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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.

What would you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear bad shoes next time. That’ll show em.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

Accept that's all you're likely to get and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a job a footlocker and don't ever give them a discount. That'll show em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking cry like a little bitch and never meet them again

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"Fucking cry like a little bitch and never meet them again "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fucking cry like a little bitch and never meet them again "

Although I did notice my latest guy to verify me didn’t mention my looks at all. Wtf man. My verification for him was so nice and he calls me SMART?! We all know I ain’t smart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be gutted they didn’t notice my nice pants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I mean.

Literally happened to me.

I put it down to differing cultures.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

Unrequited veris make me sad! But I’m trying not to care too much!

I always stress over what to write in a veri!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be a little hurt if after meeting me that’s all they had to say. If they didn’t have a good time I’d rather they just say and not leave a verification at all to be honest.

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

"Wear bad shoes next time. That’ll show em. "

Lolol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Accept everyone thinks of verification differently. Some believe that all a verification shoukd ne is that they turn up and are who they said they were. Others will go into huge detail. They aren't a reflection of you.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I would block them OP if they left the impression they had such a good time it should show in the verification and if it doesn't that means they weren't totally honest with you

Sorry you had to go through that xxx

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Unrequited veris make me sad! But I’m trying not to care too much!

I always stress over what to write in a veri! "

Aw! Don’t worry Frankie, I’ll give you one

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.

What would you do? "
delete my account

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Some do big, detailed veris. Some just say you were legit and leave it.

Each to their own, if you had a good time I wouldn’t care what the veri says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people read too much into veris.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.

What would you do? "

Run to the hills wallow in Self pity, questioning my lifes choices and decisions.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Unrequited veris make me sad! But I’m trying not to care too much!

I always stress over what to write in a veri! "

Why stress about it?

You just literally speak of the time you had with the individual(s) providing it was a nice time not,

allowed to leave bad verifications xx

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Generally speaking I'm not overtly fussed about verifications.

However, every verification that I've written has been drafted offline first and then shared via a PM, and accepted/amended before being published.

I expect the same protocol in return.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"I’d be a little hurt if after meeting me that’s all they had to say. If they didn’t have a good time I’d rather they just say and not leave a verification at all to be honest. "

I agree there although I would be surprised or maybe even puzzled xx

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.

What would you do? "

Think they left it for the wrong person. I mean....it's happened before.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'd feel bad that I'd shagged his brains out too hard, and hadn't left him the brain power to write a decent veri.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Use it as a learning experience or go UNLOS. The choice is purely down to mental fortitude

But actually I think maybe this was an attempt at humour..

I’d display the veris and set a profile pic wearing wellies or crocs.. with your cock out obvs..

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I know I have a great selection of nice shoes, I don't need to be told

Always open for having more shoes.

I struggle most of the time to find the right words to say about the person and meet. It can take me days to write one.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"I'd feel bad that I'd shagged his brains out too hard, and hadn't left him the brain power to write a decent veri. "

‘Fuck him so good I lowered his IQ..’

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If it's in the general theme of their veris left I'd just say cool, fine, love a bit of understatement.

If mine is an anomaly and so fucking bland while everyone else gets raving FuckAdvisor reviews I'd go to the edge of the earth sobbing, full bust heaving loud cries from the very core of my being and then I'd UNLOS with a very obvious slight towards that awful demon who has made me leave.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Yeah I’d be alright with that as long as the made me a t shirt out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just an opinion but turned up nice shoes (on a good profile) makes me much much more curious than a long soft porn veri account of the meet.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

"Unrequited veris make me sad! But I’m trying not to care too much!

I always stress over what to write in a veri!

Aw! Don’t worry Frankie, I’ll give you one"

But what about the veri!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We give that sort of verification although possibly more fulsome.

I'd feel way more inclined to meet someone with veris like that.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Generally speaking I'm not overtly fussed about verifications.

However, every verification that I've written has been drafted offline first and then shared via a PM, and accepted/amended before being published.

I expect the same protocol in return."

Wow.

Never heard of this before! Is this the norm for others?

I don’t do details in a veri. Just how I met them if a club or hotel, that they were hot and I had a good time… if that wasn’t true I don’t veri.

I expect a lot of people are disappointed with my veris now ha! I didn’t think anyone actually cared about them. I don’t read others detailed ones…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's in the general theme of their veris left I'd just say cool, fine, love a bit of understatement.

Do you promise.

Don't lie to me now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing as I won't display verifications from men. One exception.

If it wasn't a man I might display it anyway.

I don't care for verifications much, more trouble than anything else.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yeah I’d be alright with that as long as the made me a t shirt out of it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and report

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Nothing as I won't display verifications from men. One exception.

