FabSwingers.com forum: What advice would you give a 21 year old you?

By *tudentForFun OP Man
over a year ago

Craigavon

If you could go back to yourself at 21 what advice would you give them?

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

As someone who is 21 my advice would be enjoy it and start moving more my knees are not supposed to ache

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Be more assertive and have more confidence.

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

Relax. It'll all work out in the end.

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By *ax19862002Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Be more assertive and have more confidence."

Don't try and please everyone. Save money and fuck as much as you can xx

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By *annaPlayABCCouple
over a year ago

Bacup

Should really have tried a wee bit harder with hot new barmaid !!

Kicking myself ever since that night I laid eyes on her..smitten wasn't even close LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't settle down, live a single free life and have fun.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

It’s hard as I’d like to advice myself to avoid wasting 15 years of life with a certain someone but that would also mean not having the kids I’ve got now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s hard as I’d like to advice myself to avoid wasting 15 years of life with a certain someone but that would also mean not having the kids I’ve got now "

Difficult isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go to that club that particular night. You dodged a bullet last week. My life would have been so different and my kids would have potentially had a better mother. But hindsight is a wonderful thing.

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By *c_FingersMan
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

Put everything in perspective (don't sweat the small stuff), time will go by much quicker than you think...enjoy every minute of the journey, don't ever hold back, smash it always with no regret.

Oh, also be careful who you let into your life. Don't be as trusting in the beginning, let that be earnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not get any older, it’s a fucking trap!

They will work you until you’re in your 70’s!!!! Stay young….also can I get your mums number?

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By *igelxtc1234Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Buy more playboy mags. That Internet thingy is just a fad!!

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By *ucyAngelaTV/TS
over a year ago

Middleton

Transition now!

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

eat healthier and exercise more

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Wanking is all good fun till you get caught

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

You're going to fall in love soon, and she'll make you think it's returned, don't fall for it.....

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Buy shares in apple.

I doubt 21 year old me would listen to anyone. I knew everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could go back to yourself at 21 what advice would you give them?"

There is no rush.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Follow your dreams and smash them, don't wait. Also, you aren't fat. Listen to the ones who love you and ignore the others. Please eat something.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Buy a house, thank me later x

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Just do it, whatever it is just do it! Live life your way not anyone else’s and be happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s hard as I’d like to advice myself to avoid wasting 15 years of life with a certain someone but that would also mean not having the kids I’ve got now "

Pretty much this

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

live life to the full have as much fun as you can,, be a free spirit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go left! No, you idiot, the other left!

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Get to the gym start kick boxing .. this time of your life is the time to prep for the rest of your life don't waste time and money out drinking spend it creating your business and training .. don't need to worry about looking for girls .. you can spend time chasing a butterfly and catch one but it will fly away .. build a beautiful garden and the butterflies will come to you

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

Stop smoking and stay stopped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love many ..trust few ...always paddle your own canoe ..

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Stop smoking and stay stopped"

What would that do to change your life ? Just tell yourself that same thing now and stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carry on doing what you’re doing. It’ll all work out great!

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By *rAndMrsLilCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Save every penny and put it all on Leicester in the 2015-16 season

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Save every penny and put it all on Leicester in the 2015-16 season

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live every second as you don't know when your times up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 21 year old me back then, or a 21 ye old me now?

Because times are different, people’s focuses and the world is different.

Now, I’d say, get off your fucking mobile, and social media! And focus on a good career.

Then, - carry on as you are, you’re not such a dick, but don’t be a dick!

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Take this Sport Almanac and bet on all the games.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Care less what others think and just be you.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Radiators are not a safe way to keep kebabs warm til the morning despite what others tell you

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By *omblingFreeCouple
over a year ago

The Village

I wouldn't waste my breath on the arrogant twat

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By *opcat89Man
over a year ago

london

Those ladies you’ve been thinking about, are on a website called Fab. Sign up today, don’t delay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

enjoy the time you can with your parents ...they wont be here for ever

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By *ungladBA1Man
over a year ago

Chepstow

"If you could go back to yourself at 21 what advice would you give them?"

Join fab earlier

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By *utterfly64Woman
over a year ago

Raynes Park

Dump him…….and run

Keep travelling

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Cut your hair and don't be shy.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Get lots of bitcoin as soon as it comes out, sell it all mid 2021. Retire.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

"Get lots of bitcoin as soon as it comes out, sell it all mid 2021. Retire."

Lol I know right

gosh to think I got given 50 bitcoins when they came out for free and I swapped them not long after for some physical items

hindsight is a thing

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By *art1968Man
over a year ago

stafford

Don’t be so shy, have more confidence to live your life

I only came out of my shell in my fourties’!!!

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Trad a bit more about bisexuality and polyamory. You are enjpying it...you just haven't embraced it yet...you will.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Go to college or get a trade.

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Read a bit more about bisexuality and polyamory. You are enjpying it...you just haven't embraced it yet...you will.

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

Get therapy now. Don't wait. That thing you are doing called adventure. Sometimes it is just running away.

Embrace and follow your sexual desires. Read about kinks, read about sexuality, read about different relationship dynamics.

You will be ok. One day you will be feeling amazing.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Stop being shy and be the slut you want to be

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Keep on keepin’ on. Also go to more gigs you can afford it. In 20 years time you’ll be dreaming of the good old £8 a ticket.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"Stop being shy and be the slut you want to be

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,,,ok i will

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Stop being shy and be the slut you want to be

,,,ok i will"

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

Do the Mick Dundee test before taking a woman home, there are a lot of wrong'uns about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't buy betamax!

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Don't get caught with your cock between two Choux buns at work....your not the creaming machine

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

"Don't get caught with your cock between two Choux buns at work....your not the creaming machine "

You didn't?

