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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For many out there today is a day to celebrate, and if that is you I wish you the happiest Father's Day ever!

For others, however, today will be a more poignant and possibly painful day. If that is you, have a hug from me x This day will pass xx

I love you

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I lost my dad 3 years ago. I miss him.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I have many fond memories of my Father who died aged 60, way too early.

He was a good man who worked hard for our family, had a great sense of humour and was fair.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cherish the memories

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Thank you, I love you too xx

It's a mixed day for me. It's a celebration that my daughters are happy and healthy.

My closest friend is enduring her dad's final days (cancer) it may well be that he does not make it through today. My heart is hurting for her.

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Thank you jennie means a lot. Big hug for you

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

The too few years I had as a father were more special to me than anything on earth.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

My father was born in 1918. If he were alive today he wouldn't be dead. He was the absolute best thing in my life but selfishly he left me when he was only 82.

It was always Father's Day for me. We didn't wait for Funky Pigeon.

I am who I am and who I am is cos of my Dad. xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My father was born in 1918. If he were alive today he wouldn't be dead. He was the absolute best thing in my life but selfishly he left me when he was only 82.

It was always Father's Day for me. We didn't wait for Funky Pigeon.

I am who I am and who I am is cos of my Dad. xxxxx "

And because of the he is still with us... In you x

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My daughter started as a twin, she's now an only child. It was a long time ago and I am reconciled, but I do sometimes wonder how things might have been.

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over a year ago

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Well said, Jennie. This is a tough day for many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love

I used to hate Father’s Day before i became a dad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well said, Jennie. This is a tough day for many. "

Hopefully the fact that there are those of us that understand will bring some small comfort to those who need it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fathers duty is built on trust

Love borne from golden star dust

To be there whenever needed

Providing advice not always heeded

Once a father you become

Stepping out from the shadows of the sun

You are longer the most important person in your life

To be on hand to assist with all the troubles and strife

This role gleefully accepted with no real training

Peppered with doubts and a degree of complaining

There are no material rewards for this life long role

Save for those that are destined for your soul

As for those that can only remember in their minds eye

Whose Time has sadly passed by

Remember those yesteryears

No doubt with joyful tears

So if you are able and possibly can

Go and see your old man

Take a card and a bottle of old spice

Give him a hug not once but maybe twice

A fathers love in my experience is so dear

After the hugs and old spice gift take the old man for a cool cool beer!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A fathers duty is built on trust

Love borne from golden star dust

To be there whenever needed

Providing advice not always heeded

Once a father you become

Stepping out from the shadows of the sun

You are longer the most important person in your life

To be on hand to assist with all the troubles and strife

This role gleefully accepted with no real training

Peppered with doubts and a degree of complaining

There are no material rewards for this life long role

Save for those that are destined for your soul

As for those that can only remember in their minds eye

Whose Time has sadly passed by

Remember those yesteryears

No doubt with joyful tears

So if you are able and possibly can

Go and see your old man

Take a card and a bottle of old spice

Give him a hug not once but maybe twice

A fathers love in my experience is so dear

After the hugs and old spice gift take the old man for a cool cool beer!"

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

And there's those children whose dad's aren't remotely interested in them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And there's those children whose dad's aren't remotely interested in them "

Which is a terribly sad situation

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

I'm pretending the day doesn't exist and keeping myself busy with other things today but I hope all the fathers have a lovely day

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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Thanks Jennie.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

My first Father’s Day since my dad died.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dad died 29 years ago next month…. I was on ops in NI and found out a day later.

I miss him but still do Father’s Day, I still have a beer like I would if he was still alive. But I also have my daughter who looks forward to spending the day with me doing cool stuff.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My first Father’s Day since my dad died. "

A tough day.

My heart goes out to you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My dad died 29 years ago next month…. I was on ops in NI and found out a day later.

I miss him but still do Father’s Day, I still have a beer like I would if he was still alive. But I also have my daughter who looks forward to spending the day with me doing cool stuff.

"

A day of conflicting feelings

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Call no man a good father until after he is dead - Some ancient greek

There's something I can't quite articulate that changes in a man when his father dies

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Lovely thread Jennie thanks

My ninth father's day without my lovely dad.

Love to all who need it today x

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"My first Father’s Day since my dad died.

A tough day.

My heart goes out to you x"

Thank you xx

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Thank you darling OP. Today is a tough day without my gorgeous dad. I miss him and his awesome dad jokes

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Thank you for this lovely thread. Losing my dad to cancer was tough and still is 25yrs on.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Lost my dad I January this year not really sure how I feel as I hadn't seen him in almost 8 years...

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head


"My first Father’s Day since my dad died. "

Sending hugs

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"My first Father’s Day since my dad died. "

Sending you love little star, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you.

Its a bit of a mixed day for me. Lost my dad 12 years ago and his dad a few weeks ago. My dad was only 52.

I'm also sad for my boys that their dad isn't in their life and makes no effort to be. I always feel so guilty that I choose so poorly.

However equally I think I'm pretty proud of the fact Im mum, dad and grandparents to my boys, they are all incredible young men who may one day become amazing dad's or partners. Full of respect, compassion, kindness and love.

I know I'm very lucky.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"My first Father’s Day since my dad died. "

Sending lots of huggles lovely. I know exactly how you feel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you.

Its a bit of a mixed day for me. Lost my dad 12 years ago and his dad a few weeks ago. My dad was only 52.

I'm also sad for my boys that their dad isn't in their life and makes no effort to be. I always feel so guilty that I choose so poorly.

However equally I think I'm pretty proud of the fact Im mum, dad and grandparents to my boys, they are all incredible young men who may one day become amazing dad's or partners. Full of respect, compassion, kindness and love.

I know I'm very lucky. "

Any man can be a father.

It takes a special person to be a dad.

(penis or no penis)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for wish me and everyone else the happiest Father's Day ever!

I had a nice morning with my kids

And had a moment this morning for my dad I lost 6 years ago now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you for wish me and everyone else the happiest Father's Day ever!

I had a nice morning with my kids

And had a moment this morning for my dad I lost 6 years ago now "

I think many of us have had those moments for a variety of reasons x

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Good call Jennie!

Lost my Dad 9 yes ago & still miss him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My children have had 11 fathers days without their amazing dad here to celebrate with. He just wanted to watch them grow up

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"My children have had 11 fathers days without their amazing dad here to celebrate with. He just wanted to watch them grow up"

Lots of love to you Kinky xx

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"My children have had 11 fathers days without their amazing dad here to celebrate with. He just wanted to watch them grow up"

Sending big hugs lovely

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Days like this make me reminisce about my dad in the garden, creosoting the fences with his top off.

He loved his garden and pond,and still kept doing what he could even after a tumour in his head operation.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"My children have had 11 fathers days without their amazing dad here to celebrate with. He just wanted to watch them grow up"

I feel very sad for children who lost their dad way too early x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Jennie, love you.

To all those fathers who cannot be in their children's lives, I raise my glass to you too.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

My dad died at age 43 way too young, I still miss him like mad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you lovelies and huge love to you all too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My children have had 11 fathers days without their amazing dad here to celebrate with. He just wanted to watch them grow up

I feel very sad for children who lost their dad way too early x"

He was a good egg. Just finished 30 months of chemo and all was meant to be positive, looking forward. Unfortunately all the chemo damaged his heart and it couldn’t be fixed. He died age 32 a few weeks after our son turned two. Our daughter was five. Life can be so cruel sometimes.

Big love to you too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 8 when I lost my birth dad, then lost my step dad who was my dad from the age of 10 5 years ago next week…….

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