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By *anforkinkywomen OP   Man
over a year ago

Barwell

During sex

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By *anforkinkywomen OP   Man
over a year ago

Barwell


"During sex "

And who finds it disgusting

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over a year ago


"During sex

And who finds it disgusting "

Hi. That would be me. I personally find it gross.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

I couldn’t think of nowt worse

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

My partners hate it.

So I'll do it just to make their skin crawl

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

No, it would kill it immediately for me and I’d be out the door faster than a fast thing.

I respect each to their own but to me that’s just too low.

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By *anforkinkywomen OP   Man
over a year ago

Barwell

More people find it sick than hot so far.

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

Not me.

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington


"My partners hate it.

So I'll do it just to make their skin crawl "

It just not funny ...

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I don't mind it.

But I'm perfectly capable of separation between the two meanings and comfortable with the context in which it is used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind it in jest. Only mind it if it’s being done in an attempt to turn me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a DDlg dynamic ... Soooooo

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I like it because my wife likes it. Or Sir, that works just as well.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford


"I'm in a DDlg dynamic ... Soooooo "

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford


"My partners hate it.

So I'll do it just to make their skin crawl "

Brilliant!!!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"My partners hate it.

So I'll do it just to make their skin crawl

It just not funny ..."

Hey, you laughed

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

I did have one former partner that asked for it. It was a new one for me. Really seemed to do something for her only in the right context.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Personally, I find it absolutely abhorrent.

It's a no thank you from me.

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington


"My partners hate it.

So I'll do it just to make their skin crawl

It just not funny ...

Hey, you laughed "

Haha...to be fair your timing and vice acting was on point

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Its just not sexy. At all.

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

Hate it

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London


"I'm in a DDlg dynamic ... Soooooo "

Just as well I am really interested in your culinary skills

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

Once had a lady who when Russ licked her pussy she started to play with her hair and suck her thumb

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By *anforkinkywomen OP   Man
over a year ago

Barwell


"I'm in a DDlg dynamic ... Soooooo "

I hope daddy is fair and not too strict.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I'm in a DDlg dynamic ... Soooooo "

•

Sooooo... we're having Afternoon Tea. I want to see your submissive pinky finger against my domineering teacup.

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

Papi sounds waaaay better.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I don't mind it.

But I'm perfectly capable of separation between the two meanings and comfortable with the context in which it is used. "
F*** me harder daddy kind of context hehe

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Yuk, no.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's actually pretty disturbing for me. Also good girl makes me want to vom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My baby girl

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

God no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it really disgusting. Never understood why any guy would like it tbh.

My daughters call me daddy, my wife calls me sir

Hahahaha I can dream! She calls me dickhead 99.9% of the time

Mr

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

I'd put up with that. She looks fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder.

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder."

People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder.

People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle."

So you agree that because you call someone daddy it doesn’t mean you want to ride your father?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only by my children

It's my personal preference don't kink shame me.

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder.

People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle.

So you agree that because you call someone daddy it doesn’t mean you want to ride your father?"

Not really...but I think it's bit fucked up personally.

The only two scenarios presented here when someone calls a man Daddy, is when speaking to your actual father or shagging a guy who likes to be called Daddy.

The OP asked for opinions. People are sharing theirs. If you comfortable doing what you're doing then there's no reason to get annoyed with folk who don't like the term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder."

Hey babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder."

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By *nigmaschild300Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

Fab is like 99% vanilla

Don't expect many to get it.

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By *otbeefandonionsCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

All the nopes. If someone asked me to call them daddy during sex, or if we were playing with a couple and it was used, it would be an immediate end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daddy. Sir or Master works here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t care what anyone says and try’s to normalise it. I think it’s disturbing

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’d run a mile. And I don’t run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d run a mile. And I don’t run "

How many guys call you Daddy Nora?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I’d run a mile. And I don’t run

How many guys call you Daddy Nora? "

Everyone knows I’m the Daddy Woody

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"During sex "

My dad he loves it...

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"During sex

My dad he loves it..."

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"During sex

My dad he loves it...

"

He's a naughty man Nora

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It would totally kill the mood if a guy were to say "call me daddy"...now Sir on the other hand is totally hot, especially when in uniform

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Always find it deeply disturbing that said I've still got a child under 5 who calls me daddy, don't know how the term got sexualised and pushed like it's normal behaviour but it's really not, had this debate before on Scottish forums and was told "I just didn't get it and was kink shaming" it's like I got it the term that a child uses for there father has been sexualised and people can't find it disturbing without being classed as shaming

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"Always find it deeply disturbing that said I've still got a child under 5 who calls me daddy, don't know how the term got sexualised and pushed like it's normal behaviour but it's really not, had this debate before on Scottish forums and was told "I just didn't get it and was kink shaming" it's like I got it the term that a child uses for there father has been sexualised and people can't find it disturbing without being classed as shaming "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d run a mile. And I don’t run

How many guys call you Daddy Nora?

