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By *Eladyluck OP   Woman
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

So

Got a message 2 hours ago with a hi from a very sparse profile...

Followed an hour later with a can you talk

Followed just now with a at least you can reply

...

Can I just vent please that I shouldn't be shamed or made to feel guilty into replying, let alone acknowledge that that that kind of vibe is the last thing that makes you want to reply...

As a woman on this site we can get inundated by so many messages from people who haven't even bothered to read our profile, people who message with the word hi and zero profile and then messages from existing friends it's just hard to even keep up...

Sick of ignorant and rude people....

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By *e renard de la campagneMan
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"So

Got a message 2 hours ago with a hi from a very sparse profile...

Followed an hour later with a can you talk

Followed just now with a at least you can reply

...

Can I just vent please that I shouldn't be shamed or made to feel guilty into replying, let alone acknowledge that that that kind of vibe is the last thing that makes you want to reply...

As a woman on this site we can get inundated by so many messages from people who haven't even bothered to read our profile, people who message with the word hi and zero profile and then messages from existing friends it's just hard to even keep up...

Sick of ignorant and rude people...."

Hope you feel better and hope you've blocked the fellow - he doesn't sound like he's worth the worry and stress x

Apparently there's a friends only inbox feature which is newish I believe, so hopefully that will help.

xx

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Just block them and forget about it, that's what I do

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By *ames250122Man
over a year ago

Worcester


"So

Got a message 2 hours ago with a hi from a very sparse profile...

Followed an hour later with a can you talk

Followed just now with a at least you can reply

...

Can I just vent please that I shouldn't be shamed or made to feel guilty into replying, let alone acknowledge that that that kind of vibe is the last thing that makes you want to reply...

As a woman on this site we can get inundated by so many messages from people who haven't even bothered to read our profile, people who message with the word hi and zero profile and then messages from existing friends it's just hard to even keep up...

Sick of ignorant and rude people...."

Yeah I’d say block them tbh. From what you’ve described it doesn’t sound good whoever they are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So

Got a message 2 hours ago with a hi from a very sparse profile...

Followed an hour later with a can you talk

Followed just now with a at least you can reply

..."

This is just how guys apply for the insta-block collection program. Think of it like autograph hunting at a comic con.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had something similar for a guy he sent a message saying "Hi" then "???" " reply" "????" " Another timewaster" all in the space of 2 mins, after which he blocked me.

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By *endricks321Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Block... ignore... whatever.

Simply not worth it.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know if people notice they’re messaging the same profile. I have the same few guys copy and paste the same message to me at least once every two weeks, despite when they first get into contact, I was kind enough to reply by letting them know I’m straight and I wouldn’t entertain the idea of a meet with them.

But I guess they’re hoping one day I change my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You OK Hun?

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Just block them and forget about it, that's what I do"

That's what anyone would do

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By *ohndom2023Man
over a year ago

Hastings/Greenwich


"So

Got a message 2 hours ago with a hi from a very sparse profile...

Followed an hour later with a can you talk

Followed just now with a at least you can reply

...

Can I just vent please that I shouldn't be shamed or made to feel guilty into replying, let alone acknowledge that that that kind of vibe is the last thing that makes you want to reply...

As a woman on this site we can get inundated by so many messages from people who haven't even bothered to read our profile, people who message with the word hi and zero profile and then messages from existing friends it's just hard to even keep up...

Sick of ignorant and rude people...."

Gleefully block then do the block dance of satisfaction after go on about your day as they no longer exist.

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