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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is there any real people on this site who actually do wish to meet or is everybody just sat at home waiting for that elucive stunningly beautiful bisexual female who just happens to be a nymphomaniac to come knocking at there door asking to borrow a cup of suger and stay the night well jog on people that shit only happens in my dreams lol

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

No offence, but you've only been a member for 2 weeks some members are struggling for a meet having been here over a year

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

oh yes there are loads of meets to be found here

dont give up ... if I can get them lol why wont you too

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Here we go, another thread from a single bloke whingeing about not getting a meet.

Reality check, single guys have it hard on here. Deal with it.

Whingeing about it will only turn ppl away. Deal with it.

Make friends, go to socials, get known, and stand out from the crowd, and you MIGHT have a chance. Deal with it.

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

ahh dont be to hard on him

it`s been 3days since we had a winger on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god yet another one!!! lets get this straight mate single males are on average 70 to every single female therefore you need to stand out from the crowd be different moanin wont help you! as those 2 fit sexy guys said there have been people on here a lot longer and not had any meets and if they all whinged about it the site would go into meltdown!! joinin a swinger site does not guarantee sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ive sent approximately 25 polite messages to people and not one reply im not whingeing i just find it rude thats all

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"as those 2 fit sexy guys"

You deserve a very special mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is there any real people on this site who actually do wish to meet or is everybody just sat at home waiting for that elucive stunningly beautiful bisexual female who just happens to be a nymphomaniac to come knocking at there door asking to borrow a cup of suger and stay the night well jog on people that shit only happens in my dreams lol"

no really im not bi so a bi fem would be no use to me

however if a gorgeous bi male would like to pop by for sugar mail me for my address

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i must say if i get a mail and they not what im lookin for i dont answer simply because it states clearly what im interested in! fems get a lot of mail a day and u do get bored tryin to reply especially when some are well below substandard!! swingin is a fickle world but sure with a bit of patience you will find what you lookin for !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as those 2 fit sexy guys

You deserve a very special mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx "

on the cheeks???

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"ive sent approximately 25 polite messages to people and not one reply im not whingeing i just find it rude thats all"

Were all in the same boat mate, if people don't have the curtsey to reply, are they the type you really want to be associated with?

As mentioned, deal with it and move on

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"on the cheeks??? "

On your bum more like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats where i was thinkin!!! xx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"thats where i was thinkin!!! xx"

We haven't seen a face pic, but if ya face is as cute as yur bum then yes, we'll kiss yur face cheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stick with the ass lol!!!! il send u one via pm!!! cant be held responsible for u vomitin!!! xx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"stick with the ass lol!!!! il send u one via pm!!! cant be held responsible for u vomitin!!! xx "

Do we need to upgrade our virus checker to maximum before opening it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup and a bucket too!!!!!xx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"yup and a bucket too!!!!!xx"

The bucket wasn't big enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bucket bag????

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

get a room you three

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol!!! cant fit my fat arse in bunkbeds lol!! xx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"get a room you three

lol "

You wanna join us 4 a 4sum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anymore and make it a free for all???

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"anymore and make it a free for all??? "

At least no one will be ignored which is what this thread was about

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"is there any real people on this site who actually do wish to meet or is everybody just sat at home waiting for that elucive stunningly beautiful bisexual female who just happens to be a nymphomaniac to come knocking at there door asking to borrow a cup of suger and stay the night well jog on people that shit only happens in my dreams lol"

didn't read any posts - this is a waste of time - we meet and have a lot of fun - GET A LIFE xxxx

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By *iss_BehavingWoman
over a year ago

manchester

personally having so much fun, i barely have time to sit and write in the forums at times !! xxx

Pretty sure who i would and wouldnt meet ! x

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"personally having so much fun, i barely have time to sit and write in the forums at times !! xxx

Pretty sure who i would and wouldnt meet ! x"

ditto!!! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh yes there are loads of meets to be found here

dont give up ... if I can get them lol why wont you too"

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You are not a moaning minnie!

