FabSwingers.com forum: Can you be too nice...?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know it's only early days on here just been on here under a month but I try to be nice to the woman in here by reading profiles and not been rude or pushy but never gets me any where

Do I just need to see how it goes or is that saying right nice guys finish last?

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Hi Jon, just had a quick peek in yr profile, and I've gotta say the cock pic is not flattering........it looks like someones chopped it off and hung it over the side. You look a nice looking guy, you should try to take a few better pics, and maybe go in the chat rooms on cam so people get to know you x

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By *exySwing3rsCouple
over a year ago

In Your Hearts

The saying that works here is, 'Patience is a virtue.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some sympathy with this thread - I think I'm one of the nice guys too - polite, never assuming, or in your face rude.....and very few replies.

I think it is the right way to be however, and I'm unlikely to change - although, in the bedroom I can be quite domineering.

I'd say "patience is a virtue", - I've had some good meets as a result - it just takes time...don't get disheartened!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself and be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your personality is your personality, if you are a generally nice polite well mannered person then don’t change and certainly don’t change because you think its how you should be behaving. Be yourself.

Take your time and get to know people and yes patients is a virtue

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"I know it's only early days on here just been on here under a month but I try to be nice to the woman in here by reading profiles and not been rude or pushy but never gets me any where

Do I just need to see how it goes or is that saying right nice guys finish last? "

This is quite a typical male attitude on here as if women are like pet poodles.

If they don't want you - they don't want you. Turning rude and pushy doesn't make you more desirable any more than making polite noises makes women fancy you.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Reminds of me of the Zoo when kids are disappointed that wiggling their fingers at the animals doesn't make them run over.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Jon .... could I just mention that you HAVE said you prefer quantity over quality .... Im sure you don't mean that.

Also ...... saying you would like to TRY an older woman in a similar way to going for a test run in a car isn't exactly attractive.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

"I know it's only early days on here just been on here under a month but I try to be nice to the woman in here by reading profiles and not been rude or pushy but never gets me any where

Do I just need to see how it goes or is that saying right nice guys finish last? "

Ask yourself, would you arrange a meet with someone like you, or a rude pushy girl.

Dont change, be patient and enjoy the chat rooms and forum.

Oh, and I have to agree with the earlier post ...... the cock pic isnt flattering, try a diferent one. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

entirely subjective

too nice could be creepy as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be true to yourself rather than be what you think others want you to be.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

be honest if your nice as well it helps . be patient and funny and flirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And as others have said the cock pic is awful.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if you need help selecting a cock pic, send me all you have and I will be happy to help.

selfless again, that's me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only had the friends and fun.on this site by being nice....you have to be true to who you are...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"if you need help selecting a cock pic, send me all you have and I will be happy to help.

selfless again, that's me"

Your kindness never ceases to shine. Allow me to award you a large box of the best raspberry ruffles.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"if you need help selecting a cock pic, send me all you have and I will be happy to help.

selfless again, that's me

Your kindness never ceases to shine. Allow me to award you a large box of the best raspberry ruffles."

thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being pushy and rude for a week or two

I look forward to you then having to leave and come back with a new profile

Seriously now

Polite is good

Respectful is good

Patient is even better

Not expecting too much better still

You carry on being yourself - you will catch someones eye sooner or later and then the ball is rolling.

In the mean time, send View ur cock pics

Like me, he needs to find his thrills where he can these days

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

In the mean time, send View ur cock pics

Like me, he needs to find his thrills where he can these days

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

You can never be too nice but you can be too false.

As to the OP keep on keeping on bro, things will go your way eventually.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you I have listened to you all and ill add some more pics and gonna change my profile abit

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By *ittlebitWoman
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Be true to yourself rather than be what you think others want you to be.

Wise words!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I only meet nice guys, but i cant be doing with sycophants, they make my skin crawl

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