If it wasn't a man I might display it anyway.

I don't care for verifications much, more trouble than anything else."

I agree, best not to show them if you’re a guy for sure. Maybe right at the start you need one or two but beyond that they are a disadvantage

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.

What would you do?

Think they left it for the wrong person. I mean....it's happened before.

Fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.

What would you do? "

Sorry TM, I'll try harder next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean, women can tell a lot about a guy by what he wears on his feets…

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.

What would you do? "

Meet somebody else next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be gutted. I'd probably go ask someone to write me a glowing one a few days later and display it instead

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.

What would you do?

Meet somebody else next time

I'd write you one that is well...........ya know like

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.

What would you do?

Meet somebody else next time

I'd write you one that is well...........ya know like "

Go on then dickhead

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I think people read too much into veris. "
ahhhh but remember men can't read

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Go for a Joe Jackson winkle picker time?

See below:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oDG6MQkzh1o

Then someone can add next time "turned up on time, had shiny shoes & pointy winkle pickers."

Then there's shoes with buckles, sandals, sandals & socks. Sock garters for the stylish man about town? Boring suit but nice bright socks?

Belt buckles that scream: "hey, you, yes you! Look at my crotch area!" Cos really, psychologically that's what a belt buckle says apart from holding yer trousers up ....

I'd worry about other things in my life & move along!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh... Imagine someone 'forgetting' to return one

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I would hide it.

I'm sure I had something similar ages ago, I'll try and remember what it was.

I did offend one guy by calling him "kind of good looking" obviously didn't get my humour. Oops

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.

What would you do? "

I think you’d be well within your rights to leave a big steaming turd on their doorstep with a flag in saying “Verification”. When a neighbour asks why, just be truthful.

I’m all seriousness, verifications are only supposed to provide reassurance to other Fabbers that the person exists and has not misrepresented themselves. In other words, “You may meet this person with confidence they are what they say.” Somehow they have morphed into reviews and then it’s down to literary ability and motivation. Some may lump it in with fabmin and not have enough time. Some people are just more comfortable hitting fisher price buttons with primary colours than using something complicated like a keyboard.

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

Mine are hidden, so I'd shrug it off. I think people only need to know I'm verified, so I'm happy if future meets don't leave one at all TBF. Though I've only got two from the same person, my two meets after that haven't put anything but they're not often on here

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I generally wait to see if the other person Veri's me. Then know what I can get away with saying, unless I'm very certain I won't offend/embarrass them. Maybe that says more about my veri writing style than anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.

What would you do? "

Last time I met and left a verification for someone, they left the site soon afterwards. I like to pretend that the two are unrelated

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Ahhh... Imagine someone 'forgetting' to return one

Had that a couple of times... lol oh well I'm not bothered

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Send an updated one saying 'Nice gash!'

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.

What would you do?

Think they left it for the wrong person. I mean....it's happened before.

Fuck off

It's not like I even own any nice shoes, you'd be safe.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Your shoes aren't even that great, else I'd probably have left that one for you.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.

What would you do?

Think they left it for the wrong person. I mean....it's happened before.

Fuck off

It's not like I even own any nice shoes, you'd be safe.

You’re such a cheeky bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhh... Imagine someone 'forgetting' to return one

Had that a couple of times... lol oh well I'm not bothered "

The OP nearly forgot to do mine

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Ahhh... Imagine someone 'forgetting' to return one

Had that a couple of times... lol oh well I'm not bothered

The OP nearly forgot to do mine

Tut tut lol

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Smile

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By *r. ComeagainMan
over a year ago

somewhere in East midlands

When you buy "toyboy moschino" aftershave after a woman asked you which one do you want

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Good thing is...its your choice if the verification is shown or not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd call out them out on a public status because I do not own any nice shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, at least they didn't comment on our bland personalities and dark humour

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Ahhh... Imagine someone 'forgetting' to return one

Had that a couple of times... lol oh well I'm not bothered

The OP nearly forgot to do mine

I was waiting for the follow up meet that alas never happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t meet them for a reference.

And I’d probably display it.

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bingley

"You’ve given them a glowing verification, extolling the virtues of their character, looks, conversational skills and kiss. In return you receive “turned up on time, had nice shoes”.

What would you do? "
what shoes were they . Maybe thats where im going wrong

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Frame my shoes.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'd rather have that than one saying I sucked like a Dyson and rode his cock like a Grand National jockey, so treat me with respect.

I just accept that I can't control what someone else chooses to say, but if I don't like it then I won't display it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhh... Imagine someone 'forgetting' to return one

Had that a couple of times... lol oh well I'm not bothered

The OP nearly forgot to do mine

I was waiting for the follow up meet that alas never happened "

good recovery haha

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