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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

During a conversation or discussion, are you somebody whom lowers the tone regularly?

In before somebody is "creative and unique", while predictable and "hilariously" makes a comment doing just that.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Oh and there was me thinking this thread was about cunnilingus lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh boy, I’m going dowwwwwwwwwnnnnnnnnnn! Cos you ain’t arounddddddddddddd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think maybe I answered it with that sorry OP

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Oh and there was me thinking this thread was about cunnilingus lol"

Quality grade A click bait

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yip always...though time and place and all that

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

I've learned to keep it internal. Don't say it out loud.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Oh I’m Finbar Saunders personified

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Oh and there was me thinking this thread was about cunnilingus lol

Quality grade A click bait "

Do I get a gold star for effort?? Lol

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think maybe I answered it with that sorry OP "

You are forgiven

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Can't stand negativity love being around people with positive attitudes and a good sense of humour .. otherwise it rubs off on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I wouldn’t say that I lower the tone as such; certainly not in any lewd or uncouth manner at least.

I often do steer conversations off on silly tangents though.

Laughter is the best medicine after all as the colloquialism goes…

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I am committed to a non-hierarchical distribution of tone.

Cos it's like how you take it not just how it's said.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Can't stand negativity love being around people with positive attitudes and a good sense of humour .. otherwise it rubs off on you "
Killjoys!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I can't help myself, in fact everyone in my family does it

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent


"Can't stand negativity love being around people with positive attitudes and a good sense of humour .. otherwise it rubs off on you "

Exactly this.

Unfortunately due to the current situations world wide, conflict and financial problems there isn't too much to smile about and that has a negative effect on everyone.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Can't stand negativity love being around people with positive attitudes and a good sense of humour .. otherwise it rubs off on you

Exactly this.

Unfortunately due to the current situations world wide, conflict and financial problems there isn't too much to smile about and that has a negative effect on everyone. "
? I lost the only close person my best friend who was my family to cancer early this year! Positivity is the only way and humour that helps at times. Sadly war, poverty etc will always exist.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"During a conversation or discussion, are you somebody whom lowers the tone regularly?

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Generally I'll usually lower it to somewhere between Dizzy Rascals 'Bassline Junkie' and Brian Blessed with a sore throat and asthma.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Can't stand negativity love being around people with positive attitudes and a good sense of humour .. otherwise it rubs off on you

Exactly this.

Unfortunately due to the current situations world wide, conflict and financial problems there isn't too much to smile about and that has a negative effect on everyone. "

Extreme/toxic positivity is a mental instability, just as extreme/toxic negativity is. They are both sources of trauma and often coping mechanisms. True stability comes from the balance of the two.

That aside the thread is about lowering the tone, not the mood.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Can't stand negativity love being around people with positive attitudes and a good sense of humour .. otherwise it rubs off on you

Exactly this.

Unfortunately due to the current situations world wide, conflict and financial problems there isn't too much to smile about and that has a negative effect on everyone. "

Completely agree mate so when I'm with certain friends we often talk about serious topics and corruption in the world but we don't class that as depressive that's just discussing intellectual subjects . But when I'm in a group out socialising keep it light and have fun

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent


"Can't stand negativity love being around people with positive attitudes and a good sense of humour .. otherwise it rubs off on you

Exactly this.

Unfortunately due to the current situations world wide, conflict and financial problems there isn't too much to smile about and that has a negative effect on everyone. ? I lost the only close person my best friend who was my family to cancer early this year! Positivity is the only way and humour that helps at times. Sadly war, poverty etc will always exist. "

So sorry for your loss, sincerely. My examples were just that, there are many many things in this word sent to try us and beat us down. Smiling is a very good start.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Can't stand negativity love being around people with positive attitudes and a good sense of humour .. otherwise it rubs off on you

Exactly this.

Unfortunately due to the current situations world wide, conflict and financial problems there isn't too much to smile about and that has a negative effect on everyone. ? I lost the only close person my best friend who was my family to cancer early this year! Positivity is the only way and humour that helps at times. Sadly war, poverty etc will always exist.

So sorry for your loss, sincerely. My examples were just that, there are many many things in this word sent to try us and beat us down. Smiling is a very good start."
Thank you lovely! Always someone worse off, So we just have to be grateful for what we do have and our health. Big smiles and hugs

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Can't stand negativity love being around people with positive attitudes and a good sense of humour .. otherwise it rubs off on you "

What's negativity got to do with lowering the tone?!

Lowering the tone is picking the number 69, when you can choose any number from 1-100. It's singing saucy song lyrics at the colleague who gets the reference. It's the polar opposite of negative!

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Can't stand negativity love being around people with positive attitudes and a good sense of humour .. otherwise it rubs off on you

What's negativity got to do with lowering the tone?!

Lowering the tone is picking the number 69, when you can choose any number from 1-100. It's singing saucy song lyrics at the colleague who gets the reference. It's the polar opposite of negative!"

I may have misread the topic .. my bad

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

And yes, I am the epitome of lowering the tone. It makes work bearable and lubricates those social situations where it's appropriate to be a bit inappropriate. It's a raised eyebrow when you hear certain words/phrases but you can't say something overt.

Yep. Guilty as charged m'lord.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I tend to adopt a mature considered tone to my posts…. The moral high ground and keep my standards and behaviour high. Although one glimpse of tits …. Just saying!!!

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