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By *obilebottom OP   Man
over a year ago

All over

Your presence has been noted over time. Sadly you are not unique, there are a number of you so hopefully you will not take this personally. Your vanity, self adoration and sense of entitlement can often manifest itself in various ways. There are ofen daily occurences of such behaviour documented in perpetuity. So perhaps, though doubting you will, halt back the delusions of grandeur, your competitive approach to social interactions and even the aggressive, prejudiced and even bigoted behaviour that you feel is acceptable towards others in this incognito world. Not cool and only those of often similar ilk will fall for it. The rest of us will continue to roll our eyes and enjoy chatting to those with a little more substance and normal behaviour. Please, next time you look in the mirror, or the river perhaps, try and love others around you with all their imperfections as much as you love yourself and without fear or bias. Just a final thought, don't go around thinking you're all that, you ain't

Ps. This was just catharctic for me to write having observed such behaviour for a while and usually from the same few people. This is a moment of self indulgence and narcissistic behaviour if you like of my own. Hopefully not the only one that feels like that from time to time. In the words of the great Wonko, I am out and no offence meant to any individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh.

I love when people are passive aggressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooh.

I love when people are passive aggressive. "

It’s the drama, mick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beautiful words

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I find it much more carthartic to not even acknowledge people of this ilk.

If they need to be the loudest person in the room or require an extra helping of validation let them get on with it.

You'll often find that the the old trope that you can't fool all of the people all of the time doesn't apply on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Well you’re not wrong. Certainly fits some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooh.

I love when people are passive aggressive.

It’s the drama, mick!"

*grabs popcorn*

*waits for someone to give out to me for being such a cliquey bully for enjoying the drama*

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"Beautiful words "

Amen

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Rock on. Live and let live.

If it's not hurting anyone, people should do what they do and not worry about what others do if it brings those others joy.

Except Lemon. Cliquey bitch (who I'm glad is back cos I missed her but don't tell her that)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this is what I think it is then...

OP, I remember your first ever forum post, excited and looking forward to having fun in amongst the different topics and chaos that can happen, now it's seems you've let a percentage of twats on the site get to you. That's a shame. Focus on your priorities in life not words of strangers

(I could be hitting way left though lol)

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"If this is what I think it is then...

OP, I remember your first ever forum post, excited and looking forward to having fun in amongst the different topics and chaos that can happen, now it's seems you've let a percentage of twats on the site get to you. That's a shame. Focus on your priorities in life not words of strangers

(I could be hitting way left though lol)"

No, I think you're right. I like your threads OP. I've noticed a few more like these recently.

Better to spend your energy on posters who bring you joy, even though it can be hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your presence has been noted over time. Sadly you are not unique, there are a number of you so hopefully you will not take this personally. Your vanity, self adoration and sense of entitlement can often manifest itself in various ways. There are ofen daily occurences of such behaviour documented in perpetuity. So perhaps, though doubting you will, halt back the delusions of grandeur, your competitive approach to social interactions and even the aggressive, prejudiced and even bigoted behaviour that you feel is acceptable towards others in this incognito world. Not cool and only those of often similar ilk will fall for it. The rest of us will continue to roll our eyes and enjoy chatting to those with a little more substance and normal behaviour. Please, next time you look in the mirror, or the river perhaps, try and love others around you with all their imperfections as much as you love yourself and without fear or bias. Just a final thought, don't go around thinking you're all that, you ain't

Ps. This was just catharctic for me to write having observed such behaviour for a while and usually from the same few people. This is a moment of self indulgence and narcissistic behaviour if you like of my own. Hopefully not the only one that feels like that from time to time. In the words of the great Wonko, I am out and no offence meant to any individual. "

Did someone turn you down?

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"Your presence has been noted over time. Sadly you are not unique, there are a number of you so hopefully you will not take this personally. Your vanity, self adoration and sense of entitlement can often manifest itself in various ways. There are ofen daily occurences of such behaviour documented in perpetuity. So perhaps, though doubting you will, halt back the delusions of grandeur, your competitive approach to social interactions and even the aggressive, prejudiced and even bigoted behaviour that you feel is acceptable towards others in this incognito world. Not cool and only those of often similar ilk will fall for it. The rest of us will continue to roll our eyes and enjoy chatting to those with a little more substance and normal behaviour. Please, next time you look in the mirror, or the river perhaps, try and love others around you with all their imperfections as much as you love yourself and without fear or bias. Just a final thought, don't go around thinking you're all that, you ain't

Ps. This was just catharctic for me to write having observed such behaviour for a while and usually from the same few people. This is a moment of self indulgence and narcissistic behaviour if you like of my own. Hopefully not the only one that feels like that from time to time. In the words of the great Wonko, I am out and no offence meant to any individual.

Did someone turn you down? "

Not very nice

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Rock on. Live and let live.

If it's not hurting anyone, people should do what they do and not worry about what others do if it brings those others joy.

Except Lemon. Cliquey bitch (who I'm glad is back cos I missed her but don't tell her that)"

•

Never trust a woman who uses "cos" as an alternative to "because".

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Rock on. Live and let live.

If it's not hurting anyone, people should do what they do and not worry about what others do if it brings those others joy.

Except Lemon. Cliquey bitch (who I'm glad is back cos I missed her but don't tell her that)

•

Never trust a woman who uses "cos" as an alternative to "because". "

Bollocks Nero, bollocks, I say.

I was making a really clever maths joke as it happens. Probably.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Rock on. Live and let live.

If it's not hurting anyone, people should do what they do and not worry about what others do if it brings those others joy.

Except Lemon. Cliquey bitch (who I'm glad is back cos I missed her but don't tell her that)

•

Never trust a woman who uses "cos" as an alternative to "because".

Bollocks Nero, bollocks, I say.

I was making a really clever maths joke as it happens. Probably."

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NSP, in the place to be, you Rebel MC, if you were making a really clever Caesar Salad I would shower you with plaudits for correctly using Cos Lettuce.

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