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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What harsh truth would you rather ignore than confront?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My weight

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

That no one is coming to give me sex tonight.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I only get away with my neurospicy because of my looks. If I was unattractive and spoke the way I do I'd be in a lot of trouble every day.

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By *unky_PhoenixMan
over a year ago

Boston

I'll never be Chris Hemsworth

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

My highly likely early death from all the life choices that are famously associated with ill health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairy legs.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

[Removed by poster at 18/06/23 19:18:43]

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"That no one is coming to give me sex tonight. "

Estella.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

That this world is going to hell in a handbasket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The clocks ticking louder day by day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That, despite B*Witched's protestations, I can't blame it on the weatherman.

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

That what I want isn't going to just come and knock on my door, I've got to go out and find it.

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By *ohndom2023Man
over a year ago

Hastings/Greenwich

Can't say i am ignoring it.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

That I'm getting old on the outside but not on the inside.

I wish I'd not played so much sport when young. Fucked knees aren't fun.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That, despite B*Witched's protestations, I can't blame it on the weatherman."

C’est la vie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to deal with my mental and emotional issues or I won’t move forward in my life.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

That I am not 'sexy' - in this place anyway

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

That being nearly 40 and most of life is work and gym chances of living rest of life alone is rather high haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That I am not 'sexy' - in this place anyway "

I’m the opposite - this is the only place where I am sexy

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

That it's actually pointless hoping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is going to be deep compared to anyone elses that I’ve read so far. But I’m ignoring how shit I’m feeling lately, working a dead end job for shit pay, I’ve put on a lot of weight this passed 6 months and then on top of that just housing issues I’m trying to just push this down and down and ignore it all

Dave

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"That no one is coming to give me sex tonight.

Estella.

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It’s almost 7.30pm and I’m still desperately trying to work out logistically who I can get over.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is going to be deep compared to anyone elses that I’ve read so far. But I’m ignoring how shit I’m feeling lately, working a dead end job for shit pay, I’ve put on a lot of weight this passed 6 months and then on top of that just housing issues I’m trying to just push this down and down and ignore it all

Dave "

Don’t ignore it. It’ll get worse. Confront it head in

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"That I am not 'sexy' - in this place anyway

I’m the opposite - this is the only place where I am sexy "

Least you know from here you're probably gonna get good sex!

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By *ohndom2023Man
over a year ago

Hastings/Greenwich

Try the mirror guys you exude sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my hairline will never be the same again.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"This is going to be deep compared to anyone elses that I’ve read so far. But I’m ignoring how shit I’m feeling lately, working a dead end job for shit pay, I’ve put on a lot of weight this passed 6 months and then on top of that just housing issues I’m trying to just push this down and down and ignore it all

Dave "

You can change all these things if you really want to pal.

At your age the whole world is your oyster.

Reach out and grab it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time. "

Lemon you are NOT dull! Try not to compare your lives to others and also look at us, sat messaging forum members on a sexy site with our days! Don't overthink anything and know you're a hilarious legend x

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By *ohndom2023Man
over a year ago

Hastings/Greenwich

Shit this is depressing i recommend copious amounts of alcohol, lots of fucking and then come see me in the morning for a repeat prescription.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

There’s one I’m not thinking about till 31st Jan hoping it will go away

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time. "

The answer to all your problems currently lies dormant in my pants.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"This is going to be deep compared to anyone elses that I’ve read so far. But I’m ignoring how shit I’m feeling lately, working a dead end job for shit pay, I’ve put on a lot of weight this passed 6 months and then on top of that just housing issues I’m trying to just push this down and down and ignore it all

Dave "

As someone said, don't ignore it, but also only worry about it if it's bringing you down. It's tough times at the moment, don't be afraid to ask for help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time. "

Wow. If thats true how you feel it takes me by suprise. You only ever sound fun, intelligent and a happy person to read.

And you are special. Everyone should feel special to themselves if they know deep down inside they are a good person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’ll be the big five o this year and seriously wondering if that’s just too old to carry this shit off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time.

The answer to all your problems currently lies dormant in my pants."

The rare twitch project

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time.

The answer to all your problems currently lies dormant in my pants.

The rare twitch project "

It’ll make your nose run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That I’ll be the big five o this year and seriously wondering if that’s just too old to carry this shit off. "

No way are you 50!?!?

You are welcome.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

That I was really wanting a linen shirt last week. Two were delivered today and I realised I didn't want either of them. I'm avoiding confronting the truth that I buy too many clothes just because I think I want them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That I’ll be the big five o this year and seriously wondering if that’s just too old to carry this shit off.

No way are you 50!?!?

You are welcome. "

Correct Woody…I’m currently 49

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh thanks guys, you are too kind. And it's not even that I don't think I'm a good person or anything like that. I know I have a good heart and all that stuff. But I just don't feel like I add anything to the world that makes me stand out. I've never had a decent job, I've got no education behind me, I'm pretty fucking dumb to be honest and I am so forgettable. And it does make me feel a bit shitty when I think about it.