Everyone knows I’m the Daddy Woody"

Boom!!!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Never had it. Probably would let's face it, this is me I'm talking about here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never had it. Probably would let's face it, this is me I'm talking about here "

I’ll do it for ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to

Now I have a son who obviously calls my husband daddy

So now I don’t use it with my husband

Maybe someone else, but probs not

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By *ungle VIP 1Man
over a year ago

colchester

Wouldn't bother me at all, quite like the idea plus if its what she enjoys and likes im game

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

It’s spelt the American way of daddie for the fetish group much like the newer term mommy

Each to their own they are not hurting anyone behind doors with how they play.

I have a younger than me female fuck buddy that calls me mommy / futa mom of her own accord at times . I just find it whatever and mostly don’t register it but she gets off on it. she does draw anime/ futa / hentai so I guess it’s a thing that group are into .

Now in porn it’s just a current buzz word for marketing that is popular until it gets replaced with the next fad . Or Visa card decide to add it to the naughty list of banned terns. (Most likely )

Can’t say I find it sexy though more just comical sounding and well comedy and sex go hand in hand

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By *icker20.Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Make me feel old and pay pig...lol

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By *immonieWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I like it because my wife likes it. Or Sir, that works just as well. "

Ufh sir, I’m gonna try that one out

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By *omething4theweekend2023Couple
over a year ago

newcastle


"During sex "

I always call my owner either Sir or daddy depending on our play dynamic at the time.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Always find it deeply disturbing that said I've still got a child under 5 who calls me daddy, don't know how the term got sexualised and pushed like it's normal behaviour but it's really not, had this debate before on Scottish forums and was told "I just didn't get it and was kink shaming" it's like I got it the term that a child uses for there father has been sexualised and people can't find it disturbing without being classed as shaming "

The call of those who don't like difference or challenge - " Oh you just don't get it! How dare you shame me."

If they can't legitimise what they believe the call someone out.

It'd be much healthier for them to KNOW and OWN the reasons why they do what they do whoever they are and whatever it is what they do do do do you remember.....

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Never had it. Probably would let's face it, this is me I'm talking about here

I’ll do it for ya"

I bet you would

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"During sex

I always call my owner either Sir or daddy depending on our play dynamic at the time."

Yeah see this is hot. Sorry everyone I'm on team daddy now she convinced me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Would kill the mood for me.

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By *omething4theweekend2023Couple
over a year ago

newcastle

We don’t use it in a DDLG way as it it’s not related to age play. We use it as a sign of respect which is based on mutual love and care. But we are in a dom sub dynamic so it’s part of the power exchange for us.

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By *omething4theweekend2023Couple
over a year ago

newcastle


"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder."

It’s a term that works for us.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I like it. Yeah, I know it's not a popular opinion and all that, I don't really care. Blame it on the daddy issues, the clichéd millennial a la Fleabag.

It's not something I'd use with everyone, not every dynamic suits it. Actually, it's rare I find someone where it works.

It's not even in a ddlg way, it's just hot to say "fuck me harder daddy" when I'm gripping on to the bedsheets and him fucking me harder results in me coming around his cock and him filling me.

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By *omething4theweekend2023Couple
over a year ago

newcastle


"I like it. Yeah, I know it's not a popular opinion and all that, I don't really care. Blame it on the daddy issues, the clichéd millennial a la Fleabag.

It's not something I'd use with everyone, not every dynamic suits it. Actually, it's rare I find someone where it works.

It's not even in a ddlg way, it's just hot to say "fuck me harder daddy" when I'm gripping on to the bedsheets and him fucking me harder results in me coming around his cock and him filling me. "

Girl after our own hearts

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"During sex

And who finds it disgusting "

There really was no need for that. Disgusting people find lots of things disgusting , it’s just how they are

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I've had it explained to me thusly.

I am deeply submissive and it is my way of expressing that I feel cared for and safe in your hands. It's nothing to do with being a child and I don't want age-play.

In that context I found I am fine with it. I'm primal so those feelings being present allow me to let go.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"I like it. Yeah, I know it's not a popular opinion and all that, I don't really care. Blame it on the daddy issues, the clichéd millennial a la Fleabag.

It's not something I'd use with everyone, not every dynamic suits it. Actually, it's rare I find someone where it works.

It's not even in a ddlg way, it's just hot to say "fuck me harder daddy" when I'm gripping on to the bedsheets and him fucking me harder results in me coming around his cock and him filling me. "

yeah like that.

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By *avid 50Man
over a year ago

kendal

When chatting to girls on here, who are more than 15 years younger than me I don’t mind being referred to as daddy and occasionally a younger man might use it in conversation, but it is a bit offputting when a guy the same age refers to you as daddy, especially when you’re not even talking about anything sexual

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Always find it deeply disturbing that said I've still got a child under 5 who calls me daddy, don't know how the term got sexualised and pushed like it's normal behaviour but it's really not, had this debate before on Scottish forums and was told "I just didn't get it and was kink shaming" it's like I got it the term that a child uses for there father has been sexualised and people can't find it disturbing without being classed as shaming "

The word "daddy" was used to refer to older or protective figures. As early as 1681, sex workers used it to refer to their pimp or trusted older clients. Was even used to refer to a highwayman in 1679.

