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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

... To a meet? I always like to take a bottle of wine.

(Before you jump on my back I know I've only one varification on here but I used to have another profile with others)

So what do you take?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeeeee....!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What sort of cake?

Do you place it somewhere strategic...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What sort of cake?

Do you place it somewhere strategic...? "

i did take a massive chocolate fudge cake and yes it was tactfully placed.. oh and a box of wine (sod the bottle) lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

i dont as i meet at mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What sort of cake?

Do you place it somewhere strategic...?

i did take a massive chocolate fudge cake and yes it was tactfully placed.. oh and a box of wine (sod the bottle) lol "

Massive? What were you hiding...?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also sometimes take my lap top bag...

No it doesn't hold my lap top either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What sort of cake?

Do you place it somewhere strategic...?

i did take a massive chocolate fudge cake and yes it was tactfully placed.. oh and a box of wine (sod the bottle) lol

Massive? What were you hiding...?! "

Well i made a huge cake and strategically placed a slice of the cake... there is photographic evidence somewhere of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on a serious note though i do generally tend to buy some kind of comedy gift just to initially break the ice and it provides a talking point

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"also sometimes take my lap top bag...

No it doesn't hold my lap top either!

You maverick! Is it a box if Kellogg's crunchy nut?!

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

"on a serious note though i do generally tend to buy some kind of comedy gift just to initially break the ice and it provides a talking point

I normally carry in my car wine/spirits chocolates and condoms

Like what kinda gifts??

Ive often done silly gifts I once told this woman I was seeing "Ive bought you a dress an handbag and a shoe" she kept saying why one shoe what if I dont like em etc etc I kept saying trust me lol

They were just novelty emery boards superdrugs were clearing stuff out 10p each I had a laugh although she dint see the funny side of it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

A beautiful smile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes wine or similar, but always condoms - just seems the right thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take nothing, they bring it and i use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me & the rest of my personalities.

There 6 of us in total

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

A smiles something I always take,leave and take away with me. Although its bigger leaving than going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup..........

One big smile when they arrive.....One bigger smile when they come....and a great big one when they leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"on a serious note though i do generally tend to buy some kind of comedy gift just to initially break the ice and it provides a talking point

Donuts...???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My *A game *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My *A game *

Your what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My *A game *

Your what? "

Just being a Smartass... Or trying to be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never take anything. Never even thought about it till I read about people on here taking stuff. Seems weird to me to take something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"on a serious note though i do generally tend to buy some kind of comedy gift just to initially break the ice and it provides a talking point

Donuts...???"

well through having conversations with a meet before hand and joking about things ive bought a mankini, a karaoke boyzone cd, made a choc fudge cake, 120 jaffa cakes, some santa boxers and a very large bah humbug tie.. just a few examples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"also sometimes take my lap top bag...

No it doesn't hold my lap top either!

You maverick! Is it a box if Kellogg's crunchy nut?!

Not quite it carries my cuffs, whip, paddles and other toys...I'd loss myself if I ever got mugged carrying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"also sometimes take my lap top bag...

No it doesn't hold my lap top either!

You maverick! Is it a box if Kellogg's crunchy nut?!

Not quite it carries my cuffs, whip, paddles and other toys...I'd loss myself if I ever got mugged carrying it

*piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take anything and I don't go with the expectation that they might bring something either. I have been pleasantly surprised though on a recent meet by a record producer who gave me a CD, not much I know and maybe an odd thing to give someone but it was still a nice surprise, good CD too

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive only bought someone something once and it was some chocolate from belguim but i have known him 7 years and it coincided with his birthday

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By *ardbellyCouple
over a year ago

Alicante

I make sure to bring Angel ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"condoms"

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Condoms & camera.

If its a regular meet, anything from creme eggs to my magic wand & the above!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive taken flowers when Ive been to meet a couple, but they were inviting me round to spend the evening and have dinner as well, so thats what I would normally do.

Champagne when I go to meet one friend, but thats because I stay the night.

Other than that I just take my bag of tricks

But Im uncomfortable receiving gifts of any kind from anyone if its just a straight forward 'play' meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"also sometimes take my lap top bag...

No it doesn't hold my lap top either!

You maverick! Is it a box if Kellogg's crunchy nut?!

Not quite it carries my cuffs, whip, paddles and other toys...I'd loss myself if I ever got mugged carrying it

I once had to go through a scanner machine with my bag full of whips, toys, cuffs etc. Thankfully the scanner man didn't flinch. He didn't ask to open the bag either.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"also sometimes take my lap top bag...

No it doesn't hold my lap top either!

You maverick! Is it a box if Kellogg's crunchy nut?!

Not quite it carries my cuffs, whip, paddles and other toys...I'd loss myself if I ever got mugged carrying it

I once had to go through a scanner machine with my bag full of whips, toys, cuffs etc. Thankfully the scanner man didn't flinch. He didn't ask to open the bag either.

I got stopped by customs and asked to explain the battery-operated items in my hand luggage!

