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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you love yourselves? Do you get insecure messaging or chatting up the slim people?

Women say they live big boys but I’m starting to think they actually just mean in penis size not weight. Ooops

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

I love a man with some meat on his bones as they say

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

No hate to slim fellas but nothing gets me wetter than a chunky fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I embrace what I am Mr Pickle, and I work it like a fat boss.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

I have nothing against a bigger guy, but I tend to stick to slimmer ones as two chubbies don't make for great sex!

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I like a chunky man.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

I'm far from thin, fit meself. Alot of women say, they like chubby guy's. For some reason are more likely to talking to& be around thin, fit guy's, that I see anyway's.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I have nothing against a bigger guy, but I tend to stick to slimmer ones as two chubbies don't make for great sex! "

Let's try

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love a man with some meat on his bones as they say "

It’s not meat on my bones. It’s all fat but I am learning to like it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No hate to slim fellas but nothing gets me wetter than a chunky fella "

I just smiled and grabbed my chub.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I embrace what I am Mr Pickle, and I work it like a fat boss.

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You’re an inspo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Broad shoulders, stocky type with solid thighs... oooeee yep, lots of surface area for me to run my nails over!

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By *allMeBeeMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

I dated a super fit lass for a while; 6-pack, buns'o'steel, trained 3 times per day, ate pulses and veg. I totally loved the fact that she didn't try and preach her lifestyle to me at all, and she liked my physique as it was. I did get fitter being around her (not just for the obvious reasons, but the number of Domino's orders diminished heavily!).

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Personally I'm happy with myself and comfortable in my own skin. Always have been to some extent but I think naturism helps me too to love the body I've got. I've always been big even when I was always very active (my former career was very physical). Not so active now but still do some exercise. Skinny doesn't suit me one bit and my size hasn't ever seem to be a barrier to women or made me undatable. If I'm honest I've put on a little too much weight recently than I'm comfortable with and could do with losing a stone. Mainly because I don't want to buy new clothes and just feel a little happy with a little less weight as I do worry about the health implications. Not a biggy, just need to train more again (been very lazzy recently and Im no good at diets). But on the whole I love the skin I'm in and happy with who I am.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have nothing against a bigger guy, but I tend to stick to slimmer ones as two chubbies don't make for great sex! "

Boo, we are a match made in hell. In case you didn’t know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I embrace what I am Mr Pickle, and I work it like a fat boss.

You’re an inspo "

I don’t see my size as a limiting factor in anything. There’s plenty more to me than just being a fatty. My time here suggests that those who focus solely on their size as a reason for not meeting people are missing a trick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a chunky man."

Daizy Daizy, give me your answer do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm far from thin, fit meself. Alot of women say, they like chubby guy's. For some reason are more likely to talking to& be around thin, fit guy's, that I see anyway's. "

They’re ashamed of us!!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I dated a super fit lass for a while; 6-pack, buns'o'steel, trained 3 times per day, ate pulses and veg. I totally loved the fact that she didn't try and preach her lifestyle to me at all, and she liked my physique as it was. I did get fitter being around her (not just for the obvious reasons, but the number of Domino's orders diminished heavily!)."

I lost a lot of weight when I was having regular sex with really fit men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just makes it easier for them to roll me out of bed once they are done with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Broad shoulders, stocky type with solid thighs... oooeee yep, lots of surface area for me to run my nails over!

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That is not me! That sounds like a fit guy. Maybe a rugby player. I’m just chubby. The big thighs and big arms are because I’m chubby.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

One of my first boyfriends, when I was a size 10/12, was a large Greek guy.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I tend to find myself attracted to chunkier guys. I think as a big woman myself, I feel I'm less likely to break them.

Also, due to my habit of cooking and feeding people, guys tend to have a habit of putting on weight around me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dated a super fit lass for a while; 6-pack, buns'o'steel, trained 3 times per day, ate pulses and veg. I totally loved the fact that she didn't try and preach her lifestyle to me at all, and she liked my physique as it was. I did get fitter being around her (not just for the obvious reasons, but the number of Domino's orders diminished heavily!)."