It is essentially a protector and caregiver role.

Plenty of words out there that share meanings despite the context being very different.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.


"Always find it deeply disturbing that said I've still got a child under 5 who calls me daddy, don't know how the term got sexualised and pushed like it's normal behaviour but it's really not, had this debate before on Scottish forums and was told "I just didn't get it and was kink shaming" it's like I got it the term that a child uses for there father has been sexualised and people can't find it disturbing without being classed as shaming

The word "daddy" was used to refer to older or protective figures. As early as 1681, sex workers used it to refer to their pimp or trusted older clients. Was even used to refer to a highwayman in 1679.

It is essentially a protector and caregiver role.

Plenty of words out there that share meanings despite the context being very different."

Actually a great detailed informative reply hasn't changed my stance on the subject but genuinely thanks for a little insight into It, it's maybe a little less weird now however I would argue that a lot of people don't know these meanings and just like being called "daddy".

For me it will always be a term used from a child towards there father

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London


"Always find it deeply disturbing that said I've still got a child under 5 who calls me daddy, don't know how the term got sexualised and pushed like it's normal behaviour but it's really not, had this debate before on Scottish forums and was told "I just didn't get it and was kink shaming" it's like I got it the term that a child uses for there father has been sexualised and people can't find it disturbing without being classed as shaming

The word "daddy" was used to refer to older or protective figures. As early as 1681, sex workers used it to refer to their pimp or trusted older clients. Was even used to refer to a highwayman in 1679.

It is essentially a protector and caregiver role.

Plenty of words out there that share meanings despite the context being very different."

Very much this. It has all to do with the meaning behind it and little with being the same word .

I understand the concept is not for everyone and you might attribute it to “Daddy” issues if you will, but I find it a really sexy and concise way of calling a nurturing and protective kind of Dom.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

And don't get me started on that whole "schoolgirl" fetish thing

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Instant turn off

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

If Dave from the checkouts called me it I wouldn't be impressed, I've had partners call me that and sir.

Some people understand it, some really don't and they kink shame

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Someone called me daddy once, they were asked to leave. I did allow them to get dressed first.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"It's actually pretty disturbing for me. Also good girl makes me want to vom."

Agree. And when guys want to call me mummy... Just no.

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

I think the issue I have with 'daddy' is that it is tainted by association with 'sugar daddy' and the implication of money changing hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's actually pretty disturbing for me. Also good girl makes me want to vom.

Agree. And when guys want to call me mummy... Just no. "

But when Rio from Good Girls called Elizabeth ‘mama’ everyone was melting on the socials

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Always find it deeply disturbing that said I've still got a child under 5 who calls me daddy, don't know how the term got sexualised and pushed like it's normal behaviour but it's really not, had this debate before on Scottish forums and was told "I just didn't get it and was kink shaming" it's like I got it the term that a child uses for there father has been sexualised and people can't find it disturbing without being classed as shaming

The word "daddy" was used to refer to older or protective figures. As early as 1681, sex workers used it to refer to their pimp or trusted older clients. Was even used to refer to a highwayman in 1679.

It is essentially a protector and caregiver role.

Plenty of words out there that share meanings despite the context being very different.

Actually a great detailed informative reply hasn't changed my stance on the subject but genuinely thanks for a little insight into It, it's maybe a little less weird now however I would argue that a lot of people don't know these meanings and just like being called "daddy".

For me it will always be a term used from a child towards there father "

Oh I agree, there will be people out there that do have sinister motives for enjoying it. The majority of the community that like it don't have these motives though regardless of knowing its origins or not - it's still used to refer to the guardian and protector role in their dynamic.

Some will simply do it for the taboo of the whole thing. "we shouldn't but we will" is a kink in and of itself.

For me, I have no personal connection to the word.

I'm just wired differently and can separate the meanings of words based on their context use and not their surface meaning. I view things from all angles, in and out of a vaccum.

Plus my ex is an American of Puerto Rican heritage, and used to call me Papi so even less of a personal parental connection to that word. Which was used as a term of love and endearment in both sexual and none sexual situations, as somebody she cared for, and felt protected and supported by.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often.

Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I hate it

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Big red flag for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never tried it myself although I am 33 so not really the older daddy age if you like , but I wouldn't be surprised if a few people who have said it's disgusting actually do like it but are saying it's disgusting to follow the crowd , a hell of lot of people get called daddy than mummy in my opinion

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've been called Mommy (sexually) a couple of times and it has a mixed effect. Taboo-wrong and wrong-wrong all at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me!!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often.

Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place

"

Tartan skirt and call me sir?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often.

Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place

Tartan skirt and call me sir? "

Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often.

Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place

Tartan skirt and call me sir?

Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up "

Your arse would be raw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am ok with it totally. I have been in DDlg and I have been called Sir. It is what your partner is comfortable with.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often.

Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place

Tartan skirt and call me sir?

Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up

Your arse would be raw "

And you call that punishment?

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hate it

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often.

Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place

Tartan skirt and call me sir?

Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up

Your arse would be raw

And you call that punishment? "

It all depends how you look at it

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often.

Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place

Tartan skirt and call me sir?

Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up

Your arse would be raw

And you call that punishment?

It all depends how you look at it "

Funishment is how I'd look at it

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often.

Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place

Tartan skirt and call me sir?

Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up

Your arse would be raw

And you call that punishment?

It all depends how you look at it

Funishment is how I'd look at it "

Gold star for using a big word

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often.

Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place

"

I find the school uniforms creepy to be perfectly honest. Anything which is sexualising a child's behaviour or a characteristic doesn't sit comfortably with me at all.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often.

Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place

I find the school uniforms creepy to be perfectly honest. Anything which is sexualising a child's behaviour or a characteristic doesn't sit comfortably with me at all."

You are certainly not alone in that thought

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often.

Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place

I find the school uniforms creepy to be perfectly honest. Anything which is sexualising a child's behaviour or a characteristic doesn't sit comfortably with me at all."

Though her point is that some people (most people to be fair) are very selective in what they deem appropriate. And that spans across the entire kink community.

We all do it in someway, but some are very hypocritical yet very stoic and stubborn of their views.

You can't like that because reasons, but this thing I like is perfectly acceptable, despite a few similar connecting links.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often.

Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place

Tartan skirt and call me sir?

Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up

Your arse would be raw

And you call that punishment?

It all depends how you look at it

Funishment is how I'd look at it

Gold star for using a big word "

You are an idiot

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often.

Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place

Tartan skirt and call me sir?

Lol you wouldn't know what hit you. I'm a brat with a capital B. Probably wear my over the knee tartan skirt just to wind you up

Your arse would be raw

And you call that punishment?

It all depends how you look at it

Funishment is how I'd look at it

Gold star for using a big word

You are an idiot "

Watch your language young lady

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By *omething4theweekend2023Couple
over a year ago

newcastle

Why do these things always get hijacked. Maybe start a voyeur online flirting thread.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Having a ponder as you do at lunch. I understand some of the views about the usage of the word daddy and or mammy as things only ones children should use. But that's not strictly true as a poster mentioned the older usage of the words as caregivers.

But we do use it in other context, we use Dad bod to describe a particular physique. I know many vanilla as vanilla can be friends who call their friends sexy mamma on their social platforms. So I do query if these words are that limited in their use?

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

I have been asked a few times to call guys “daddy”

It is not something that I have any interest in. That is not to say I didn’t do it.

I am sun and I like to please, but I find it strange and not in the least sexy.

I do not go in for the schoolgirl (tarty schoolgirl.. whatever) look either. I don’t find that in the least bit sexy either!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Why do these things always get hijacked. Maybe start a voyeur online flirting thread."

Can post whatever one likes from flirting to criticism as long as they adhere to the forum rules. I happen to like mixing serious thoughts with a bit of silliness thrown in.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I have been asked a few times to call guys “daddy”

It is not something that I have any interest in. That is not to say I didn’t do it.

I am sun and I like to please, but I find it strange and not in the least sexy.

I do not go in for the schoolgirl (tarty schoolgirl.. whatever) look either. I don’t find that in the least bit sexy either!

"

Just because you're a sub and you are people pleaser, doesn't mean you should do things you're not comfortable with. It's not fun unless everyone is enjoying themselves

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Why do these things always get hijacked. Maybe start a voyeur online flirting thread."

Damn those people talking on a social thread, how rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a ponder as you do at lunch. I understand some of the views about the usage of the word daddy and or mammy as things only ones children should use. But that's not strictly true as a poster mentioned the older usage of the words as caregivers.

But we do use it in other context, we use Dad bod to describe a particular physique. I know many vanilla as vanilla can be friends who call their friends sexy mamma on their social platforms. So I do query if these words are that limited in their use? "

They’re not. I agree. But I think it’s mostly people that are called those things or call their parents those things that have an issue. I think it’s just the sexualising of it that people don’t like. I sometimes feel that way about the way naughty and I’ve said on here before it’s why I don’t use the word play to describe sex.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I like to be called god for when they say oh my god its a versatile phrase too works equally if you farted in the lift as it does in the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its wierd that its just a legal way of people living out illegal sexual fantasys with make believe age play its the same wierdness that surrounds rap* play its not a kink im into and i do wonder how many of the people who are into these eventually slip into the illegal side when the make believe version stops giving them what they want.

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By *omething4theweekend2023Couple
over a year ago

newcastle


"Its wierd that its just a legal way of people living out illegal sexual fantasys with make believe age play its the same wierdness that surrounds rap* play its not a kink im into and i do wonder how many of the people who are into these eventually slip into the illegal side when the make believe version stops giving them what they want. "

Tell us how you don’t understand kink without telling us you don’t understand kink.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Its wierd that its just a legal way of people living out illegal sexual fantasys with make believe age play its the same wierdness that surrounds rap* play its not a kink im into and i do wonder how many of the people who are into these eventually slip into the illegal side when the make believe version stops giving them what they want. "

About the same number that like playing gta and then decide to beat someone to death with a dildo before stealing their car and running people over I reckon

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Having a ponder as you do at lunch. I understand some of the views about the usage of the word daddy and or mammy as things only ones children should use. But that's not strictly true as a poster mentioned the older usage of the words as caregivers.

