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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sooo! I hope you all had a lovely weekend x

It’s Monday tomorrow and I’m hoping you can all give me a little motivation. A speech, a pic, a pep talk, sone advice, or hell: just talk dirty! lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've cancelled Monday.

You are welcome.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'd talk dirty... but I'm way too innocent for that.

Can I offer a cup of hot chocolate and a cookie if you Monday hard?

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

Do sharks complain about Monday?

No, They Are Up Early. Biting Stuff, Chasing Sh*t, Being Scary - Reminding Everyone They're a F*cking Shark".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've cancelled Monday.

You are welcome."

Perfect - thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd talk dirty... but I'm way too innocent for that.

Can I offer a cup of hot chocolate and a cookie if you Monday hard?"

You know I love to dunk!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I'd talk dirty... but I'm way too innocent for that.

Can I offer a cup of hot chocolate and a cookie if you Monday hard?

You know I love to dunk! "

Come dunk then. Assuming you work hard all day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do sharks complain about Monday?

No, They Are Up Early. Biting Stuff, Chasing Sh*t, Being Scary - Reminding Everyone They're a F*cking Shark". "

Is that what you do on your Monday? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do sharks complain about Monday?

No, They Are Up Early. Biting Stuff, Chasing Sh*t, Being Scary - Reminding Everyone They're a F*cking Shark". "

Love that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd talk dirty... but I'm way too innocent for that.

Can I offer a cup of hot chocolate and a cookie if you Monday hard?

You know I love to dunk!

Come dunk then. Assuming you work hard all day."

We can do both at the same time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate fucking Mondays

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do sharks complain about Monday?

No, They Are Up Early. Biting Stuff, Chasing Sh*t, Being Scary - Reminding Everyone They're a F*cking Shark".

Love that "

And now I have the motivation to hit the gym!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate fucking Mondays "

Lol - that’s no kinda motivation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate fucking Mondays

Lol - that’s no kinda motivation! "

I speak the truth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Monday is just a day closer to the weekend

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

When people ask how do you get the motivation to go kick boxing 5 days a week my response is always I don't have motivation I have discipline I do what i know I have to do not what I feel like doing at the time

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

People saying they hate Mondays.. baffles me.. some kid in a hospital battling leukaemia swishing to see Monday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People saying they hate Mondays.. baffles me.. some kid in a hospital battling leukaemia swishing to see Monday "

False equivalence is alive and well

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

Get in and get it over with.

Another day closer to 48 hours of freedom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People saying they hate Mondays.. baffles me.. some kid in a hospital battling leukaemia swishing to see Monday "

That's different .. knowbody wants to see a child suffering

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People saying they hate Mondays.. baffles me.. some kid in a hospital battling leukaemia swishing to see Monday

False equivalence is alive and well"

Don’t mess with him - he does kick-boxing five times a week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People saying they hate Mondays.. baffles me.. some kid in a hospital battling leukaemia swishing to see Monday "

By this theory there would only be one person alive in the world that had the right to complain as there would always be someone else worse off.

I call dibs!

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"Do sharks complain about Monday?

No, They Are Up Early. Biting Stuff, Chasing Sh*t, Being Scary - Reminding Everyone They're a F*cking Shark".

Is that what you do on your Monday? x"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People saying they hate Mondays.. baffles me.. some kid in a hospital battling leukaemia swishing to see Monday

False equivalence is alive and well

Don’t mess with him - he does kick-boxing five times a week! "

Meh, I could take him

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By *929Man
over a year ago

northumberland

Move your favourite body part to train at the gym to a Monday then Mondays become exciting !

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"People saying they hate Mondays.. baffles me.. some kid in a hospital battling leukaemia swishing to see Monday

False equivalence is alive and well

Don’t mess with him - he does kick-boxing five times a week!

Meh, I could take him"

Haha love it

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"People saying they hate Mondays.. baffles me.. some kid in a hospital battling leukaemia swishing to see Monday

False equivalence is alive and well"

Point of it is which should of been obvious is just keep a positive attitude be grateful for everyday.. would you prefer 10 million but not guaranteed tomorrow or know you've got tomorrow and leave the money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People saying they hate Mondays.. baffles me.. some kid in a hospital battling leukaemia swishing to see Monday

False equivalence is alive and well

Don’t mess with him - he does kick-boxing five times a week!

Meh, I could take him

Haha love it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People saying they hate Mondays.. baffles me.. some kid in a hospital battling leukaemia swishing to see Monday

False equivalence is alive and well

Point of it is which should of been obvious is just keep a positive attitude be grateful for everyday.. would you prefer 10 million but not guaranteed tomorrow or know you've got tomorrow and leave the money "

I could some pretty epic shit with 10million to be fair. But seriously, I get what you mean, the only drawback of that though is it risks undermining the problems of others just because others have it worse and can encourage a "suck it up" mentality which isn't good for anyone's mental health if they always have to pretend to be positive if that makes sense?

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"People saying they hate Mondays.. baffles me.. some kid in a hospital battling leukaemia swishing to see Monday

False equivalence is alive and well

Point of it is which should of been obvious is just keep a positive attitude be grateful for everyday.. would you prefer 10 million but not guaranteed tomorrow or know you've got tomorrow and leave the money

I could some pretty epic shit with 10million to be fair. But seriously, I get what you mean, the only drawback of that though is it risks undermining the problems of others just because others have it worse and can encourage a "suck it up" mentality which isn't good for anyone's mental health if they always have to pretend to be positive if that makes sense?"

