FabSwingers.com forum: Do you prefer the way you look now than you looked

By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

10 year's ago?

Looking back on photos at myself and the Mr around 10 year's ago, I prefer what we look like now to back then.

People always crave about looking younger but I prefer the now to then.

Have a great fathers day all.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Neither! I’m looking into plastic surgery for a new head. Is that a thing yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer now but I think some of that is I’ve gotten more confident as I’ve got older.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I prefer my hair now. Plus I had a 7 month old baby so I look less knackered now.

I'm fricking gorgeous either way, but I do like me now

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

im not in bad nick now, but would like my jet black full head of hair back

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

With a few pounds off, I prefer my older, greyer self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the way I look now to back a few years ago. I do miss the body I used to have before having kids though.

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By *tsl32Man
over a year ago

Exeter

I'm happy with how I look now, 10 year's ago I was a bit slimmer but I like to think I'm evolving into something close to the best version of me.

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

For me 10 years ago for T I'd say she prefers it now. (She does look dam hotttt)

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"I prefer the way I look now to back a few years ago. I do miss the body I used to have before having kids though. "
,, you still have a great figure

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Hmm.

Overall, I'm happier with how I look now that I was 10 years ago. But I don't think much has changed aside from a few extra crows feet and a happier attitude to myself.

I suppose if it was an option I'd go back to ten years ago just so my knees didn't ache. But purely aesthetic wise, I wouldn't bother.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I kinda like how i am now but then i liked how i was then too

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Facially, I look quite similar, so it's not much of a choice. At a push, I'd go for my younger face, as I would inevitably have fewer wrinkles.

Body wise, I'm probably a little bigger now as I did more cardio than anything back then, but overall I prefer my body now. So I need some kind of new/old face/body swap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The face is the same I haven't changed that since my teens so looking younger isn't a problem for me. My body though I 100% feel better now as I'm a lot lighter than I was back in the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 16 ten years ago. In my prime. Miss that

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes but I like the confidence I have now.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Now.

Ten years ago I had really really frizzy hair, acne thanks to the wrong contraception. Size 26. My face looks sad in photos. You know when someone doesn't like how they look at all?

But now I look at photos of me and see the genuine smile. I like my soft curves, my jiggly bits, my tummy. My giant bum. My skin is clear, no wrinkles. My hair is less frizzy. The biggest thing isn't the weight loss. It's now I'm happier with how I look and I think that's increasing every day and people are responding to it.

I do have three grey hairs though.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I haven't aged, still look the same now to when I did 10 years.

Life experience has made me stronger and wiser but still kind, those who have mistreated is a reflection of themselves.

My stern profile write up is due to the odd messages I have had while being on this site over time so I can gratefully say I don't get floods of messages to go through

I wouldn't want to experience that xxx

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Definitely today, as ten years ago I had that healthy crack house glow and paler

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Now with the exception of the hair as in much better shape now just hair is utter shit grey and thin haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer how I look now, yes 10 years ago I was slimmer but hey ho

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

10 years ago I was marginally less fugly. 20 years ago I was verging on attractive. 25 years ago I was approached at university to put together a portfolio for a modelling contract.

So, yes, everything gets worse every day in every way. Plummeting towards death and utter oblivion.

Happy Father's Day, everyone.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yeah, someone said to me recently that guys mysteriously manage to improve with age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No comment

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I basically look the same as I did 10years ago but smile more these days as I am now happily single.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

dont care. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was very gym fit if I do say so myself, others did too. About 5st lighter and chasing the ultimate personal goals... Pretty good in how I felt physically, pretty miserable in my relationship. Now much fatter, not necessarily happier. But I don't dislike me, so that's enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now for sure - 10 years ago I looked worse (scary I know)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the neck down I prefer myself 10 years ago. Oddly I'm more comfortable with my face now I've got a few greys and wrinkles

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I like my salt and pepper look but not the wrinkles, I'm alright for 40 I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say now tbh.

I’ve realised that confidence isn’t about how you look and feel but actually more aligned with not giving a toss about what others think of you. Confidence thrives when you begin to embrace the face and body you were born with.

I was a right ugly wee bastard though,

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I looked younger ten years ago for sure and looking back on photos I looked pretty good.

