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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You have a nosey at the people who’ve checked out your profile….. then you see their status update and it gives you the ‘ick’…. Does it put you off them or do you bypass it ?

There’s some I cringe at and some make me laugh

Thoughts please as I’m bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have definitely been turned off (and on) by a status update

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have definitely been turned off (and on) by a status update"

I’ve been turned off more recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%! Had this very recently.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Ick must be the in word tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ick must be the in word tonight "

So it would seem! Lots of it going around!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"You have a nosey at the people who’ve checked out your profile….. then you see their status update and it gives you the ‘ick’…. Does it put you off them or do you bypass it ?

There’s some I cringe at and some make me laugh

Thoughts please as I’m bored "

Bugger off, I'm not you're entertainment... Throws clowns hat and red nose into the corner in rage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"100%! Had this very recently. "

I blame the men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have a nosey at the people who’ve checked out your profile….. then you see their status update and it gives you the ‘ick’…. Does it put you off them or do you bypass it ?

There’s some I cringe at and some make me laugh

Thoughts please as I’m bored

Bugger off, I'm not you're entertainment... Throws clowns hat and red nose into the corner in rage."

Oh man up will ya

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

All taken with a pinch of salt as its fab, then the odd catchs my eye n I think fabs a fucked up place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the ick really, really easily so I tend to avoid unless I really like their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst one that I will never ever forget is...

"Embdy wantin fingert"

We are from Glasgow so it was typical Glaswegian slang and I was just like eeeeeeeewwww

Shame really, as the guy was actually on our hotlist... Made us take him straight off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aye 100%! Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have a nosey at the people who’ve checked out your profile….. "

Ha! Clearly only an issue for women on Fab, as either our profiles are never checked out, or else ninja mode is turned on.

In terms of status updates, the ones that would turn me off are usually ones that I have blocked (so I don't see them). Whilst if an 'out of character' update appears, I usually assume that it is a consequence of a game on the Forum.

I like the off beat updates, or those that are cryptic and leave you trying to understand what has led to the comment.

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London

I personally love it when they ask for a MMMMMMMMMMMMMF. Kinky.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

…

Yes…..some statuses are so off putting!

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Status updates are a great filter, throwing the toys out of their pram gives us an insight to what we'd be dealing with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are really hot I’ll pretend I didn’t see it

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

It's a tightrope, I'm telling ya.

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

I never read status updates. I guess they’re interesting if you know the person. Otherwise I don’t see the attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All taken with a pinch of salt as its fab, then the odd catchs my eye n I think fabs a fucked up place "

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I think I only usually notice status updates of my friends. There's a couple that often have me in stitches. So I check them for giggles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally love it when they ask for a MMMMMMMMMMMMMF. Kinky."

Is that a man or woman asking thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massively so. I'm an old fusspot.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Depends what it says OP but yes they can be off putting especially if they include the words “balls deep anyone? - meet now”

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London


"I personally love it when they ask for a MMMMMMMMMMMMMF. Kinky.

Is that a man or woman asking thou "

Doesn't matter I'm game

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By *C79Man
over a year ago

Caterham

A high percentage of profiles that look at mine have "no single males" stamped somewhere in their status/blurb so that creates a bit of a dead end.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"A high percentage of profiles that look at mine have "no single males" stamped somewhere in their status/blurb so that creates a bit of a dead end."

Ping a FAF anyway you never know

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

One of my first meets on here came from me messaging someone about their status, so there are upsides.

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By *allMeBeeMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"The worst one that I will never ever forget is...

"Embdy wantin fingert"

We are from Glasgow so it was typical Glaswegian slang and I was just like eeeeeeeewwww

Shame really, as the guy was actually on our hotlist... Made us take him straight off! "

Who said romance is dead?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, it happens.

But this place is weird, lots of text and not much in between. Crossed wires are common place and to be expected.

Dickheads. Less so. They're easier to spot.

We can smell our own you see.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Only if it’s a private in joke lovey dovey Facebook type status to that person they’ve recently bonked.

Can’t be dealing with that. D R A M A potential? = High.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends what it says OP but yes they can be off putting especially if they include the words “balls deep anyone? - meet now”

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Yeah those ones make me cringe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 status ? No. Many shitty statuses and then I’ll probably avoid. But that’s from my hotlist and I view my updates for a looong time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can do. Especially when their profile talks about how much of a gentleman they are but their status reads 'which sluts gonna spread their gash for me, horny'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have a nosey at the people who’ve checked out your profile….. then you see their status update and it gives you the ‘ick’…. Does it put you off them or do you bypass it ?

There’s some I cringe at and some make me laugh

Thoughts please as I’m bored "

This is a slight concern with the forum game of setting a status at someone else's suggestion.

I see some and think, that'll be your blocked by what could be otherwise potential meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been some statuses that have put us off.

Need my balls emptying, as one example.

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

Yeah absolutely. Once I get that yuck thought in my head that's it game over, no going back from there

Em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have a nosey at the people who’ve checked out your profile….. then you see their status update and it gives you the ‘ick’…. Does it put you off them or do you bypass it ?

There’s some I cringe at and some make me laugh

Thoughts please as I’m bored

This is a slight concern with the forum game of setting a status at someone else's suggestion.

I see some and think, that'll be your blocked by what could be otherwise potential meets.

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Ink is right?!!!!

But, and I dare say it.

As any one in here. Does it really matter and has it ever ever made any difference? Really

I’ve had empty statuses, filthy statuses,playful meaningless/song lyrics/honest and mundane, …

And nothing changes.

People either fancy you first off, or they’ll never pop in your inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^just my opinion

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