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Feeling like I've let myself down

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By *unandgamegeek OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Got one of those days where I just feel like I've let myself down. Whenever I plan on doing something later in the month, either something comes up or I end up screwing things up and feel annoyed with myself about it.

Right now, I just feel really down with myself and just don't what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be so hard on yourself. Where there is a new day you will have another opportunity. Motivation may be lacking and discipline may be slipping, but there is always time to turn it around. Forgive yourself and start again.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Life is about decisions try and live your life to live rather than money and work, life is shorter than you think

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Things coming up - it happens. Don't sweat it. And if people don't understand that life can sometimes get in the way, that's on them.

You "screwing up" - first off, are you? But assuming you are, what are you doing and can you change your behaviour? I know I have nearly screwed stuff by being doubting myself and being crap with messages. I try to do better (not always successfully it has to be said).

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By *unandgamegeek OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton


"Life is about decisions try and live your life to live rather than money and work, life is shorter than you think "

When it comes to money, there have been times when I realise I had overspent and feel so stupid about it. I would end up hating myself as it means having to miss out for the rest of the month.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Dear OP, please cordially accept this group hug par excellence. A late Sunday afternoon peppering of gentlemanly solidarity is like the perfect tonic to an equally perfect Gin.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Life is about decisions try and live your life to live rather than money and work, life is shorter than you think

When it comes to money, there have been times when I realise I had overspent and feel so stupid about it. I would end up hating myself as it means having to miss out for the rest of the month."
well exactly stay in control

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Be gentle with yourself, small nudges in the right direction soon gather momentum.

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By *unandgamegeek OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton


"Life is about decisions try and live your life to live rather than money and work, life is shorter than you think

When it comes to money, there have been times when I realise I had overspent and feel so stupid about it. I would end up hating myself as it means having to miss out for the rest of the month.well exactly stay in control "

I will have to try and watch how I spend in future as it makes me feel down that I would miss going out and being with friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a spare pump if you need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got one of those days where I just feel like I've let myself down. Whenever I plan on doing something later in the month, either something comes up or I end up screwing things up and feel annoyed with myself about it.

Right now, I just feel really down with myself and just don't what to do. "

Try not to be as hard on yourself. We all have off days and today is unfortunately yours. Maybe don't plan ahead until you get yourself sorted and just take things one day at a time. Take care.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Life is about decisions try and live your life to live rather than money and work, life is shorter than you think

When it comes to money, there have been times when I realise I had overspent and feel so stupid about it. I would end up hating myself as it means having to miss out for the rest of the month.well exactly stay in control

I will have to try and watch how I spend in future as it makes me feel down that I would miss going out and being with friends."
exactly budget or find a way of earning extra when you are working

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Got one of those days where I just feel like I've let myself down. Whenever I plan on doing something later in the month, either something comes up or I end up screwing things up and feel annoyed with myself about it.

Right now, I just feel really down with myself and just don't what to do. "

Get off the cross, your sins are forgiven. Now forgive yourself and keep moving.

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By *e renard de la campagneMan
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over

Absolutely forgive yourself and don’t try to do everything all at once. Small steps and all that. Xx

Petit à petit l'oiseau fait son nid

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By *unandgamegeek OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton

I can own up for my screw ups as they are my own fault in the first place.

Right now, I've be laying in the darkness of my room in the past couple of hours resting my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always worked on the basis of make sure rent/mortgage is paid as keep roof over your head. Also utilities and food then what’s left is pocket money to spend.

Just a wee bit of diligence and less impulse.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Got one of those days where I just feel like I've let myself down. Whenever I plan on doing something later in the month, either something comes up or I end up screwing things up and feel annoyed with myself about it.

Right now, I just feel really down with myself and just don't what to do. "

Oh hugs .. it's horrible feeling like that, but you need to try and be kind to yourself and realise that sometimes things come up that are out of your control. Chat with a friend, do something that you enjoy and take time just for yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But don’t beat yourself up to much over it. We’ve all done stuff from time to time and think “is this it”. Just move on tomorrow will be a better day.

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