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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there anything you’d do differently in life if you knew nobody would judge you?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'd be more confident about my body.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I gave up on being bothered about people judging me long ago.

Nowadays I just make sure I don't cause unwanted consent violations anyway

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Theres a few things that i would love to do some is societal judgement and that im often the worst enemy to my self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I the husband would be more body confident and feel more confident round ladies.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope "

Oh

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, there are many many things I'd do differently.

Like singing loudly in public spaces... Being the sole person dancing in a club.

Farting without regard to others.

Going out dressed up.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Not having to wear a bra all day!! The freedom when closing my front door behind me and whipping it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be open about being poly with everyone including my family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The older I get the less fucks I give .. so I’m far less concerned about what others think now than I was.

Having said that I’d probably be far more open about liking Swinging etc if there wasn’t the social taboo in certain areas of life about it

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Cut off the ties with my parents completely, left the family home the day I turned 18 and never went back.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'd probably go braless more often.

I'd tell close friends and family who don't know that I'm poly. Mainly because it makes things a heck of a lot easier not having to hide stuff.

I might wear my natural curls more.

Erm... I think that's about it.

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By *unky_PhoenixMan
over a year ago

Boston

Sing and dance - sing in public sometimes and always in the car... doesn't mean I'm good at either, but it's fun

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Be open about our swinging life. Living in a small town, with children, both in public facing jobs, it's not happening. It doesn't sit well with me, though.

What about you, OP?

Mrs TMN x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd unmask as an autistic person.

Sadly that's not something that would just get me ridicule or misunderstanding. I suspect it'd probably be dangerous.

So I cater to the fragile feelings of the majority because I've had to since I was a toddler.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell people a few home facts about them whether they like it or not. Home truths. However, as I am getting older I'm becoming more like it.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Let my internal thoughts out, it would be absolute carnage. Plus I'd probably get the sack in work

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Let my internal thoughts out, it would be absolute carnage. Plus I'd probably get the sack in work "

I'm... glad I'm self employed

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

I'm being judged? Who?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’d go braless. I hate wearing a bra so much, I find them so uncomfortable nowadays but my tits are so saggy they’d be down by my knees

I’d also wear clothes I like, instead of what is ‘normal’

I’d be more open about the abuse I suffered at the hands of family and friends. I kind of skirt around it atm, I’ve only really opened up to my psychiatrist and husband about it

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Honestly read an article recently about judging and being judged.. Consciously trying to let it go for my own sake now..

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Let my internal thoughts out, it would be absolute carnage. Plus I'd probably get the sack in work

I'm... glad I'm self employed "

I get in enough trouble for being "blunt" as it is. And that's me being restrained

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Nobody judges you harder than yourself. Aside from your mum,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nobody judges you harder than yourself. Aside from your mum, "

My mum hates me

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I’d go braless. I hate wearing a bra so much, I find them so uncomfortable nowadays but my tits are so saggy they’d be down by my knees

I’d also wear clothes I like, instead of what is ‘normal’

I’d be more open about the abuse I suffered at the hands of family and friends. I kind of skirt around it atm, I’ve only really opened up to my psychiatrist and husband about it"

I wasn't open about the abuse I suffered as a child at your age. I'm really open about it now, for me at least it came about after processing it. I'm happier for it, I hope your road to recovery from it brings peace.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d go braless. I hate wearing a bra so much, I find them so uncomfortable nowadays but my tits are so saggy they’d be down by my knees

I’d also wear clothes I like, instead of what is ‘normal’

I’d be more open about the abuse I suffered at the hands of family and friends. I kind of skirt around it atm, I’ve only really opened up to my psychiatrist and husband about it

I wasn't open about the abuse I suffered as a child at your age. I'm really open about it now, for me at least it came about after processing it. I'm happier for it, I hope your road to recovery from it brings peace. "

Thank you I’m glad you were finally able to talk about it

I find I’m pretty open about it, but there’s some things that I just find hard to talk about. Purely because I’m embarrassed. For example, the way my uncle treated me growing up; I used to be proud of that. Looking back I’m so deeply ashamed, but I used to brag to my friends about it I didn’t know any better, but still

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Let my internal thoughts out, it would be absolute carnage. Plus I'd probably get the sack in work

I'm... glad I'm self employed

I get in enough trouble for being "blunt" as it is. And that's me being restrained "

My "boss" is fine with my language. No one else is

I'm over here like... What, most businesses don't have an "oh fuck" fund? "Contingency" is so boring. "Oh fuck" is evocative

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

Only things that comes to mind are once all the way back in school, there was girl I was seeing and I let the opinion of others ruin it, and more recently I bottled something up instead of turning to my usual trusted people, and it really effect me. That's been reversed now though.

Other than that, I'm pretty good at making decisions for me rather than decisions for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if others judge me that's their problem not mine. But I still judge myself so I would only behave in a way that's acceptable to my morals, boundaries and outlook on life.

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