Sounds like she loved you for you. And I love that for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself a little chunky and go through phases of love and loathe - not sure what ladies think of my look but I hope they like what they see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to be wanted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I'm happy with myself and comfortable in my own skin. Always have been to some extent but I think naturism helps me too to love the body I've got. I've always been big even when I was always very active (my former career was very physical). Not so active now but still do some exercise. Skinny doesn't suit me one bit and my size hasn't ever seem to be a barrier to women or made me undatable. If I'm honest I've put on a little too much weight recently than I'm comfortable with and could do with losing a stone. Mainly because I don't want to buy new clothes and just feel a little happy with a little less weight as I do worry about the health implications. Not a biggy, just need to train more again (been very lazzy recently and Im no good at diets). But on the whole I love the skin I'm in and happy with who I am.

Mr"

You should love your skin. It’s gorgeous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit of a chonk as my pics probably show. But I think my current weight is the weight I'm happiest at. Don't feel too heavy don't feel like I have to carb count too much etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It just makes it easier for them to roll me out of bed once they are done with me "

Agreed. And they’re always done with us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One of my first boyfriends, when I was a size 10/12, was a large Greek guy.

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You’d love me if you like large men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to find myself attracted to chunkier guys. I think as a big woman myself, I feel I'm less likely to break them.

Also, due to my habit of cooking and feeding people, guys tend to have a habit of putting on weight around me."

Nom nom nom nom nom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I consider myself a little chunky and go through phases of love and loathe - not sure what ladies think of my look but I hope they like what they see "

That’s real ish man. I hear you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm happy to be wanted"

You’re in the right place homie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By mildandwildFind posts by mildandwild Man

just this minute!

Sholing

I post my height and weight and then let the reader decide. I've got my body shape issues but not sure that makes for great bio fodder! With the women I like it's as much about something clicking than simply vital statistics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a bit of a chonk as my pics probably show. But I think my current weight is the weight I'm happiest at. Don't feel too heavy don't feel like I have to carb count too much etc "

Reals, you look good!

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Do you love yourselves? Do you get insecure messaging or chatting up the slim people?

Women say they live big boys but I’m starting to think they actually just mean in penis size not weight. Ooops "

We have insecurities, doesn't mean I let them play out today. As it's my responsibility to look at them, where they come from learn what triggers them, ultimately handle them..

In short it doesn't stop me chatting to anyone I find attractive.

I do find it intresting that you kept the OP, to "slim people" which suggests that you believe you are punching! With slim people.

Are insecurities only centered around one category of ppl. I'd argue not.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"I have nothing against a bigger guy, but I tend to stick to slimmer ones as two chubbies don't make for great sex!

Boo, we are a match made in hell. In case you didn’t know "

I'd still take you for dinner though as I'm nice like that!

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By *imandher3525Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Big boys do it for me! Hubby’s a bigger man and I adore every inch of him, big arms, big shoulders, stocky dad bod…Mmm yes! Plus how could you not want someone who’d fuck you and eat pizza with you after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always been happy in my own skin. Sadly happiness and confidence don’t always go hand in hand! Sometimes I’m great sometimes really not! I’ve lost 4 stone recently and feel less confident than ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has fed my body dismorphia

I once had a lot of body confidence

It is no longer the case

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By *allMeBeeMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"I dated a super fit lass for a while; 6-pack, buns'o'steel, trained 3 times per day, ate pulses and veg. I totally loved the fact that she didn't try and preach her lifestyle to me at all, and she liked my physique as it was. I did get fitter being around her (not just for the obvious reasons, but the number of Domino's orders diminished heavily!).

Sounds like she loved you for you. And I love that for you "

Thank you Mr P! We're still friends but our lifestyles (beyond exercise) weren't really compatible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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By mildandwildFind posts by mildandwild Man

just this minute!

Sholing

I post my height and weight and then let the reader decide. I've got my body shape issues but not sure that makes for great bio fodder! With the women I like it's as much about something clicking than simply vital statistics."

