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Do you ignore threads by people you don’t like?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you wanna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well…you no I don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well…you no I don’t "

Know* wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deliberately post on them just to be annoying.

Yes I am that petty.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Ignore, no. I check them out based on the subject. But I'm less likely to engage than I am of people I like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well…you no I don’t

Know* wtf "

Well played

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I deliberately post on them just to be annoying.

Yes I am that petty.

"

Same

Yolo

Try prove it guys

I’m just nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well…you no I don’t

Know* wtf

Well played"

But we’re pals now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I deliberately post on them just to be annoying.

Yes I am that petty.

"

You’re not that pretty

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"I deliberately post on them just to be annoying.

Yes I am that petty.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well…you no I don’t

Know* wtf

Well played

But we’re pals now "

*paul Rudd meme*

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

I don’t normally notice who posted them till I open it. There’s hardly anyone I dislike here

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I dont give a shit who creates a thread I just reply to the interesting ones.

Sorry historical threads or ones about the perfect breakfast but it ain't gonna work out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I deliberately post on them just to be annoying.

Yes I am that petty.

You’re not that pretty "

I like you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ignore, no. I check them out based on the subject. But I'm less likely to engage than I am of people I like"

Don’t let them win. You can obliterate them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I deliberately post on them just to be annoying.

Yes I am that petty.

You’re not that pretty

I like you"

Omg no… don’t do this People will see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t normally notice who posted them till I open it. There’s hardly anyone I dislike here "

Do you like me?

This is very important to my self esteem

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont give a shit who creates a thread I just reply to the interesting ones.

Sorry historical threads or ones about the perfect breakfast but it ain't gonna work out "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t normally notice who posted them till I open it. There’s hardly anyone I dislike here "

We’re literally like a pretty normal family

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle


"I don’t normally notice who posted them till I open it. There’s hardly anyone I dislike here

Do you like me?

This is very important to my self esteem"

You seem nice from your posts so yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It mostly depends on the topic for me. I'm allowed an opinion even if I don't like the person.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't ignore them but I also don't post on them as they are usually the same type of drivel constantly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah"

So do you like me or not?!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Sometimes yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t normally notice who posted them till I open it. There’s hardly anyone I dislike here

Do you like me?

This is very important to my self esteem

You seem nice from your posts so yes "

That means a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't ignore them but I also don't post on them as they are usually the same type of drivel constantly."

Drivel is drive with an L on the end.

Vroom vroom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It mostly depends on the topic for me. I'm allowed an opinion even if I don't like the person."
you’re so mature and sensible. I would

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Nah

So do you like me or not?!"

I didn't mean to give you a complex

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ll waffle on any thread - I’m not fussy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah

So do you like me or not?!

I didn't mean to give you a complex "

You created me

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Do you wanna "

Nah I don't give two fucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It mostly depends on the topic for me. I'm allowed an opinion even if I don't like the person.

you’re so mature and sensible. I would"

You can

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll waffle on any thread - I’m not fussy! "

Fussy is like pussy but with a f

I’m tryna get in that pussy, Luna ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you wanna

Nah I don't give two fucks "

I also don’t give rounds these days. Once I’ve cum, you’d be lucky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It mostly depends on the topic for me. I'm allowed an opinion even if I don't like the person.

you’re so mature and sensible. I would

You can "
I’d bottom for you

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Nah

So do you like me or not?!

I didn't mean to give you a complex

You created me"

I'm not that old

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Only a few people I generally dislike on here or know they don’t like me. If it’s a subject I’m interested in then I’ll comment no matter what bitchy thing that person may say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It mostly depends on the topic for me. I'm allowed an opinion even if I don't like the person.

you’re so mature and sensible. I would

You can

I’d bottom for you"

I'd use plenty of lube

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I’ll waffle on any thread - I’m not fussy!

Fussy is like pussy but with a f

I’m tryna get in that pussy, Luna ? "

It’ll gobble you up and spit you out like a dehydrated prune Pickle. Are you sure you wanna go there?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Do you wanna

Nah I don't give two fucks

I also don’t give rounds these days. Once I’ve cum, you’d be lucky "

You'd be lucky to get round one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ll waffle on any thread - I’m not fussy!

Fussy is like pussy but with a f

I’m tryna get in that pussy, Luna ?

It’ll gobble you up and spit you out like a dehydrated prune Pickle. Are you sure you wanna go there? "

I like spit. Spit on it for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah

So do you like me or not?!

I didn't mean to give you a complex

You created me

I'm not that old "

When did you get this funny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only a few people I generally dislike on here or know they don’t like me. If it’s a subject I’m interested in then I’ll comment no matter what bitchy thing that person may say. "

Gotta be real at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you wanna

Nah I don't give two fucks

I also don’t give rounds these days. Once I’ve cum, you’d be lucky

You'd be lucky to get round one "

I like my luck these days

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It mostly depends on the topic for me. I'm allowed an opinion even if I don't like the person.

you’re so mature and sensible. I would

You can

I’d bottom for you

I'd use plenty of lube "

Obviously. I’ve seen your schlong

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

No.