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By *hepussypleaserMan
over a year ago

Saundersfoot

Yep - met a few now! There are a few genuine people around thankfully....just need to search them out

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"No offence, but you've only been a member for 2 weeks some members are struggling for a meet having been here over a year "

well my bi babes - YOU could have that elusive bi fem if ya really wanted - I LOVES YOU XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXx

lol

xxxxxxxxx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"well my bi babes - YOU could have that elusive bi fem if ya really wanted - I LOVES YOU XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXx

lol

xxxxxxxxx"

Not half as much as we love youuuuuuuuuuuuuu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

females get hundreds of messages per day, some just say "Hi how are You" well i cant be arsed to reply to that cos they could ask that in chat room. I dont reply to cut and paste messages either. I reply to nice ones tho. But as an oldie on site hun I would suggest that you go to your local socials. When ppl meet you and LIKE you you will get meets, but so many pervs on site most of us prefer to meet at social first. Check with other single guys see what they say, cos our single guys at our socials are ace xxxx good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is there any real people on this site who actually do wish to meet or is everybody just sat at home waiting for that elucive stunningly beautiful bisexual female who just happens to be a nymphomaniac to come knocking at there door asking to borrow a cup of suger and stay the night well jog on people that shit only happens in my dreams lol"

without meaning to offend you, i think that is the wrong attitude and can put people off from meeting you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is there any real people on this site who actually do wish to meet or is everybody just sat at home waiting for that elucive stunningly beautiful bisexual female who just happens to be a nymphomaniac to come knocking at there door asking to borrow a cup of suger and stay the night well jog on people that shit only happens in my dreams lol

without meaning to offend you, i think that is the wrong attitude and can put people off from meeting you..."

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Agree - moaning minnies are not very attractive, sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh forgot to say a cock shot for public gallery pic to be honest is a bit offputting, nice chest, even thigh or arse is much more of a turn on to females that just cock shot hun, try that who knows

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"is there any real people on this site who actually do wish to meet or is everybody just sat at home waiting for that elucive stunningly beautiful bisexual female who just happens to be a nymphomaniac to come knocking at there door asking to borrow a cup of suger and stay the night well jog on people that shit only happens in my dreams lol"

I don't think you are doing yourself any favours with this post....

If I told you how long I went before I had my first meet, I think you'd have a heart attack... needless to say that just because people are swingers it doesn't mean they will have sex with anyone!

If you were expecting ladies knickers to just fall for you then I hate to disappoint you but it doesn't tend to work like that!

you tend to find that swingers are more choosey because they know what they want, and don't settle for anything else...

people to meet on this site... have a look in the forums at all the meets and socials that are advertised, but you get out what you put in... and complaining after a whole 2 weeks does you no favours whatsoever....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is there any real people on this site who actually do wish to meet or is everybody just sat at home waiting for that elucive stunningly beautiful bisexual female who just happens to be a nymphomaniac to come knocking at there door asking to borrow a cup of suger and stay the night well jog on people that shit only happens in my dreams lol

I don't think you are doing yourself any favours with this post....

If I told you how long I went before I had my first meet, I think you'd have a heart attack... needless to say that just because people are swingers it doesn't mean they will have sex with anyone!

If you were expecting ladies knickers to just fall for you then I hate to disappoint you but it doesn't tend to work like that!

you tend to find that swingers are more choosey because they know what they want, and don't settle for anything else...

people to meet on this site... have a look in the forums at all the meets and socials that are advertised, but you get out what you put in... and complaining after a whole 2 weeks does you no favours whatsoever...."

now there's a single guy who knows what he's talking about...lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think you are doing yourself any favours with this post....

If I told you how long I went before I had my first meet, I think you'd have a heart attack... needless to say that just because people are swingers it doesn't mean they will have sex with anyone!

If you were expecting ladies knickers to just fall for you then I hate to disappoint you but it doesn't tend to work like that!

you tend to find that swingers are more choosey because they know what they want, and don't settle for anything else...

people to meet on this site... have a look in the forums at all the meets and socials that are advertised, but you get out what you put in... and complaining after a whole 2 weeks does you no favours whatsoever...."

