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By *iberatedduo OP Couple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Why do they do it? You can guarantee the first couple of messages from guys are been up too much this week? Or u ok ?

No wonder conversation falls flat or messages deleted. We probably only answer 1 in 20 messages that warrant a response if that.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Not all "guys" send the first message.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I know, right!

Fancy a fuck, OP?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"Why do they do it? You can guarantee the first couple of messages from guys are been up too much this week? Or u ok ?

No wonder conversation falls flat or messages deleted. We probably only answer 1 in 20 messages that warrant a response if that. "
.. or just hi.. or hows you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘suck it’

*sends a photo of what I think is a penis*

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By *iberatedduo OP Couple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

"Why do they do it? You can guarantee the first couple of messages from guys are been up too much this week? Or u ok ?

No wonder conversation falls flat or messages deleted. We probably only answer 1 in 20 messages that warrant a response if that. .. or just hi.. or hows you"

It can get Monotonous and predictable when multiple guys ask the same old.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Not all "guys" send the first message."

^^ he doesn’t message first

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It's called spray and pray I think.

If you fling enough shit some sticks?

Maybe sometimes some woman thinks you know what, amongst the 50 or so faceless profileless hey how's you messages today, this is the one I'm going to bang immediately.

I mean, if it never worked, surely they'd have fucking stopped by now.

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By *iberatedduo OP Couple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

"It's called spray and pray I think.

If you fling enough shit some sticks?

Maybe sometimes some woman thinks you know what, amongst the 50 or so faceless profileless hey how's you messages today, this is the one I'm going to bang immediately.

I mean, if it never worked, surely they'd have fucking stopped by now."

I don’t know if it’s generational but in our experience we generally receive a better response from mature fellas.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Not all "guys" send the first message."
This

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Not all "guys" send the first message.

^^ he doesn’t message first "

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#SheKnows

#TheyKnow

#TheyMessageFirst

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Not all "guys" send the first message.

^^ he doesn’t message first

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#SheKnows

#TheyKnow

#TheyMessageFirst"

^^ he is so demanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know if it’s generational but in our experience we generally receive a better response from mature fellas. "

Arguably immature here

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

How many "first messages" do you send OP that are 'imaginative' ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's called spray and pray I think.

If you fling enough shit some sticks?

Maybe sometimes some woman thinks you know what, amongst the 50 or so faceless profileless hey how's you messages today, this is the one I'm going to bang immediately.

I mean, if it never worked, surely they'd have fucking stopped by now.

I don’t know if it’s generational but in our experience we generally receive a better response from mature fellas. "

I can only say my experience but I find the older the person the more crude the message is.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"...I can only say my experience but I find the older the person the more crude the message is."

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'ello love, show us your Beaver.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Why do they do it? You can guarantee the first couple of messages from guys are been up too much this week? Or u ok ?

No wonder conversation falls flat or messages deleted. We probably only answer 1 in 20 messages that warrant a response if that. "
you haven't had a message from me and definitely I'm not like minded

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No idea why anyone sends a lazy message but I have guys blocked and like a few others haven't sent a first contact message in years.

All conversations are started by others contacting me and more often than not conversations never start because some of those women and couples aren't capable of putting two words together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one I get all the time is are you free today seriously

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"...I can only say my experience but I find the older the person the more crude the message is.

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'ello love, show us your Beaver."
.. made me laugh

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

Wuu2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they do it? You can guarantee the first couple of messages from guys are been up too much this week? Or u ok ?

No wonder conversation falls flat or messages deleted. We probably only answer 1 in 20 messages that warrant a response if that. "

You ok OP?

Sorry couldn't resist!!

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Number 1 rule isn’t it that your first message should not include any of that stuff . I literally think you could type the first message perfectly but if your profile picture doesn’t draw then in it won’t get a read

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"It's called spray and pray I think.

If you fling enough shit some sticks?

Maybe sometimes some woman thinks you know what, amongst the 50 or so faceless profileless hey how's you messages today, this is the one I'm going to bang immediately.

I mean, if it never worked, surely they'd have fucking stopped by now.

I don’t know if it’s generational but in our experience we generally receive a better response from mature fellas.

I can only say my experience but I find the older the person the more crude the message is."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they do it? You can guarantee the first couple of messages from guys are been up too much this week? Or u ok ?

No wonder conversation falls flat or messages deleted. We probably only answer 1 in 20 messages that warrant a response if that. "

But did you want to reply back?

Seriously, did you fancy seeing where it would go and reply with as much energy and creativity as you expect? (Again, a serious question)

Because I know, if a pretty lady sent a one word HI, I’d reply with something where I’d hope I could engage a much better conversation.

And then if not, I then know that is their personality.

But if they engaged with my friendliness, I’d know they may just be trying to get my attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me. I can actually manage to string several sentences together

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