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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is too direct?

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

Direct

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It’s not. Just say it as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very!

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By *rishVikingMan
over a year ago

Shankill

Want fuck is probably too direct

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Is too direct?"

Direct is best

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny


"Is too direct?

Direct is best "

Unless it’s too direct

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Depends on what a person sees direct as.

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London

Shove it in me Bruce you fucking horn dog I want you to impregnate me and then shout out the name you wish to give the offspring while ejaculating.

Probably that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shove it in me Bruce you fucking horn dog I want you to impregnate me and then shout out the name you wish to give the offspring while ejaculating.

Probably that?"

"Sorry, not again" isn't a suitable name for a child.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Is too direct?"

A frying pan to the mush?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice tits, OP

Or nice cock. Depending on who’s writing.

FaF?

How am I doing?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Is too direct?

Direct is best

Unless it’s too direct

"

What's classed as to direct? What's direct for you wont direct for me

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"Shove it in me Bruce you fucking horn dog I want you to impregnate me and then shout out the name you wish to give the offspring while ejaculating.

Probably that?"

I sent you that in confidence, Bruce

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London


"Shove it in me Bruce you fucking horn dog I want you to impregnate me and then shout out the name you wish to give the offspring while ejaculating.

Probably that?

I sent you that in confidence, Bruce "

But I want to brag about it!

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"Shove it in me Bruce you fucking horn dog I want you to impregnate me and then shout out the name you wish to give the offspring while ejaculating.

Probably that?

I sent you that in confidence, Bruce

But I want to brag about it!"

Fine, I've outed myself now anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With someone I'm into, direct and explicit is great

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

There’s always a time and a place

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"With someone I'm into, direct and explicit is great "
,, this

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London


"Shove it in me Bruce you fucking horn dog I want you to impregnate me and then shout out the name you wish to give the offspring while ejaculating.

Probably that?

I sent you that in confidence, Bruce

But I want to brag about it!

Fine, I've outed myself now anyway! "

We should do it again some time though to be fair?

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Pretty much everything is too direct.

Most communication is body language and reading subtle signs and sending vibes.

If you send the right ones, they can respond appropriately. If you send a non-verbal one and it's not reciprocated, both parties can withdraw without loss of face.

Of course, not everyone can send/read non-verbal signs, in which case verbal confirmation is an essential fallback if uncertain.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If it makes you wince.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't know how to answer and I don't really understand the question.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

[Removed by poster at 15/06/23 23:46:57]

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"[Removed by poster at 15/06/23 23:46:57]"

Typo!

I am just pondering the same thing. After sending a very direct message.

J

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"[Removed by poster at 15/06/23 23:46:57]

Typo!

I am just pondering the same thing. After sending a very direct message.

J"

Actually, something just landed in our inbox that makes my direct message seem like Hugh Grant at his bumbliest so there you go.

J

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I'm good at indirect. Circuitous. Going around the houses. Failing to get to the point. Being too shy to ask. Using metaphor and simile. Not knowing how to approach the edges of the fringe of the matter.

So too direct would be more direct than I can be direct. Too direct would be less indirect.

You'll have to be direct for me, because I won't be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who's staying it.

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

From a woman it's never too direct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Direct is always best , in the end that where your going to end up so get to the point ( in my opinion)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends who's staying it."

* Saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Direct is always best , in the end that where your going to end up so get to the point ( in my opinion)"

But no need to be crude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends who's staying it.

* Saying "

But why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being direct here , to me , never works , everybody knows why everyone else is here so being direct in that case is totally a waste of time . People just don't go for that kinda crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is too direct?"

Faf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See when a woman’s telling you a story?

It’s the exact opposite of that.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Is too direct?"

Show us your gape, love

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I like direct.

Direct is good.

Less chance of filling the empty space with bullshit.

The mr

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

I reckon 95% of the time been direct gets you nowhere on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing! Being direct is a good thing

Mr

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I occasionally get asked to calm it down a tad, but that's for other people's benefit not mine, so depending on my mood as to how I proceed

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London


"I occasionally get asked to calm it down a tad, but that's for other people's benefit not mine, so depending on my mood as to how I proceed"

There's no such thing as enough nudes

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is too direct?"

If you get blocked, that was too direct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shortest distance between two points but then again you miss the best views on the circular route.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

As usual it depends, horses for courses.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"[Removed by poster at 15/06/23 23:46:57]

Typo!

I am just pondering the same thing. After sending a very direct message.

J

Actually, something just landed in our inbox that makes my direct message seem like Hugh Grant at his bumbliest so there you go.

J"

Turns out it was just about the right amount of direct

J

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Is too direct?"

Ask Google maps as there direction is shocking at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your nickname is sat nav, your too direct.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"If your nickname is sat nav, your too direct."

Or twat nav

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have Asperger's and have spent my entire life saying the wrong thing to the wrong person at the wrong time.

So, I have no idea really -- people say they like directness, but when I am, the response isn't always as favourable as I expect it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sports direct

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Give sex now! Might be too direct.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I prefer direct as long as you can back up what you are saying. Life is too short to go around the houses and having to decipher and drag something out of someone that they want to say in the first place.

I’m not your therapist Brian!!

Marc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when a woman is direct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give sex now! Might be too direct.

"

I’d only believe that once your lips were around my bobbies helmet

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Can you be too direct at the gym?

Would that be Sports Direct?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Direct is always best, in my opinion.

It is though how it's delivered on whether it's actually direct or another way.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Direct is best for me - anything less and I'll assume you are just being friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too direct?

Well to be completely honest, these days we say everything through “flowers“ because we don’t think other person would accept hard truth . instead of saying how it is, when we receive critique on which we answer is “fine” when in reality you wanna say all what’s on your mind,but unfortunately you can’t,because it will put other person in tears and probably will offend.

Alice

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"Too direct?

Well to be completely honest, these days we say everything through “flowers“ because we don’t think other person would accept hard truth . instead of saying how it is, when we receive critique on which we answer is “fine” when in reality you wanna say all what’s on your mind,but unfortunately you can’t,because it will put other person in tears and probably will offend.

Alice "

You can say what you feel without being offensive though. The truth is some people aren’t worth the energy to it takes

Marc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too direct?

Well to be completely honest, these days we say everything through “flowers“ because we don’t think other person would accept hard truth . instead of saying how it is, when we receive critique on which we answer is “fine” when in reality you wanna say all what’s on your mind,but unfortunately you can’t,because it will put other person in tears and probably will offend.

Alice

You can say what you feel without being offensive though. The truth is some people aren’t worth the energy to it takes

Marc"

True, I just like in these type of conversations I’m bad person because I say how it is especially at work love to wind up other people because they can’t take the truth.

Alice

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