FabSwingers.com forum: would you believe it?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I attended a club for the very first time last night and as we were being shown round, I bumped into a mom from my Childs school! Obviously I was a bit embarrassed and she reassured me that she would not tell a tone and, of course, I never would but how can you really know for sure?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sadly you won't know. Hope it works out, probably will be okay.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

You roll the dice and take ya' chances.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"You roll the dice and take ya' chances."

They play Monopoly in some swingers clubs?.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well she was there too so surely she's in the same boat as you.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"You roll the dice and take ya' chances.

They play Monopoly in some swingers clubs?.....

Some try to... but eventually get pushed out of the way for others to have a go.

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

Same thing happened to me at local club a few years back,mum from my son's preschool....

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

She was there for the same reason as you so I wouldnt worry too much about it tbh

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the discretion in Clubs is the same as on here, some have it....... others NOT

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By *dynlisaCouple
over a year ago

Notts

Don't be affried she will not say anything she not like that you enjoyed yourself so please come again x x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

she's probably wondering the same thing about you

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By *asey369Woman
over a year ago

London

I got a message on here with photos shortly after I joined from someone who I was "holding hands" with last year. I replied and told him that it was me as felt only fair. It's in neither of our interests to kiss n tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What exactly would she say?

"I was at this swingers club and you'll never guess who I saw?!?! "

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

" What exactly would she say?

"I was at this swingers club and you'll never guess who I saw?!?! "

That seems to be what quite a few people do say.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I attended a club for the very first time last night and as we were being shown round, I bumped into a mom from my Childs school! Obviously I was a bit embarrassed and she reassured me that she would not tell a tone and, of course, I never would but how can you really know for sure?"

You won't know for sure, of course but chances are that the other person is not keen on revealing her own activities and by implication she would. I would say in situaitons like this I ask myself what is the worst case scenario, outcome for me?

Probably not anywhere near as bad as the worrying about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully, she is banking on your discretion as much as the OP is banking on hers.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first started swinging someone advised me as to two rules to keep in mind, and I always have.

1. Mutually-Assured Destruction.

2. Plausible Deniability.

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

You didn't say whether you fancied her ?

Best case senario you've got a fb on your doorstep .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If she tells, you might meet more _ummy mummy's there next time as word gets round.....

Seriously, I don't think she will say anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first started swinging someone advised me as to two rules to keep in mind, and I always have.

1. Mutually-Assured Destruction.

2. Plausible Deniability.

Good plan!!! Deny it...

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