Real ish

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have nothing against a bigger guy, but I tend to stick to slimmer ones as two chubbies don't make for great sex!

Boo, we are a match made in hell. In case you didn’t know

I'd still take you for dinner though as I'm nice like that! "
ok bet. I’m a big boy. I eat a lot

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I have nothing against a bigger guy, but I tend to stick to slimmer ones as two chubbies don't make for great sex!

Boo, we are a match made in hell. In case you didn’t know

I'd still take you for dinner though as I'm nice like that! ok bet. I’m a big boy. I eat a lot "

Can I come too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you love yourselves? Do you get insecure messaging or chatting up the slim people?

Women say they live big boys but I’m starting to think they actually just mean in penis size not weight. Ooops

We have insecurities, doesn't mean I let them play out today. As it's my responsibility to look at them, where they come from learn what triggers them, ultimately handle them..

In short it doesn't stop me chatting to anyone I find attractive.

I do find it intresting that you kept the OP, to "slim people" which suggests that you believe you are punching! With slim people.

Are insecurities only centered around one category of ppl. I'd argue not."

That’s deep CG. appreciate that.

And you’ve got a great bod man. Great ink too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have nothing against a bigger guy, but I tend to stick to slimmer ones as two chubbies don't make for great sex!

Boo, we are a match made in hell. In case you didn’t know

I'd still take you for dinner though as I'm nice like that! ok bet. I’m a big boy. I eat a lot

Can I come too? "

I’d say yes, Fife, but Boo is paying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Big boys do it for me! Hubby’s a bigger man and I adore every inch of him, big arms, big shoulders, stocky dad bod…Mmm yes! Plus how could you not want someone who’d fuck you and eat pizza with you after "

Yes! My fave is when you fuck while you’re waiting for the Chinese to come

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve always been happy in my own skin. Sadly happiness and confidence don’t always go hand in hand! Sometimes I’m great sometimes really not! I’ve lost 4 stone recently and feel less confident than ever."

Wow 4 stone. I’m sorry that you don’t feel confident though. I hope you find confidence because you look great man.

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I've learnt over the years not to get too hung up over my body. Some people will like it, some people won't regardless of whether I like it or not. Sometimes you end up with someone you think is way out of your league and wouldn't go near you with a barge pole, other times you don't. The point is, if you let insecurities get the better of you, you'll never know who you might be attractive to.I was guilty of letting my insecurities get the better of me through my college and uni years and only later in life found out that I'd missed out on way more fun than I could have had after conversations with people from back then.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Do you love yourselves? Do you get insecure messaging or chatting up the slim people?

Women say they live big boys but I’m starting to think they actually just mean in penis size not weight. Ooops

We have insecurities, doesn't mean I let them play out today. As it's my responsibility to look at them, where they come from learn what triggers them, ultimately handle them..

In short it doesn't stop me chatting to anyone I find attractive.

I do find it intresting that you kept the OP, to "slim people" which suggests that you believe you are punching! With slim people.

Are insecurities only centered around one category of ppl. I'd argue not.

That’s deep CG. appreciate that.

And you’ve got a great bod man. Great ink too! "

I happy with my bod, if others aint then fuck them or not as the case maybe

It is deep, beauty of overthinking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab has fed my body dismorphia

I once had a lot of body confidence

It is no longer the case"

Fab is a tough place. I am sorry your confidence has been knocked. You look good brother!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Broad shoulders, stocky type with solid thighs... oooeee yep, lots of surface area for me to run my nails over!

That is not me! That sounds like a fit guy. Maybe a rugby player. I’m just chubby. The big thighs and big arms are because I’m chubby. "

No I think saying I like broad shoulders & solid thighs covers a spectrum of sizing/ reasoning (not just muscle/rugby build,though it could include that too).

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I have nothing against a bigger guy, but I tend to stick to slimmer ones as two chubbies don't make for great sex!

Boo, we are a match made in hell. In case you didn’t know

I'd still take you for dinner though as I'm nice like that! ok bet. I’m a big boy. I eat a lot

Can I come too?

