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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you could change something about yourself what would it be?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"If you could change something about yourself what would it be?"

Nothing as I accept who i am, how I am and what I am....to want to change something about me would.mean I don't like me where as I do like me

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'd like some hair.

A

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’d be more outgoing. As it is, i’m very shy and introverted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigger boobs and replace my belly button with a vagina. Mr

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"If you could change something about yourself what would it be?"
my appearance so fed up of people thinking I'm Brad Pitt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to be taller.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

The alcoholism could go

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Better health.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably reduce my humility.

I need to work on my self esteem a bit more.

Boost my confidence.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Probably reduce my humility.

I need to work on my self esteem a bit more.

Boost my confidence. "

Aww this is lovely, even more so from you.

I'd like to have more self belief. The sort that might wobble occasionally but for the most part it's there - unaffected by others negatively but reinforced by experiences and happiness.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Also... and this might sound daft. I quite like humility. I like confidence but there's a lot to be said for a quiet, almost modest sort. It's hard to explain.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Thicker hair that’s still its original colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing other than getting rid of my hayfever. I'm far from perfect but happy with what's going on upstairs so that will do for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably reduce my humility.

I need to work on my self esteem a bit more.

Boost my confidence.

Aww this is lovely, even more so from you.

I'd like to have more self belief. The sort that might wobble occasionally but for the most part it's there - unaffected by others negatively but reinforced by experiences and happiness.

"

I literally got given a book on it yesterday.

I think it was a joke

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

My pre mum tum back & maybe longer legs.

Mrs

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Definitely my age

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham


"If you could change something about yourself what would it be?"

I would like to change my whole self to look like Ana de Armas

Oh yes, that would be nice

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Probably reduce my humility.

I need to work on my self esteem a bit more.

Boost my confidence.

Aww this is lovely, even more so from you.

I'd like to have more self belief. The sort that might wobble occasionally but for the most part it's there - unaffected by others negatively but reinforced by experiences and happiness.

"

Me too!! - Xeno

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I'd get rid of my mental illnesses x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... my face.

I'm just tired with people cynically assuming that I'm some vain, pretty boy.

My personality doesn't match the boy band vibes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taller, but not too much would have been good.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

My age I guess, I’m turning 60 next week and I would happily drop back to being 30 again but knowing what I know now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to trust people more. Assuming the worst in people is not a great quality, I wish I didn't judge on other people's actions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More self compassion, less tough love.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially I wanted to type about wanting a flat tummy, to have better hair, non saggy boobs and a thigh gap.

However I now realise those things aren't my problem. My problem is actually how I see myself and how much importance I place on these things, how I lack confidence and self worth.

So while I'd love to be a size 12, I'd actually just really like to feel good in the body I have.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Probably couple of inches taller and not be as Fugly otherwise I'm all good

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Honestly - nothing

I spent years lacking in confidence of wondering if I was good enough for someone who frankly wasn’t right for me, it ate at me to a point of over analysing and second guessing myself,

on reflection I was borden line depressive.

Since recovering from that I’ve learned to love myself until we do this we can’t truly allow another to do so - I can say with confidence I’m the happiest I’ve been in a long time both in myself, my career and my current relationship.

Although I worked hard on myself I think finding someone who accepts you for who you are goes a long way to feeling free of those past demons x

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby


"My age I guess, I’m turning 60 next week and I would happily drop back to being 30 again but knowing what I know now"

Yes me too

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By *D3!Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I wish I wasn't cut, I spent most of my teenage years and early twenties hiding away because I felt broken because of it (yes the surgeon did a great job and I'm thankful for that) but even though I've accepted it and learnt to appreciate it for what it is (eventually sharing it online gave me a massive confidence boost) I do still wish I knew what it felt like and what it would look like.

That and just more confidence in myself in general, I need to stop letting people use me for their own needs and put myself first for a change.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Bigger boobs would be No1 on the list then a tummy tuck no2.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I would get rid of the brain goblins!!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Menopause can do one thanks

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Overall I'm good thanks, but if my eyebrows could stop with the privet hedge thing that would be great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bigger boobs would be No1 on the list then a tummy tuck no2."

Your boobies are perfect x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would get rid of the brain goblins!!"

This for sure

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Bigger boobs would be No1 on the list then a tummy tuck no2.

Your boobies are perfect x"

Very kind, I just loved my pregnant boobs so much bigger, I could wear low cut tops and they looked good on me.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I'd just like to have my teeth sorted.

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By *igjonny090Man
over a year ago

blackpool and Manchester

I’d be a lot lighter, I’m trying to diet and lose weight but if I could click my fingers and drop all the weight I would

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