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By *inoc2185 OP   Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Is it just me or would it be good to have a room for trans people and the people who adore them. I love anyone but some of my best connections have been with trans people.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

It'll be chaos and riots I tell ya!

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"It'll be chaos and riots I tell ya!"

Oh fun, is it a bring your own brick thing or are bricks provided?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If I wear a packer can I tag along? I don't want to miss out on all that gorgeousness and bitching just because I was born in the right body.

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By *inoc2185 OP   Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"It'll be chaos and riots I tell ya!"

Sounds good

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

We've asked admin, and there's a trans thread that's been maintained in the hopes we'll eventually get a forum section of our own. There's enough of us!

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"If I wear a packer can I tag along? I don't want to miss out on all that gorgeousness and bitching just because I was born in the right body."

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"If I wear a packer can I tag along? I don't want to miss out on all that gorgeousness and bitching just because I was born in the right body."

I'm certain you'd be an honorary "one of the gurls"

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

It would be wild I tell you wild.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"If I wear a packer can I tag along? I don't want to miss out on all that gorgeousness and bitching just because I was born in the right body."

yeah of course and not just because I fancy you.

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By *inoc2185 OP   Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"If I wear a packer can I tag along? I don't want to miss out on all that gorgeousness and bitching just because I was born in the right body.

yeah of course and not just because I fancy you."

She is hot to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Already asked for. In the meantime we already have a Trans thread going xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I wear a packer can I tag along? I don't want to miss out on all that gorgeousness and bitching just because I was born in the right body."

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"It'll be chaos and riots I tell ya!

Oh fun, is it a bring your own brick thing or are bricks provided?"

Oh my bricks have Prada written on them inside matching handbag my dear...

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By *inoc2185 OP   Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Already asked for. In the meantime we already have a Trans thread going xx"

I must have missed it.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"If I wear a packer can I tag along? I don't want to miss out on all that gorgeousness and bitching just because I was born in the right body.

I'm certain you'd be an honorary "one of the gurls" "

With the 6ft height, broad shoulders and big hands, I have been confused with the staff at drag bars on multiple occasions. I promise I'll at least look like I belong

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Our own section would be nice, but I am happy with the occasional thread popping up too

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"If I wear a packer can I tag along? I don't want to miss out on all that gorgeousness and bitching just because I was born in the right body.

I'm certain you'd be an honorary "one of the gurls"

With the 6ft height, broad shoulders and big hands, I have been confused with the staff at drag bars on multiple occasions. I promise I'll at least look like I belong "

Oo great. You can make me feel petite lol

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By *he_13th_ghostWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

There needs to be more spaces for trans people for sure.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Our own section would be nice, but I am happy with the occasional thread popping up too "

Yeah I agree, it's nice seeing everyone mixed in with the forums too. Separate groups tend to create tribalism which I really don't like.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Our own section would be nice, but I am happy with the occasional thread popping up too

Yeah I agree, it's nice seeing everyone mixed in with the forums too. Separate groups tend to create tribalism which I really don't like."

Exactly that, everyone has more chance of interacting if we're right there in the main forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I am happy with things as they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I am happy with things as they. "

*are

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Be careful what you wish for, you may get it.

There’s a few on this site who don’t want the Trans community involved in the swinging scene. They’d get their way if every discussion or subject about the TV/TS community was squirrelled away to a separate area in the forums that nobody visits apart from the TV/TS people on here.

Be on the main boards just like that thread which is in the lounge currently, you think those that dislike us would actually prefer to not have to see it ?

Don’t hide Trans subjects away, discuss them in the main areas instead.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Fon’t hide Trans subjects away, discuss them in the main areas instead.

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I dunno... I've been part of the LGBTQ+ evolution for so long I think having a bit of a "ghetto" is not a bad thing as things open up.

We can have our cake and eat it. So I would love to spend time in trans oriented (but not exclusive) forum where we can have safer conversations and revel in the admiration. A totally trans world.

At the same time, we as individuals should also spend as much time in general (eg Lounge or Swinging Advice) or even other sub cultures (eg BDSM) and be highly present and visible there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clarity. Whatever it is we the LGBT minority want from the world, someone has already died to earn that for us.

I’ll be fucking damned before I ghetto myself and make a mockery of that.

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

Canvass for a Fabtrans site, unlikely anyone will because the demand is pretence from everyone.

When we have trans sites, trans sports & trans spaces everyone would live in peace as no one disrespects trans people but disrespect the demand of pretence and silly pretence they equal real women in sport, life & privacy.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"Clarity. Whatever it is we the LGBT minority want from the world, someone has already died to earn that for us.

I’ll be fucking damned before I ghetto myself and make a mockery of that. "

I think "ghetto" is maybe an unfortunate choice of terms.

I certainly didn't envisage a Trans forum section as being somewhere I would somehow limit my engagement to; any more than I only post in the Lounge. I thought of it more as an area to group and make more readily accessible threads on stuff that we may or may not feel specifically pertains to us, makeup, hair, clothes, etc. etc. They can often drop off the radar in the busy general sections, what with all Brucey's posts and the inevitable Torso Tuesdays and what have you.

I'd still post mainly in the more general Lounge and Swingers sections, because I like interacting with the full spread of members. And I agree, we should be fully integrated into that.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"Canvass for a Fabtrans site, unlikely anyone will because the demand is pretence from everyone.

When we have trans sites, trans sports & trans spaces everyone would live in peace as no one disrespects trans people but disrespect the demand of pretence and silly pretence they equal real women in sport, life & privacy.

"

This is transphobia. What you're advocating is segregation of a type that I'm all too familiar with, having grown up under Apartheid. "Separate, but equal" was supposedly what that was about, but it was really just about keeping certain groups down and "in their place".

There are nuanced conversations to be had about the intersection of women's and trans rights and access to facilities and spaces, but your statement is reductive, simplistic and discriminatory. It's also insulting to characterise what is an exceedingly fraught and difficult life path for anyone who walks some part of it as being a "silly pretence". Please try to have more empathy.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Would this trans room have a kettle...so I could knock up a pot noodle..?..

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

Can it have a rocking chair and a sling and a big massage table mm . Mx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clarity. Whatever it is we the LGBT minority want from the world, someone has already died to earn that for us.

I’ll be fucking damned before I ghetto myself and make a mockery of that.

I think "ghetto" is maybe an unfortunate choice of terms.

I certainly didn't envisage a Trans forum section as being somewhere I would somehow limit my engagement to; any more than I only post in the Lounge. I thought of it more as an area to group and make more readily accessible threads on stuff that we may or may not feel specifically pertains to us, makeup, hair, clothes, etc. etc. They can often drop off the radar in the busy general sections, what with all Brucey's posts and the inevitable Torso Tuesdays and what have you.

I'd still post mainly in the more general Lounge and Swingers sections, because I like interacting with the full spread of members. And I agree, we should be fully integrated into that. "

Nope ghetto is the right word. Nothing unfortunate about it.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"Would this trans room have a kettle...so I could knock up a pot noodle..?.."

Lol! Maybe we could lobby for a microwave as well. Nice to heat up my curry.

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

If there's to be a riot, count me in ya bitches...

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