FabSwingers.com forum: Seduction

By *oggone OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Has it happened to you? Did someone woo you and win you with their words and actions?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I yearn for someone to seduce me. Sighs.

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By *ohndom2023Man
over a year ago

Hastings/Greenwich

Yearning, burning for his touch as you look deep into his eyes

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yearning, burning for his touch as you look deep into his eyes"

I mean, to be really pursued. Intentional, thoughtful and specific to me. That feeling that someone sees me. Wants *me*. That they put effort into this.

I sometimes feel it’s me that carries the art of seduction in my couplings! I wonder if I’m worth the effort - possibly not!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Yes, someone much younger than me seduced me earlier this year.

I thought seductresses were extinct. I was wrong.

I usually do the woo'ing; it's my modus operandi.

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By *oggone OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

"Yearning, burning for his touch as you look deep into his eyes

I mean, to be really pursued. Intentional, thoughtful and specific to me. That feeling that someone sees me. Wants *me*. That they put effort into this.

I sometimes feel it’s me that carries the art of seduction in my couplings! I wonder if I’m worth the effort - possibly not!

Pursued but not prey? They want to know you and stimulate you. There's no question that you're the focus of their attention.

It's very individual isn't it, not mills & boon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No! It's a bloody disgrace!

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yearning, burning for his touch as you look deep into his eyes

I mean, to be really pursued. Intentional, thoughtful and specific to me. That feeling that someone sees me. Wants *me*. That they put effort into this.

I sometimes feel it’s me that carries the art of seduction in my couplings! I wonder if I’m worth the effort - possibly not!

Pursued but not prey? They want to know you and stimulate you. There's no question that you're the focus of their attention.

It's very individual isn't it, not mills & boon."

Yes, exactly. I think I’m more seduced by my male platonic best friends than by anyone I’m having sex with!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I have been laughed into bed by an Irish man with twinkling eyes. Does that count?

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By *icker20.Man
over a year ago

Swindon

I wish be seduced as I'm shy person on the start..

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

If someone trued to seduce me I would assume they were just being nice. I can be utterly oblivious to being seduced or propositioned.

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By *e renard de la campagneMan
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over

I’d love to be woo’d for sure xx

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By *ohndom2023Man
over a year ago

Hastings/Greenwich

"Yearning, burning for his touch as you look deep into his eyes

I mean, to be really pursued. Intentional, thoughtful and specific to me. That feeling that someone sees me. Wants *me*. That they put effort into this.

I sometimes feel it’s me that carries the art of seduction in my couplings! I wonder if I’m worth the effort - possibly not!

Seems so difficult to understand why they would not want to make you there world and want you to feel special.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yearning, burning for his touch as you look deep into his eyes

I mean, to be really pursued. Intentional, thoughtful and specific to me. That feeling that someone sees me. Wants *me*. That they put effort into this.

I sometimes feel it’s me that carries the art of seduction in my couplings! I wonder if I’m worth the effort - possibly not!

Seems so difficult to understand why they would not want to make you there world and want you to feel special."

Ahhh, that’s kind. But sadly not my experience. Destined to be alone.

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By *ohndom2023Man
over a year ago

Hastings/Greenwich

Destiny changes by the moment.

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By *oggone OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

"I have been laughed into bed by an Irish man with twinkling eyes. Does that count?"

That counts. It's whatever works for you. Some else might have just thought him funny and no more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I've been lucky to experience it a few times. Always different. One person was supposed to be a complete no but it happened in ways I doubt I'll ever forget.

I love seduction and tease and chemistry that is undeniable

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Would a rose by any other name smell so sweet......

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By *oggone OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

"Yes. I've been lucky to experience it a few times. Always different. One person was supposed to be a complete no but it happened in ways I doubt I'll ever forget.

I love seduction and tease and chemistry that is undeniable "

And you allow yourself to be seduced?

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

There's someone at the moment who's wooing me. I've not given in yet ....

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By *karussin22Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Who wouldn’t want to be seduced??