I’d say yes, Fife, but Boo is paying "

She can have two hunks of men. We're worth it

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

Im what is termed ‘ built like a brick outhouse’ i wear a dinner suit and immediately look like a doorman - i played rugby, and swam a lot - i put on weight after stopping sports - and have started to shift it but its going to take time. I was always broad - so im never going to be slim but i’ll probably end up with my 46 in chest and a 34 waist - which will do for me. Then im shagging boo !! Because she soooooo wants me

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"I'm far from thin, fit meself. Alot of women say, they like chubby guy's. For some reason are more likely to talking to& be around thin, fit guy's, that I see anyway's.

They’re ashamed of us!! "

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit of a chonk as my pics probably show. But I think my current weight is the weight I'm happiest at. Don't feel too heavy don't feel like I have to carb count too much etc

Reals, you look good! "

Thankyou I appreciate that

You too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab has fed my body dismorphia

I once had a lot of body confidence

It is no longer the case"

If I had a cock I'd do ya

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"No hate to slim fellas but nothing gets me wetter than a chunky fella

I just smiled and grabbed my chub. "

I love this!!

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By *igjonny090Man
over a year ago

blackpool and Manchester

I have a bit of self confidence but it doesn’t stop me from wanting to lose weight, I know I’m big but I make up for it in other ways, for one I can hold a conversation on just about any old rubbish

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

People like different things and some will definitely go for chubby, others may not. The world is better with diversity. It's all about how you feel and not how others may want you to be. Attraction is often more than just looks and body shapes. Those interested in just that often miss out on so much more than people may have to offer. However everybody likes what they like and fair enough.

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By *ixed_and_HungMan
over a year ago

aylesbury

Where are all the chubby chasers lol!

I love my meat..

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Broad shoulders, stocky type with solid thighs... oooeee yep, lots of surface area for me to run my nails over!

That is not me! That sounds like a fit guy. Maybe a rugby player. I’m just chubby. The big thighs and big arms are because I’m chubby.

No I think saying I like broad shoulders & solid thighs covers a spectrum of sizing/ reasoning (not just muscle/rugby build,though it could include that too). "

Exactly I'm built like that, but stopped rugby many years ago

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

It's such a cliche but for me its all about the person. If I like you, I like all of you. It's that simple.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"Im what is termed ‘ built like a brick outhouse’ i wear a dinner suit and immediately look like a doorman - i played rugby, and swam a lot - i put on weight after stopping sports - and have started to shift it but its going to take time. I was always broad - so im never going to be slim but i’ll probably end up with my 46 in chest and a 34 waist - which will do for me. Then im shagging boo !! Because she soooooo wants me "

Who told you that lie again?

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"I have nothing against a bigger guy, but I tend to stick to slimmer ones as two chubbies don't make for great sex!

Boo, we are a match made in hell. In case you didn’t know

I'd still take you for dinner though as I'm nice like that! ok bet. I’m a big boy. I eat a lot

Can I come too?

I’d say yes, Fife, but Boo is paying

She can have two hunks of men. We're worth it "

I've never run away from paying the bill.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Very self conscious about my weight hence my lack of pics

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Do you love yourselves? Do you get insecure messaging or chatting up the slim people?

Women say they live big boys but I’m starting to think they actually just mean in penis size not weight. Ooops "

slim people ??? thats a novelty !

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Right, so who is coming for dinner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never found it to be a problem

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

I lost weight meself over nearly 9 year's. I lost 4 stone if not more overall. I didn't do anything special like a diet or exercises. That said I lost about 2 stone in about a 6 to 8 week period. Which was frightening experience. The only reason that can be found for it, is stress. The women aren't running after me or wanting to jump my bones cause of it.

That said I still class meself as chubby/ big guy, can't see that changing ever.The real good thing about it is I'm able to wear clothes sizes that I used to be able to wear nearly 30 year's ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It just makes it easier for them to roll me out of bed once they are done with me "

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood


"It just makes it easier for them to roll me out of bed once they are done with me "

While shouting….

Fetch me another chubby - ive broken this one!!

Been there!!

