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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you expect to cum the first time you're meeting someone new for sex? And do you always cum the first time?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I don’t *expect* anything, but it usually happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love that you did this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sometimes I may have to fake it

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

No, the first meet is completely social (unless the moment takes other choices) as i like to know if there is something there to start with as many red flags appear when you meet someone face to face

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

I don’t expect it from either side and prefer to meet people who are the same. Usually it does happen and if it doesn’t (me orgasming) it’s usually telling me something isn’t 100%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it helps explain I just came over your tartan skirt pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, the first meet is completely social (unless the moment takes other choices) as i like to know if there is something there to start with as many red flags appear when you meet someone face to face "

Which is why I specified the first time you meet for sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it helps explain I just came over your tartan skirt pic "

Gross

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Depends how the meet goes. I do live a nice spooning session

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Usually yes but I don't like the pressure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never just about the 30s orgasm, it's about everything else in between

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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston


"No, the first meet is completely social (unless the moment takes other choices) as i like to know if there is something there to start with as many red flags appear when you meet someone face to face

Which is why I specified the first time you meet for sex"

So you did helps if i actually read the post, sorry! *facepalm*

Still no as if it happens it happens putting pressure to cum only makes it harder to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of she touches it it will cum

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

I have no expectations.....that way I can't be disappointed as I haven't built anything up in my head, as soon as I expect then I've built things up in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing expected but rude not to

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"If it helps explain I just came over your tartan skirt pic "

Euww

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"It's never just about the 30s orgasm, it's about everything else in between "

You stole that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I would

I don't think sex without an orgasm is great

Just leaves me frustrated

That said, I do like just getting people off sometimes

I would orgasm though, just not maybe there and then

Going home and having a wank thinking about what just happened can be horny too

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs


"Do you expect to cum the first time you're meeting someone new for sex? And do you always cum the first time?"

No and No

Sometimes things get in the way, alcohol, tiredness, wrong buttons etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't always happen. Certain things can happen that means I won't cum. Nerves, lack of sexual chemistry, not actually feeling horny when I thought I would be etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's never just about the 30s orgasm, it's about everything else in between

You stole that... "

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By *ancs Fun GuyMan
over a year ago

Burnley

Unless I’d been drinking I cum in a first date. The minute I’m in a girls knickers, I’m Rick hard and then there’s no chance I won’t cum

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Do you expect to cum the first time you're meeting someone new for sex? And do you always cum the first time?"

Not met for years though any new meets there's never the expectation of sex but there's always the anticipation of it.

As far as coming first time, yeah, sometimes too soon, sometimes there's a 'you're not having it that quick' train of though.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I probably wouldn't on a first meet. And find it difficult on any meet. Not because of you, but because of me. I absolutely love women, I love being with women, touching their bodies, women arouse my senses

But my own state of arousal brings my body to my attention, makes me feel male, and that then becomes something that turns me off. It all becomes very frustrating for me and I fear disappointing for any woman that I am with. Not because of losing out on her own enjoyment - I hope to always give pleasure using lips and tongue and teeth and hands and toys - but because my body may not respond as I would like it to. A mismatch of female feelings and male body.

I know that I am a difficult sex partner, and probably not a good sex partner. I need time and understanding, and then I can eventually get there, and (I hope) give a good experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I do not expect yo and no I do not always. Fucking citalopram.

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By *aramel.desiresMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

I’m definitely a giver first so your please comes before mine.

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