But I guess I'll have to go and fondle Sam and his cock since there lies the solution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is going to be deep compared to anyone elses that I’ve read so far. But I’m ignoring how shit I’m feeling lately, working a dead end job for shit pay, I’ve put on a lot of weight this passed 6 months and then on top of that just housing issues I’m trying to just push this down and down and ignore it all

Dave "

It's good to talk about these things! Don't feel like you can't open up. I hope things improve for you Dave. X

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time. "

You are special. And unique. And even if it is just on here, you are anything but dull.

I'm going to directly quote one of the wisest and most lively and lovely women I have never met right now... with something she recently said to me that feels appropriate.

You're an amazing woman. And so many people love you. Sending you a big virtual hug

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time.

The answer to all your problems currently lies dormant in my pants.

The rare twitch project "

Never wanted you so much, Ricky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am not saying I am a terrible person or anything like that and I am nothing special... but I'm really fucking boring, uninteresting and dull. I'm not doing anything to try and change it because I'm too depressed and feel like trying to better myself is a huge waste of time. "

I’m the exact same. My whole personality is ‘I’m a mum!’

It used to be ‘I’m a breastfeeding mum’ but he stopped a few months ago and three and a half years old, so I don’t even have that going for me now

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm going to get such a telling off when he reads this but I don't give a fuck.

For me? It's that I'm not very loveable or likeable. I think people put me on a pedestal far too oft and when I show myself to be human, it's like... nope. Not worth it. So I just keep staying on that pedestal I guess and keep people at arm's length. I'm a hopeless romantic so it's a very crap truth to admit fully to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is. Look in the mirror and own it.

Always be honest with yourself firstly. Integrity!!"

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

That my arse is prettier than my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That I’ll be the big five o this year and seriously wondering if that’s just too old to carry this shit off.

No way are you 50!?!?

You are welcome.

Correct Woody…I’m currently 49 "

And you don’t look a day over.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"I'm going to get such a telling off when he reads this but I don't give a fuck.

For me? It's that I'm not very loveable or likeable. I think people put me on a pedestal far too oft and when I show myself to be human, it's like... nope. Not worth it. So I just keep staying on that pedestal I guess and keep people at arm's length. I'm a hopeless romantic so it's a very crap truth to admit fully to myself. "

Your fabulous in all your perceived flaws and imperfections and general humanness. He knows it, and that's why you know he's going to tell you off for thinking like that

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"This is going to be deep compared to anyone elses that I’ve read so far. But I’m ignoring how shit I’m feeling lately, working a dead end job for shit pay, I’ve put on a lot of weight this passed 6 months and then on top of that just housing issues I’m trying to just push this down and down and ignore it all

Dave "

Please don't ignore how you feel, Dave. As others have said, try to reach out to someone or seek support from anywhere you can find it. Organisations like Mind and Samaritans are there to listen, if no-one else is. Keep on keeping on and we hope life will become easier for you.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

My harsh truth - that it's not going to get better, only worse and that I should stop looking for ways to stop being in pain because I'm on a fools errand.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"I'm going to get such a telling off when he reads this but I don't give a fuck.

For me? It's that I'm not very loveable or likeable. I think people put me on a pedestal far too oft and when I show myself to be human, it's like... nope. Not worth it. So I just keep staying on that pedestal I guess and keep people at arm's length. I'm a hopeless romantic so it's a very crap truth to admit fully to myself. "

Yeah but that quim will always hold the pedestal firm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with your weight got perfect curves

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Oh thanks guys, you are too kind. And it's not even that I don't think I'm a good person or anything like that. I know I have a good heart and all that stuff. But I just don't feel like I add anything to the world that makes me stand out. I've never had a decent job, I've got no education behind me, I'm pretty fucking dumb to be honest and I am so forgettable. And it does make me feel a bit shitty when I think about it.

But I guess I'll have to go and fondle Sam and his cock since there lies the solution. "

Having a good heart is adding something very important to the world. You will have made a difference to more people than you realise just by being kind

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

That I'll never be good enough x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That I'll never be good enough x"

You are, or will be for someone. X

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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That I’m only good for a shag and nothing more

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By *herubchubWoman
over a year ago

Nr the sea

OP and _inkyinkedbi….

SNAP! You both got there first with mine too!

If it helps…OP you’ve a gorgeous figure and _inkyinkedbi…let’s start changing that with a positive…we shall attract our hearts desire!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My weight "

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are my looks (it’s how EYE feel) and probably the fact that I think I’m really annoying to a lot of people as myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, this makes me sad. Some of these "truths" aren't truths at all, but people's harsh inner critics whispering bad things in their minds.

The thing I've been trying to ignore for years is that I keep potential friends at arms length because I'm afraid of getting close then being rejected. I don't nurture blossoming friendships and eventually people give up.

Nell

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