But we do use it in other context, we use Dad bod to describe a particular physique. I know many vanilla as vanilla can be friends who call their friends sexy mamma on their social platforms. So I do query if these words are that limited in their use?

They’re not. I agree. But I think it’s mostly people that are called those things or call their parents those things that have an issue. I think it’s just the sexualising of it that people don’t like. I sometimes feel that way about the way naughty and I’ve said on here before it’s why I don’t use the word play to describe sex. "

It's an odd one because some are happy to say a Dad bod is sexy or sexy mamma, which is using the parental words in a sexual context. As I've mentioned I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't use the word Daddy. But I use the dynamics name as it's easier for people to understand what I'm into. I totally understand why it's not for everyone though.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham


"I have been asked a few times to call guys “daddy”

It is not something that I have any interest in. That is not to say I didn’t do it.

I am sun and I like to please, but I find it strange and not in the least sexy.

I do not go in for the schoolgirl (tarty schoolgirl.. whatever) look either. I don’t find that in the least bit sexy either!

Just because you're a sub and you are people pleaser, doesn't mean you should do things you're not comfortable with. It's not fun unless everyone is enjoying themselves "

Hmmm call me twisted, but part of the thing that kind of turns me on about being a sub is being made to do things that I find uncomfortable.. things that I feel are humiliating and that make me feel slightly ( only slightly ) disgusted in myself. There are definitely lines I will not cross… I like to look back at a situation I have been involved with and feel that the guy of guys…. ( or guys and girls! ) would look back on it and think “ that Linda was a total slut / whore / dirty girl… or what ever .

I have no interest in walking away feeling as though anyone else was abused or mistreated

I don’t know if that really explains or makes anything clear?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I have been asked a few times to call guys “daddy”

It is not something that I have any interest in. That is not to say I didn’t do it.

I am sun and I like to please, but I find it strange and not in the least sexy.

I do not go in for the schoolgirl (tarty schoolgirl.. whatever) look either. I don’t find that in the least bit sexy either!

Just because you're a sub and you are people pleaser, doesn't mean you should do things you're not comfortable with. It's not fun unless everyone is enjoying themselves

Hmmm call me twisted, but part of the thing that kind of turns me on about being a sub is being made to do things that I find uncomfortable.. things that I feel are humiliating and that make me feel slightly ( only slightly ) disgusted in myself. There are definitely lines I will not cross… I like to look back at a situation I have been involved with and feel that the guy of guys…. ( or guys and girls! ) would look back on it and think “ that Linda was a total slut / whore / dirty girl… or what ever .

I have no interest in walking away feeling as though anyone else was abused or mistreated

I don’t know if that really explains or makes anything clear? "

Got you completely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my reasons for not liking it - mainly due to many years fighting through the family courts over my children to be a part of their lives and many false allegations thrown at me.

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By *bwlover1971Man
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Just wrong and repulsive

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Its wierd that its just a legal way of people living out illegal sexual fantasys with make believe age play its the same wierdness that surrounds rap* play its not a kink im into and i do wonder how many of the people who are into these eventually slip into the illegal side when the make believe version stops giving them what they want.

About the same number that like playing gta and then decide to beat someone to death with a dildo before stealing their car and running people over I reckon "

That is fun to be fair. The GTA version of course... I'm yet to, in my 39 years of living to ever have the urge to live that out in reality. Still time I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find it disgusting but it would be a turn off

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

No

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Its wierd that its just a legal way of people living out illegal sexual fantasys with make believe age play its the same wierdness that surrounds rap* play its not a kink im into and i do wonder how many of the people who are into these eventually slip into the illegal side when the make believe version stops giving them what they want.

About the same number that like playing gta and then decide to beat someone to death with a dildo before stealing their car and running people over I reckon

That is fun to be fair. The GTA version of course... I'm yet to, in my 39 years of living to ever have the urge to live that out in reality. Still time I guess"

It is and gta 6 needs to be here already

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

Daddy, sir, baby, good girl all a bit creepy.

I don’t even like it when shop assistants call me sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder.

People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle.

So you agree that because you call someone daddy it doesn’t mean you want to ride your father?

Not really...but I think it's bit fucked up personally.

The only two scenarios presented here when someone calls a man Daddy, is when speaking to your actual father or shagging a guy who likes to be called Daddy.

The OP asked for opinions. People are sharing theirs. If you comfortable doing what you're doing then there's no reason to get annoyed with folk who don't like the term."

Where did I get annoyed?

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder.

People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle.

So you agree that because you call someone daddy it doesn’t mean you want to ride your father?

Not really...but I think it's bit fucked up personally.

The only two scenarios presented here when someone calls a man Daddy, is when speaking to your actual father or shagging a guy who likes to be called Daddy.

The OP asked for opinions. People are sharing theirs. If you comfortable doing what you're doing then there's no reason to get annoyed with folk who don't like the term.