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This gentleman talks sense - take note and learn I'd say!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Fabio is the voice of reason

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"is there any real people on this site who actually do wish to meet or is everybody just sat at home waiting for that elucive stunningly beautiful bisexual female who just happens to be a nymphomaniac to come knocking at there door asking to borrow a cup of suger and stay the night well jog on people that shit only happens in my dreams lol"

As its been said, be patient, have face pics or send them with your messages, change your pie pic, cock pics are not the way to get attention. READ the profiles of those you are sending messages to and pay attention to them, they tell you what people are looking for or not looking for. If you are not and are just taking a chance then don't be surprised if you don't get a reply.

I don't know anyone who will reply to a 'Hi how are you?' message. Its says you can't be bothered, and if you can't be bothered to introduce yourself properly then why should anyone take the time to respond. Put more detail about yourself and what you want in your profile. Again, just because its a swinging site its not just about meeting for sex, most people enjoy the social side too and don't expect that if and when you do get a meet its going to be straight to the bedroom.

The majority of people on here are genuine and do meet, but again as its been said the singele fem/couple to single guy ratio is vast. And no matter how good your profile is and how polite your messages are its a fact that many people just don't reply if they are not interested, you just have to deal with ot and move on.

You've only been here a couple of weeks, don't whinge, your not the only single guy. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*** Warning devils advocate type post ***

I sometimes wonder why folks give advice to others about how to behave/post/appear to others in here.

Single guys giving single guys advice, this allows the "moaners/wingers/arseholes/weirdo's" to appear less extreme, this creates MORE competition and thats the LAST thing you need.

Couples/single women giving single guys advice, this allows the less desirable ones to copy " parrot fashion " the way the seemingly successful ones get meets, then the true personality comes out at some point and we get the " ohhhh if only I'd known what he/they were really like" type posts.

Or worse " timewasters, they told me lies etc" type posts as the folks are nothing like the way the pretended to be.

Couples giving couples advice, this leads to couples spending time emailing back n forth for hour after hour trying to find out if they folks really are what they say they are before a meet ( or worse not finding out UNTIL a meet ).

Why not,

LET the moaners moan,

LET the tossers appear to be tossers,

LET the timewasters trip themselves up,

LET the rude,selfish ones appear to be rude and selfish.

The good ones will be easier to spot, there will be less time spent trawling through the dross ( cos its easier to recognise) .

So my tip here is, be yourself, if folks like you here they will probably like you in a meet, If they dont like you here ( and MANY wont, it is life after all we are all different ) then they will probably wont like you at the meet either .

There will always be rude/arrogant/nasty/whingers/timewasters/moaners/selfish/ etc etc etc out there, why help them hide the real them.

LET them display their true colours, the good ones will still be good, the bad will just be more visible.

Just my opinion, I could be miles n miles off the mark, but as its my opinion then thats OK, all other opinions are likely to be varied and probably equally valid.

So if you are a nasty, selfish,moaning whinger timewaster then just pop it on your profile , we wont hold it against you

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MUCH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*** Warning devils advocate type post ***

I sometimes wonder why folks give advice to others about how to behave/post/appear to others in here.

Single guys giving single guys advice, this allows the "moaners/wingers/arseholes/weirdo's" to appear less extreme, this creates MORE competition and thats the LAST thing you need.

Couples/single women giving single guys advice, this allows the less desirable ones to copy " parrot fashion " the way the seemingly successful ones get meets, then the true personality comes out at some point and we get the " ohhhh if only I'd known what he/they were really like" type posts.

Or worse " timewasters, they told me lies etc" type posts as the folks are nothing like the way the pretended to be.

Couples giving couples advice, this leads to couples spending time emailing back n forth for hour after hour trying to find out if they folks really are what they say they are before a meet ( or worse not finding out UNTIL a meet ).

Why not,

LET the moaners moan,

LET the tossers appear to be tossers,

LET the timewasters trip themselves up,

LET the rude,selfish ones appear to be rude and selfish.

The good ones will be easier to spot, there will be less time spent trawling through the dross ( cos its easier to recognise) .

So my tip here is, be yourself, if folks like you here they will probably like you in a meet, If they dont like you here ( and MANY wont, it is life after all we are all different ) then they will probably wont like you at the meet either .

