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Who should own the toys?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm naive yes, you don't have to tell me lol

A couple owns toys. They are their toys. A women owns toys for her use. A man owns toys for his use

I have seen profiles and been pm'd previously where a gent will say he has toys for a woman's pleasure that he brings along. My question is

Would you prefer to use your own toys? Is this something that would make you colour flag the gent?

My example is a fella but I'm sure it's a two way situation

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd never use anyone else's toys. I don't know how they clean them (or if) and certain chemicals can cause an allergic reaction in me and it just feels wrong to me which I'm happy to admit is illogical

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

And yes again illogically it does make me wary of the person

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I normally say to guys that I have plenty of toys so don't need anyone else bring anymore toys.

I manly use them on men. X

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would never use toys that a man has. Never know where they've been and in whom.

Will always use my own x

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I wouldn't use anyone else toys.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I would prefer to only use my own vaginal toys.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't own any toys. Never have done. If I'm using toys with a woman they are always hers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this too....with the photographic evidence

Total turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god no- have to be your own!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t want toys that have been up someone else’s fanny rocking up at a sex meet. I don’t care how long they’ve been boiled washed, it’s just rude.

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By *ilkstressWoman
over a year ago

Drasnia

No, I would never use someone else's toys. I don't want to think about where they've been and with how many! I like my own toys.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'm not sharing my lego with no mother ducker.

A

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By *ohndom2023Man
over a year ago

Hastings/Greenwich


"I'm naive yes, you don't have to tell me lol

A couple owns toys. They are their toys. A women owns toys for her use. A man owns toys for his use

I have seen profiles and been pm'd previously where a gent will say he has toys for a woman's pleasure that he brings along. My question is

Would you prefer to use your own toys? Is this something that would make you colour flag the gent?

My example is a fella but I'm sure it's a two way situation"

New relationship, new toys boxed & sealed, then left with the woman whether your time together is for a day or a lifetime.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Toys aren’t for sharing

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

I thought this was about a messy divorce and who gets the toys

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If a guy sends a pic with an array of toys it’s an instant delete. Any toy that you insert should not be shared

K

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I would say that my toys are always clean, but did have to dust off the last two toys I got out as no had asked for sex swing and fucking machine for over 6 months. X

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Its a no. I prefer not to use toys mostly and if I do, they will be mine.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I like and enjoy my toys or a man's cock. I know the history and hygiene of my stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't ever use someone else's toys. I'd assume they weren't clean.

Always use condoms with toys and change the condom if using on a new person.

If some man says he has toys to use on other people I'd find it really weird. Avoid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So if you had agreed to meet someone for the first time after a good set of messages and didn't see any warning signs and verifications had no warning signs and they turned up with a backpack full of toys....

What would your response be? Having had no discussion at all about toys, or 'play activity' it was just a chat.

How would you deal with the situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you had agreed to meet someone for the first time after a good set of messages and didn't see any warning signs and verifications had no warning signs and they turned up with a backpack full of toys....

What would your response be? Having had no discussion at all about toys, or 'play activity' it was just a chat.

How would you deal with the situation?"

If they had verifications showing I wouldn't have met them in the first place.

I would make an excuse and leave if they turned up with a backpack full.

One or two and I'd explain that I don't like toys. I did this recently and it was fine.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I own my own toys and I've no interest I using anyone else's. I do find it off putting when people have pics of all theirs toys they want to use on others on here.There is no way to tell that they would be cleaned right between uses so I have no interest in using others toys.

And if someone turned up with a backpack of toys expecting to use them on me without even mentioning it first I would see that as massive red flag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you had agreed to meet someone for the first time after a good set of messages and didn't see any warning signs and verifications had no warning signs and they turned up with a backpack full of toys....

What would your response be? Having had no discussion at all about toys, or 'play activity' it was just a chat.

How would you deal with the situation?"

Leave

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle


"So if you had agreed to meet someone for the first time after a good set of messages and didn't see any warning signs and verifications had no warning signs and they turned up with a backpack full of toys....

What would your response be? Having had no discussion at all about toys, or 'play activity' it was just a chat.

How would you deal with the situation?"

Strong no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never really been asked to use toys on a meet and don't really own any myself so wouldn't find myself in that situation. If she had tys for herself or wanted to use anything on me (that doesn't involve a strap on up the arse!) I'd be all for it if it enhanced the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never really been asked to use toys on a meet and don't really own any myself so wouldn't find myself in that situation. If she had tys for herself or wanted to use anything on me (that doesn't involve a strap on up the arse!) I'd be all for it if it enhanced the experience "

You had to put that in didn't you and ruin my dreams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally someone’s asked the question

I’ve always said I’ll absolutely never use someone else’s toys!! Doesn’t matter to me if they’ve been bleach washed and spun round the garden on the washing line, they ain’t coming near me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never really been asked to use toys on a meet and don't really own any myself so wouldn't find myself in that situation. If she had tys for herself or wanted to use anything on me (that doesn't involve a strap on up the arse!) I'd be all for it if it enhanced the experience

You had to put that in didn't you and ruin my dreams. "

Well all you would need to do is let me know beforehand

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

And for those women that are bi, is it also a hard no about sharing toys with another woman?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Nobody uses toys on me. Ever.

They are mine to wield and cum over

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

When sharing toys, it makes sense to use a condom on them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sorry, but I wouldn’t trust someone to clean them properly. My own toys or not at all.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sorry, but I wouldn’t trust someone to clean them properly. My own toys or not at all.

Mrs "

Not even if I say the magic "trust me bro" ?!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

God no! I’d never use someone else’s toys!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I'd rather use my own.

Things like rope etc I'm a bit less, it has to be mine but ones that are inserted I'd much rather they were mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sorry, but I wouldn’t trust someone to clean them properly. My own toys or not at all.

Mrs

Not even if I say the magic "trust me bro" ?! "

I mean, if you say that, how could I not trust that. Clearly a reflection of how trustworthy you are

Mrs

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