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By *canswing OP   Man
over a year ago

filton

Anyone else struggle to get a device to fit , My balls don’t hang so sone advice on how to change this would be good

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By *nigmaschild300Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

Try a different device , I have 2 boys in fulltime Chastity but I have 9 different devices. They aren't one size fits all .

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I think chastity adds a really exciting element but I struggle to fit into cages. The smaller cages look better but so far I've only got into larger ones. When you want to look femme, a big cock isn't really the look I'm going for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just have to find right size for you and right woman who enjoys putting and seeing you in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some oranges in beside your balls

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By *canswing OP   Man
over a year ago

filton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wearing my charity belt today. !!!

I'm giving it away.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Can someone please tell me what the appeal is ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone please tell me what the appeal is ?"

I agree. Can't see the point. I suppose it's the people who like to be dominated

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By *nigmaschild300Man
over a year ago

dunfermline


"Can someone please tell me what the appeal is ?"

It isn't for everyone , you either get it or you don't. If you need someone to explain it then you obviously don't get it lol.

That's ok

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Anyone else struggle to get a device to fit , My balls don’t hang so sone advice on how to change this would be good "

One option might be to try using some ball weights first for a while, I love the feeling of them and I think they helped to stretch my scrotum making 24/7 Chasity as close to a pleasure as it can be.

Mr d

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray


"Can someone please tell me what the appeal is ?"

The appeal is that I have control of his fun, he doesn't get a say as he's locked and I keep the key

Try mancage, they have a few different types and sizes. He started on rubber ones now his is the full plastic one to make sure he can't play or feel anything. Depends what type of feeling going for.

Lxx

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon


"Can someone please tell me what the appeal is ?

The appeal is that I have control of his fun, he doesn't get a say as he's locked and I keep the key

Try mancage, they have a few different types and sizes. He started on rubber ones now his is the full plastic one to make sure he can't play or feel anything. Depends what type of feeling going for.

Lxx"

I’m sure that would have a negative effect on me . Someone says if you get hard it hurts ?

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I’m sure that would have a negative effect on me . Someone says if you get hard it hurts ? "

It is all about power exchange and control it is far more mental than physical, but yes it is very constricting when you get hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re struggling for a device that fits you can (carefully) use a drawstring bag until you find a good cage that fits well

It’s an idea a previous sub of mine came up with, it was good but the stings worried me. I made him carry a small pair of scissors in case of emergency

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By *canswing OP   Man
over a year ago

filton

Thanks

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By *trongbobMan
over a year ago

rochester


"Anyone else struggle to get a device to fit , My balls don’t hang so sone advice on how to change this would be good "

I have found that by having a soak on a hot bath makes my balls hang lower and makes it so much easier to get them through the ring.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Can someone please tell me what the appeal is ?"

Depends on the person. Part of it is about denial of senses. You're mind becomes more of an erogenous zone when you're in chastity.

For me it's an every now and then thing. I like it as part of a submissive femme outfit. If I'm in that mood and bottoming then I want my cock out of the picture.

The general kinkyness of it too is a turn on. On your back watching the key bounce around someone's neck while they fuck you. Yes please.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Anyone else struggle to get a device to fit , My balls don’t hang so sone advice on how to change this would be good "

This might sound a bit ‘out there’ but have thought about trying a bit of local honey ?

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By *adyx4Woman
over a year ago

Durham


"Anyone else struggle to get a device to fit , My balls don’t hang so sone advice on how to change this would be good "

Are you using metal or silicone? Might be worth swapping over.

This guide is helpful:

https://www.uberkinky.com/us/essential-guides/chastity-guides/beginners-guide-to-male-chastity.html

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Anyone else struggle to get a device to fit , My balls don’t hang so sone advice on how to change this would be good

This might sound a bit ‘out there’ but have thought about trying a bit of local honey ? "

No, vaseline!!

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Anyone else struggle to get a device to fit , My balls don’t hang so sone advice on how to change this would be good

This might sound a bit ‘out there’ but have thought about trying a bit of local honey ?

No, vaseline!!"

I lube the whole thing up.

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