There will always be rude/arrogant/nasty/whingers/timewasters/moaners/selfish/ etc etc etc out there, why help them hide the real them.

LET them display their true colours, the good ones will still be good, the bad will just be more visible.

Just my opinion, I could be miles n miles off the mark, but as its my opinion then thats OK, all other opinions are likely to be varied and probably equally valid.

So if you are a nasty, selfish,moaning whinger timewaster then just pop it on your profile , we wont hold it against you

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MUCH "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope the OP has been successful in finding fun, as it is interested to see he has not contributed to this thread since he posted it.

It's at least the second thread to mind when a newbie single male moaned about lack of meets, to find him has gone AWOL without any contribution to his own thread.

Perhaps they got the hint? We can only wish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive sent approximately 25 polite messages to people and not one reply im not whingeing i just find it rude thats all"

May I politely point out that this is not a full time job and they may have had some living to do.

May I very politely point out that your profile says you are non pushy.

May I very politely enquire as to whethter that was 25 mails to one woman .......or one mail each for 25 women. I take it you ARE mailing women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*** Warning devils advocate type post ***

I sometimes wonder why folks give advice to others about how to behave/post/appear to others in here.

Single guys giving single guys advice, this allows the "moaners/wingers/arseholes/weirdo's" to appear less extreme, this creates MORE competition and thats the LAST thing you need.

Couples/single women giving single guys advice, this allows the less desirable ones to copy " parrot fashion " the way the seemingly successful ones get meets, then the true personality comes out at some point and we get the " ohhhh if only I'd known what he/they were really like" type posts.

Or worse " timewasters, they told me lies etc" type posts as the folks are nothing like the way the pretended to be.

Couples giving couples advice, this leads to couples spending time emailing back n forth for hour after hour trying to find out if they folks really are what they say they are before a meet ( or worse not finding out UNTIL a meet ).

Why not,

LET the moaners moan,

LET the tossers appear to be tossers,

LET the timewasters trip themselves up,

LET the rude,selfish ones appear to be rude and selfish.

The good ones will be easier to spot, there will be less time spent trawling through the dross ( cos its easier to recognise) .

So my tip here is, be yourself, if folks like you here they will probably like you in a meet, If they dont like you here ( and MANY wont, it is life after all we are all different ) then they will probably wont like you at the meet either .

There will always be rude/arrogant/nasty/whingers/timewasters/moaners/selfish/ etc etc etc out there, why help them hide the real them.

LET them display their true colours, the good ones will still be good, the bad will just be more visible.

Just my opinion, I could be miles n miles off the mark, but as its my opinion then thats OK, all other opinions are likely to be varied and probably equally valid.

So if you are a nasty, selfish,moaning whinger timewaster then just pop it on your profile , we wont hold it against you

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MUCH "

Do you always behave contrary to your own advice ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*** Warning devils advocate type post ***

Do you always behave contrary to your own advice ? "

Almost always

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

OK – I’ll be honest with you…. as no one else wants to bite the bullet.

You’re looking for a ‘really sexy female’… any ‘really sexy female’ can take her pick. In fact a plain Jane can take her pick… if we’re really honest even a female munter can punch well above her weight and bag (or rather bed) a young virile totty stud muffin sporting a six-pack and tight bum cheeks to die for … if she just wants shagging silly that is.

So… lower your standards mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK – I’ll be honest with you…. as no one else wants to bite the bullet.

You’re looking for a ‘really sexy female’… any ‘really sexy female’ can take her pick. In fact a plain Jane can take her pick… if we’re really honest even a female munter can punch well above her weight and bag (or rather bed) a young virile totty stud muffin sporting a six-pack and tight bum cheeks to die for … if she just wants shagging silly that is.

So… lower your standards mate

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PMSL! I wish I could have come out with that myself!

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

just looked at his profile

it`s exactly the same as before

hes not taken eny thing in

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"OK – I’ll be honest with you…. as no one else wants to bite the bullet.