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

I'd tell myself.

Be true to yourself.

Don't get married.

Do leave the area.

Do go on adventures sooner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start saving or paying into a pension earlier...although I still probably wouldn't listen and spend all my money on wine men and songs

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Don't get caught with your cock between two Choux buns at work....your not the creaming machine

You didn't?"

Ymwho knows Sprockett who knows

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

When you hit that 'more money than sense' stage in 2-3 years- spend it buying those cheap houses...not the other things- and share in Apple & Microsoft too, yer muppet!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Save, save, save

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

Stay faithful

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

"Don't get caught with your cock between two Choux buns at work....your not the creaming machine

You didn't?

Ymwho knows Sprockett who knows "

Go on, you're amongst friends. Dish....

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Find good role models, make the right lifelong friends, fail well , fail fast, fail frequently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be more confident talking about your experience even when it makes people uncomfortable. Be braver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chridt, i don't think I'd have listened to anything at that age, i was too dumb

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

You’re gonna make a lot of money on that house when sell it next year.

Invest it all in more property and don’t waste 75% of it on partying, drinking and buying stupid boys toys!!!

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

Don’t get married next year

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Stop being too fucking nice, people don't deserve it.

Mrs

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Don’t be so shy with totties

Pursue a diagnosis for that thing (no, not that thing)

Women aren’t like us normal people

Invest in Apple

Buy property

Don’t waste money on shite

Travel

The perfect woman doesn’t exist - stop chasing better

Stretch before running

Pornography doesn’t give you cuddles

Don’t go out with that c**t

The grass is never greener

You are you

You are liked and loved

You are good enough as you are

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By *ennylewis2016Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Never trust Chester road in Sunderland.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Don't sniff the nans knickers not m, rotted the sputum quicker that devil's dandruff

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By *idlandiaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Buy shares in apple and amazon

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

At 21 I was riding a chopped Bonneville and living my life the the very max.

My advice?

Don't drink that last pint of HSB, don't get on the bike and don't lose your nerve about buying that flat.

You'll be sorry, you know it all knobhead.

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

Don't get married, till ya nearly 30, put ya self first n follow your dreams

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Enjoy life but also invest in the furure. Get financial advise, start saving and investing a little, start a pension, get health, dental and life insurance before you get any health issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to saunas, Dress more, fuck more, don't worry be sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and also start paying into a pension straight away.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Don't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t marry her. Wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Transfer and cash in as much of your pension as you can before Putin and Truss collaborate to wipe tens of thousands of its value, just when you need it.

Marry someone with big tits as you know it's what you really want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop being shy and be the slut you want to be

You seem to have got there, wonderful

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Wear sun cream this weekend.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

A year in a gym with real hard work you could become the legend you believe you are also dont go to manchester in the summer

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'll say what I always say on these threads

'someone pretending to be you from the future will tell you stuff in a minute. Take no notice, if you change anything you won't learn what you need to and your life won't turn out the wonderful way it has. Oh and for goodness sake look after your teeth '

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

"Stop smoking and stay stopped

What would that do to change your life ? Just tell yourself that same thing now and stop "

I don’t smoke now. But at 21 I was a student and the bulk of my student debt was probs as a result of smoking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll say what I always say on these threads

I’m only 26. What if my life doesn’t turn out wonderful? I think a small bit of advice is ok. It’s the big bits that you ought to worry about

What if your life turns out completely different because you decided to look after your teeth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live every day like it’s your last ….. don’t be scared to walk away. Would’ve served me well many years ago. But everything worked out in the end

Mrs

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

"Live every day like it’s your last ….. don’t be scared to walk away. Would’ve served me well many years ago. But everything worked out in the end

Mrs "

Someone said that today - I asked if that means I need to spend every day in a coffin making people cry.

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By *antam AvershiresMan
over a year ago

Falme

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By *antam AvershiresMan
over a year ago

Falme

Walk away from your Mother, she isn't the person you think she is and will bring grief into your life countless times before you cut ties.

Forgive your father as it wasn't his fault and you only find that out after he is gone

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'll say what I always say on these threads

I’m only 26. What if my life doesn’t turn out wonderful? I think a small bit of advice is ok. It’s the big bits that you ought to worry about

What if your life turns out completely different because you decided to look after your teeth? "

What if it didn't?

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

Do not move in with him.

You’ll lose a part of yourself and it will take you years to get it back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy life, say what you think, make up your own mind on the people you meet. Explore your sexuality and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll say what I always say on these threads

I’m only 26. What if my life doesn’t turn out wonderful? I think a small bit of advice is ok. It’s the big bits that you ought to worry about

What if your life turns out completely different because you decided to look after your teeth?

What if it didn't?

Also wouldn’t your life be wildly different anyway if any future version of you communicated with you TWICE (once to warn you about the second time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a Mam at 21 .. that didn't go down with a Catholic irish family .. but gladly the moved with the times .. so I married a church of Ireland lad

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Go travel and do what makes you happy, not others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodnight all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly boring stuff like

Start your pension now

And don't take shit from men.

.Be yourself

But then, without all the mistakes and tragedy, I wouldn't be who I am now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Goodnight all x "

Great advice

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Dont eat that..

Have a salad

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'll say what I always say on these threads

I’m only 26. What if my life doesn’t turn out wonderful? I think a small bit of advice is ok. It’s the big bits that you ought to worry about

What if your life turns out completely different because you decided to look after your teeth?

What if it didn't?

Also wouldn’t your life be wildly different anyway if any future version of you communicated with you TWICE (once to warn you about the second time

)?"

Maybe. I'm not getting in a time machine though

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Up Your Frock!

Lose the self doubt… you can still say I’m really good… and remain humble.

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