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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just feeling a bit down but more annoyed been chatting to this girl for a couple weeks now on WhatsApp got chatting originally on this site and I thought she was pretty fun and sound we’d FaceTimed a few times as well had some good chats and we’d been planning to meet up for a social and hangout but fell through a few times things came up as they do but we’d been chatting this weekend and I suggested we’d try this week and she was down liked the idea and we’d been chatting earlier today and earlier tonight I said let’s meet up Tuesday/Wednesday and then a while later checking my WhatsApp and I’d been blocked and I’m just like wow what did I do wrong it’s just annoying when someone is down and happy to chat and meet up with you one minute and then boom the next minute you are blocked it just kinda gets to you a bit ah well guess the ol bottle will keep me company tonight

Sorry bit long winded but just wanted a little rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let it out man.

Lots of people are all chat. But also maybe life got in the way. She may have felt overwhelmed. May have felt like she couldn’t face it or something like that. Be kind to her but more importantly be kind to yourself. It’s ok that it didn’t work out. I’m sure it’s not on you. On to the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let it out man.

Lots of people are all chat. But also maybe life got in the way. She may have felt overwhelmed. May have felt like she couldn’t face it or something like that. Be kind to her but more importantly be kind to yourself. It’s ok that it didn’t work out. I’m sure it’s not on you. On to the next. "

Aww this is really nice

What he said innit ^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Let it out man.

Lots of people are all chat. But also maybe life got in the way. She may have felt overwhelmed. May have felt like she couldn’t face it or something like that. Be kind to her but more importantly be kind to yourself. It’s ok that it didn’t work out. I’m sure it’s not on you. On to the next. "

Yeah it’s just annoying pal would of been pretty sound with a “just not into you anymore” and then get blocked at least it’s something but is what it is

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Truth is hard for a lot of people especially for those who are people pleasers. Blocking is the easy way out. Try not to stew in it.

Just think NEXT.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Truth is hard for a lot of people especially for those who are people pleasers. Blocking is the easy way out. Try not to stew in it.

Just think NEXT."

Yeah I guess I don’t get bothered usually just this one kinda hit a little bit but oh well

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

This happens far too often in the modern world buddy, it's not nice but it's better than meeting and then getting blocked without knowing why.

I'm at the point now where I just expect something to happen, even though I'm completely awesome and there's no way they could find anyone better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This happens far too often in the modern world buddy, it's not nice but it's better than meeting and then getting blocked without knowing why.

I'm at the point now where I just expect something to happen, even though I'm completely awesome and there's no way they could find anyone better

"

I like your way of thinking it’s just when you know or think everything is going really well then it just hits you

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"This happens far too often in the modern world buddy, it's not nice but it's better than meeting and then getting blocked without knowing why.

I'm at the point now where I just expect something to happen, even though I'm completely awesome and there's no way they could find anyone better

I like your way of thinking it’s just when you know or think everything is going really well then it just hits you "

I know the feeling, it sucks completely but you will find someone better I'm sure

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

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"Just feeling a bit down but more annoyed been chatting to this girl for a couple weeks now on WhatsApp got chatting originally on this site and I thought she was pretty fun and sound we’d FaceTimed a few times as well had some good chats and we’d been planning to meet up for a social and hangout but fell through a few times things came up as they do but we’d been chatting this weekend and I suggested we’d try this week and she was down liked the idea and we’d been chatting earlier today and earlier tonight I said let’s meet up Tuesday/Wednesday and then a while later checking my WhatsApp and I’d been blocked and I’m just like wow what did I do wrong it’s just annoying when someone is down and happy to chat and meet up with you one minute and then boom the next minute you are blocked it just kinda gets to you a bit ah well guess the ol bottle will keep me company tonight

Sorry bit long winded but just wanted a little rant

Something similar happened to me a few weeks back with a guy. Chatting loads, getting on really well & then just out of nowhere he stopped opening my messages.

Made me feel pretty shit, couldn’t figure out what I’d done wrong. But you know what, everything happens for a reason. So keep your head up and move on. "

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