Where did I get annoyed? "

Apologies, should have clarified that the annoyed part was more a general observation about the way some folk get very defensive on these threads. Wasn't directed specifically at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is just wrong in all types of ways! It's offensive to the one getting asked it during sex, I think it shows no respect for that person and basically taking the piss out of them. And what if that person had issues with their dad in the past or something?I think it's pretty sick and low if you ask me. And not to be offensive in anyway, but it is more of a American teenage boys thing. To make themselves feel macho to their mate's and that. You probably get some women who might like it over here, but I would wait for them to ask you to say it first if you was going to say it. I wouldn't feel right saying it lol it would definitely come out wrong if they ask me to say it if they really wanted it. It would definitely feel weird then after saying it with no confidence in your voice lol but my advice, just don't say it at all

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

We’re in a full time DDLG relationship. It fits in our life perfectly and as you’d expect, what others think of it is their business, but it doesn’t bother us as equally as we don’t force that part of our relationship on others.

It’s but one part of the Dominant / Submissive relationship we have, others including nurturing encouragement, unconditional support and occasional punishments where my expectations are not met..

The form those take can be soft to very hard, but at all times it’s consensual and strictly stops when a safe word is uttered and even when one might have been misheard. With the emphasis on safety and a space to grow, we find the use of the term fits seamlessly into our language.

Hades

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Shirley Crabtree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder.

People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle.

So you agree that because you call someone daddy it doesn’t mean you want to ride your father?

Not really...but I think it's bit fucked up personally.

The only two scenarios presented here when someone calls a man Daddy, is when speaking to your actual father or shagging a guy who likes to be called Daddy.

The OP asked for opinions. People are sharing theirs. If you comfortable doing what you're doing then there's no reason to get annoyed with folk who don't like the term.

Where did I get annoyed?

Apologies, should have clarified that the annoyed part was more a general observation about the way some folk get very defensive on these threads. Wasn't directed specifically at you "

No worries

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By *r PantyMan
over a year ago

Morpeth

Certainly not my cup of tea, but each to their own.

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder.

People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle.

So you agree that because you call someone daddy it doesn’t mean you want to ride your father?

Not really...but I think it's bit fucked up personally.

The only two scenarios presented here when someone calls a man Daddy, is when speaking to your actual father or shagging a guy who likes to be called Daddy.

The OP asked for opinions. People are sharing theirs. If you comfortable doing what you're doing then there's no reason to get annoyed with folk who don't like the term.

Where did I get annoyed?

Apologies, should have clarified that the annoyed part was more a general observation about the way some folk get very defensive on these threads. Wasn't directed specifically at you

No worries "

So we cool then Da?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got to love this conversation that crops up every so often.

Lots of people find it disturbing etc. I'm in a DDlg dynamic but I don't actually use the word daddy. So is that creepy or not? Who knows and I don't personally care. But in some agreement with someone above, that if calling someone Daddy is weird then school girl outfits must also be, as it's sexualisation of a word or a child's outfit. But it generally seems more ok to dress like a sexy school girl but not use the daddy. The world is a strange place

I find the school uniforms creepy to be perfectly honest. Anything which is sexualising a child's behaviour or a characteristic doesn't sit comfortably with me at all."
yeah I agree with you about the school uniforms. Especially how they get them to dress for school in China and Japan and that. That's definitely a bit iffy I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder.

People can call their pets baby too and, for the vast majority, it's not because they have a burning desire to be baw deep in their labradoodle.

So you agree that because you call someone daddy it doesn’t mean you want to ride your father?

Not really...but I think it's bit fucked up personally.

The only two scenarios presented here when someone calls a man Daddy, is when speaking to your actual father or shagging a guy who likes to be called Daddy.

The OP asked for opinions. People are sharing theirs. If you comfortable doing what you're doing then there's no reason to get annoyed with folk who don't like the term.

Where did I get annoyed?

Apologies, should have clarified that the annoyed part was more a general observation about the way some folk get very defensive on these threads. Wasn't directed specifically at you

No worries

So we cool then Da? "

Of course baby

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Always find it deeply disturbing that said I've still got a child under 5 who calls me daddy, don't know how the term got sexualised and pushed like it's normal behaviour but it's really not, had this debate before on Scottish forums and was told "I just didn't get it and was kink shaming" it's like I got it the term that a child uses for there father has been sexualised and people can't find it disturbing without being classed as shaming "
"Context" being the key word.

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over a year ago


"Once had a lady who when Russ licked her pussy she started to play with her hair and suck her thumb "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once had a lady who when Russ licked her pussy she started to play with her hair and suck her thumb "

There was a formite on here a while ago who had a conservative personality on the forums and was totally different via pm…

Anyway we got chatting off site and he would ask me to send videos of me sucking my thumb and calling him daddy in a baby voice while I play with myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah makes me feel a certain way

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"Yeah makes me feel a certain way"

Like a big dick or it makes your dick big?

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny


"Once had a lady who when Russ licked her pussy she started to play with her hair and suck her thumb

"

That suggest childhood issues to me.

Didn’t it make you feel uneasy?

