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Your 1st thoughts when you joined fab

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By *oofy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

And has your 1st thoughts changed the longer your here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only change is we realise that it's a lot harder to meet and get a fuck on here than we imagined so we don't really bother now, just visit the forums and head to clubs.

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

Yeah, it calmed down thankfully

My first day here gave me several hundred messages within the first few hours, it was pretty scary and intense, made me back off for a while before coming back when my profile was less new

I think that’s standard for any women new to fab though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we realised this site is better for keeping in contact with people met at clubs as opposed to arranging meets.

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing

When I first came across the site it was WOW

I couldn’t believe the gorgeous people on here

It’s a lot harder actually meeting people but I have been very fortunate to have met some very lovely sexy friends x

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"This will be easy"

I was wrong.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

My 1st thoughts, full of cock pics I'll absolutely hate it.

Now I love fab and just ignore the cocks

Mrs

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I thought every man was insane on here. I had a completly blank profile no pics, bio said fill in later, I was inundated with msgs from men telling me how stunning I was and how much they'd like to meet me hid my profile for a while till I got used to it on here, I no longer think every man is insane on here just some!

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I had no aspirations, because I joined about 2 weeks before lockdown was announced.

Oddly though, I had a better success rate when I really shouldn’t have, compared to now.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Sweet Jesus what am I doing"

And that's been a running theme since joining

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

We were pointed to Fab by people at the club as a good way to keep in touch, which it is. Also faff around on the forums.

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By *ohndom2023Man
over a year ago

Hastings/Greenwich


"I thought every man was insane on here. I had a completly blank profile no pics, bio said fill in later, I was inundated with msgs from men telling me how stunning I was and how much they'd like to meet me hid my profile for a while till I got used to it on here, I no longer think every man is insane on here just some! "

You were right we are all insane.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i was sane when i joined fab now i think ive gone insane,, nah joking its all good fun

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Thought it would be a nice way to meet sane women who wanted way meets for mutual sexy fun. Instead it's a lottery

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"And has your 1st thoughts changed the longer your here?"

Absolutely. Expectations were given a hard reset. Funny when I think back now.

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By *e renard de la campagneMan
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"And has your 1st thoughts changed the longer your here?"

1st thoughts - wow, this will be fun x

still this will be fun, but knowing I can do it all from home, remotely! xx

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Holy shit we are going to fuck a lot of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus H Christ that’s a lot of dick pics.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Blimey. My first thoughts were yes, let's get these dates booked in... I was happily seeing 3 different guys a week

Then I met my longterm fwb and life changed, we settled into a fwb relationship and that has stayed with us for 4 years now

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

My first though was WTF?!

Met someone and then shit at brick at the shite coming through my inbox and was about to delete my account until he taught me how to use the message filters.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

My first thoughts were that no-one was going to chat to a CD on a swinging site with couples and women - especially couples and women. Also that the men wouldn't be interested.

Boy, was I wrong! And the forum is a great place for simply lovely chatting with lovely people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first thought was I hope none of my sisters or mum are on here

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

How inclusive the place was. 9 years later it still is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first thought was I hope none of my sisters or mum are on here "

Are they?

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

This is easier than i thought

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

On my first profile 10-12 years ago I thought it would be possible to meet a lady or couple local or within a 5-10 radius for regular adult fun within 6 months how wrong I was.Now on my second profile almost 6 years old whilst this is still what I am looking for I now know how hard it is so I stick to club , spa , socials and forums hoping to catch someone’s eye if it happens it happens if not so what it’s not the end of the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very shocked at how explicit it was. Thought it wasn’t for me. Didn’t think anyone would like me. Desensitised now. Made me far more open minded and less judgmental.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but my cousin was

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I thought that it would be easy and yes, it have changed and it is harder than I thought. I found the forum early on and I have been using that in the mean time, it is comedy gold

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

I joined looking for my sanity, has anyone seen it been AWOL for 5yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like coming home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg all the photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was overwhelmed and excited.....that changed quickly..now I'm just mostly frustrated .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck me, I'm not putting my card details in this site. It looks like it's from the 90s!

Yeah, I changed my first thoughts

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I thought “Stevie-Boi, you’re gonna be knee deep in clunge within the week”

What a let down!

Took 12 weeks.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

My mum was right, it's full of weirdos just like me and no that hasn't changed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That it was full of people who wanted sex. WRONG.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my heart sank and the sheer desperation of men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't know what to expect and thought I'd not been get looked at.

Loved the idea of it and loved the forums.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Maybe *this* will work."

It hasn't.

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

What have I got to lose.

Time, dealing with all those scary messages from guys.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Overwhelming and not a chance with most of the profiles…… Now I think maybe but still don’t send messages but love the threads..

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By *ryton 123TV/TS
over a year ago

Chatham

I'm more straight then bi but always want to dress up as a girl and wank and suck another mans cock. So join this site. Haven't looked back since. I have a feeling men meeting men is far easier.

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

1st thought.... oh god what am I doing,nobody will take a second look..

Read stories for a while without properly getting on the site.. found some horny and some weird..

Then signed up properly and never looked back...love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though it looked like a butchers window !

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We agreed we both wanted to move forward with our relationship. We joined three sites, all restrictive as ‘free membership’ but enough to not discourage us. One site was dropped another is still free membership and FAB is now paid

We were exited to see where it would go and to see if we would both go through with it and actually have a meet. We applied to go to a Manchester social but a family crisis happened and prevented us from going. Interestingly our only meet since joining didn’t come from a site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left pretty quickly as I felt super intimidated and a little bit scared

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By *idcot58Man
over a year ago

Chepstow

I thought it would be easy to meet and people don't read profile that I can't accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Followed a friend here cos the site we'd met on was changing. Could not believe the number of explicit profile pics, seemed akin to flashing. Still cannot see the point of that.

Did not have high expectations, just wanted to be in touch with that friend. Now met further friends, and got introduced to The Lounge, so like taking the piss on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtf is this place

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Much what I expected really in a good way! X

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By *oofy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

I was like wow...naked women all wanting sex,so I probably messaged everyone....nothing! Then discovered the forums and then I realised what is was about x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my heart sank and the sheer desperation of men.

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this this this ...its frightening...

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