FabSwingers.com forum: Change

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We know that some is positive, others negative

How do you cope with it / manage it?

Do you embrace it with open arms or are you inherently resistant?

How do you encourage others to move with it?

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By *endricks321Couple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"We know that some is positive, others negative

How do you cope with it / manage it?

How do you encourage others to move with it?"

Do you embrace it with open arms or are you inherently resistant?

Self imposed change is easier to manage unless it involves habitual change which is much harder.

I find change imposed by others without consultation harder to deal with. I appreciate understanding why the change it happening and exploring alternative routes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just have to accept the change cycle and work through the stages until you accept it!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I dislike change but try and go with the flow as much as my brain doesn't like it.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dislike change but try and go with the flow as much as my brain doesn't like it.

Mrs "

I also think this is me

There is a rebel in me somewhere, but invariably I accept and move on, just in my own time

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By *igjonny090Man
over a year ago

blackpool and Manchester

I used to be awful at coping with change, I’m sure I’ve some form of undiagnosed autism, but I’ve got a lot better with it since I started doing process improvement training at work so looking to change things makes it better and it’s really changed my whole aspect on life

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

There is a lot of change for my life right now, much if which I don't particularly like but cannot change. I've learnt to deal with what's infront of me at the time and take one day at a time. Soon the change becomes everyday life.

Not going to lie there are times I just have a good panic/cry usually in the shower to help relieve the stress though

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"We know that some is positive, others negative

How do you cope with it / manage it?

Do you embrace it with open arms or are you inherently resistant?

How do you encourage others to move with it?"

There's books and courses about managing change.

Short answer, it depends on all sorts of things. Is it a self made decision. Is it imposed (remember masks)? What degree of emotional or personal attachment do you have to seeing or stopping the change. If you're trying to help others deal with change then remember we all run at different speeds.

Courage to change the things I can, serenity to accept what I cannot change and wisdom to know the difference

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