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny


"Once had a lady who when Russ licked her pussy she started to play with her hair and suck her thumb

There was a formite on here a while ago who had a conservative personality on the forums and was totally different via pm…

Anyway we got chatting off site and he would ask me to send videos of me sucking my thumb and calling him daddy in a baby voice while I play with myself"

How did you feel about that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is something of the night about threads like this. Deeply unsettling.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"It's actually pretty disturbing for me. Also good girl makes me want to vom.

Agree. And when guys want to call me mummy... Just no.

But when Rio from Good Girls called Elizabeth ‘mama’ everyone was melting on the socials "

I have no idea what that means

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Sir is fine with me.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"There is something of the night about threads like this. Deeply unsettling."

Depends how judgmental you're really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And don't get me started on that whole "schoolgirl" fetish thing "

Oh please. Pray tell? Get it off your chest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow so much kink-sham*ng. The Daddy/Mummy/lg/lb dynamic is primarily driven by the little's needs. It's not about "children" it is adults in little space and wanting to be coddled and praised and looked after and wanting to please Daddy/Mummy.

A horny little who is totally lost in her world and growling something like "Mmmm yes Daddy, pound my tight little pussy..." can definitely level things up a notch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is something of the night about threads like this. Deeply unsettling.

Depends how judgmental you're really "

It’s an opinion and one I am entitled to express?

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"Wow so much kink-sham*ng. The Daddy/Mummy/lg/lb dynamic is primarily driven by the little's needs. It's not about "children" it is adults in little space and wanting to be coddled and praised and looked after and wanting to please Daddy/Mummy.

A horny little who is totally lost in her world and growling something like "Mmmm yes Daddy, pound my tight little pussy..." can definitely level things up a notch "

Why is it kink shaming? The OP asked for opinions on an open forum and got them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow so much kink-sham*ng. The Daddy/Mummy/lg/lb dynamic is primarily driven by the little's needs. It's not about "children" it is adults in little space and wanting to be coddled and praised and looked after and wanting to please Daddy/Mummy.

A horny little who is totally lost in her world and growling something like "Mmmm yes Daddy, pound my tight little pussy..." can definitely level things up a notch

Why is it kink shaming? The OP asked for opinions on an open forum and got them. "

No he didn’t.

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By *ackblack44Man
over a year ago

Newmarket


"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder."

Agreed, why is baby ok but daddy disgusting, it’s an interesting one.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder.

Agreed, why is baby ok but daddy disgusting, it’s an interesting one."

Both are awful.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.


"We both like it. I bet 99% of the people that find it disgusting see no problem with calling their sexual partners babe or baby which if you think about it is a lot weirder.

Agreed, why is baby ok but daddy disgusting, it’s an interesting one."

Cant lie this sounds like major protecting

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Why is it judgemental or kink shaming if you really don’t like something and think it’s weird or creepy. Should we all lie for fear of offending? It bothers me not one bit if someone thinks anything I do is weird. We’re all different. For example - the daddy thing - creepy as fuck. Sexy schoolgirl outfits - hot as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why….. For example - the daddy thing - creepy as fuck. Sexy schoolgirl outfits - hot as fuck. "

So is the Daddy scenario creepy, or the person/peaple doing it? In your opinion?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Why….. For example - the daddy thing - creepy as fuck. Sexy schoolgirl outfits - hot as fuck.

So is the Daddy scenario creepy, or the person/peaple doing it? In your opinion?"

The scenario

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"Wow so much kink-sham*ng. The Daddy/Mummy/lg/lb dynamic is primarily driven by the little's needs. It's not about "children" it is adults in little space and wanting to be coddled and praised and looked after and wanting to please Daddy/Mummy.

A horny little who is totally lost in her world and growling something like "Mmmm yes Daddy, pound my tight little pussy..." can definitely level things up a notch

Why is it kink shaming? The OP asked for opinions on an open forum and got them.

No he didn’t. "

Look at the first 2 posts.

"Who likes it?"

"And who finds it disgusting?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why….. For example - the daddy thing - creepy as fuck. Sexy schoolgirl outfits - hot as fuck.

So is the Daddy scenario creepy, or the person/peaple doing it? In your opinion?

The scenario "

Yeh. So sometimes when I read or listen to people, I don’t hear that, I read or hear people trying to make someone feel weird about like I g something someone doesn’t u deter and how that can be a thing.

I don’t understand loads. But when people explain to to me, I started to think of it not being weird or creepy, but just odd for me. As for me to be doing it would make me feel strange. If that makes sense.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I was in a Ddlg relationship with a woman 21 years younger than me, and we both enjoyed her calling me Daddy.

Especially when she wore pigtails…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow so much kink-sham*ng. The Daddy/Mummy/lg/lb dynamic is primarily driven by the little's needs. It's not about "children" it is adults in little space and wanting to be coddled and praised and looked after and wanting to please Daddy/Mummy.

A horny little who is totally lost in her world and growling something like "Mmmm yes Daddy, pound my tight little pussy..." can definitely level things up a notch

Why is it kink shaming? The OP asked for opinions on an open forum and got them.

No he didn’t.

Look at the first 2 posts.