It was a female customs officer and I explained I'd been spending time with my boyfriend and she gently moved some clothes to one side, stared silently at my travelling collection for a minute, looked up (but didn't seem to want to make eye contact) and quietly said "I don't think we need to make.you uncomfortable by getting those out do we" and zipped my bag up again.

The friend I was traveling with (who knows me well) was absolutely mortified, I just found it funny.

But to return to the OP, generally just myself, giftwrapped in lovely lingerie and a nice outfit. If it's someone I know better then there may be more, possibly half time munchies, but I don't feel the need to take anything.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

As I meet at mine, nothing, but I have been brought wine and chocolates. Very thoughtful but I don't have the heart to tell them I don't drink wine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly meet at mine but when going to parties I always bring wine and condoms.

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We meet a guy one every couple of months in a hotel.

He insists on paying, and Its a lovely hotel.

He always buys me a gift, dress, underwear etc and nothing cheesy.

We are good friends so I don't take it as a bribe it's just a nice gesture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lip gloss , popping candy . champagne , Bondage tape and a smile .... ooo and maybe strap on ... and Anal toys for the man . lolol xxx And i like chocolate,

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Getting caught with things reminds me of coming back to the UK for my fb bday in Oct I was going through customs when the scanner picked up my handcuffs. They were all laughing and talking to each other in Turkish. I was so embarrassed,I said can I leave em but he sent me back to check in. I had a laugh with thomascook girls and asked her if she wanted em. She said yes itll be a good surprise for my hubby tonight

Pity the Turks didnt have a soh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We meet a guy one every couple of months in a hotel.

He insists on paying, and Its a lovely hotel.

He always buys me a gift, dress, underwear etc and nothing cheesy.

We are good friends so I don't take it as a bribe it's just a nice gesture.

A bribe ? More like payment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take just me..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lip gloss , popping candy . champagne , Bondage tape and a smile .... ooo and maybe strap on ... and Anal toys for the man . lolol xxx And i like chocolate,

I've heard stories of your popping candy!! Unbelievable!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A selection of drinks and snacks.

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By *incs-cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

My wife

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My wife

A very sound choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anybody expect gifts when meeting somebody new? It's something i've never thought of before, would you be offended if a meet turned up empty handed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anybody expect gifts when meeting somebody new? It's something i've never thought of before, would you be offended if a meet turned up empty handed?"
well a bottle of wine be nice if going to there house.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anybody expect gifts when meeting somebody new? It's something i've never thought of before, would you be offended if a meet turned up empty handed?"

That's why I turn up with something. Otherwise I think myself rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a camera bag containing a camera (obviously) condoms, baby oil, handcuffs, ties, a remote control egg, cards, batteries, champagne flutes, and random other stuff that gets chucked in now and then for fun and photo props!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I never expect anything but its nice when they do bring wine or flowers or both

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

our little bag of tricks !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always take condoms and drinks to couples when we meet in their homes, and I (Missy) have been known to take my mini trophy and present it to the best shag of the meet lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"we always take condoms and drinks to couples when we meet in their homes, and I (Missy) have been known to take my mini trophy and present it to the best shag of the meet lol"

Awks when you keep giving it to yourself though

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By *amieandjulieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

"We meet a guy one every couple of months in a hotel.

He insists on paying, and Its a lovely hotel.

He always buys me a gift, dress, underwear etc and nothing cheesy.

We are good friends so I don't take it as a bribe it's just a nice gesture.

A payment from a friend , what a silly childish answer

A bribe ? More like payment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My imagination

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Condoms, various flavour juicy lubes, fags, lighter, taser gun (just in case).

I also prefer to take my own toys, especially if it is a guy. I don't trust guys to keep their toy collection clean between flange stops.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

If I'm going somewhere I take my shag bag which contains lingerie, toiletries (if overnighting), make up, selection of toys, condoms, lube, wine glasses (if hotel), wine, possibly nibbles.

Before I got my new car I worked out that my shag bag actually doubled the trade-in value of my V reg Focus!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Anthrax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, I have a play kit too, in a trolley case, which contains toys, lingerie, condoms, make up, etc. etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally wine or choclates,then condoms and finally a full load.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Condoms, various flavour juicy lubes, fags, lighter, taser gun (just in case).

I also prefer to take my own toys, especially if it is a guy. I don't trust guys to keep their toy collection clean between flange stops."

"Clean between flange stops"?! That really has not helped my hangover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we always take condoms and drinks to couples when we meet in their homes, and I (Missy) have been known to take my mini trophy and present it to the best shag of the meet lol"

I awarded it to Cheeky on our first meet...then decided to keep him for good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My bag of toys, it hasn't let me down yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My bag of toys, it hasn't let me down yet! "
i can vouch for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends where your meeting and if it's a social or playing. If it's at someone's home or a club a bottle of wine and our bag of props.Social just us and money to buy a few rounds at the bar.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Wine, condoms....nothing... Got a giant sugar dummy from Brighton Pier that needs using somehow....

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

". Got a giant sugar dummy from Brighton Pier that needs using somehow....

"
How big?

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