I read them and am reminded why I don't like them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No.

I read them and am reminded why I don't like them."

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Do you wanna

Nah I don't give two fucks

I also don’t give rounds these days. Once I’ve cum, you’d be lucky

You'd be lucky to get round one

I like my luck these days "

Get the numbers on the lottery then my fine friend

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you wanna

Nah I don't give two fucks

I also don’t give rounds these days. Once I’ve cum, you’d be lucky

You'd be lucky to get round one

I like my luck these days

Get the numbers on the lottery then my fine friend "

Tell me your phone number and those can be my lucky numbers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes "

Phew. Thank God you’re here

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Ignore, no. I check them out based on the subject. But I'm less likely to engage than I am of people I like"
I noticed not inclusive! But not everyone will like you either.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Yes

Phew. Thank God you’re here"

I made an exception tonight. I’m in a cheeky mood

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Nah. I comment on them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes

Phew. Thank God you’re here

I made an exception tonight. I’m in a cheeky mood "

*faints*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah. I comment on them. "

Ouch

Hey you

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Nah. I comment on them. "
Hahaha

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

Not on purpose, I get ignored in most threads though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not on purpose, I get ignored in most threads though "

Not on my threads, gorgeous.

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London


"Not on purpose, I get ignored in most threads though

Not on my threads, gorgeous. "

That’s very sweet of you

Still waiting for my math lessons

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Not on purpose, I get ignored in most threads though "
Hope i ain't! I try to be inclusive to everyone and manners cost nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not on purpose, I get ignored in most threads though

Not on my threads, gorgeous.

That’s very sweet of you

Still waiting for my math lessons "

Message me to arrange a date

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Just popping in to say 'sometimes'.

Ta ta.

A

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Yes

Phew. Thank God you’re here

I made an exception tonight. I’m in a cheeky mood

*faints*"

* jokes #obvs

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Not people but thread type, it's pure coincidence that they are started by people I don't generally converse with

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Not people but thread type, it's pure coincidence that they are started by people I don't generally converse with "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 20/06/23 21:54:14]"

Whoops, wrong thread

F

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just popping in to say 'sometimes'.

Ta ta.

A"

Come back soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes

Phew. Thank God you’re here

I made an exception tonight. I’m in a cheeky mood

*faints*

* jokes #obvs"

OBVS

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not people but thread type, it's pure coincidence that they are started by people I don't generally converse with "

I love that

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Did someone say something??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Nah

So do you like me or not?!

I didn't mean to give you a complex

You created me

I'm not that old

When did you get this funny"

It's the lack of sex

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

I don't really care who posted the thread, with only two excemptions that obviously not going to share. It's a couple of individuals that I noticed soon after joining their prejudices and lack of compasion for others and I decided I will not post on their threads. There is a third who boasts too much and likes to think that knows it all and I am on the fence with that one currently. Other than that, I post if I have something to say or just for fun

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By *erence IIMan
over a year ago

Irrelevant


"Not people but thread type, it's pure coincidence that they are started by people I don't generally converse with "

Once again I find myself agreeing with you.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

Well no!

But there is nobody on the forums that I dislike!

I am afraid there is not really anyone in the forums I could really say I like or dislike.

I do have a lot of time for the kindness and thoughtfulness a lot of users show in the forums and I do love a lot of the humour.

There is certainly no person I would avoid… there are a few topics I tend to stay away from

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

A thread is a thread not sure who posts it makes any difference but then again there's no one I've fallen out with yet... Is there?

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

.

I don’t care who’s posted it, if I want to comment on the subject I will

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes I do.

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Always the subject, I dont know people on here well enough to judge them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds a bit cliquey to me tbf. So I’ll reply to pretty much anyone

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Sounds a bit cliquey to me tbf. So I’ll reply to pretty much anyone "

If there's someone who's opinions I don't often agree with or find irritating, I'm not going to go in their thread and start arguing or playing devil's advocate. I'll just pass the thread by.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Mostly, yes.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

No, where's the fun in that?

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

The thread subject is the focus not who posted it.given some replies I've read,hounding people with reply after reply,looking for argument/conflict,deliberately misunderstanding a post to get a reaction etc I can see how some would stay away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

no ... i could'nt care less what people think of me and i dont judge others .... we all have opinions and we all have a rights within the rules to express them ... if someone gets pissy over opinions it says more about them than the person that wrote that opinion ...

as long as its not nasty in any way shape or form and is withim site rules and the law then its just an opinion or free speech or what ever you want to call it ... ..#justmyopinion of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t pay enough attention to dislike anyone on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon I should.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If I did that i wouldn’t comment on any threads

The mr

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"If I did that i wouldn’t comment on any threads

The mr "

My heart is broken and it's not even 6am yet.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"If I did that i wouldn’t comment on any threads

The mr

My heart is broken and it's not even 6am yet.