"Who likes it?"

"And who finds it disgusting?"

"

Ah. I missed the second post. Sorry.

*stupidly I read the title and assumed that’s what the thread was about.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Yeah makes me feel a certain way

Like a big dick or it makes your dick big?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in a Ddlg relationship with a woman 21 years younger than me, and we both enjoyed her calling me Daddy.

Especially when she wore pigtails….. "

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Wow so much kink-sham*ng. The Daddy/Mummy/lg/lb dynamic is primarily driven by the little's needs. It's not about "children" it is adults in little space and wanting to be coddled and praised and looked after and wanting to please Daddy/Mummy.

A horny little who is totally lost in her world and growling something like "Mmmm yes Daddy, pound my tight little pussy..." can definitely level things up a notch

Why is it kink shaming? The OP asked for opinions on an open forum and got them.

No he didn’t.

Look at the first 2 posts.

"Who likes it?"

"And who finds it disgusting?"

Ah. I missed the second post. Sorry.

*stupidly I read the title and assumed that’s what the thread was about. "

Typical daddy thing to do

Bet you never read instructions either Woody

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By *inger_the_NinjaMan
over a year ago

Frome

When people just come straight out with it and call you Daddy in their first message, it's a huge no from me. Not a fan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"….

No he didn’t.

Look at the first 2 posts.

"Who likes it?"

"And who finds it disgusting?"

Ah. I missed the second post. Sorry.

*stupidly I read the title and assumed that’s what the thread was about.

Typical daddy thing to do

Bet you never read instructions either Woody "

That paper I use to light the fire??

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"….

No he didn’t.

Look at the first 2 posts.

"Who likes it?"

"And who finds it disgusting?"

Ah. I missed the second post. Sorry.

*stupidly I read the title and assumed that’s what the thread was about.

Typical daddy thing to do

Bet you never read instructions either Woody

That paper I use to light the fire?? "

That will be the stuff

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"Wow so much kink-sham*ng. The Daddy/Mummy/lg/lb dynamic is primarily driven by the little's needs. It's not about "children" it is adults in little space and wanting to be coddled and praised and looked after and wanting to please Daddy/Mummy.

A horny little who is totally lost in her world and growling something like "Mmmm yes Daddy, pound my tight little pussy..." can definitely level things up a notch

Why is it kink shaming? The OP asked for opinions on an open forum and got them.

No he didn’t.

Look at the first 2 posts.

"Who likes it?"

"And who finds it disgusting?"

Ah. I missed the second post. Sorry.

*stupidly I read the title and assumed that’s what the thread was about.

Typical daddy thing to do

Bet you never read instructions either Woody "

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently


"When people just come straight out with it and call you Daddy in their first message, it's a huge no from me. Not a fan. "

Do you prefer that they wait until they're asking for their pocket money?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"….

No he didn’t.

Look at the first 2 posts.

"Who likes it?"

"And who finds it disgusting?"

Ah. I missed the second post. Sorry.

*stupidly I read the title and assumed that’s what the thread was about.

Typical daddy thing to do

Bet you never read instructions either Woody

That paper I use to light the fire??

That will be the stuff "

At least I know what you are talking about.

But no, I don’t need instructions.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"….

No he didn’t.

Look at the first 2 posts.

"Who likes it?"

"And who finds it disgusting?"

Ah. I missed the second post. Sorry.

*stupidly I read the title and assumed that’s what the thread was about.

Typical daddy thing to do

Bet you never read instructions either Woody

That paper I use to light the fire??

That will be the stuff

At least I know what you are talking about.

But no, I don’t need instructions. "

I don't need them either Woody, I'm the daddy

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I do sometimes think people assume all DDlg look and play the same way. I don't use the word Daddy, I certainly do not dress up as a child. But I do like having rules but I'm not into harsh or strict Dom's so I prefer the more nurturing and softer approach. However, I do like to play up and be a bit of a brat on occasion. These all fit into the DDlg dynamic, but I'm neither a child nor do I want to look like one. If someone who didn't know our dynamic watched us they wouldn't even know. It's more on the aftercare afterwards for us. Creepy motherfuckers we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"….

No he didn’t.

Look at the first 2 posts.

"Who likes it?"

"And who finds it disgusting?"

Ah. I missed the second post. Sorry.

*stupidly I read the title and assumed that’s what the thread was about.

Typical daddy thing to do

Bet you never read instructions either Woody

That paper I use to light the fire??

That will be the stuff

At least I know what you are talking about.

But no, I don’t need instructions.

I don't need them either Woody, I'm the daddy "

This that say they are, normally aren’t…

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"….

No he didn’t.

Look at the first 2 posts.

"Who likes it?"

"And who finds it disgusting?"

Ah. I missed the second post. Sorry.

*stupidly I read the title and assumed that’s what the thread was about.

Typical daddy thing to do

Bet you never read instructions either Woody

That paper I use to light the fire??

That will be the stuff

At least I know what you are talking about.

But no, I don’t need instructions.

I don't need them either Woody, I'm the daddy

This that say they are, normally aren’t… "

Not just me that's said it

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