It’s an amazing experience on either side, when successful, from a guys perspective, being seduced is an incredibly flattering and exciting change of pace, but the seduction of someone is also an enormous pleasure in itself

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I do deeply appreciate a woman who can seduce me.

Alas it is all to rare.

It appears to be a dying art.

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By *oggone OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

"There's someone at the moment who's wooing me. I've not given in yet ...."

yet

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Can't say I've ever been seduced... sigh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I've been lucky to experience it a few times. Always different. One person was supposed to be a complete no but it happened in ways I doubt I'll ever forget.

I love seduction and tease and chemistry that is undeniable

And you allow yourself to be seduced?"

I don't think it's about allowing myself to be. I don't wake up in the morning and think, yes, I'll allow myself to be seduces.

It's about getting lost in the moments and just going with it. Leaning into whatever happens. Sure, I might on occasion have thought, oh I'm in trouble here but, what incredible trouble it was

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By *oggone OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

"Yes. I've been lucky to experience it a few times. Always different. One person was supposed to be a complete no but it happened in ways I doubt I'll ever forget.

I love seduction and tease and chemistry that is undeniable

And you allow yourself to be seduced?

I don't think it's about allowing myself to be. I don't wake up in the morning and think, yes, I'll allow myself to be seduces.

It's about getting lost in the moments and just going with it. Leaning into whatever happens. Sure, I might on occasion have thought, oh I'm in trouble here but, what incredible trouble it was

By leaning in and going with the moment aren't you allowing yourself to be seduced or are you already decided to see where it takes you?

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

No one would want to anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sarcasm is the way to my heart.

That and beards and tattoos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to see them try. ..

Not really, I’d like to see someone try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Nor has anyone tried to.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No, I'm way too upfront for that

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I've actually had several guys try to seduce me on Fab in the last few months. I suspect because my profile states that I'm not meeting, some guys think they can get me into bed by upping their charm game.

I've had offers of dinner; holding hands in romantic settings while I'm being kissed; being taken clubbing (normie clubs). I've been told I'll be taken shopping to buy sexy clothes; be treated to a stay in a nice hotel (I wonder what we'd do there?). I've had my health and happiness sincerely asked after. I've been offered relationships as an exclusive girlfriend.

Lol!!

I actually have quite enjoyed it, even if it's transparently bs aimed at getting me flat on my back.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I suppose seduce and bribe could be used interchangeably in my case.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I've actually had several guys try to seduce me on Fab in the last few months. I suspect because my profile states that I'm not meeting, some guys think they can get me into bed by upping their charm game.

Lol!!

I actually have quite enjoyed it, even if it's transparently bs aimed at getting me flat on my back.

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If all of those aforementioned enticing offers came landing at your door, no one would be more pleased than I, dårling.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Seduced or love bombed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened to me I don't think although I'm so oblivious sometimes if they did try I might think they were taking the mick

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Lol!!

I actually have quite enjoyed it, even if it's transparently bs aimed at getting me flat on my back.

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If all of those aforementioned enticing offers came landing at your door, no one would be more pleased than I, dårling."

Oh, my darling Nerø, no one could possibly beat your charm and wonderful turn of phrase

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By *rs D.Woman
over a year ago

Tyne And Wear

I wish

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By *oggone OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

"Seduced or love bombed?

You think they're the same thing?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Seduced or love bombed?

You think they're the same thing?"

On places like here, absolutely

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No. I find the more people try to woo me the faster I run in the other direction!

I say run, I mean power walk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I find the more people try to woo me the faster I run in the other direction!

I say run, I mean power walk."

Power walk with me on a lead.

Ooh did I say that out loud?

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By *oggone OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

"Seduced or love bombed?

You think they're the same thing?

On places like here, absolutely "

Love bombing is manipulation possibly a precursor to abuse. Seduction is persuasion or enticement. The seduced knows what happening and they consent. Whereas love bombing is intended to overwhelm the target.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, suppose l'm not in those situations where it happens or can happen

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

Nope. But I probably wouldn't notice if someone tried to.

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