You’re looking for a ‘really sexy female’… any ‘really sexy female’ can take her pick. In fact a plain Jane can take her pick… if we’re really honest even a female munter can punch well above her weight and bag (or rather bed) a young virile totty stud muffin sporting a six-pack and tight bum cheeks to die for … if she just wants shagging silly that is.

So… lower your standards mate

"

Blimey I might be in with a chance then

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"OK – I’ll be honest with you…. as no one else wants to bite the bullet.

You’re looking for a ‘really sexy female’… any ‘really sexy female’ can take her pick. In fact a plain Jane can take her pick… if we’re really honest even a female munter can punch well above her weight and bag (or rather bed) a young virile totty stud muffin sporting a six-pack and tight bum cheeks to die for … if she just wants shagging silly that is.

So… lower your standards mate

"

(Goes to delete account... )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just looked at his profile

it`s exactly the same as before

hes not taken eny thing in"

To be fair he hasn't signed in for 22 hours according to his profile, perhaps he will respond once he logs in again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just looked at his profile

it`s exactly the same as before

hes not taken eny thing in

To be fair he hasn't signed in for 22 hours according to his profile, perhaps he will respond once he logs in again xx"

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He changed his avatar pic twice though, so he must have signed in recently!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you for all the constructive advice if you would now like to take another look at my profile i do have a facial pic up unlike some of the people who responded to this post who wish to hide but are so good at giving out negative advice to other people some of us have a life in the real world and dont just sit at the computer all day reading the forum to all the people who did give me advice and showed me were i was going wrong thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome back, and good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK – I’ll be honest with you…. as no one else wants to bite the bullet.

You’re looking for a ‘really sexy female’… any ‘really sexy female’ can take her pick. In fact a plain Jane can take her pick… if we’re really honest even a female munter can punch well above her weight and bag (or rather bed) a young virile totty stud muffin sporting a six-pack and tight bum cheeks to die for … if she just wants shagging silly that is.

So… lower your standards mate

"

awww sorry gotta disagree, dont hit me lol you should never lower your standards, even if it means getting less meets suretly 1 meet every 3 months with someone you really like is better than a weekly make do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but while we dishing advice out lol

I never get people who put stuff like looking for sexy woman or after attractive people, how do i know what your idea of sexy is? do you like slim women, women with a few curves or the fuller figured lady? saying you are after sexy women means sod all really to the women reading, so do i mail you for you to tell me to sling my hook you said sexy women lol or do i not mail you thinking, im not sexy and miss out on a good meet because i could be just what your after, plus if i do mail you does that make me vain lmao

Oh the confusion lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK – I’ll be honest with you…. as no one else wants to bite the bullet.

You’re looking for a ‘really sexy female’… any ‘really sexy female’ can take her pick. In fact a plain Jane can take her pick… if we’re really honest even a female munter can punch well above her weight and bag (or rather bed) a young virile totty stud muffin sporting a six-pack and tight bum cheeks to die for … if she just wants shagging silly that is.

So… lower your standards mate

awww sorry gotta disagree, dont hit me lol you should never lower your standards, even if it means getting less meets suretly 1 meet every 3 months with someone you really like is better than a weekly make do?"

I'm with you on that one, you shouldn't lower your standards just for a shag!

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london


"OK – I’ll be honest with you…. as no one else wants to bite the bullet.

You’re looking for a ‘really sexy female’… any ‘really sexy female’ can take her pick. In fact a plain Jane can take her pick… if we’re really honest even a female munter can punch well above her weight and bag (or rather bed) a young virile totty stud muffin sporting a six-pack and tight bum cheeks to die for … if she just wants shagging silly that is.

So… lower your standards mate

awww sorry gotta disagree, dont hit me lol you should never lower your standards, even if it means getting less meets suretly 1 meet every 3 months with someone you really like is better than a weekly make do?

I'm with you on that one, you shouldn't lower your standards just for a shag! "

Would have to agree with that!

But you see it often enough in a club as the desperate work their way down the the list (so to speak).