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By *bwlady123Woman
over a year ago

private

I go on personality but seem to be drawn more to guys with dad bods and I prefer a average size guy down there

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By *ornycouple7884Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

I'm drawn in by a great smile and nice eyes but do prefer a chunkier body. Not muscle just a bigger man...like my hubby. Yet most the men I've met so far have been slim as that's the ones that have been in touch. I get very excited and actually have approached 2 guys myself when see this rare (for fab) but sexier body type

Mrs H

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

I get massively insecure about my body shape. and it does often stop me messaging people cause in my mind, they’ll look at my profile and think “ew”.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

See gents there’s always someone for somebody be positive and and things will happen when you least expect it

And believe me, I am nowhere near perfect

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By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

Mcr

I'm a little insecure when I'm not training such as now in injured so I don't feel my usual self, I just feel chunky and lazy.

I do strongman as a sport, so have a chunky/curvy build, it goes with the territory. When I'm training, I'm more comfortable with my size as I feel strong, like really strong.

So while I'm doing little I feel meh, while I'm ripping myself apart, aching constantly, endless DOMS, and just worn out, I feel ok haha.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Im starting to get fat iv let myself get sloppy since november time i cut a few kg

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"I have nothing against a bigger guy, but I tend to stick to slimmer ones as two chubbies don't make for great sex! "

Same here. More power to the dad bod but my weakness is beautiful slim and toned bodies.

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By *estSussexLatinoMan
over a year ago

Horsham


"Do you love yourselves? Do you get insecure messaging or chatting up the slim people?

Women say they live big boys but I’m starting to think they actually just mean in penis size not weight. Ooops "

I'm happy enough with myself

And if people are not into me that's fine of course! Everyone's into what they're into and there's a bit of something for everyone

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I adore your body.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

I'm completely comfortable in my own chubby skin and I look good and have a wicked mind so if someone decides they want to see more just get in touch

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I see you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I adore your body. "

Estella

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I see you "

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I adore your body.

Estella "

Yes?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Do you love yourselves? Do you get insecure messaging or chatting up the slim people?

Women say they live big boys but I’m starting to think they actually just mean in penis size not weight. Ooops "

You called.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Liking chunky guys is easy.lots of nice ones on here.

Finding a chunky guy who interests you, and likes you back, and lives close enough to realistically meet, and who wants to meet you again regularly. That seems to be an impossible task.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to lose a couple of stone ideally, but reasonably comfortable in my own skin - though isn't that a ridiculous saying?

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By *asper1987Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I have nothing against a bigger guy, but I tend to stick to slimmer ones as two chubbies don't make for great sex!

Let's try "

I’d help you too!

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By *asper1987Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I know this thread is meant for women, however I believe larger men are better in bed. Might be a personal preference, however I am happy to hear them the larger sexy guys getting the attention. I know and met guys who were feeling really insecure because of the bullying they go through from them gym bunnies. Unfortunately fat shaming is a big deal and should be treated the same as homophobia or transphobia or sexism. It alters people’s confidence and mental health dramatically. So, if you’re a larger mature chub over the age of 40, preferably in your 50s and need an admirer to make you feel good (and maybe moan), do please drop a line.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Do you love yourselves? Do you get insecure messaging or chatting up the slim people? "

I don't chat up 'the slim people,' so couldn't comment on that.

However, bizarrely, Alice thinks I'm gorgeous so I take that on faith!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've tried to be somewhere in the middle but hopefully there's been enough meat for any kind of swinger to try

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By *loth280Man
over a year ago

Caversham

It does help seeing that there's hope for chubby guys, and now i need to work on my personality

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
over a year ago

norwich

I hate seeing my belly n moobs.. but not sure I hate it enough to not eat custard creams.

Aslong as they keep adding x's to XL, I'm currently in an XXL t-shirt. Eyeing up XXXL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate seeing my belly n moobs.. but not sure I hate it enough to not eat custard creams.

