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"I wouldn't say my body is a work of art and I think anyone who say it would be a little arrogant. If I'm having sex with someone though and they've complimented your body throughout, then I find it easy being naked around them as it gives me such a buzz of self confidence. I don't think I could be the same in a naturist beach or club though. Finally, the heels are a great tease but I want them firmly off during sex " I’m very comfortable with his body ^ | |||
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"I'm not at all comfortable in my own skin, it's a little alien at the moment but I am slowly learning to accept it. I love heals but I think Id need some sexy lingerie cover up too. Mrs " I hope your journey towards body acceptance continues - it's easy for some but less so for others isn't it? Lingerie is fantastic for covering up, I've realised I've never been naked in front of someone bar heels. It's going to be erm... interesting. | |||
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"I'd say it's a work of art as I use it for a tattoo canvas. The rest maybe not. I don't mind being naked though " Ah of course! A canvas; I love that description so much. | |||
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"I hate my body, I feel 1000% more confident/comfortable in lingerie than naked. Even with people I am having sex with it takes me a little time to get comfortable being naked around them. But men always want you naked as soon as physically possible " I understand your self confidence issues and fully appreciate that you might not feel comfortable naked straight away. However, if a guy wants to see you naked as soon as possible, it's because he finds your body sexy as fuck | |||
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"I hate my body, I feel 1000% more confident/comfortable in lingerie than naked. Even with people I am having sex with it takes me a little time to get comfortable being naked around them. But men always want you naked as soon as physically possible I understand your self confidence issues and fully appreciate that you might not feel comfortable naked straight away. However, if a guy wants to see you naked as soon as possible, it's because he finds your body sexy as fuck " thank you for the Monday morning boost You are of course correct, sometimes it's hard to drill that into my brain. | |||
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"I hate my body, I feel 1000% more confident/comfortable in lingerie than naked. Even with people I am having sex with it takes me a little time to get comfortable being naked around them. But men always want you naked as soon as physically possible I understand your self confidence issues and fully appreciate that you might not feel comfortable naked straight away. However, if a guy wants to see you naked as soon as possible, it's because he finds your body sexy as fuck thank you for the Monday morning boost You are of course correct, sometimes it's hard to drill that into my brain. " You're more than welcome and no pressure to do it though! I'm just speaking from experience be a use lingerie is a nice tease, but always want women completely naked as I like my hands to wander and love the feel of touch. | |||
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"I love being naked around people I’m comfortable with (anyone I’m doing the sex with). I hate my body with a passion. Wish it looked different. It’s disgusting. (Don’t need disagreement) Heels are not sexy to me so I wouldn’t like a woman in nothing but heels. It’s like nothing but socks. " Hush you its lovely. | |||
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"I guess to some people our bodies are a work of art. It's all in the eye of the beholder I suppose. I'm kind of similar to Estella in the sense I hate my body but I've reached a point now where I'm like fuck what anyone thinks, this is my body and if someone doesn't like it then who gives a shit. I would struggle to get completely naked with someone new unless I felt comfortable around them and knew them well. I hate my breasts especially, but I'm more comfortable these days and don't obsess over the fact that I'm very soft, wobbly and I have a belly. At one stage, I would have hid all that away and let nobody close enough to see what lies beneath, but now I kind of just roll with it. I don't mind heels but as someone who's on the heavier side they aren't super comfortable and I like a more stable and block type of heel as the delicate ones do not suit my little chunky legs. " I'd kiss you all over, not during the time of the month but all other times I would | |||
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"I guess to some people our bodies are a work of art. It's all in the eye of the beholder I suppose. I'm kind of similar to Estella in the sense I hate my body but I've reached a point now where I'm like fuck what anyone thinks, this is my body and if someone doesn't like it then who gives a shit. I would struggle to get completely naked with someone new unless I felt comfortable around them and knew them well. I hate my breasts especially, but I'm more comfortable these days and don't obsess over the fact that I'm very soft, wobbly and I have a belly. At one stage, I would have hid all that away and let nobody close enough to see what lies beneath, but now I kind of just roll with it. I don't mind heels but as someone who's on the heavier side they aren't super comfortable and I like a more stable and block type of heel as the delicate ones do not suit my little chunky legs. " Awww lovely, I'm sorry to hear that. Body confidence can really be a bitch but glad you feel better than you did and hope you continue to realize that those who want to get close to you probably can't wait to see you completely naked | |||
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"I’m totally comfortable being naked around strangers, can’t say I’m “confident” in how I look but I generally don’t care. C is pretty much the opposite. She’s not shy in any way but she’s not body confident and couldn’t be naked around strangers right off the bat. Even at the clubs she needs a bit of time to get comfortable and then dress down and then get naked. Mr " Body neutrality is a great thing in my mind. Not giving a fuck, not overthinking. All a win. Club dress down is something that intrigues me, does being around so many different shaped and sized people build confidence or do you compare a bit more? I'm not sure. You as in the general you! | |||
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"CFNX always. I can't walk in heels." X? I'm sorry, I don't know what you mean! CFNM can be a lot of fun. | |||