Do I prefer how I looked then? That question made me think. I'm heading at break neck speed towards 70, the cult of youth is strong and many people have joined, it's difficult to resist it's influence. I don't prefer how I looked then but sometimes I can't resist wishing I had younger skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't appreciate how i looked in my 20s /30s because i didn't meet conventional beauty standards... But when i hit my 40s i just thought fuck that and have accepted myself for who i am. I'm enjoying my fifties - my hair +tits look great, everything else is not bad for the amount of living its done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferred my boobs a little bit bigger before i had my daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Preferred my boobs a little bit bigger before i had my daughter."

Much better now I’m a slim blonde and not a fat brunette. It’s true.

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

I've not changed much over the years

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I think I look better now as in I am more comfortable in the style of clothes I wear I am also more confident in who I am.

But I can’t lie, I had a better body 10 years ago that didn’t fail so often

Marc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"10 year's ago?

Looking back on photos at myself and the Mr around 10 year's ago, I prefer what we look like now to back then.

People always crave about looking younger but I prefer the now to then.

Have a great fathers day all.

I'm personally feeling a lot more comfortable in my skin these days than I did 10 years ago, and for me I think that has a lot to do with it

Mrs

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I'm very lucky that apart from a mum tum and a few greys, I look pretty much the same, as I did 10 years ago

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I like me now, but ten years ago was my hot year - so I’d rather have that again!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No I was 50 pounds heavier then.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If I could have my stomach back from 10 years ago and keep everything else from now, minus the frown lines then yes I prefer now overall

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I preferred how much slimmer I was 10, years ago.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

"I’d say now tbh.

I was a right ugly wee bastard though,

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Agree with everything but the last sentence. Lol

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Not sure I can remember how I looked 10 years ago

Judging from my kids ages I'd have recovered slightly from the toddler years. So not looking completely exhausted and broken, by then.

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

If some said I can go back ten years I wouldn't say no, I'm one of those people that doesn't like the idea of getting old

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've never really liked how I look throughout my years but if I had to pick one, it would be when I was younger x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Absoulutley! I look much younger now! X

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Stubble beard adds to my look.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’d probably prefer myself 10 years ago, I thought I was sooooo sexy back then

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By *uvery30Woman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

There are things I like about me 10years ago and things I like about me now. If I could mix the 2 together that would be perfect

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By *kultraCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

I prefer how I looked back then before I was disabled and gained a lot of weight as a result but I’m more confident now than I was when I was slimmer which is weird. Mostly I miss the ability of my younger body before my disability

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Can I keep how I look now but have the stamina of the younger me? Thanks

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

No, i was fitter, leaner and had a little less wrinkles

However, overall I'm quite happy how I am now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, i was fitter, leaner and had a little less wrinkles

However, overall I'm quite happy how I am now

You're doing alright as you are....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body was better pre kids but I haven't really aged at all in that time thanks to good genes.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I don't think I actually look that different. Maybe a different haircut depending what month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I look better, but my body confidence has waned with age

It's a strange situation to find oneself in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loved my hair back then. My titties were slightly perkier. And I don't know why but I do prefer now, I just feel more like myself and it shows in my appearance.

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

"No, i was fitter, leaner and had a little less wrinkles

However, overall I'm quite happy how I am now

You're doing alright as you are....

For an old guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, i was fitter, leaner and had a little less wrinkles

However, overall I'm quite happy how I am now

You're doing alright as you are....

For an old guy

My best line for the weekend that!!

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I like the way I look today. I was is was the same size as I was 10yrs ago as i was slimmer.

Thankfully not many lines on my face currently.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I stopped changing at 21 besides the odd grey hair

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

"No, i was fitter, leaner and had a little less wrinkles

However, overall I'm quite happy how I am now

You're doing alright as you are....

For an old guy

My best line for the weekend that!!

Too funny

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By *idesWillTurnMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

The bad nu metal look.... Yeah I prefer now

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By *bwlady123Woman
over a year ago

private

Nope I have to ages well. 10 years go I was skinnier my skin looked better I just looked all over better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m heavier now but ten years ago I was in the throes of grief and looked like boiled shite.

If I could choose a figure, I’d say when I was 23 before kids, or 35 after I lost weight and had an hourglass shape.

I wish I was as big as I was, when I thought I looked big.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty happy. I've bulked out a bit which I'm happy with and although it's come with a bit of unwanted fat, I can deal with that.

I'm also happier in who I am as a person. Less timid and more outgoing and even a.little more confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll go back 10 years please!!!!

Less chins and a flat stomach, hell yeah.

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