FabSwingers.com forum: Hetero, Homo or Bisexual

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Having a debate with a couple and I just want others opinions.

1. What constitutes as sex between 2 women?

2. Are you classed as bisexual if you allow someone of same sex give you oral and nothing else? And I don't mean meeting someone of same sex on their own

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'd say bisexual

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Allow ?

If you are curious and try it, then want to do it again, I would say bisexual. Many people feel labels are not important.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Bisexual

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Having a debate with a couple and I just want others opinions.

1. What constitutes as sex between 2 women?

2. Are you classed as bisexual if you allow someone of same sex give you oral and nothing else? And I don't mean meeting someone of same sex on their own"

1. Whatever they choose to do, but would involve some kind of physical interaction. Doesn't have to mean breaking out the 14" strap-on or fisting eachother to oblivion.

2. One of two options here. Bi-curious if its your first time. Bisexuality if you do it regularly. Fab straight if you're only doing it because you can't find a woman to suck you off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If a woman ONLY wants to receive oral sex from a woman, nothing else and nothing more. Does that mean she is bisexual?

She will give, receive and have actual sex with a man?

Or would she have to scissor, finger, give oral sex and everything else that women do with each other, to be classed as bisexual?

Same with men. If he only receives oral sex from a man, but will do everything with a woman. Does that mean he is bisexual?

Or does he have to give oral to a man, have sex with etc, to be classed as bisexual?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Ah right. She is a pillow princess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at it other way if someone 100% straight they would not want oral or even touching off someone same sex

I used to meet a couple she wanted to try double entry one pussy one anal. He was so straight even that was too close for him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Look at it other way if someone 100% straight they would not want oral or even touching off someone same sex

I used to meet a couple she wanted to try double entry one pussy one anal. He was so straight even that was too close for him. "

That tells me he was uncomfortable around other men and it was her that wanted the 3way, not him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you see why the current definitions around virginity are so stupid and heteronormative myths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I’d say sexuality mostly about sexual attraction and desire? I don’t think we need to worry too much about what makes someone gay or bi or not. If they’re into people of the same sex then they’re probably a sexuality other than straight. We don’t need to figure out where specifically the line is

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

They define their own sexuality depending on how they feel romantically or sexually inclined to carry on having meetings with same sex partners.

If it is a spectrum, then they decide how close they are from straight to gay.

Plenty of people have an opinion on what it is to be gay, straight or bisexual but only the person will truly know (or even not know) what they feel deep down inside.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Kinsey Scale: monosexuals and bisexuals.

Kinsey scores range from 0 (exclusively heterosexual) to 3 (equal attraction to both sexes) to 6 (exclusively homosexual). Scores of 0 and 6 are usually considered monosexual, and 1 to 5 nonmonosexual. Scores of 2 to 4 are generally accepted to comprise the bisexual range of the Kinsey scale.

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

". One of two options here. Bi-curious if its your first time. Bisexuality if you do it regularly. Fab straight if you're only doing it because you can't find a woman to suck you off.

Excellent answer

Or you'll only suck the guy off to get to the girl

Mr R

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

". One of two options here. Bi-curious if its your first time. Bisexuality if you do it regularly. Fab straight if you're only doing it because you can't find a woman to suck you off.

Excellent answer

Or you'll only suck the guy off to get to the girl

Mr R"

100% correct!! Lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a scientifically proven, infallible test.

Buy a donut.

If you put your finger in the hole you’re straight.

If you didn’t buy a ring donut and went for the pink jammie you’re gay. Very.

If you got a jam donut you’re in a different shop as they don’t sell them where I’m referring to.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I was wondering this just yesterday as I was watching the Ultimatum queer love and two of them cheated.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

If they are only interested in women, Gay

If attracted to both sexes, bi

If they are primarily attracted to one sex. Bi- curious or hetro-flexible

If they are attracted to someone and gender plays no part. Happy.

Why does it matter.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It's actually very simple, if you indulge in sex with the same gender you are gay or bisexual. Your sexuality has nothing to do with romantic feelings, it's about who you have sex with. I don't understand why people are so against the description, there's no need to hide from it, thankfully it's perfectly acceptable these days.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"Ah right. She is a pillow princess

You took those thoughts straight out of my head

Marc

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Sometimes it's a good read of all the comments. Makes a good chat and debate etc

Then some folk try and shut em down with comments like

Who cares what labels etc

Can't we just chat n debate about stuff on here

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"If a woman ONLY wants to receive oral sex from a woman, nothing else and nothing more. Does that mean she is bisexual?

She will give, receive and have actual sex with a man?

Or would she have to scissor, finger, give oral sex and everything else that women do with each other, to be classed as bisexual?

Same with men. If he only receives oral sex from a man, but will do everything with a woman. Does that mean he is bisexual?

Or does he have to give oral to a man, have sex with etc, to be classed as bisexual?"

Defining by sex act is silly imo. What if i dont like oral from a guy , does that mean i can’t be straight anymore because i dont partake in the full suite of available activities?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"It's actually very simple, if you indulge in sex with the same gender you are gay or bisexual. Your sexuality has nothing to do with romantic feelings, it's about who you have sex with. I don't understand why people are so against the description, there's no need to hide from it, thankfully it's perfectly acceptable these days. "

Spot on

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"There is a scientifically proven, infallible test.

Buy a donut.