Aslong as they keep adding x's to XL, I'm currently in an XXL t-shirt. Eyeing up XXXL"

Nothing wrong with the XXX L

If it appeals to the right people

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

There’s a reason hunky and chunky are almost the same word

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By *loth280Man
over a year ago

Caversham

I know the feeling, i got an extra x on you currently though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Packing a fee extra pounds right here

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"There’s a reason hunky and chunky are almost the same word "

It's whatever the 'C' stands for that worries me.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"There’s a reason hunky and chunky are almost the same word

It's whatever the 'C' stands for that worries me. "

Cake

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"There’s a reason hunky and chunky are almost the same word

It's whatever the 'C' stands for that worries me.

Cake"

I knew I'd like you.

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By *hunkyBuggaMan
over a year ago

Devon

Someone rang 4 chubby/chunky guys?

To answer your question OP, some days I feel great and don’t care. Quite often if I am honest, probably due to media etc, I see so many men with a ripped body and wonder why on earth any women would ever want me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come to terms with my body. I enjoy being naked and if others don't like it then it's their problem!

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over a year ago

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

And we do give the best hugs.

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By *ingo00Man
over a year ago

Cowley

I don't love it, but I can live with it! And trying to sort it

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
over a year ago

kendal

Mr Pickle is hot....

Pass it on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never like it and always been self conscious about my body and weight. I use to be 18st. Even when i lost it i still feel the same who i was. But gradually over time you will like for who you are. Everyone has something they don't like about themselves. When you find self love and you start embracing who you are as person, people will like you more. Personality and confidence is key. Remember everyone has a type and there are people out there for everyone

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"Do you love yourselves? Do you get insecure messaging or chatting up the slim people?

Women say they live big boys but I’m starting to think they actually just mean in penis size not weight. Ooops "

everyone has some insecurities, however i get enough compliments about certain features that i am confident they arent just being nice. when i lost 3 stone about 2 years ago a few female friends where like No stop you are gonna get too thin. my daughter said tbe same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve managed to loose over a stone and a half I prefer how I look and feel better for it also used to suffer from knee pain and don’t know. So for me being chunky wasn’t doing me any favours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's about the man and not his size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No hate to slim fellas but nothing gets me wetter than a chunky fella "
would love to chat more

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Couldn’t care what others think, if you need to judge, we’ll in my world, you’re not enjoying yourselves.

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By *hubster2016Man
over a year ago

T

Any ladies near me that like a chunky

Get in touch as I’ve found most women want a slim bloke hence self confidence issues and being alone for so long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi everybody fancey a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been everything from really fat to really slim and I felt the same level of confidence when approaching people regardless of where I was at. I’m a bit more sensitive about it these days but I think that’s just with being on here and being on show more.

The way I always viewed it is - if I message and they ignore or say no it’s the same outcome as never sending a message in the first place. It’s a cliche but it’s true

Mr

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By *Bag69Man
over a year ago

Derby

I'm a chunky chap with a spare tyre and love handles and to be honest, while the feeling can fluctuate it's rare that I feel sexually attractive.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Do you love yourselves? Do you get insecure messaging or chatting up the slim people?

Women say they live big boys but I’m starting to think they actually just mean in penis size not weight. Ooops "

Not at all. Love yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big men you are beautiful

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

Anyone looking my way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love big men, I really don't care about physical attributes much, yea I have to like their face but personality is what will keep me interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm carrying a bit of timber even more so since I got injured and can't play rugby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't message slimmer women. I'd feel self conscious. I also have a look at the men they meet on their veris and see what shape they are in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m quite happy with my body but I’m always trying to improve it. I’ve came to terms with the fact that I enjoy food and beer too much to ever have a six pack but if I quit the gym tomorrow I’d be a giant fat fuck this time next year.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Big men you are beautiful "

Get ya coat luv, you've pulled.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

I'm a little bit chubby, am I insecure about it, fuck know I embrace myself, love on myself, I spent 39 years of my life hating and self loathing on myself....I'm comfortable with me........bring on the self love, as those who are meant for me won't pass me by, despite my chubby sexy curves

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

Ive been both and am aiming for somewhere in the middle

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Being chubby myself, I’m not particularly bothered about body size, as long as it’s not an effect of laziness and unhealthy habits.

