarcity has a value. Have they worked. At least twice. On both occasions the women said was my cock that got their interest. That was pof not fab. Fab is harder. methinks " No Sydney sacked me because I couldn't keep up with they're picture collecting requirements. | |||
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"Thanks everyone. I have always been curious, and I can't ask on Facebook. It may finish my nan off. " Hilarious | |||
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"Hello, I'm a psychologist so I tend to analyse human behaviour, I promise I'm fun at parties lol. I'm curious to hear why dudes think woman want unsolicited dick pictures. I'm talking first message before even a hello. Curious if men think that its somehow going to stand them out from other pennies havers? And women, does a dick pic ever actually work for you? Thanks " It's because they're not thinking about what the other person wants, that's the most important thing to them at the time of sending the picture, they're literally thinking with their dick. People in general have a cognitive empathy problem and struggle to comprehend the world from someone else's perspective. Sending dick pics is just another example of this. | |||
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"Thanks everyone. I have always been curious, and I can't ask on Facebook. It may finish my nan off. " Your nan might just surprise you | |||
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"Hello, I'm a psychologist so I tend to analyse human behaviour, I promise I'm fun at parties lol. I'm curious to hear why dudes think woman want unsolicited dick pictures. I'm talking first message before even a hello. Curious if men think that its somehow going to stand them out from other pennies havers? And women, does a dick pic ever actually work for you? Thanks " Speaking of thinking with your dick, that's a hotlist add. Psychologists are sexy. | |||
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"You’re the psychologist OP you tell us Honestly i get it a little of why. When you compare the male body to the female we kinda only have one part that society asks us to cover up and that is sexualised. Hence if feels a little naughty to send a dick pic. I think we can also look at reproductive organs and the primeval urge to attract a mate using said organs. Why do you think OP? Marc My theory is a form of human peacocking. Some men feel they have the biggest dick (brightest feathers) and it will get them a mate. But it's always good to hear from the men who do it. It isn't a human psychological issue, more a male one. Not many woman send unsolicited fanny pics, so it seems a solely male phenomenon " I've been sent unsolicited flaps akimbo pics 3 times. So admittedly more a male thing but it happens. And I don't understand it either, I've never sent a unsolicited dick pic | |||
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"You’re the psychologist OP you tell us Honestly i get it a little of why. When you compare the male body to the female we kinda only have one part that society asks us to cover up and that is sexualised. Hence if feels a little naughty to send a dick pic. I think we can also look at reproductive organs and the primeval urge to attract a mate using said organs. Why do you think OP? Marc My theory is a form of human peacocking. Some men feel they have the biggest dick (brightest feathers) and it will get them a mate. But it's always good to hear from the men who do it. It isn't a human psychological issue, more a male one. Not many woman send unsolicited fanny pics, so it seems a solely male phenomenon " Let’s get this straight. I don’t do it and never have I think you could be on to something though. It is difficult on a site like fab to actually flex anything else that a male might think is attractive. Such as wealth, job, car, etc. It could be as simple as men are leads to believe that all women on fab are looking to have sex constantly so therefore just want to show and tempt those women into what that particular male believes is the most important piece of anatomy for sex Marc | |||
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"Thanks everyone. I have always been curious, and I can't ask on Facebook. It may finish my nan off. Your nan might just surprise you" If she sends me here own dick pic that'll finish me off. | |||
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"I may want to stick my cock in your face at some point, but let's at least have coffee first? Or play chess." ^Hot pawn action. | |||
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"I may want to stick my cock in your face at some point, but let's at least have coffee first? Or play chess. ^Hot pawn action." Better than just bashing your Bishop on some lonely Knight in. | |||
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"It's the simplicity of the mindset behind it I find admirable. "I want to have sex" (you need a penis for sex) "I have one of those" (quick, show it to her) " | |||
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"Hello, I'm a psychologist so I tend to analyse human behaviour, I promise I'm fun at parties lol. I'm curious to hear why dudes think woman want unsolicited dick pictures. I'm talking first message before even a hello. Curious if men think that its somehow going to stand them out from other pennies havers? And women, does a dick pic ever actually work for you? Thanks " I'm lost on this too, (and this is Disco Balls writing). It also happens on dating apps. Maybe it's nbecause I just wouldnt and work on the principle that I wouldnt say anything to someone online that i woukdnt say to them if id met them in the pub. I've often thought that if I was a psychology studenti would love to do my thesis on this issue and why people feel able to interact the way that they do on social platforms and differently to the way that they would face to face. | |||
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"Oh I love psychologists they are so much fun. Their defence mechanisms are so multi-faceted. It's like a chess game of GYNYSOB. What makes you curious about that particular theory? If I want intimacy, which I do - then standing out is an irrelevance. Being congruent is the most viable way to achieve an authentic connection. So, I start out as I mean to proceed. I may want to stick my cock in your face at some point, but let's at least have coffee first? Or play chess. See if there's some mutual desire and what that feels like. So an unsolicited cock pic just wouldn't be reflective of what I seek. Also, I consider it a matter of consent so on that basis I think it has some very negative connotations." I like the psychology behind sex and kink, keeps me amused. And some guy sent me a few cock shots this morning, totally randomly so wondered if men who do so would comment. However they're too busy sending them lol | |||