If you put your finger in the hole you’re straight.

If you didn’t buy a ring donut and went for the pink jammie you’re gay. Very.

If you got a jam donut you’re in a different shop as they don’t sell them where I’m referring to. "

Oh, I love the pink jammie! I like this test.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Having a debate with a couple and I just want others opinions.

1. What constitutes as sex between 2 women?

2. Are you classed as bisexual if you allow someone of same sex give you oral and nothing else? And I don't mean meeting someone of same sex on their own"

1. Question for the bi and gay women

2. Yes

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Having a debate with a couple and I just want others opinions.

1. What constitutes as sex between 2 women?

2. Are you classed as bisexual if you allow someone of same sex give you oral and nothing else? And I don't mean meeting someone of same sex on their own"

1- I'd say any sexual act.

2- no it doesn't, could be bicurious wants to try, could be pansexual, could be hetro flexible or one of the other variations that wouldn't include bi.

Mrs

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over a year ago

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

There are so many other options people can choose for their sexuality why limit it to just those 3? Ultimately though, if someone is happy does it matter?

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By *uckMan
over a year ago

Scunthorpe DN15

I'd say lgbtv+h

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Who cares just have sex and have fun

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. Many involved in the sex industry have sex with others without any attraction. You need sexual or romantic attraction to others in specific genders, to qualify.

We're too hung up on labels and definitions. Go have sex and enjoy it

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By *urkishmanMan
over a year ago

KUSADASI.TURKEY AND DUBLIN

Bisexual

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Are you classed as bisexual if you allow someone of same sex give you oral and nothing else? And I don't mean meeting someone of same sex on their own"

The wording here confuses me. Classed by whom? And what do you mean by 'allow'?

Meeting someone alone or with others is completely irrelevant. Are you sexually attracted towards people of the same sex? Or excited by the thought of sex with them? Even if just in certain circumstances?

If so, you might be gay, bisexual, bi-curious, hetero-flexible, pansexual etc. Or you might not be.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Way to many labels we think !! but any sexual act between the same sex is deemed a Homosexual act ? but people in general should do whatever they are happy with and feck all the labels ...

ps Mrs4 now classes herself good self as more Pansexual than anything nowdays xx

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"It's actually very simple, if you indulge in sex with the same gender you are gay or bisexual. Your sexuality has nothing to do with romantic feelings, it's about who you have sex with."

I don't think that's strictly true. I could be wrong, but I think it's more about who you are sexually attracted to (not who you actually have sex with).

Not trying to be pedantic, but if your definition was correct it would mean that those teens who have not yet come out of the closet are not gay because they are not yet having sex with people of the same gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Having a debate with a couple and I just want others opinions.

1. What constitutes as sex between 2 women?

2. Are you classed as bisexual if you allow someone of same sex give you oral and nothing else? And I don't mean meeting someone of same sex on their own"

Oooh! No WAY does number 2 count. Straight as an arrow, mate. Genuine FACT.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

For us..

Bisexuality is an attraction to both sexes.

To clarify someone who would consider being romantically involved with either, rather than nsa fun.

I am and have, D not and won't.

That seems to be an unpopular opinion, but ours and we won't argue about it (although just Google, doesn't mention sexual acts as a defining factor)

Mrs x

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

Oh crumbs!

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Bisexual

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"It's actually very simple, if you indulge in sex with the same gender you are gay or bisexual. Your sexuality has nothing to do with romantic feelings, it's about who you have sex with.

I don't think that's strictly true. I could be wrong, but I think it's more about who you are sexually attracted to (not who you actually have sex with).

Valid point!

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

I have had sex with men and women and enjoyed both.

I have bi on my profile as feel this best describes me.

The thing that amazes me is the amount of winks, fabs and messages I get from guys who have straight on their profile.

Why would a “straight” guy message or fab pics of my cock.

To me if you have sexual contact with a person of the same sex knowingly you are not hetro/straight.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I have had sex with men and women and enjoyed both.

I have bi on my profile as feel this best describes me.

The thing that amazes me is the amount of winks, fabs and messages I get from guys who have straight on their profile.

Why would a “straight” guy message or fab pics of my cock.

To me if you have sexual contact with a person of the same sex knowingly you are not hetro/straight. "

What about unknowingly?

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

"I have had sex with men and women and enjoyed both.

I have bi on my profile as feel this best describes me.

The thing that amazes me is the amount of winks, fabs and messages I get from guys who have straight on their profile.

Why would a “straight” guy message or fab pics of my cock.

To me if you have sexual contact with a person of the same sex knowingly you are not hetro/straight. "

That's an oldie.

IMO it's because there is a prejudice against guys who are bi from some women so guys prefer not to publicize the fact they like a bit of cock in case it reduces their chances of meeting females.

Sexuality is about what you are attracted to. I'm not attracted to men but not scared of a willy in close proximity either. It's just a bit of fun eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would a “straight” guy fab pics of my cock.

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As an appreciation of their artistic merit?

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Just don't see why one specific act on one specific day has to then be labelled.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Oh dear. I am sure I am not the only one who thinks these sort of threads only ever create controversy, and strange comments like why did so and so fab my new pic, I was only expecting a lovely brunette,38DD to do so. He must be some sort of deviant. Give me strength

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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

My take who really cares?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I can only speak for myself, and I consider myself bisexual.

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