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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tried many things from nude pics to gentleman pics.

Finally thought a dick pic might be bad idea and made a simple account.

I still feel I have missed something on my profile.

Open to suggestions and please be brutally honest with your view on my account.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

You forgot the 'will fill in later'.

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By *uvery30Woman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

You have nothing in your bio?

That would be the first step wright somthing about you and what you might be looking for ect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You dont actually have a profile wheres your bio? What your looking for what you can offer?? 1 pic? No effort made

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I took my time and finished my bio. What kind of pictures would be better?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Actually a really good profile.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Actually a really good profile.

Mrs "

Thanks I also love your pics extremely passionate

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Actually a really good profile.

Mrs

Thanks I also love your pics extremely passionate "

Thank you, I only just saw you asked about pics too, everyone likes such different things, do what your comfortable with, for me teasing pics, full body are preferred anything but close up cock pics.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bang on that, 10/10

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I like your narrative OP. It's a magnum opus looking for a crescendo of potential opportunities.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

How about a 'moody atmospheric, staring down a valley from a balcony, sat on a chair' shot?

A

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's a bit wordy for me... I gave up after the 3rd paragraph

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It’s very elegantly written. One little bit of advice, as I see there appears to be a huge gap that you’ll miss loads of sex from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit wordy for me... I gave up after the 3rd paragraph "

Same, sometimes less is more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tried many things from nude pics to gentleman pics.

Finally thought a dick pic might be bad idea and made a simple account.

I still feel I have missed something on my profile.

Open to suggestions and please be brutally honest with your view on my account.

"

Did you win the Omaze house?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How about a 'moody atmospheric, staring down a valley from a balcony, sat on a chair' shot?

A"
thanks I will take your advice on my next photo shot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tried many things from nude pics to gentleman pics.

Finally thought a dick pic might be bad idea and made a simple account.

I still feel I have missed something on my profile.

Open to suggestions and please be brutally honest with your view on my account.

Did you win the Omaze house? "
No lol. Why?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It’s ok OP. But it doesn’t really tell me anything about you. Like there’s loads of words there, well typed, spelt correctly, which are all good things. But I don’t really get a sense of “you”

I have to be honest I wouldn’t reply.

Hope you find what you’re looking for

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I didn’t feel it says anything about you…it’s well written but more something akin to a romantic novel.

It’s better to read that than most single guys but it needs to feel more personal.

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s ok OP. But it doesn’t really tell me anything about you. Like there’s loads of words there, well typed, spelt correctly, which are all good things. But I don’t really get a sense of “you”

I have to be honest I wouldn’t reply.

Hope you find what you’re looking for "
thanks for honest view.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn’t feel it says anything about you…it’s well written but more something akin to a romantic novel.

It’s better to read that than most single guys but it needs to feel more personal.

K"
I have made changes to some extent and thanks for the suggestions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bang on that, 10/10"
thanks love

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have nothing in your bio?

That would be the first step wright somthing about you and what you might be looking for ect."
what do you think about it now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like spicy chicken as well

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

It has the feel of something that’s copied and pasted off the internet because it’s very vague and doesn’t say anything specific about you.

Also, you say that because you work 5 days a week you need to plan meets well in advance and then 2 sentences later you say that you could be available on-call….unless on-call means something other than what I think it means, you’re completely contradicting yourself there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It has the feel of something that’s copied and pasted off the internet because it’s very vague and doesn’t say anything specific about you.

Also, you say that because you work 5 days a week you need to plan meets well in advance and then 2 sentences later you say that you could be available on-call….unless on-call means something other than what I think it means, you’re completely contradicting yourself there. "
thanks for pointing, I wrote it as joke. I think I need to remove it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like spicy chicken as well"
haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to consider that most on here have children around your age, so that'll be one factor limiting your appeal.

There are hundreds of single men to every one woman on fab.

You need to manage your expectations of the site better

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Really good profile. You are very handsome but your age will work against you for some.

Good luck. I wouldn't change a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tried many things from nude pics to gentleman pics.

Finally thought a dick pic might be bad idea and made a simple account.

I still feel I have missed something on my profile.

Open to suggestions and please be brutally honest with your view on my account.

Did you win the Omaze house?

No lol. Why?"

Your balcony pic looks well posh.

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

I wish I could help but I have the same problem and it makes you doubt yourself

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"You forgot the 'will fill in later'.

"

...well, better pop an edit here because now there's a whole profile; pretttty sneaky OP

Honestly, it's pretty good. Some of the text is maybe a bit surface level, where its pretty to read but I (personally) can't get a feel of you, y'know? But it's good, and profiles are fluid things that you can move around. Real decent start.

...those pics though, pal? Real good. Top fuckin' marks, you look fantastic

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Looks like you sorted your profile. Please send polite messages, instant demanding sex talk is such a turn off unless the woman wants it

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Personally I'm not keen on fb style main avatar, use a sexier pose as us ladies do like some sexual stimulation but keep it classy. Too much brash on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have to consider that most on here have children around your age, so that'll be one factor limiting your appeal.

There are hundreds of single men to every one woman on fab.

You need to manage your expectations of the site better"
yeah I understood. Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really good profile. You are very handsome but your age will work against you for some.

Good luck. I wouldn't change a thing. "
thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tried many things from nude pics to gentleman pics.

Finally thought a dick pic might be bad idea and made a simple account.

I still feel I have missed something on my profile.

Open to suggestions and please be brutally honest with your view on my account.

Did you win the Omaze house?

No lol. Why?

Your balcony pic looks well posh. "
haha thanks love it's back in my home town

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You forgot the 'will fill in later'.

...well, better pop an edit here because now there's a whole profile; pretttty sneaky OP

Honestly, it's pretty good. Some of the text is maybe a bit surface level, where its pretty to read but I (personally) can't get a feel of you, y'know? But it's good, and profiles are fluid things that you can move around. Real decent start.

...those pics though, pal? Real good. Top fuckin' marks, you look fantastic "
thanks I will slowly improve with experience. I might even try to copy your pose haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looks like you sorted your profile. Please send polite messages, instant demanding sex talk is such a turn off unless the woman wants it"
thanks I will keep that in mind what would be the best starting message to start a conversation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like you sorted your profile. Please send polite messages, instant demanding sex talk is such a turn off unless the woman wants it thanks I will keep that in mind what would be the best starting message to start a conversation?"

Will I touch the sides?

And is that a Dyson or a Shark hoover in the background?

They'll either reply or block, kinda works

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I'm not keen on fb style main avatar, use a sexier pose as us ladies do like some sexual stimulation but keep it classy. Too much brash on here"
I am trying to take a picture but do you have any pose in mind that can help me out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looks like you sorted your profile. Please send polite messages, instant demanding sex talk is such a turn off unless the woman wants it thanks I will keep that in mind what would be the best starting message to start a conversation?

Will I touch the sides?

And is that a Dyson or a Shark hoover in the background?

They'll either reply or block, kinda works "
oh great thanks for the tip

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