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"Oh I love psychologists they are so much fun. Their defence mechanisms are so multi-faceted. It's like a chess game of GYNYSOB. What makes you curious about that particular theory? If I want intimacy, which I do - then standing out is an irrelevance. Being congruent is the most viable way to achieve an authentic connection. So, I start out as I mean to proceed. I may want to stick my cock in your face at some point, but let's at least have coffee first? Or play chess. See if there's some mutual desire and what that feels like. So an unsolicited cock pic just wouldn't be reflective of what I seek. Also, I consider it a matter of consent so on that basis I think it has some very negative connotations. I like the psychology behind sex and kink, keeps me amused. And some guy sent me a few cock shots this morning, totally randomly so wondered if men who do so would comment. However they're too busy sending them lol" I like to understand the psychology behind sex and sexual thrills. I find it interesting, though feel many would dismiss some theories. | |||
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"Oh I love psychologists they are so much fun. Their defence mechanisms are so multi-faceted. It's like a chess game of GYNYSOB. What makes you curious about that particular theory? If I want intimacy, which I do - then standing out is an irrelevance. Being congruent is the most viable way to achieve an authentic connection. So, I start out as I mean to proceed. I may want to stick my cock in your face at some point, but let's at least have coffee first? Or play chess. See if there's some mutual desire and what that feels like. So an unsolicited cock pic just wouldn't be reflective of what I seek. Also, I consider it a matter of consent so on that basis I think it has some very negative connotations. I like the psychology behind sex and kink, keeps me amused. And some guy sent me a few cock shots this morning, totally randomly so wondered if men who do so would comment. However they're too busy sending them lol" Isn't it ironic. I share in that amusement - what aspects amuse you the most? If it's any consolation, most of the women I talk to get to the cock pic stage well before I'm done appreciating how they tick. | |||
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"Some dick pics definitely do work for me but that's because of who they belong to. It's the whole package of the person. Some also are far more photogenic than others and there's a big difference between the men who make an effort with these pictures and the ones who just get it out and snap a picture. I have a friend who I've seen on and off for the best part of 18 years. I love him dearly and we have epic sex. He has no clue how to take a decent picture but clearly likes sharing them with me. I've never had the heart to tell him I dislike them because that's something he is obviously enjoying in some way, they aren't a entirely unsolicited either, usually he's trying to tell me how much a thought or a memory of me is doing for him. And in turn, I like that knowledge. Its only acceptable from him though because I know him so well, we have history etc. Randoms no thank you. I always think it would be interesting to know if women send similar unsolicited pictures? " Never an unsolicited analogue to a dick pic no, because that's not how they roll. But unsolicited erotic or sexual pictures very early in a conversation? I've had that twice. So yeah but it's the exception | |||
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"Oh I love psychologists they are so much fun. Their defence mechanisms are so multi-faceted. It's like a chess game of GYNYSOB. What makes you curious about that particular theory? If I want intimacy, which I do - then standing out is an irrelevance. Being congruent is the most viable way to achieve an authentic connection. So, I start out as I mean to proceed. I may want to stick my cock in your face at some point, but let's at least have coffee first? Or play chess. See if there's some mutual desire and what that feels like. So an unsolicited cock pic just wouldn't be reflective of what I seek. Also, I consider it a matter of consent so on that basis I think it has some very negative connotations. I like the psychology behind sex and kink, keeps me amused. And some guy sent me a few cock shots this morning, totally randomly so wondered if men who do so would comment. However they're too busy sending them lol" It reminds me of when the cats brings dead mice in and dumps them on the rug in the lounge.... They are preprogrammed to do it, no amount of training and instruction will stop them from doing it, and regardless of how average sized it is they want you to be impressed and to be rewarded..... | |||
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"Oh I love psychologists they are so much fun. Their defence mechanisms are so multi-faceted. It's like a chess game of GYNYSOB. What makes you curious about that particular theory? If I want intimacy, which I do - then standing out is an irrelevance. Being congruent is the most viable way to achieve an authentic connection. So, I start out as I mean to proceed. I may want to stick my cock in your face at some point, but let's at least have coffee first? Or play chess. See if there's some mutual desire and what that feels like. So an unsolicited cock pic just wouldn't be reflective of what I seek. Also, I consider it a matter of consent so on that basis I think it has some very negative connotations. I like the psychology behind sex and kink, keeps me amused. And some guy sent me a few cock shots this morning, totally randomly so wondered if men who do so would comment. However they're too busy sending them lol It reminds me of when the cats brings dead mice in and dumps them on the rug in the lounge.... They are preprogrammed to do it, no amount of training and instruction will stop them from doing it, and regardless of how average sized it is they want you to be impressed and to be rewarded....." Dead limp mice | |||
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