I’m attracted to confident and self conscious people, with this little “something” I cannot name but I know what it is when I see it. It’s got nothing to do with looks.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a kit Kat chunky is better (says me justifying being chunky). Skinny doesn’t appeal to me.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood


"Being chubby myself, I’m not particularly bothered about body size, as long as it’s not an effect of laziness and unhealthy habits.

I’m attracted to confident and self conscious people, with this little “something” I cannot name but I know what it is when I see it. It’s got nothing to do with looks."

A sparkle in the eye? A mischievous look ?

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Being chubby myself, I’m not particularly bothered about body size, as long as it’s not an effect of laziness and unhealthy habits.

I’m attracted to confident and self conscious people, with this little “something” I cannot name but I know what it is when I see it. It’s got nothing to do with looks.

A sparkle in the eye? A mischievous look ? "

In scientific terms, a minge twitch.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Being chubby myself, I’m not particularly bothered about body size, as long as it’s not an effect of laziness and unhealthy habits.

I’m attracted to confident and self conscious people, with this little “something” I cannot name but I know what it is when I see it. It’s got nothing to do with looks."

Can I take the paper bag off my head now then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being chubby myself, I’m not particularly bothered about body size, as long as it’s not an effect of laziness and unhealthy habits.

I’m attracted to confident and self conscious people, with this little “something” I cannot name but I know what it is when I see it. It’s got nothing to do with looks."

How do you know why they are chubby? Do you make them take a thyroid test?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Being chubby myself, I’m not particularly bothered about body size, as long as it’s not an effect of laziness and unhealthy habits.

I’m attracted to confident and self conscious people, with this little “something” I cannot name but I know what it is when I see it. It’s got nothing to do with looks.

How do you know why they are chubby? Do you make them take a thyroid test? "

I doubt I need any kind of test.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

I (the Mr) am not in a very confident place body wise. I've always been a big guy, big shoulders, big hands, big head... and I think that's always let me get away with carrying more excess weight than I should.

At the moment I look like I'm trying to steal a Space Hopper by concealing it under my t shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being chubby myself, I’m not particularly bothered about body size, as long as it’s not an effect of laziness and unhealthy habits.

I’m attracted to confident and self conscious people, with this little “something” I cannot name but I know what it is when I see it. It’s got nothing to do with looks.

How do you know why they are chubby? Do you make them take a thyroid test?

I doubt I need any kind of test. "

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (the Mr) am not in a very confident place body wise. I've always been a big guy, big shoulders, big hands, big head... and I think that's always let me get away with carrying more excess weight than I should.

At the moment I look like I'm trying to steal a Space Hopper by concealing it under my t shirt "

Is that a space hopper in your pocket or are you just pleased to see me?

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

P is a has a bit of chub and I love it. The best big spoon ever.

He's also sexy as fuck

Em x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"P is a has a bit of chub and I love it. The best big spoon ever.

He's also sexy as fuck

Em x"

Would you like to play - little spoon in the middle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you love yourselves? Do you get insecure messaging or chatting up the slim people?

Women say they live big boys but I’m starting to think they actually just mean in penis size not weight. Ooops "

Dad bod and happy with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod owner here I'm pretty ok with it these days

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

I’ve tried to loose weight and it just comes back lol so now it’s a case of I am what I am

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Of course I love myself, who else is going to do it ?

And no somebodies figure does not put me off messaging.

The mr

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

I'm happy as a pig in sit being me. I am twerking me slightly but still going to be a we'll build bloke....any sexy ladies who love the dad bod. Message me ha

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Of course I love myself, who else is going to do it ?

And no somebodies figure does not put me off messaging.

The mr "

ERM....me is who else you sexy man!