I hear you mate but the fact of the matter is anyone who has pulled themselves out of a shit situation have had the mentally of fuck it let's keep going push on no matter how hard. Others may prefer to wallow in self pity.. whatever works for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People saying they hate Mondays.. baffles me.. some kid in a hospital battling leukaemia swishing to see Monday

False equivalence is alive and well

Point of it is which should of been obvious is just keep a positive attitude be grateful for everyday.. would you prefer 10 million but not guaranteed tomorrow or know you've got tomorrow and leave the money

I could some pretty epic shit with 10million to be fair. But seriously, I get what you mean, the only drawback of that though is it risks undermining the problems of others just because others have it worse and can encourage a "suck it up" mentality which isn't good for anyone's mental health if they always have to pretend to be positive if that makes sense?

I hear you mate but the fact of the matter is anyone who has pulled themselves out of a shit situation have had the mentally of fuck it let's keep going push on no matter how hard. Others may prefer to wallow in self pity.. whatever works for you "

I don't think it's self pity. It's more owning your feelings and realizing what you're in and then you can take steps to resolve it. Pushing through with a fake positive attitude is unsustainable in my opinion and akin to putting a plaster over a gaping wound.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"People saying they hate Mondays.. baffles me.. some kid in a hospital battling leukaemia swishing to see Monday

False equivalence is alive and well

Point of it is which should of been obvious is just keep a positive attitude be grateful for everyday.. would you prefer 10 million but not guaranteed tomorrow or know you've got tomorrow and leave the money

I could some pretty epic shit with 10million to be fair. But seriously, I get what you mean, the only drawback of that though is it risks undermining the problems of others just because others have it worse and can encourage a "suck it up" mentality which isn't good for anyone's mental health if they always have to pretend to be positive if that makes sense?

I hear you mate but the fact of the matter is anyone who has pulled themselves out of a shit situation have had the mentally of fuck it let's keep going push on no matter how hard. Others may prefer to wallow in self pity.. whatever works for you

I don't think it's self pity. It's more owning your feelings and realizing what you're in and then you can take steps to resolve it. Pushing through with a fake positive attitude is unsustainable in my opinion and akin to putting a plaster over a gaping wound."

Hell yeah you have to accept what went wrong or accept your fucked up whatever the case may be then build yourself back up bigger and better instead of thinking about it over and over and letting it defeat you .. I never said push through being fake and lying to yourself never said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People saying they hate Mondays.. baffles me.. some kid in a hospital battling leukaemia swishing to see Monday

False equivalence is alive and well

Point of it is which should of been obvious is just keep a positive attitude be grateful for everyday.. would you prefer 10 million but not guaranteed tomorrow or know you've got tomorrow and leave the money

I could some pretty epic shit with 10million to be fair. But seriously, I get what you mean, the only drawback of that though is it risks undermining the problems of others just because others have it worse and can encourage a "suck it up" mentality which isn't good for anyone's mental health if they always have to pretend to be positive if that makes sense?

I hear you mate but the fact of the matter is anyone who has pulled themselves out of a shit situation have had the mentally of fuck it let's keep going push on no matter how hard. Others may prefer to wallow in self pity.. whatever works for you

I don't think it's self pity. It's more owning your feelings and realizing what you're in and then you can take steps to resolve it. Pushing through with a fake positive attitude is unsustainable in my opinion and akin to putting a plaster over a gaping wound.

Hell yeah you have to accept what went wrong or accept your fucked up whatever the case may be then build yourself back up bigger and better instead of thinking about it over and over and letting it defeat you .. I never said push through being fake and lying to yourself never said that "

Ahhh that's fair enough then and I do agree with that, I suppose I just interpreted it that way when you said to keep a positive attitude and be grateful for every day. Because you'll have certain days you're not grateful for, where you feel like shit and that's ok too

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"People saying they hate Mondays.. baffles me.. some kid in a hospital battling leukaemia swishing to see Monday

False equivalence is alive and well

Point of it is which should of been obvious is just keep a positive attitude be grateful for everyday.. would you prefer 10 million but not guaranteed tomorrow or know you've got tomorrow and leave the money

I could some pretty epic shit with 10million to be fair. But seriously, I get what you mean, the only drawback of that though is it risks undermining the problems of others just because others have it worse and can encourage a "suck it up" mentality which isn't good for anyone's mental health if they always have to pretend to be positive if that makes sense?

I hear you mate but the fact of the matter is anyone who has pulled themselves out of a shit situation have had the mentally of fuck it let's keep going push on no matter how hard. Others may prefer to wallow in self pity.. whatever works for you

I don't think it's self pity. It's more owning your feelings and realizing what you're in and then you can take steps to resolve it. Pushing through with a fake positive attitude is unsustainable in my opinion and akin to putting a plaster over a gaping wound.

Hell yeah you have to accept what went wrong or accept your fucked up whatever the case may be then build yourself back up bigger and better instead of thinking about it over and over and letting it defeat you .. I never said push through being fake and lying to yourself never said that

Ahhh that's fair enough then and I do agree with that, I suppose I just interpreted it that way when you said to keep a positive attitude and be grateful for every day. Because you'll have certain days you're not grateful for, where you feel like shit and that's ok too "

We're always going to have those days brother it's about letting those days defeat you or you defeating them.. hard times are always on the horizon bad days will come but until then be grateful work hard stay as strong as you can be friendly respectful and appreciative and keep going

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