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By *ml90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Hey

Made a profile a year or so again but never actually used it and completely forgot I had one

Actively started using it 2 weeks ago or so

Any advice or critique on my profile?

Selection / quality of pictures?

My bio?

I’m a little lost and a complete newbie so all input is welcomed

Am I What single women or couples would be interested in looks wise? I know a mental connection is important for most like myself but obviously you catch someone’s eye based on physical attraction

Thanks In advance

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

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Personally we like a bio that’s got a little charisma to it. Otherwise not loads wrong, but always room for improvement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally we like a bio that’s got a little charisma to it. Otherwise not loads wrong, but always room for improvement "

Are you offering a review service

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Honestly, make your profile for yourself, not others.

Put on it what you would want to see on another profile. You won't ever make a profile that pleases everyone else, you won't ever know what somebody else would like.

Having had my profile changing countless times in the past, each iteration has had varied success. Funny thing is what I thought was a good profile had me seeing no success while there were people with next to no detail on theirs but were getting constant attention.

So do what would work for you, not somebody else.

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By *ml90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Personally we like a bio that’s got a little charisma to it. Otherwise not loads wrong, but always room for improvement "

Appreciate it

That’s where I’m definitely struggling I feel it’s a fine line to tread especially when you’re a single guy on this site. Between over sharing and not sharing enough. Cliche but more than charismatic in person. Any advice on how to show charisma on a profile here?

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Personally we like a bio that’s got a little charisma to it. Otherwise not loads wrong, but always room for improvement

Appreciate it

That’s where I’m definitely struggling I feel it’s a fine line to tread especially when you’re a single guy on this site. Between over sharing and not sharing enough. Cliche but more than charismatic in person. Any advice on how to show charisma on a profile here?"

I try to show my personality by having a video of me reciting one of my risque poems about a meet.

I also have a line in my bio about my bedsheets and toilet being as clean as by foreskin and teeth.

Some people probably don't like it but I'm trying to sell who I am!

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By *ml90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Probably not my personal style but clearly working for you so credit where it’s due!

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Probably not my personal style but clearly working for you so credit where it’s due!"

Thank you.

I only started poetry and Shibari after a marriage break up at the age of 50!

I never knew I had such an imaginative streak.

Good luck to you.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

You don't actually say what you're looking for/into. It's a bit vague.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It doesn’t really say much about you…plenty of words and it’s not bad but you don’t say much about you, your likes and also what you can offer.

Inject your personality into your profile.

Your pics are standard guy with a mobile phone in the mirror pics. You’re a good looking guy so you’ll probably be fine but take some pics with the camera on a timer, instead of holding it - it opens up so many more opportunities for better pics.

K

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By *ml90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Makes sense. I’ll make the adjustments and hopefully it works.

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By *ml90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"It doesn’t really say much about you…plenty of words and it’s not bad but you don’t say much about you, your likes and also what you can offer.

Inject your personality into your profile.

Your pics are standard guy with a mobile phone in the mirror pics. You’re a good looking guy so you’ll probably be fine but take some pics with the camera on a timer, instead of holding it - it opens up so many more opportunities for better pics.

K

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By my likes and what I offer do you mean sexually or just in general like every day vanilla pg stuff?

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By *arrior PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'd say that if you are going to have face pics make them a bit friendlier....you look really serious!

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By *ml90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"I'd say that if you are going to have face pics make them a bit friendlier....you look really serious!

Literally pending approval so hopefully be up in the next few minutes

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"It doesn’t really say much about you…plenty of words and it’s not bad but you don’t say much about you, your likes and also what you can offer.

Inject your personality into your profile.

Your pics are standard guy with a mobile phone in the mirror pics. You’re a good looking guy so you’ll probably be fine but take some pics with the camera on a timer, instead of holding it - it opens up so many more opportunities for better pics.

K

By my likes and what I offer do you mean sexually or just in general like every day vanilla pg stuff?"

I’d say both…you’re only saying generic stuff about yourself…tall, dark and handsome - well your pics and height already show that.

You say you’re dominant but respectful - dominant how? You need to expand on things and give people an insight of you and your mind.

Your profile should intrigue.

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By *ml90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"It doesn’t really say much about you…plenty of words and it’s not bad but you don’t say much about you, your likes and also what you can offer.

Inject your personality into your profile.

Your pics are standard guy with a mobile phone in the mirror pics. You’re a good looking guy so you’ll probably be fine but take some pics with the camera on a timer, instead of holding it - it opens up so many more opportunities for better pics.

K

By my likes and what I offer do you mean sexually or just in general like every day vanilla pg stuff?

I’d say both…you’re only saying generic stuff about yourself…tall, dark and handsome - well your pics and height already show that.

You say you’re dominant but respectful - dominant how? You need to expand on things and give people an insight of you and your mind.

Your profile should intrigue.

Made what I feel is gonna be my final edit.

Hope so anyway! Thanks for the advice it’s been more than helpful. Lemme know your thoughts on the update

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By *ml90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Bumping this back up to hopefully get some more insight

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Reads better than the other attempt. More normal/down to earth.

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By *ml90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Reads better than the other attempt. More normal/down to earth."

Thanks appreciate the help and feedback

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