Mrs

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By *ickAlotAPuzzMan
30 weeks ago

Kettering


"Big boys do it for me! Hubby’s a bigger man and I adore every inch of him, big arms, big shoulders, stocky dad bod…Mmm yes! Plus how could you not want someone who’d fuck you and eat pizza with you after "

Or eat it at the same time

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
30 weeks ago

Home

I'm cuddly

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By *r-8-BBCMan
30 weeks ago

LONDON


"I have nothing against a bigger guy, but I tend to stick to slimmer ones as two chubbies don't make for great sex! "

I beg to differ

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By *ullsfan77Man
30 weeks ago

Torquay

I am a larger guy and I have had no success on here. But I am now beginning to learn that this is not really the reason. There are ladies out the who like bigger guys-just as I prefer larger and curvy ladies. It’s a complex scene and I have much to learn.

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By *andsomeunitMan
30 weeks ago

Birmingham

Over the years I used to think it was my weight that put alot of woman off me.

However incidents that have happened to me personally, in the last year have made me embrace the person I am.

In the last 7 months I've lost 5 and a half stone. I'm working out, watching what I eat etc and that shift in mindset towards that, well I also feel it's changed how I portray myself.

As my whole outlook's changed, it appears that I'm showing a new inner confidence that seems to be a massive attraction towards others, so I've noticed.

I'm still a big bloke and I'm not everyone's cup of tea. However, I'd rather be someone's shot of gin then everyone's cup of tea.

To all you plus sized males. Embrace yourself,

Love yourself,

Find your inner confidence and with that change will come.

Remember, you are worth that change and you are amazing.

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By *runette69Woman
9 weeks ago

Harrogate

Love a cute dad bod xx

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By *jk1978Couple
9 weeks ago

Cheshire

New pic added yesterday and don’t like it N lol

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Herts

I haven’t been slim since my 20s and tbh it’s not been a problem

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By *ust another WonkoMan
9 weeks ago

here and there

I hate myself most of the time.

Don't care what others think or say about me. Never have.

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By *oodlesmrsCouple
9 weeks ago

SW

Hi, just added few pics of Mrs, hope you like it enjoy xx

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Covent Garden


"Hi, just added few pics of Mrs, hope you like it enjoy xx "

•

Ummm, the thread is about chubby men. 🙂

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By *r John WickMan
9 weeks ago

The Continental


"Hi, just added few pics of Mrs, hope you like it enjoy xx

•

Ummm, the thread is about chubby men. 🙂"

The devil is in the details.

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By *rafter69Man
9 weeks ago

upminster

There hope for us dad bods yet

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By *LZZMan
9 weeks ago

Leeds

As long as you're confident with how you are... The rest will come with it

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By *hilr1680Man
9 weeks ago

carlisle

I like my chubbiness 😂

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By *eandshe01Couple
9 weeks ago

Wigan

I’m a chubby guy don’t care what people think.

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By *urygent1Man
9 weeks ago

North West

I tend to stay away from slimmer women and couple's, maybe it's my perception they don't want a larger figure...

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By *erfHerder74Man
9 weeks ago

Greenock

I care about personality more than curves

Have seen gym fit guys who still had curves though, I like a dad bod bear type

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By *obin444Man
9 weeks ago

Windsor

Count me in

I am who I am

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I love big men. Big bellies are hot.

The Mrs isn't as fussy on body type

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By *otThatBigMan
9 weeks ago

Here


"Hi, just added few pics of Mrs, hope you like it enjoy xx "

By added a few pics you mean uploaded pics that have already been uploaded 2-3 times before

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By *odgerMooreMan
9 weeks ago

Fulwood


"Hi, just added few pics of Mrs, hope you like it enjoy xx

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Ummm, the thread is about chubby men. 🙂"

Did his Mrs used to be a chubby man? That could be the link!

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By *izzybicplCouple
9 weeks ago

wisbech

You can't beat a bit of meat on both men and women. We love the curvy look on both

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By *arry McKockiner69Man
9 weeks ago

Exeter

Insecure to the point I don't bother messaging.

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By *hunkyBuggaMan
9 weeks ago

Devon

You called?

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By *inceIlkestonMan
9 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Who keeps dragging old posts up?

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By *awpleasureMan
9 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Who keeps dragging old posts up?"

Scroll up and you'll find out

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By *mmaleiaWoman
9 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

All the fur & pinchable bits

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