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By *neforuto OP   Man
over a year ago

Fantasy land in the SW

Ive never been to a club so Ive no idea what theyre like. Is there an etiquette for blokes attending such as dress and manners? I know this sounds dumb but can I get a cuppa while Im there (non-drinker here). Im not attending with the intention of looking for sex but only to meet with others who are like minded so although this is an expensive way to meet with others is just banter and socialising a thing in clubs?

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

It very much depends on the club you go to. Each one is slightly different so just bear that in mind

Socializing is a huge part of clubs so you wont be alone in that sense. Its the same as any other social setting be nice, respectful and what ever you do dont join the wank train as they are called.

You wont be alone in not drinking, the club i go to is bring your own booze anyway and they sell soft drinks there (please dont bring your own if they sell it as it does enable them to keep prices down if you buy it there)

The biggest peices of advice is just have fun and get involved

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By *neforuto OP   Man
over a year ago

Fantasy land in the SW


"It very much depends on the club you go to. Each one is slightly different so just bear that in mind

Socializing is a huge part of clubs so you wont be alone in that sense. Its the same as any other social setting be nice, respectful and what ever you do dont join the wank train as they are called.

You wont be alone in not drinking, the club i go to is bring your own booze anyway and they sell soft drinks there (please dont bring your own if they sell it as it does enable them to keep prices down if you buy it there)

The biggest peices of advice is just have fun and get involved "

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

The clubs are designed so they are social spaces.

They are basically like any bar - they’ll have music - you can chat to people. You don’t need to drink - we have a couple and then go on water as don’t like to drink if playing.

People always say to get to clubs but if you are awkward in a normal club and won’t approach anyone to chat then it’ll be the same in a sex club. It’s about chatting the connecting with people - that’s the key to success in a club.

K

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By *neforuto OP   Man
over a year ago

Fantasy land in the SW


"The clubs are designed so they are social spaces.

They are basically like any bar - they’ll have music - you can chat to people. You don’t need to drink - we have a couple and then go on water as don’t like to drink if playing.

People always say to get to clubs but if you are awkward in a normal club and won’t approach anyone to chat then it’ll be the same in a sex club. It’s about chatting the connecting with people - that’s the key to success in a club.

K

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Just relax and enjoy, but don't be a pest or a stalker in there

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

I’m the same never been to one but looking to get on the scene . I mean I will go with the mindset of not expecting to play if it happens then so be it and just socialise as I would normally

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Clubs aren't social unfortunately the groups of people who know each other stick together but if you are pushy you can get in but sex if thats what you are going for is available

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