Everyone can see it, and it makes them 'untouchables' very quickly as well. LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aahhhhhhh *sigh* back to the not showing faces insult..... why do some not show faces

1 we have jobs with PROFESSIONAL codes of conduct so the job centre is not a place we want to be

2 it takes one nutter/person with a grudge to know your personal life so pics etc can be posted around towns families told etc

3 privacy some of us dont feel the need for everyone to know who we are

4 we are selective who see's us for a whole bunch of reasons

5 sit down this may come as a shock people steal pics for other sites and so forth.

hope that clears things up for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK – I’ll be honest with you…. as no one else wants to bite the bullet.

You’re looking for a ‘really sexy female’… any ‘really sexy female’ can take her pick. In fact a plain Jane can take her pick… if we’re really honest even a female munter can punch well above her weight and bag (or rather bed) a young virile totty stud muffin sporting a six-pack and tight bum cheeks to die for … if she just wants shagging silly that is.

So… lower your standards mate

awww sorry gotta disagree, dont hit me lol you should never lower your standards, even if it means getting less meets suretly 1 meet every 3 months with someone you really like is better than a weekly make do?

I'm with you on that one, you shouldn't lower your standards just for a shag! "

damn....go on lower your standards just this once....make a old woman happy lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"aahhhhhhh *sigh* back to the not showing faces insult..... why do some not show faces

1 we have jobs with PROFESSIONAL codes of conduct so the job centre is not a place we want to be

2 it takes one nutter/person with a grudge to know your personal life so pics etc can be posted around towns families told etc

3 privacy some of us dont feel the need for everyone to know who we are

4 we are selective who see's us for a whole bunch of reasons

5 sit down this may come as a shock people steal pics for other sites and so forth.

hope that clears things up for you.

"

lol at number 5, i actually had a guy send me a pic of me once saying it was his wife, so yeah people do pinch pics and use them to trade with others

I dont think anyone should be expected to show their face on a open site, however i would insisit on seeing their face in private eg msn, prior to a meet

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"is there any real people on this site who actually do wish to meet or is everybody just sat at home waiting for that elucive stunningly beautiful bisexual female who just happens to be a nymphomaniac to come knocking at there door asking to borrow a cup of suger and stay the night well jog on people that shit only happens in my dreams lol"
i can only borrow one cup of sugar a night ya know gimme chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"aahhhhhhh *sigh* back to the not showing faces insult..... why do some not show faces

1 we have jobs with PROFESSIONAL codes of conduct so the job centre is not a place we want to be

2 it takes one nutter/person with a grudge to know your personal life so pics etc can be posted around towns families told etc

3 privacy some of us dont feel the need for everyone to know who we are

4 we are selective who see's us for a whole bunch of reasons

5 sit down this may come as a shock people steal pics for other sites and so forth.

hope that clears things up for you.

lol at number 5, i actually had a guy send me a pic of me once saying it was his wife, so yeah people do pinch pics and use them to trade with others

I dont think anyone should be expected to show their face on a open site, however i would insisit on seeing their face in private eg msn, prior to a meet "

oh def agree there!! once there is a possiblilty of wantin to meet i dont mind showin the mug shot gives them a chance to run!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"aahhhhhhh *sigh* back to the not showing faces insult..... why do some not show faces

1 we have jobs with PROFESSIONAL codes of conduct so the job centre is not a place we want to be

2 it takes one nutter/person with a grudge to know your personal life so pics etc can be posted around towns families told etc

3 privacy some of us dont feel the need for everyone to know who we are

4 we are selective who see's us for a whole bunch of reasons

5 sit down this may come as a shock people steal pics for other sites and so forth.

hope that clears things up for you.

"

well said i was gonna say that, but we do have pics in our private gallery...

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"thank you for all the constructive advice if you would now like to take another look at my profile i do have a facial pic up unlike some of the people who responded to this post who wish to hide but are so good at giving out negative advice to other people some of us have a life in the real world and dont just sit at the computer all day reading the forum to all the people who did give me advice and showed me were i was going wrong thank you "

(Hmmmmm, come on, think of a witty reply, come on, you can do it)

Ahhh screw it!!! Up yours numbnuts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck mate, i have been swinging for years

you will get the knack

be polite and dont get despondant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers mate

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I meet

many dont

JUST use the chat side, which is fine for them

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