FabSwingers.com forum: You can't be....

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"You can't be single??

Yes I can...its called choice

(And maybe cos I am unlovable but that's beside the point)

What other things have men/women told you, you "can't be"??

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London

""You can't be single??

Yes I can...its called choice

(And maybe cos I am unlovable but that's beside the point)

What other things have men/women told you, you "can't be"??"

I can't be sexy

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

""You can't be single??

Yes I can...its called choice

(And maybe cos I am unlovable but that's beside the point)

What other things have men/women told you, you "can't be"??"

Actually I suspect that is a backhanded complement, but from someone who doesn't understand choice or that women may actually prefer it.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Over 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I can't always be that unfiltered and upfront/honest with what I say.

I can

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

""You can't be single??

Yes I can...its called choice

(And maybe cos I am unlovable but that's beside the point)

What other things have men/women told you, you "can't be"??"

Batman.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm told I can't be that fat and not get out of bed without help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve been told we can’t be genuinely into swinging as we don’t meet regularly enough

Had no idea there was a minimum meet requirement to be classed as genuine! How many meets per month/quarter/year is required to be genuine?!

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales

""You can't be single??

Yes I can...its called choice

(And maybe cos I am unlovable but that's beside the point)

What other things have men/women told you, you "can't be"??"

Normal!!

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

So adorable

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Oh god knows. I've never paid them much attention.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover

That I can’t do things the way I want,

an adhd brain often thinks of other ways to do things which others believe to be wrong, even though the results are the same

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"We’ve been told we can’t be genuinely into swinging as we don’t meet regularly enough

Had no idea there was a minimum meet requirement to be classed as genuine! How many meets per month/quarter/year is required to be genuine?!

7.5 per month & an extra in December for Christmas.

Mrs

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"That I can't always be that unfiltered and upfront/honest with what I say.

I can

Can't argue with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So your a single lady just looking far a shag?

Add note: Dangerously self absorbed narcissist who thinks that cats love her and has a long list of "missing" past lovers. Oh well. So long as it wriggles when poked.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

That age. Recently been said quite a bit.

I think its cos I am immature and shizz!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t be poly because you’re too young to know. ‘You should be having real life experience’

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Ahaha I love that one! Or 'why are you single?'

Because no one loves me Wilma that's why

I get the 'you can't have an adult son!!' - I mean I pushed him out so....

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

You can't be 54

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I can't be truly happy with the fiancé if I'm poly.

No, I really am. I'm just a slut for love and for adventures with people, whatever dynamic that falls into.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"That I can’t do things the way I want,

an adhd brain often thinks of other ways to do things which others believe to be wrong, even though the results are the same"

My ex was the same but I rather enjoyed when he would mcgivered something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get I can’t believe you share her, a lot. That one really pisses me off because I’m not a fucking object, mind you’re own business

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

45... no one seems to believe me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A recent one...

I got told recently on here that I can't be serious about meeting people on here ( despite my verifications)

Because my bio was too picky for a single man on here...

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I'm told I can't be that fat and not get out of bed without help.

Bloody rude!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Swingers.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

""You can't be single??

Yes I can...its called choice

(And maybe cos I am unlovable but that's beside the point)

What other things have men/women told you, you "can't be"??"
i can't be taller damnit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“I can’t be” dominant. I like to be told

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not so much told me I can’t be, but said things like I’m rubbish at messaging when I think I choose to be like that and am quite good at sticking to what I decide to do.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"A recent one...

I got told recently on here that I can't be serious about meeting people on here ( despite my verifications)

Because my bio was too picky for a single man on here..."

I've had a sneaky look at your profile.. it's not picky at all.. you just know what you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t be arsed, but I’m sure my motivation will return

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Perfect.

“Surely I can’t have found the most perfect man on fabswingers/bumble/hinge/Costa?!”

Yep. ‘Fraid so.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I've been told I can't be serious about not meeting. Because naturally if I'm on here and have pics up, I must be available for their sexual convenience.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

""You can't be single??

Yes I can...its called choice

(And maybe cos I am unlovable but that's beside the point)

What other things have men/women told you, you "can't be"??"

Your lover! let's prove them wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t be me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t be me

Oh you look wonderful as you

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I can't be right in the head lol x

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

No way you shagged…. Errr yes i did!!

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I’ve been told I can’t survive without sex, I must have had sex since then (whenever it was I last had sex)

How rude! I’m not a pervert of course I can survive!

(Ok I might be a little perverted

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover

"That I can’t do things the way I want,

an adhd brain often thinks of other ways to do things which others believe to be wrong, even though the results are the same

My ex was the same but I rather enjoyed when he would mcgivered something"

What is mcgivered?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Can't b nearly 66 x

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"I can't believe it's not butter"...

No love, it's called sperm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""You can't be single??

Yes I can...its called choice

(And maybe cos I am unlovable but that's beside the point)

What other things have men/women told you, you "can't be"??"

For me it was other way, you cant get partner, because i am matured, experience and competent Skive off

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By *oob lover400Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

""You can't be single??

Yes I can...its called choice

(And maybe cos I am unlovable but that's beside the point)

What other things have men/women told you, you "can't be"??"

Mainly I that I cant be serious ( about anything )

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

You can't be that old but yes we lol

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Near the airport

"That I can’t do things the way I want,

an adhd brain often thinks of other ways to do things which others believe to be wrong, even though the results are the same

My ex was the same but I rather enjoyed when he would mcgivered something

What is mcgivered?

Improvising an emergency communications system out of a coathanger, a conveniently placed cd player, some foil from a cigarette packet and the battery of a disused vape.

Not dissimilar to A-Teaming it

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By *inger_the_NinjaMan
over a year ago

Frome

...allowed within a mile of Kat Beckinsale

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By *ootyfruityCouple
over a year ago

andover

"That I can’t do things the way I want,

an adhd brain often thinks of other ways to do things which others believe to be wrong, even though the results are the same

My ex was the same but I rather enjoyed when he would mcgivered something

What is mcgivered?

Improvising an emergency communications system out of a coathanger, a conveniently placed cd player, some foil from a cigarette packet and the battery of a disused vape.

Not dissimilar to A-Teaming it

Yes I get it now

exactly that!

Also I can last as long as I want in bed, just need to look at something shiny before climax and I’m ready to start from scratch!

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

"That I can't always be that unfiltered and upfront/honest with what I say.

I can

My kind of woman ( Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'You can't go your whole life without having kids'

Yes I can and no it's not selfish.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"'You can't go your whole life without having kids'

Yes I can and no it's not selfish."

I've made it to 53 without kids.

Not starting now.

Selfish or not - it was one of my better decisions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That i cant be that much of a cunt,....erm... yes i can

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"...you "can't..."

Don't call me a can't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't be single, have grown up children or my favourite, you can't be serious.

I get that one a lot.

I've always been that person who when told she can't do something, I say watch me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'You can't go your whole life without having kids'

Yes I can and no it's not selfish."

Given the state of the planet and the country I think it’s pretty selfless actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't be real... my pictures are fake... according to most who send a message to me...

I then get out my hoops and jump through them to process otherwise

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I've always been that person who when told she can't do something, I say watch me

“Hold my strawberry daiquiri …”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always been that person who when told she can't do something, I say watch me

“Hold my strawberry daiquiri …”"

slightly unnerving but always a giggle

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Disabled, you look so normal

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

That I can't cry or show emotions nor talk about feelings

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