"

Well I do have that effect on people

But don’t stress, you’ve been the recipient of a nice message or two from the games, so I think you’re fully aware you don’t fall into that category.

Heart mended?

The mr

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

No, but I'll keep it under consideration.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"If I did that i wouldn’t comment on any threads

The mr

My heart is broken and it's not even 6am yet.

Well I do have that effect on people

But don’t stress, you’ve been the recipient of a nice message or two from the games, so I think you’re fully aware you don’t fall into that category.

Heart mended?

The mr "

Nope, I'm going to continue milking it for the next few seconds....

And done.

No, I don't Op.

I'm not replying to the poster, more their post if that makes sense. There are a couple I don't tend to but that's more because what they post/the style in which they do it isn't something I'm particularly interested in, not because they're a dickhead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t say I can honestly dislike anyone when all I’ve seen of them are written words, which can be taken way out of context.

If it’s a subject I have an opinion on or feel I can actually share something, I’ll post, if not, I’ll just leave it.

Mrs

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No. I tend to look at the title rather than who posted it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

96 replies.

It might have been funny if there were none

Therapy sessions would have been offered.

I believe admin are looking in to that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"96 replies.

It might have been funny if there were none

Therapy sessions would have been offered.

I believe admin are looking in to that. "

I know I have lots of anxiety and insecurity but I know not *everyone* hates me in here. So zero would’ve been funny but not requiring of an extra therapy session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"96 replies.

It might have been funny if there were none

Therapy sessions would have been offered.

I believe admin are looking in to that.

I know I have lots of anxiety and insecurity but I know not *everyone* hates me in here. So zero would’ve been funny but not requiring of an extra therapy session"

Good sense of humour too. Keep it up.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"No. I tend to look at the title rather than who posted it "

This ^^^ ... I don't dislike anyone, it's more whether it's a thread I can contribute to or some I just read through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally, I respond to the post, not the person.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

If it’s a funny thread then I’ll post even if it’s people that blocked me or I don’t like etc

A thread is bigger than the OP

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I don't really keep track of who I don't like on here.

If I see a thread that piques my interest I'll comment and if I think the subject is boring then I won't.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'm probably posting on threads by people who don't like me more than people I don't like, which amuses me

Em x

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I don’t really take much notice on who started it I just engage in the threads I like

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I can't say i dislike anyone here because i really don't know anyone here. So i post on whatever i fancy (not on whoever i fancy)..

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"No. I tend to look at the title rather than who posted it "

This

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Sometimes it's wiser.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

OK. A serious (for once!) answer.

I've only ever considered myself not liking someone in the forums due to them expressing opinions or making comments I've found seriously offensive, rude or disrespectful.

But I've not felt the need to ignore or avoid them as responding to such statements and challenging those views has (in my mind) contributed to the discussion at hand.

There's only been one person I stopped responding to ever, and that was due to them publicly requesting that I stopped posting on their threads as they didn't wish to engage with me, but even then I still replied to other comments made by other users, which seemed to offend them in some way. They've left now (jumped or pushed, no idea which) and it was an odd experience to me, as it felt a dangerous precedent was being set where people could request a kind of censorship of who could contribute to a discussion.

You don't have to agree with people to engage with them. You don't even have to like them or their views. Avoiding a thread due to who started it is a tad childish in my mind and if it becomes a trend then all you're left with is an echo chamber of people agreeing with eachother and an imbalanced discussion on any subject.

And yes - that even includes the virus and politics forums.....

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes it's wiser."

Oh hello you

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'll be honest yes I do at times.Often i know the thread won't be for me or will descend into chaos.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

You know, I might pay more attention to people posting rather than the original author. That can have more of an impact on tone and content imo.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I don't ignore them but I also don't post on them as they are usually the same type of drivel constantly."

This. The inane subjects

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You know, I might pay more attention to people posting rather than the original author. That can have more of an impact on tone and content imo. "

Oh for sure. FOR SURE.

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By *erence IIMan
over a year ago

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"OK. A serious (for once!) answer.

I've only ever considered myself not liking someone in the forums due to them expressing opinions or making comments I've found seriously offensive, rude or disrespectful.

But I've not felt the need to ignore or avoid them as responding to such statements and challenging those views has (in my mind) contributed to the discussion at hand.

There's only been one person I stopped responding to ever, and that was due to them publicly requesting that I stopped posting on their threads as they didn't wish to engage with me, but even then I still replied to other comments made by other users, which seemed to offend them in some way. They've left now (jumped or pushed, no idea which) and it was an odd experience to me, as it felt a dangerous precedent was being set where people could request a kind of censorship of who could contribute to a discussion.

You don't have to agree with people to engage with them. You don't even have to like them or their views. Avoiding a thread due to who started it is a tad childish in my mind and if it becomes a trend then all you're left with is an echo chamber of people agreeing with eachother and an imbalanced discussion on any subject.

And yes - that even includes the virus and politics forums.....

A"

I'm not sure about your "for once" comment. You often post serious (and will thought out replies.

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