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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So me and my mate was chatting the other day bout his mrs getting mad at him for wanking when his mrs isn’t up for it

Do you get mad when your hubby/bf has a wank when you’re not in the mood or are you ok for him to?

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Women!!

Jo.Xx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Women!!

Jo.Xx "

Stop being such a female about it Jo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mrs is on and off she dose mind sometime and sometimes she doesn’t tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re women.

And if I’m wanking, she wants to watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure why anyone would really get mad at that

If your not in the mood but your partner is why would you begrudge them there orgasm?

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Women!!

Jo.Xx

Stop being such a female about it Jo."

ROFL ROFL ROFL

You mean Bitch Meli?!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women!!

Jo.Xx

Stop being such a female about it Jo.

ROFL ROFL ROFL

You mean Bitch Meli?!

Jo.Xx

"

What’s wrong? He just wanted a solo male orgasm!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally no. But it's important to realise that there's a reason that women react that way. Sometimes we can be insecure and vulnerable which projects onto our partners. It's probably not the wanking itself but something deeper that's lacking for her in herself or their relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally it wouldn't bother me unless of course he didn't ever try to wake me.

I love sleepy, not quite awake middle of the night sex, however that's because it's a novelty and a rare treat for me. I'd probably be tired if it was all the time

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I will answer the OP.

I absolutely without a shadow of a doubt do not mind my husband wanking. Infact I encourage it. Yes I love to watch him doing it, if I'm not with him I will ask him to film it and send me the evidence. Or at least tell me that he did.

Us Women are not all the same. Shocker!!

Jo.Xx

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Very much depends on how it is done.

In the bed in the middle of the night so it wakes you up not good. Done in a passive aggressive way after being told no, again nope.

Done that it's a mutual thing even if you're not there. But sending videos etc hot as hell

So I would say they need to actually communicate with each other, and find a solution that works for them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes there no wrong in wanting to have a wank over porn if the mrs isn’t up for some fun, but I think he said it was the moan of her saying your always wanking, his thought was if you just fucked me then I wouldn’t have to

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling


"Very much depends on how it is done.

In the bed in the middle of the night so it wakes you up not good. Done in a passive aggressive way after being told no, again nope.

Done that it's a mutual thing even if you're not there. But sending videos etc hot as hell

So I would say they need to actually communicate with each other, and find a solution that works for them. "

Completely agree with this x

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By *XXDREAMMan
over a year ago

sudbury


"Yes there no wrong in wanting to have a wank over porn if the mrs isn’t up for some fun, but I think he said it was the moan of her saying your always wanking, his thought was if you just fucked me then I wouldn’t have to

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So he knocks one out, because she won’t put out ? Sounds like a her problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he wants to have a wank, he can have a wank, I’m not going to stop him.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Yes there no wrong in wanting to have a wank over porn if the mrs isn’t up for some fun, but I think he said it was the moan of her saying your always wanking, his thought was if you just fucked me then I wouldn’t have to

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I don't know I'm not thr couple. But maybe just maybe instead of complaining to his mates. He could ask why she's not interested in sex anymore. And then work from there. if she is experiencing issues with sexual drive him watching porn and wanking may potentially make her feel like a failure, which may reduce her sexual drive even more. If he's done the above all credit to him but the way it's posted sounds like it's arguements about the wanking not discussing the problems. And if they can't have grown up discussions about sex, are they compatible?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm often away from my partners and always feel a slight pang knowing that load is going to waste instead of down my throat.

I think if someone was present with me and chose a wank over something mutual I'd be hurt though.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

That is so ridiculous. You are not the owner of your partner.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Not that I'm ever not in the mood, but I actively encourage himself to wank...I love to watch, or just know he has when we're apart

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

His body, his business.

I’d ask him if he would prefer me to help.

Or if I’m not in the mood then it’s his business.

Men don’t tell us when we are allowed to have a little me time, nor should we tell them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see no problem with that. Not sure what's the whole fuss about.

It's his body.

I hope she doesn't wank either?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My hypothetical partner can wank as much as he wants to.

I'd have things to say if he was moaning about me like this to his friends though.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"So me and my mate was chatting the other day bout his mrs getting mad at him for wanking when his mrs isn’t up for it

Do you get mad when your hubby/bf has a wank when you’re not in the mood or are you ok for him to? "
why would a woman get mad at that, he needs a new wife

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