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"I wouldn't say my body is a work of art and I think anyone who say it would be a little arrogant. If I'm having sex with someone though and they've complimented your body throughout, then I find it easy being naked around them as it gives me such a buzz of self confidence. I don't think I could be the same in a naturist beach or club though. Finally, the heels are a great tease but I want them firmly off during sex " Oh Joe! It was a snazzy header, nothing more. Well, that's a lie. Truth be told I'm borrowing it from a message. Edited. :D Have you never been to a club? Someone who really enjoys your body during sex is such a rush. And confidence boost, yes! Although it's one of the few times I'll blush and that's annoying. | |||
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"I'm kinda over that stage of my life where I critise every part of me. Yes I have hang ups and yes there's parts I don't like but I now have self acceptance which makes me feel better about myself. All our bodies are different but they have one thing in common, they are real and that's more sexy to me than the so called 'perfect ideal'." I like your erm... more sensible posts? All bodies are real, the disparaging comments towards one type to try and win favour with another is eyeroll inducing but that's another thread. | |||
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"Oh Joe! It was a snazzy header, nothing more. Well, that's a lie. Truth be told I'm borrowing it from a message. Edited. :D Have you never been to a club? Someone who really enjoys your body during sex is such a rush. And confidence boost, yes! Although it's one of the few times I'll blush and that's annoying. " Oh good, in that case it's a shame Michaelangelo isn't alive today to sculpt me in all my perfection Not a dress down club, but it's on my to do list as I'd like to see how I'd feel in one. It's annoying when someone makes you blush isn't it? but I absolutely love and can feel on top of the world after | |||
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"Is it? How comfortable are you with your body? Are you happy being naked around people - in a sexual way or a platonic way? Even the first time you're with someone - do you get a bit nervous? Also, completely random question obviously - do you like women wearing nothing but heels? Women, do you enjoy it?" Second part first as its easier. I don’t mind it, as long as they come off when required. Mainly because I don’t need a heel in the eye, groin or leg, and also clubs don’t like heels on the beds. As for the first part. I think most people see flaws in themselves that others may not, so confidence can be lacking at times. However, if people want to judge you based purely on how you look and not how you are, fuck em they aren’t worth the spoons. I have good days and bad. A lot is based on who I am with and where I am. | |||
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"I wouldn't say my body is a work of art and I think anyone who say it would be a little arrogant. If I'm having sex with someone though and they've complimented your body throughout, then I find it easy being naked around them as it gives me such a buzz of self confidence. I don't think I could be the same in a naturist beach or club though. Finally, the heels are a great tease but I want them firmly off during sex " I woulden't say my body is a work of art, more a work in progress. And I dont think I'm being arrogant for saying this. Just proud of my achievements in life. I've lost 7st in 12 months and started to add muscle tone, Ive carried life, had a c-section and key hole surgery twice. I see my scars, strech marks, new muscles, imperfection/perfections on my body and they each tell a story. I've learned to love accept myself as I am. I will strive to improve myself, but at the same time, love what I have. I'm a naturist and it's really helped me to be ok with my body. Recomend you try it too. As for heels, I'm more about comfort over hight lol. They dont stay on long. | |||
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" I'm not uber-body confident but I'm not 'body reserved' either. " Nero's summed it up for me. My body is fine; it does the job, even if I like some bits of it more than others. I'm confident enough that it's not "lights out before top off" and I'm more than happy to get changed at the gym etc, but I'm also not a "naked at every opportunity" guy either. I guess it's context; I'm definitely not an exhibitionist. | |||
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"CFNX always. I can't walk in heels. X? I'm sorry, I don't know what you mean! CFNM can be a lot of fun." Sorry X = M or F or ? (Non binary etc) | |||
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"Is it? How comfortable are you with your body? Are you happy being naked around people - in a sexual way or a platonic way? Even the first time you're with someone - do you get a bit nervous? Also, completely random question obviously - do you like women wearing nothing but heels? Women, do you enjoy it?" I would like to say mine has some great art is that what you meant | |||
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"I'm not at all comfortable in my own skin, it's a little alien at the moment but I am slowly learning to accept it. I love heals but I think Id need some sexy lingerie cover up too. Mrs I hope your journey towards body acceptance continues - it's easy for some but less so for others isn't it? Lingerie is fantastic for covering up, I've realised I've never been naked in front of someone bar heels. It's going to be erm... interesting. " Good luck, I'm sure you'll look stunning. We are all our own worst critics I'm hoping to brave an outdoor photoshoot soon that's way out my comfort zone but I'm looking forward to it. I think if I knew what clothing/lingere suited my current size id maybe be more accepting but that's taking some figuring out. Mrs | |||
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"I wouldn't say my body is a work of art and I think anyone who say it would be a little arrogant. If I'm having sex with someone though and they've complimented your body throughout, then I find it easy being naked around them as it gives me such a buzz of self confidence. I don't think I could be the same in a naturist beach or club though. Finally, the heels are a great tease but I want them firmly off during sex I’m very comfortable with his body ^" Me too lol | |||
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"I love being naked around people I’m comfortable with (anyone I’m doing the sex with). I hate my body with a passion. Wish it looked different. It’s disgusting. (Don’t need disagreement) Heels are not sexy to me so I wouldn’t like a woman in nothing but heels. It’s like nothing but socks. " Can't wear heels anymore. I'm a trainers/flats/sandals/no shoes kinda gal | |||
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"Is it? How comfortable are you with your body? Are you happy being naked around people - in a sexual way or a platonic way? Even the first time you're with someone - do you get a bit nervous? Also, completely random question obviously - do you like women wearing nothing but heels? Women, do you enjoy it? I would like to say mine has some great art is that what you meant " I certainly does | |||
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