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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you go back to being a 20 year old but in 2023?

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

No.

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By *uncouple 321Couple
over a year ago

south West

Nope

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I still am I'm stuck at 21

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *atnayCouple
over a year ago

STEVENAGE

God no.

But I would go back and re live my 20s with the knowledge I have now. I'd do a lot of things differently.

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God no.

But I would go back and re live my 20s with the knowledge I have now. I'd do a lot of things differently.

"

^ this for me too! I know many say the mistakes they made make them the person they are today so wouldn’t change anything, I’d definitely like to have the life knowledge I have now and zip back to the early 90’s for sure

Although, hey, yeah, if could get 30 years of my life back why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance!

Mrs

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

You mean reset to twenty when my knees didn't ache and I can pretend the shit lessons I learned since then we're just a bad dream?

Yes please

However, if it means unlearning all the things I've learned since then, hard pass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we both feel like we’re still 20, in our minds anyway P x

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Fuck no ... Way too much pressure these days, we had it easy back in the 90s

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Sure, I was massively into the ibiza clubbing scene at that time and happily it's still going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure, I’m still in my twenties so it wouldn’t be a dramatic change going back a few years.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Yeah go on then. For the shags.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Good question I’d always thought I’d do anything to go back to being 20 but if it has to be in present day fuck no I’m glad I lived through my late teens/early 20s when I did rather than the current shitshow the world is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean go back to 20 know what I know now...fuck yes. Start again from 20 without knowing what I know now...no point I'd do the same things all over again.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

No, it's a shitshow for young people now.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Yes. Probably. Maybe.

I’m still 25 in my head so it’s not a big ask

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

If I could keep the knowledge I have now, then god yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I was naive, confident that I was right, convinced I knew everything, and despite having seen much of the world incredibly insular and naive. To be faced with the confusion of 2023 would not have been good for my mental health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unlike the oldies above I was 20 only in 2017 and I would for sure swap it for now. With tik tok I’d be in my influencer bag at uni.

By the way the oldies comment was a joke. I don’t think anyone on fab is old or an oldie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. Probably. Maybe.

I’m still 25 in my head so it’s not a big ask "

Hmm. 25? I’ve never been with someone younger than me. You’ll do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" You’ll do "

You'll do is hardly a ringing endorsement!

Oh the youth of today, no respect for their elders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 21, so not far off, and all I’ve gotta say is, I wouldn’t wish being this age on anyone right now lol. Can’t find a (proper) job, can’t save up enough money for a place of my own from my poor paying job, can’t drive, and even when I do find a place of my own it’ll be ridiculously overpriced.

But still; at least it’s better than being 19. Now that was TRUE hell.

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Would you go back to being a 20 year old but in 2023?"

No, but I would go back to being a 20 year old in the 80's.best time of my life.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Yes.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"Would you go back to being a 20 year old but in 2023?

No, but I would go back to being a 20 year old in the 80's.best time of my life. "

,, this

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd like to be 20 but to be that age today isn't great for their future

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

I’m always told I still act that age now…

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Definately, I would have most of the bits that have been replaced or removed back again.

I would have the confidence to do stuff, that I tend to shy away from now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no, going out used to be fun but now everywhere you go, it looks like everyone has just got out of bed.

Loungewear in bars and clubs should be banned like it used to be in the good old days.

showing my age lol

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By *allMeBeeMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

I was out a couple of weeks ago and there was a group of young lads outside a bar moaning that they hadn't been let in because they were wearing shorts. To compound this, they felt there was an element of discrimination because some of their hunger HAD been allowed in, because they had tailored shorts, but some weren't because they were wearing polyester "Sports Shorts".

I think they learnt a valuable lesson that dressing for Saturday Night on the town isn't the same as dressing for fucking PE!

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By *allMeBeeMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"I was out a couple of weeks ago and there was a group of young lads outside a bar moaning that they hadn't been let in because they were wearing shorts. To compound this, they felt there was an element of discrimination because some of their hunger HAD been allowed in, because they had tailored shorts, but some weren't because they were wearing polyester "Sports Shorts".

I think they learnt a valuable lesson that dressing for Saturday Night on the town isn't the same as dressing for fucking PE! "

Number, not hunger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was out a couple of weeks ago and there was a group of young lads outside a bar moaning that they hadn't been let in because they were wearing shorts. To compound this, they felt there was an element of discrimination because some of their hunger HAD been allowed in, because they had tailored shorts, but some weren't because they were wearing polyester "Sports Shorts".

I think they learnt a valuable lesson that dressing for Saturday Night on the town isn't the same as dressing for fucking PE! "

Exactly, dressing to impress has been replaced by people choosing comfort over effort. I couldn't leave the house in what some people go out out in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God no.

But I would go back and re live my 20s with the knowledge I have now. I'd do a lot of things differently.

"

Hard relate.

Living as ENM now, emotionally liberated, my "fucks to give" bucket is empty... Practicing self care and introspective...

If only i had my 20yo body to go with that

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

Definately Not.

I bought my first house in 1960 at the tender age of 20, cannot envisage that happening in todays climate.

To put it into perspective my mortgage was 2.5 times my salary and was for 25 years, deposit was 10% and interest was 14.5%.

Property was new build bungalow priced at £1800.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

With what I know now yes to 19 preferable, if not I'm cool, but of course impossible.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Maybe

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No, not a chance, if you think I’m a prick now, you would have loved me in my 20’s.

The mr

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not now, no. So glad I was 20 in the 90's. What an era and a good time I had. Very different these days, incredibly so.

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Sure why not a year wont change much

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